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*Pleasant Tomorrow* · 01-14-2006, 11:13 PM

Does anyone know how? For serious, there has GOT to be a way.

It's times like these where my anger for not turning into a witch on my 16th birthday resurfaces.

robyrob · 01-14-2006, 11:41 PM

get a turtle.

Number 9 Dream · 01-14-2006, 11:45 PM

Gah, there's no easy way about this, unfortunately. I've been in love with someone for a very long time now, even though I know this person is not good for me. All I can suggest is to get involved with friends or some sort of activity to keep your mind off of it (which is hard for me because I have neither friends, nor interesting things to do). Good luck

Janice · 01-14-2006, 11:55 PM

Fall for someone else.

TheGreatPretender · 01-14-2006, 11:57 PM

Lol the turtle in your avatar is hopping to the beat of a song that's on tv now.

Neways I don't know a way sorry.

*Pleasant Tomorrow* · 01-15-2006, 12:01 AM

The thing is, I've been trying to make it go away for a long time now. I do try to focus on other things and nothing helps. I feel like it's hopeless and I just have to wait until it takes its sweet time to go away, or something happens between us...which is won't. So I'm stuck waiting. And I know I have my whole life for this, but now it's just really painful. Especially seeing him prancing around with some other girl.

Right now I'm okay, but every once in awhile it literally gets me sick to my stomach.

*Pleasant Tomorrow* · 01-15-2006, 12:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Janice

Fall for someone else.

I've tried -_- Because yeah, it seems like that's the only way to cancel it out. I wish I could just go straight to not caring about anyone. Perhaps I should crawl in a hole.

TheGreatPretender · 01-15-2006, 12:04 AM

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Originally Posted by *Pleasant Tomorrow*

Especially seeing him prancing around with some other girl.

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Tar and feather em. Or just tell the Sexual Harrasment Panda on them.

But seriously any guy who "prances" around the school with their girlfriend obviously just wants attention. I mean come on can't people find a better place? There is this guy I know who holds a certain girl's hand in the hall just to get other people not to flirt with him, they end up looking like 8 year olds on a playground.

*Pleasant Tomorrow* · 01-15-2006, 12:12 AM

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Originally Posted by TheGreatPretender

Tar and feather em. Or just tell the Sexual Harrasment Panda on them.

But seriously any guy who "prances" around the school with their girlfriend obviously just wants attention. I mean come on can't people find a better place? There is this guy I know who holds a certain girl's hand in the hall just to get other people not to flirt with him, they end up looking like 8 year olds on a playground.

Well, I mean...if they like each other they like each other and there's nothing I can do about it. So, that's why I'm forcing it to go away.

~*Hannah_Lee*~ · 01-15-2006, 02:12 AM

Sometimes I wish there was a way to never fall in love...it causes so many problems.

dawsongirl · 01-15-2006, 02:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Janice

Fall for someone else.

That works wonders. It's not necessarily quick though.

Or manifest your feelings into anger toward someone else, most likely the girl he's dating or a girl who also has a crush on him. You'll be so pissed off at her you'll forget about him...temporarily anyway. Yes, I have jealousy and anger issues. My hatred for some girls runs very very deep. In HS, the girl who was dating my crush (well, one of them...manwhore) was like, my biggest enemy. I wanted to vandalize her car.

dawsongirl · 01-15-2006, 03:01 AM

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Originally Posted by *Pleasant Tomorrow*

Right now I'm okay, but every once in awhile it literally gets me sick to my stomach.

Yeah...felt that. It's any wonder I don't have a giant hole in my stomach.

*Pleasant Tomorrow* · 01-15-2006, 01:34 PM

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Originally Posted by dawsongirl

That works wonders. It's not necessarily quick though.

Or manifest your feelings into anger toward someone else, most likely the girl he's dating or a girl who also has a crush on him. You'll be so pissed off at her you'll forget about him...temporarily anyway. Yes, I have jealousy and anger issues. My hatred for some girls runs very very deep. In HS, the girl who was dating my crush (well, one of them...manwhore) was like, my biggest enemy. I wanted to vandalize her car.

Argh, it doesn't help that she's a nice girl. I mean, I already feel guilty for being so pissed at her.

*Pleasant Tomorrow* · 01-15-2006, 01:34 PM

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Originally Posted by ~*Hannah_Lee*~

Sometimes I wish there was a way to never fall in love...it causes so many problems.

Amen.

*Pleasant Tomorrow* · 01-15-2006, 01:37 PM

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Originally Posted by dawsongirl

Yeah...felt that. It's any wonder I don't have a giant hole in my stomach.

Yeah, ha, I remember in like september when I first realized he liked her how sick I got. Gooddd Lord and once I almost cried in Spanish when he left the room to walk around in the halls with her. (teachers a dumbass, she doesn't get it even though the girl is standing right at the door waiting for him) Mmhmm yeah, good times.

I honestly think I'm getting better, though. I don't get as disgusted when I see them holding hands now.

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01-15-2006, 02:12 AM	#10
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01-14-2006, 11:55 PM	#4
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01-14-2006, 11:57 PM	#5
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01-15-2006, 12:01 AM	#6
Pleasant Tomorrow Member Forum Addict Join Date: Feb 19, 2003 Location: New York Posts: 69,525	The thing is, I've been trying to make it go away for a long time now. I do try to focus on other things and nothing helps. I feel like it's hopeless and I just have to wait until it takes its sweet time to go away, or something happens between us...which is won't. So I'm stuck waiting. And I know I have my whole life for this, but now it's just really painful. Especially seeing him prancing around with some other girl. Right now I'm okay, but every once in awhile it literally gets me sick to my stomach.