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Ireneparalegal · 01-05-2006, 05:24 PM

1) When we (women) want to talk to you, we don't always want or need advice. We just need someone to talk to and let out what it is that is bothering us. Don't say "you should this" or "you should that". Just listen! Believe me, if we want advice, WE WILL TELL YOU!

2) Just because we are angry or upset abt something, it doesn't always mean IT'S THAT TIME OF THE MONTH. Why is it only men can be upset or angry? We have things that can upset us too. You only make it worse when you label it PMS.

3) Just because I smile in your direction, it doesn't mean I want you to approach me and try to get a date or a phone number. It just means we are smiling and in a good mood.

4) After cooking a wonderful meal, it would be nice if you could at least pick up the dishes and help clean.

5) Alot of times, a hug can do so much.

6) Use terms of endearments alot.

i will add more when I can think of more ideas for you gentlemen

dawsongirl · 01-05-2006, 05:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Ireneparalegal

1) When we (women) want to talk to you, we don't always want or need advice. We just need someone to talk to and let out what it is that is bothering us. Don't say "you should this" or "you should that". Just listen! Believe me, if we want advice, WE WILL TELL YOU!

OMG...that one jerk I talked to last year did that to me. ******* could not listen without passing judgment and trying to change me. Advice is fine, or helpful hints, but what he did...stupid son-of-a-bitch. I have it sooooo much better now.

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5) Alot of times, a hug can do so much.

Aww...I love hugs.

Mr. Stefani · 01-05-2006, 05:48 PM

For all you women out there:

1-Stop calling us so much. We don't like talking on the phone for longer than 10 minutes, just accept it and get over it.

2-Don't bitch when we go out with our guy friends. Remember, bro's before hoe's.

3-Stop asking to drive my car, it's never gonna happen.

well thats my current beef with my girlfriend, so there you go.

Ireneparalegal · 01-05-2006, 05:50 PM

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Originally Posted by TIM087

For all you women out there:

1-Stop calling us so much. We don't like talking on the phone for longer than 10 minutes, just accept it and get over it.

2-Don't bitch when we go out with our guy friends. Remember, bro's before hoe's.

3-Stop asking to drive my car, it's never gonna happen.

well thats my current beef with my girlfriend, so there you go.

damn u, make your own thread...GET IT, GOT IT, GOOD!!!

btw, I have my own car, thank you, i could care less if my boyfriend goes with his friends (please, go!!! give me some peace and quiet!!) and WILL MY BOYFRIEND STOP CALLING ME WHENEVER HE WANTS TO TALK TO ME!!! he can talk to me when I GET MY ASS HOME!!!!

Mr. Stefani · 01-05-2006, 05:54 PM

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Mijada · 01-05-2006, 05:56 PM

Don't tell a girl you're going to call her when you have no intention of doing so. If you are not interested, be a man and tell her directly instead of ignoring her.

Another thing that irked me while I was still on the dating scene was when guys would tell me things like I should get contacts instead of wearing glasses, wear makup, wear more revealing clothes etc... Now I didn't mind compromising and altering a few things about myself as long as he was willing to do the same. But I'd get these guys who would ask me out who smoked, had beer bellies and no teeth and they expected me to be the only one making all the changes. I'm so glad I don't have to go through that anymore. My husband doesn't care if I wear glasses, am a few pounds overweight and that I'm not a beauty queen. He respects me as a person, wife and mother no matter what I look like.

The Chauffeur · 01-05-2006, 05:56 PM

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6) Use terms of endearments alot.

Yes, this one is soooo important...... we tend to prefer terms like "jerk" and "rat bastard" though

G-Force Glockstar · 01-05-2006, 05:58 PM

I agree with some of them!

Ireneparalegal · 01-05-2006, 05:58 PM

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Yes, this one is soooo important...... we tend to prefer terms like "jerk" and "rat bastard" though

Robyn!!! how the heck are you!!??? glad to see you on the forums...or is it just me and it seems you have been away?

dawsongirl · 01-05-2006, 06:00 PM

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But I'd get these guys who would ask me out who smoked, had beer bellies and no teeth and they expected me to be the only one making all the changes.

Oh eww!

Ireneparalegal · 01-05-2006, 06:01 PM

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Oh eww!

Ewwww is right. Right on Mijada!!!!!

The Chauffeur · 01-05-2006, 06:01 PM

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Robyn!!! how the heck are you!!??? glad to see you on the forums...or is it just me and it seems you have been away?

Irene!! i've slowed down a bit on posting while the holidays were going on............but I was lurking

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Ireneparalegal · 01-05-2006, 06:02 PM

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Irene!! i've slowed down a bit on posting while the holidays were going on............but I was lurking

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Mijada · 01-05-2006, 06:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Ireneparalegal

damn u, make your own thread...GET IT, GOT IT, GOOD!!!

btw, I have my own car, thank you

I agree, I've always had my own car and never once asked a guy if I could borrow his. I don't like driving other peoples cars in general. In fact the 2 guys I dated in the years before I met my husband didn't even have valid drivers licences and I was always the one being asked to take them around. I don't mind doing some one a favor now and then but after a while it becomes a real pain especially when they don't appreciate it.

Courtnee · 01-05-2006, 06:05 PM

don't play video games while your talking to us. It really hurts

01-05-2006, 05:24 PM	#1
Ireneparalegal LEGAL SPICE ;) Forum Legend Join Date: Jul 25, 2005 Location: OXNARD, CA - WHERE THE DALLAS COWBOYS TRAIN & PRACTICE Posts: 38,691	Women: Post here what you want men/guys to know so they can learn... 1) When we (women) want to talk to you, we don't always want or need advice. We just need someone to talk to and let out what it is that is bothering us. Don't say "you should this" or "you should that". Just listen! Believe me, if we want advice, WE WILL TELL YOU! 2) Just because we are angry or upset abt something, it doesn't always mean IT'S THAT TIME OF THE MONTH. Why is it only men can be upset or angry? We have things that can upset us too. You only make it worse when you label it PMS. 3) Just because I smile in your direction, it doesn't mean I want you to approach me and try to get a date or a phone number. It just means we are smiling and in a good mood. 4) After cooking a wonderful meal, it would be nice if you could at least pick up the dishes and help clean. 5) Alot of times, a hug can do so much. 6) Use terms of endearments alot. i will add more when I can think of more ideas for you gentlemen
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01-05-2006, 05:56 PM	#6
Mijada Spencers mom Forum 4000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 02, 2001 Location: eastern US Posts: 4,093	Don't tell a girl you're going to call her when you have no intention of doing so. If you are not interested, be a man and tell her directly instead of ignoring her. Another thing that irked me while I was still on the dating scene was when guys would tell me things like I should get contacts instead of wearing glasses, wear makup, wear more revealing clothes etc... Now I didn't mind compromising and altering a few things about myself as long as he was willing to do the same. But I'd get these guys who would ask me out who smoked, had beer bellies and no teeth and they expected me to be the only one making all the changes. I'm so glad I don't have to go through that anymore. My husband doesn't care if I wear glasses, am a few pounds overweight and that I'm not a beauty queen. He respects me as a person, wife and mother no matter what I look like.
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01-05-2006, 05:48 PM	#3
Mr. Stefani Member Forum Celebrity Join Date: Jul 15, 2001 Posts: 20,757	For all you women out there: 1-Stop calling us so much. We don't like talking on the phone for longer than 10 minutes, just accept it and get over it. 2-Don't bitch when we go out with our guy friends. Remember, bro's before hoe's. 3-Stop asking to drive my car, it's never gonna happen. well thats my current beef with my girlfriend, so there you go.

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