Apologies, Resolutions and Hopefully New Beginnings

[Cynnamin]

I came back online after being gone for months. Have been scrambling to make good on all the people i knowingly and unwittingly wronged. I think I have accomplished this, but am still hesitant to return to the trading game until I suppose at least publicly, I am ok with the people I wronged.

I apologize once again to the moderators for my return and the misunderstanding that ensued the last time I posted. I unwittingly set off a wave of mass hysteria and anger and a mob scene it seemed.

Since then, everyone I owed to I have tried to fix what went wrong, going so far as to say forget the stuff they originally wanted and just to reburn a bunch of new things they wanted. Yes, I might have unwittingly set myself up to be taken advantage of, but I think at least in MY opinion, I made good with everyone that was feeling they were wronged by me.

Anyways, I ask if you have had good dealings with me to please post on my behalf. And if you are looking for trades, I understand won't feel ok with it, but would completely understand if you don't trust me to send at the same time....

I'm asking for a chance from everyone. This trading stuff was my hobby, my sanity. When you have a bunch of kids, you need an escape, and this was mine. I only ask that people here take a leap of faith and welcome me back....

but of course, it's not always easy to return. I have an updated list, available on request. Always, like the rest of us, looking for things that are rare and hard to find.

So here's to a new year, and hopefully new beginnings....

and if I am rambling, I apologize once again to the moderators of this board....I just want the people who were dead set against me who *I THINK* I have made right by...to speak up on my behalf and hopefully find new friends on here to trade with.

There are the rare few who stick by me and have always been my best friends since my first trades...who will trust me and who I will also send unconditionally and without question....
But that takes time....time I hope we will all find in time that I deserve it...
or not...
and if I don't deserve it, I will be the first to admit it. I still appear on the bad trader list....bothers me, but I deserved it for disappearing. I just wonder why no one thought something was wrong. To that point, my email changed many times and I told everyone. I would respond within 48 hours most times, at most 72 hours....and I was gone for MONTHS....after being regularly in contact, I stopped. People don't change that suddenly....

But I ramble again. I'm asking for a chance. That's all. If I made right what I messed up and made wrong to upset you, please let everyone know I made right...And if you are looking for trades, I am somewhat back for trading....

[Lamont]

ok well im chime in here

i had a BIGGGGGG ISSUE with cyn and i might be one of the people who helped get her on the bad trading list

i had gotten several sets from here---- over 1 year ago, when they came they were a total mess
discs didnt work, locked up, some had menus but no data, out of 4 big sets, over 1/2 the discs were useless

a few months later she finally sent me out redos, and once again, most of the redos were useless as well, i tried to contact her every way i could, emails bounced back, her phone # was not valid, and i did send a certified letter, it was signed for, BUT NO REPLY

so i was pretty annoyed, b/c it was A BUNCH OF DISCS HERE and i was being ignored

now i dont know what her personal situation was, But i do know that all i had was a box of junk that was of no use to me, she didnt reply or get in touch with me to fix it for over a year

when she came back to this board, i emailed her about it, she offered to fix right away

well, i can report that this situation has been resolved now, and cyn did send me what we agreed upon to resolve it

IT DID TAKE A LONG TIME TO GET RESOLVED, due to some bad masters on her part and having to get redos from another country, so it took 2 months or so to get it fixed, But I can live with that

I am not privy to all the other issues that got her on the bad trader list, So I can only comment for myself

BUT FOR ME AND CYN--- we are squared away now, and I have no more issue with her

maybe Cyn can email the mods and have them research and put her in touch with anyone else with complaints, I dont know

to Cyn, i say thank you for making this right, and I hope whatever personal issues u had are now resolved

its good to be able to report when things like this get worked out, BECAUSE IT DOESNT HAPPEN THAT OFTEN

thanks!

[Cynnamin]

Thanks Lamont. It helps to hear that I made this right with you

[savageamusement]

I will also state, I have had no other complaints about this user.

I would of course suggest anyone to contact them, should they feel something needs ot be resolved. But I am delighted that a situation that seemed bad, has turned out well.
Proving, situations can be resolved, and remedied- and that with patience, communication, and good character we can overcome whatever chaos befalls us.


Thanks for working so hard to restore your ground, its a hard task and very intimidating.


SavageAmusement

[Cynnamin]

for your kind words as well. I look forward to making new friends on here (especailly since I was a die hard yahoo groups person FOREVER!)