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TVFactFan · 03-12-2006, 02:33 PM

UNATTRACTIVE? I been watching this new dating show on Demand and this girl didn't want a second date because the guy was shaking and not talking-lol So Ladies are you turned off by a guy on a date if he is

Shaky
Fidgety
Sweating
Studdering
Can't look you in the eye

Ireneparalegal · 03-12-2006, 03:02 PM

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Originally Posted by TVResearcher

UNATTRACTIVE? I been watching this new dating show on Demand and this girl didn't want a second date because the guy was shaking and not talking-lol So Ladies are you turned off by a guy on a date if he is

Shaky
Fidgety
Sweating
Studdering
Can't look you in the eye

Hell Yeah!!!! I can only speak for myself, but shyness in a guy is a major turn-off. I like a man who is sure of himself (not someone with a huge ego), someone who loves to talk, LISTEN, ask questions, an inquiring mind, someone who is educated, etc. Shyness comes from junior high, get over it.

TJL · 03-12-2006, 03:12 PM

I'm no dating expert, but shaking and fidgeting is probably not the most attractive traits to display to a prospective mate.

Unless the girl is a cokehead or something..

*Pleasant Tomorrow* · 03-12-2006, 04:31 PM

Aw, no, I think it's cute. Maybe not to an extreme but yeah...

Fonzarelli · 03-12-2006, 04:33 PM

Why always the 21-years border?

TVFactFan · 03-12-2006, 06:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Fonzarelli

Why always the 21-years border?

Because Shyness doesn't look as bad on a 16 year male like it does on a 27 or 28 year old male.

swedeace · 03-12-2006, 06:59 PM

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Originally Posted by TVResearcher

UNATTRACTIVE? I been watching this new dating show on Demand and this girl didn't want a second date because the guy was shaking and not talking-lol So Ladies are you turned off by a guy on a date if he is

Shaky
Fidgety
Sweating
Studdering
Can't look you in the eye

I have a friend who is a couple of years older than 21, and he is VERY shy and anxious. I can definitely see a lot of other interesting qualities (like sharing knowledge and interests) about him that would make him a great date despite his shyness. I think those good things would override the shy physique.

Fonzarelli · 03-12-2006, 07:14 PM

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Originally Posted by TVResearcher

Because Shyness doesn't look as bad on a 16 year male like it does on a 27 or 28 year old male.

It's just that in practically every thread about 'are you attracked to...' there seems to be a 21-years or older-border. It just seemed odd to me.

TVFactFan · 03-12-2006, 07:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Fonzarelli

It's just that in practically every thread about 'are you attracked to...' there seems to be a 21-years or older-border. It just seemed odd to me.

Well when I set an age requirement it doest mea that people under 21 can't respond. It just means that I really would like to know the opinions of S.O. members in my age bracket-(21-30) for certain topics.

Sharop · 03-12-2006, 07:30 PM

It wouldn't turn me off. I too think shyness is rather cute. But then again, I'm very shy myself, so maybe I'm biased in favour of shyness.

Living In a '70's Dream · 03-12-2006, 09:05 PM

I know a lot of men, who are shy and they are older than 21!!!; they are too scared or intimidated to approach a woman. I tell them, hey, most of the time, a lady is NOT going to approach you, so you HAVE to make the initiative!, and I think all of us are afraid of rejection or we are afraid of not making a decent first impression, so in that way, we are a little on the shy side...

TripperFan · 03-12-2006, 09:53 PM

I dunno, but peeing your pants is a definite no-no!

TVFactFan · 03-12-2006, 10:03 PM

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Originally Posted by TripperFan

I dunno, but peeing your pants is a definite no-no!

Are you back or just visting?-lol

dawsongirl · 03-12-2006, 11:16 PM

Hell no. I'm hugely shy too, so I find it adorable if a man is shy. It's overbearing confident types I wouldn't go out with.

TripperFan · 03-12-2006, 11:24 PM

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Originally Posted by TVResearcher

Are you back or just visting?-lol

Droppin' in when I can.

Just to heckle

03-12-2006, 02:33 PM	#1
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Living In a '70's Dream Member Forum 3000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 17, 2005 Posts: 3,427	I know a lot of men, who are shy and they are older than 21!!!; they are too scared or intimidated to approach a woman. I tell them, hey, most of the time, a lady is NOT going to approach you, so you HAVE to make the initiative!, and I think all of us are afraid of rejection or we are afraid of not making a decent first impression, so in that way, we are a little on the shy side...

03-12-2006, 09:53 PM	#12
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03-12-2006, 11:16 PM	#14
dawsongirl Member Forum Icon Join Date: Jan 04, 2001 Posts: 53,140	Hell no. I'm hugely shy too, so I find it adorable if a man is shy. It's overbearing confident types I wouldn't go out with.