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JoRoX4EvEr2411 · 11-17-2001, 02:31 PM

welll...i just need to get a few things off my chest....see there's this guy that i really like his name is Sean. and i have only talekd to him about once..we said hi and chatted for a minute...bcuz i am so shy after i said hi to him i turned to say sotmhin to my friend and later i found out he had put out his hand for me to shake it but i did not see...i felt SO bad! anyways...last night i was @ a playoff football game for my high school go COUGARS! and he was there and i was standing in front of him talking to my friends the whole time..there was this girl next to him like hanging all over him..i think he might possibly like her except it's his b-day on Sunday and she asked for his # which he would not give to her...one of my best friends intro'd me to him and i have not talked to him since..and although she thought he wasthe sweetest guy b4 now she says he's mean and doesn't like him and becuz i am so shy i will prob never get to talk to him again bcuz i won't jsut go up to him myself! geez....if anyone reads this and has any advice plz let me know..thanks for letting me rant!!!

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Blair: Jo this is such a big day for u! Getting married..brushing ur hair, wearing a dress!
Jo: Blair, u know u may not believe this but i am actually going to miss living w/ u
Blair: o..i believe it!!
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Jo: Things are not going well here. I think i'm going to have to hit someone
Nat: Who asked u to defend my honor??
Jo: I think i am going to have to hit u!!!
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Roy: Things change Jo..people move on
Jo:GOOD Roy..MOVE ON!!
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Blair:What shape is her face??
Jo:I think it's face shaped
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Jo: TOOTIE WOULD U STOP THAT!!
Tootie: Was that a yell?
Jo:yes..maybe..probably..sorry

ks · 11-17-2001, 02:35 PM

Well, I'm kinda shy like that too. You might could write him a letter and apologize for not shaking his hand and just explain she you are shy and tell him you hope to talk to him soon or whatever...
Just a though

Good luck and I hope it all goes well!

ks

ChickOnHockeySkates185 · 11-17-2001, 04:11 PM

ok i am sorry! he tried to shake ur hand thats sooo cute lol!! have a mutal friend find out his sn and be like to him "hey i a nice chat with you, may we could talk online sometime" i dunno or u could be forward and break out of ur shell and be like I WANT YOU! lol but good luck and dont be shy, hes prob. not a jerk and goin be like "go home" so u have nothing to worry bout

Kay Scarpetta · 11-17-2001, 05:56 PM

I'm sorry, I don't have any advice for you. I'm one of those people who isn't good at giving it. Anyways well, I just wanted to say, Good Luck!

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DarleneIllyria · 11-17-2001, 06:53 PM

I don't have any advice either, but I just wanted to wish you good luck!

XoVanillaRain90oX · 11-18-2001, 12:17 AM

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KerriBerri687 · 11-18-2001, 12:48 AM

id help if i could but im prob even shyer than u...if u believe that

Truth · 11-18-2001, 01:17 AM

not much advice either good luck..... Thou Writing a letter i think would be kind of weird.... he has prolly forgot all about putting his hand out

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vienna waits · 11-18-2001, 03:30 AM

I think you should write a letter and tell him how you feel about him. Thats what I did when I liked someone once and it worked out great.

Mossopp · 11-18-2001, 09:58 AM

I hate to see people get all worried over stuff like this. Listen JoeRox - I dunno what age you are (you're still at high school so I guess you won't be any older than 17) but you shouldn't get all obsessed over one guy. When you're at school there's always more than one guy you meet who you get all gooey over and when the next guy comes along you'll forget all about this one. Although I have been in a similar situation so I do kinda know how you feel over that whole 'not shaking his hand' thing.
This is just my own personal opinion and you don't have to pay any attention to it if you don't wish to. I see that everyone is telling you to write a letter to this boy to apologise for not shaking his hand. If it'll make you feel better I think you should apologise to him - but in person . Don't write a letter!!!! I've seen this before. I'm remembering one particular situation that happened when I was in 6th year in high school and this girl in one of my classes really liked this guy and she had something really important to tell him so she wrote him a letter. When he got the letter he read it out to everyone in the class and then pinned it up on the message board in our common-room for everyone in our year to read. Needless to say she was really, really upset. If she'd just told him what she wanted to say in person than none of that stuff would ever have happened.
I know you say you're shy and everything but I really think it would be wiser to apologise to this guy in person - that way he won't have anything to laugh at with his friends. Guys can be total *******s sometimes.
Like I said, this is just my opinion - you should do whatever you feel is best. Although, if I were in this guy's position, I know I'd appreciate you talking to me in person more than just getting a letter from you.
Good luck with whatever you decide to do.
Mossopp

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Kitt · 11-18-2001, 10:53 AM

Courtney...Stand back and see the humor in your little goof-up of having not shaken his hand. There's no need for you to feel humiliated about it. If you're able to do that, you might go on to conquer your shyness and talk to him, ready to have a laugh at yourself. Think of it as an ice breaker and use it to your benefit.That's what it is, and if you can do that you'll put both you and him at ease and you'll have a good talk.

StrudelBone · 11-18-2001, 12:28 PM

I dont have any advice. But you should look up my friend Edna Garrett. She lives in Africa but tonight she will be in Peekskill, New York so call the operator and say you want the number for Eastland School in Peekskill New York and you should be able to get a hold of her.

StrudelBone · 11-18-2001, 12:30 PM

Or maybe you should call my good friend Blair Warner. Shes an expert at tricks to attract men.

Kitt · 11-18-2001, 01:19 PM

That's a good one Strudelbone. I'm a fan of deadpan humor. I've noticed that some of our fellow board members are a little slow on the uptake. Took me a minute to catch up to what you were saying. Finally I noticed, "Oh, right, Eastland."

ks · 11-18-2001, 01:47 PM

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Originally posted by StrudelBone:
I dont have any advice. But you should look up my friend Edna Garrett. She lives in Africa but tonight she will be in Peekskill, New York so call the operator and say you want the number for Eastland School in Peekskill New York and you should be able to get a hold of her.

That's a good one StrudelBone!

ks

11-17-2001, 02:31 PM	#1
JoRoX4EvEr2411 Member Frequent Poster Join Date: Jan 10, 2001 Location: Cleveland, Ohio, USA Posts: 154	Just Ranting..... welll...i just need to get a few things off my chest....see there's this guy that i really like his name is Sean. and i have only talekd to him about once..we said hi and chatted for a minute...bcuz i am so shy after i said hi to him i turned to say sotmhin to my friend and later i found out he had put out his hand for me to shake it but i did not see...i felt SO bad! anyways...last night i was @ a playoff football game for my high school go COUGARS! and he was there and i was standing in front of him talking to my friends the whole time..there was this girl next to him like hanging all over him..i think he might possibly like her except it's his b-day on Sunday and she asked for his # which he would not give to her...one of my best friends intro'd me to him and i have not talked to him since..and although she thought he wasthe sweetest guy b4 now she says he's mean and doesn't like him and becuz i am so shy i will prob never get to talk to him again bcuz i won't jsut go up to him myself! geez....if anyone reads this and has any advice plz let me know..thanks for letting me rant!!! ------------------ <3 Courtney Blair: Jo this is such a big day for u! Getting married..brushing ur hair, wearing a dress! Jo: Blair, u know u may not believe this but i am actually going to miss living w/ u Blair: o..i believe it!! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Jo: Things are not going well here. I think i'm going to have to hit someone Nat: Who asked u to defend my honor?? Jo: I think i am going to have to hit u!!! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Roy: Things change Jo..people move on Jo:GOOD Roy..MOVE ON!! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Blair:What shape is her face?? Jo:I think it's face shaped ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Jo: TOOTIE WOULD U STOP THAT!! Tootie: Was that a yell? Jo:yes..maybe..probably..sorry

11-17-2001, 02:35 PM	#2
ks Certifiably Insane Forum Veteran Join Date: Dec 21, 2000 Location: I live in my hole... Posts: 5,501	Well, I'm kinda shy like that too. You might could write him a letter and apologize for not shaking his hand and just explain she you are shy and tell him you hope to talk to him soon or whatever... Just a though Good luck and I hope it all goes well! ks

11-17-2001, 04:11 PM	#3
ChickOnHockeySkates185 Member Frequent Poster Join Date: Oct 05, 2001 Location: MA Posts: 311	ok i am sorry! he tried to shake ur hand thats sooo cute lol!! have a mutal friend find out his sn and be like to him "hey i a nice chat with you, may we could talk online sometime" i dunno or u could be forward and break out of ur shell and be like I WANT YOU! lol but good luck and dont be shy, hes prob. not a jerk and goin be like "go home" so u have nothing to worry bout

11-17-2001, 05:56 PM	#4
Kay Scarpetta Defy Gravity 8.26.05 Forum Superstar Join Date: Jul 04, 2001 Location: La Vie Boheme Posts: 28,013	I'm sorry, I don't have any advice for you. I'm one of those people who isn't good at giving it. Anyways well, I just wanted to say, Good Luck! ------------------ °·.¤-Karli Cauble-the Lisa Cult-¤.·° aka Karli Chica Bungalow, aka Vanilla Martinez, aka Ivy Hutchins, aka Goddess #2, aka Kiwi Coco Puff Check out my site about the bestest most awesomeness person in the world: The Beautiful, Wonderful, Talented, Exquisite... Lisa Whelchel

11-17-2001, 06:53 PM	#5
DarleneIllyria Gone Forum Star Join Date: Oct 15, 2000 Posts: 19,086	I don't have any advice either, but I just wanted to wish you good luck!

11-18-2001, 12:48 AM	#7
KerriBerri687 defying gravity Senior Member Join Date: Jan 13, 2001 Location: you'll find me in Emerald City...I'm the green one with the flying monkeys Posts: 2,869	id help if i could but im prob even shyer than u...if u believe that

11-18-2001, 01:17 AM	#8
Truth •°·Alien Believer·°• Forum 3000 Club Member Join Date: May 15, 2001 Posts: 3,463	not much advice either good luck..... Thou Writing a letter i think would be kind of weird.... he has prolly forgot all about putting his hand out ------------------ World Sitcom Awards! Yes I know there are some mistakes and i Can't change them now... but vote anyway!

11-18-2001, 03:30 AM	#9
vienna waits avatars are stupid. Forum Superstar Join Date: May 18, 2001 Location: Ravenclaw Common Room Posts: 29,859	I think you should write a letter and tell him how you feel about him. Thats what I did when I liked someone once and it worked out great.

11-18-2001, 09:58 AM	#10
Mossopp asleep at the wheel Forum 3000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 30, 2000 Location: Helensburgh, Scotland Posts: 3,726	I hate to see people get all worried over stuff like this. Listen JoeRox - I dunno what age you are (you're still at high school so I guess you won't be any older than 17) but you shouldn't get all obsessed over one guy. When you're at school there's always more than one guy you meet who you get all gooey over and when the next guy comes along you'll forget all about this one. Although I have been in a similar situation so I do kinda know how you feel over that whole 'not shaking his hand' thing. This is just my own personal opinion and you don't have to pay any attention to it if you don't wish to. I see that everyone is telling you to write a letter to this boy to apologise for not shaking his hand. If it'll make you feel better I think you should apologise to him - but in person . Don't write a letter!!!! I've seen this before. I'm remembering one particular situation that happened when I was in 6th year in high school and this girl in one of my classes really liked this guy and she had something really important to tell him so she wrote him a letter. When he got the letter he read it out to everyone in the class and then pinned it up on the message board in our common-room for everyone in our year to read. Needless to say she was really, really upset. If she'd just told him what she wanted to say in person than none of that stuff would ever have happened. I know you say you're shy and everything but I really think it would be wiser to apologise to this guy in person - that way he won't have anything to laugh at with his friends. Guys can be total *******s sometimes. Like I said, this is just my opinion - you should do whatever you feel is best. Although, if I were in this guy's position, I know I'd appreciate you talking to me in person more than just getting a letter from you. Good luck with whatever you decide to do. Mossopp ------------------ "This life has been a test. If it were an actual life you would have recieved instructions on where to go and what to do." - Angela, 'My So-called Life' "...everything was there and around us. We knew exactly who we were and exactly where we were going. It was grand." - Gordie, 'Stand By Me' "First you gotta do the Truffle Shuffle!" - Mouth, 'The Goonies'

11-18-2001, 10:53 AM	#11
Kitt James Dean Forum Veteran Join Date: Aug 16, 2001 Location: California Dreamin' Posts: 6,115	Courtney...Stand back and see the humor in your little goof-up of having not shaken his hand. There's no need for you to feel humiliated about it. If you're able to do that, you might go on to conquer your shyness and talk to him, ready to have a laugh at yourself. Think of it as an ice breaker and use it to your benefit.That's what it is, and if you can do that you'll put both you and him at ease and you'll have a good talk.

11-18-2001, 12:28 PM	#12
StrudelBone Member Forum Regular Join Date: Jul 14, 2001 Posts: 592	I dont have any advice. But you should look up my friend Edna Garrett. She lives in Africa but tonight she will be in Peekskill, New York so call the operator and say you want the number for Eastland School in Peekskill New York and you should be able to get a hold of her.

11-18-2001, 12:30 PM	#13
StrudelBone Member Forum Regular Join Date: Jul 14, 2001 Posts: 592	Or maybe you should call my good friend Blair Warner. Shes an expert at tricks to attract men.

11-18-2001, 01:19 PM	#14
Kitt James Dean Forum Veteran Join Date: Aug 16, 2001 Location: California Dreamin' Posts: 6,115	That's a good one Strudelbone. I'm a fan of deadpan humor. I've noticed that some of our fellow board members are a little slow on the uptake. Took me a minute to catch up to what you were saying. Finally I noticed, "Oh, right, Eastland."