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Mr. Stefani · 03-23-2006, 03:46 AM

agree or disagree?

..i've been on and off with this girl for a while now. okay so she cheated on her boyfriend with me..she ended it with him for me. at this point sometimes i feel like i can't trust her, since i know how she was with him, but at the same time i kind of believe it when she says she would never do that to me. but then i remember being with her and how she'd talk to him when he'd call. there have been a few incidents lately than have been driving me insane. and the thing is i really do love this girl.

damn i just gave SO more than i tell my friends or family.

Nighthawk76 · 03-23-2006, 03:55 AM

I like to believe that everyone can change. Sometimes all a person really needs to change is for others to believe in them.

Jo_Luvs_Ketchup · 03-23-2006, 04:03 AM

People change if they want to. It is always possible that this girl made a mistake and is trying her best everyday not to make it again. It's normal to be suspicious everytime she does something out of the ordinary, and she's got to know that things won't be the same, but do you think you know her well enough to trust that she will never do this again?

dawsongirl · 03-23-2006, 04:14 AM

Well, I'm not trusting at all, so I figure no one will ever change. However, that's probably not the case. If you really like the girl, just scope it out for awhile. Maybe she's being sincere, maybe not. Just watch the subtle little things.

Cashodeen · 03-23-2006, 04:55 AM

Relationships that began with infedelity rarely work--she having a boyfriend but cheating on him with you then dumping him with you. Don't you wonder that'll she'll do that to you next? I could never look at a cheater the same. Who wants to go throughout the relationship wondering what they're up to? That's sucks. And it's hard to trust them after something like that.

BartSmith · 03-23-2006, 09:38 AM

No. Just because you cheated once does not mean that you will cheat again.

03-23-2006, 03:46 AM	#1
Mr. Stefani Member Forum Celebrity Join Date: Jul 15, 2001 Posts: 20,757	Once a cheater always a cheater? agree or disagree? ..i've been on and off with this girl for a while now. okay so she cheated on her boyfriend with me..she ended it with him for me. at this point sometimes i feel like i can't trust her, since i know how she was with him, but at the same time i kind of believe it when she says she would never do that to me. but then i remember being with her and how she'd talk to him when he'd call. there have been a few incidents lately than have been driving me insane. and the thing is i really do love this girl. damn i just gave SO more than i tell my friends or family.

03-23-2006, 03:55 AM	#2
Nighthawk76 Rachel Berry Forum Celebrity Join Date: Feb 28, 2003 Location: Illinois Posts: 23,254	I like to believe that everyone can change. Sometimes all a person really needs to change is for others to believe in them.

03-23-2006, 04:03 AM	#3
Jo_Luvs_Ketchup Member Eternal Member Forum 4000 Club Member Join Date: Aug 09, 2003 Posts: 4,195	People change if they want to. It is always possible that this girl made a mistake and is trying her best everyday not to make it again. It's normal to be suspicious everytime she does something out of the ordinary, and she's got to know that things won't be the same, but do you think you know her well enough to trust that she will never do this again?

03-23-2006, 04:14 AM	#4
dawsongirl Member Forum Icon Join Date: Jan 04, 2001 Posts: 53,140	Well, I'm not trusting at all, so I figure no one will ever change. However, that's probably not the case. If you really like the girl, just scope it out for awhile. Maybe she's being sincere, maybe not. Just watch the subtle little things.

03-23-2006, 04:55 AM	#5
Cashodeen Hi. Forum Star Join Date: Aug 30, 2001 Posts: 11,363	Relationships that began with infedelity rarely work--she having a boyfriend but cheating on him with you then dumping him with you. Don't you wonder that'll she'll do that to you next? I could never look at a cheater the same. Who wants to go throughout the relationship wondering what they're up to? That's sucks. And it's hard to trust them after something like that.

03-23-2006, 09:38 AM	#6
BartSmith Member Occasional Poster Join Date: Dec 13, 2004 Posts: 65	No. Just because you cheated once does not mean that you will cheat again.