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swedeace · 08-03-2006, 09:46 AM

Yes, another one of my themed threads....

But anyway - how easily are you to forgive and forget when you are trying to force something your way and the other person is fed up with you. Then, there is name calling on both ends out of anger and frustration.

Can time heal wounds so that later when things are calmer, explanations and apologies are in order? Why? Why not?

Anyone have a similar story to share? Especially dealing with people you know. I'd like to hear any sides of similiar situations and/or your opinions and what you have seen (with you and with others around you).

Yooch · 08-03-2006, 12:13 PM

I very easily forgive and do my best to forget, which is harder. Because sometimes the memories of the hurts resurface and it's painful. When that happens, I just remind myself that I have forgiven them, and that helps a lot.

tdf4077 · 08-03-2006, 12:29 PM

I forgive after a few days, but I NEVER forget!

Moonlight Lady · 08-03-2006, 12:42 PM

I will forgive close family members and friends. I never forget.

dawsongirl · 08-03-2006, 05:15 PM

I do neither unless it's a loved one...no including my moron cousin. Everyone else is SOL.

Superstar · 08-03-2006, 05:17 PM

I easily forgive but I don't ever forget.

Mr. Stefani · 08-03-2006, 05:23 PM

I never forgive or forget. No matter what.

Courtnee · 08-03-2006, 05:48 PM

It really depends on the situation. If my friend Sarahpuff took my shirt or whatever without asking, I forgive and forget really quickly. However, If it's something like the things my mother does, I never do.

gilligan fanatic · 08-03-2006, 05:53 PM

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Originally Posted by dawsongirl

I do neither unless it's a loved one...no including my moron cousin. Everyone else is SOL.

I am basically the same way

PZelda · 08-03-2006, 06:05 PM

I will only forgive & forget in certain situations with certain members of family or very close friends. Everybody else is SOL.

*Pleasant Tomorrow* · 08-03-2006, 07:09 PM

I can never stay mad at someone for one certain thing for long. I get over fights so easily.

Sharop · 08-03-2006, 07:10 PM

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Originally Posted by PZelda

Everybody else is SOL.

Sorry, can I just ask what SOL means?

AKA · 08-03-2006, 07:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Sharop

Sorry, can I just ask what SOL means?

"Sorry, out-of-luck" (The "sorry" can also be substituted with an expletive of your choice).

gilligan fanatic · 08-03-2006, 07:38 PM

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Originally Posted by AKA

"Sorry, out-of-luck" (The "sorry" can also be substituted with an expletive of your choice).

There is a state wide test all the schools in Virginia take also known as SOL, (Standards of Learning). It is funny because we all makes jokes about it saying things like if you fail your SOL test you are SOL. The same dumb jokes are just as funny every year we take the test. Which reminds me, I never have to take those tests again.

PZelda · 08-03-2006, 08:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Sharop

Sorry, can I just ask what SOL means?

Sh*t outta luck

If you're unsure of what a slang word means, you can look it up on Urban Dictionary, at www.urbandictionary.com. That site is AWESOME!

08-03-2006, 09:46 AM	#1
swedeace Member Forum Fanatic Join Date: Sep 22, 2003 Posts: 9,009	How Easily Are You to Forgive and Forget? Yes, another one of my themed threads.... But anyway - how easily are you to forgive and forget when you are trying to force something your way and the other person is fed up with you. Then, there is name calling on both ends out of anger and frustration. Can time heal wounds so that later when things are calmer, explanations and apologies are in order? Why? Why not? Anyone have a similar story to share? Especially dealing with people you know. I'd like to hear any sides of similiar situations and/or your opinions and what you have seen (with you and with others around you).

08-03-2006, 12:13 PM	#2
Yooch Member Forum 3000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 07, 2006 Location: California Posts: 3,180	I very easily forgive and do my best to forget, which is harder. Because sometimes the memories of the hurts resurface and it's painful. When that happens, I just remind myself that I have forgiven them, and that helps a lot.
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Courtnee MAN VS SAMMICH. Forum Star Join Date: Mar 23, 2005 Location: Louisiana Posts: 16,413	It really depends on the situation. If my friend Sarahpuff took my shirt or whatever without asking, I forgive and forget really quickly. However, If it's something like the things my mother does, I never do.
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08-03-2006, 05:15 PM	#5
dawsongirl Member Forum Icon Join Date: Jan 04, 2001 Posts: 53,140	I do neither unless it's a loved one...no including my moron cousin. Everyone else is SOL.

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Superstar Member Forum Icon Join Date: Dec 08, 2003 Posts: 63,316	I easily forgive but I don't ever forget.

08-03-2006, 05:23 PM	#7
Mr. Stefani Member Forum Celebrity Join Date: Jul 15, 2001 Posts: 20,757	I never forgive or forget. No matter what.

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