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isiahthomas · 11-19-2005, 03:59 PM

If i had to do all over again, i'd be one because the women i had sex with weren't about nothin. One of them i had sex with has 5 kids, another girl i had sex with is white and she had 3 kids at the time. She was about to have another baby when i broke up with her. Sex is overrated to me. So many people just gotta have it. Why is that? Sex is scary nowadays. Too many people got sexual diseases and people are just f*ckin anybody. You even got black men now who are having sex with women and men. There's this black guy author who wrote a book about that called Black Men On The Down Low. I haven't read the book but i've seen it in the bookstore. I posted this topic on a couple of black websites and i got laughed at which is expected because most black men are ignorant and sex is all they think about and talk about. It's not that i don't like women but women piss me off so much because of the silly games they play and i'd rather not be bothered with them. For example, yesterday i saw on my caller id that this black girl i'm talkin to called me in the afternoon. When i called her last night to ask her if she called me, she said no. I said are you sure. She said yeah. So i said to myself, why would her sister or her mom call me when they're not interested in me. She's the only one living at her sister's house that is interested in me. I think she's lying. I agree with everything Willie D said about black women always got their hand out, selfish and only want a man that can take care of them. I know that women whether they're black or white say men ain't about nothin but wanting to get in their panties but every man isn't like that. I know i'm not only about wanting to have sex. I don't think every woman is like the way i described but it seems that i keep runnin into the wrong women. Even the women that are educated and don't have any kids got issues too because i've dealt with women like that.

isiahthomas · 11-19-2005, 04:01 PM

I also wanna tell every young man and old man on here, don't trip about people laughin at you because your a virgin. Let them laugh. Don't let people dictate your life and tell you when you should have sex because sex is somethin that's personal and it's nobody's business. I don't know why black men feel that they have to tell their buddies who they had sex with. What's cool about braggin to your friends about who you screwed?

The Chauffeur · 11-19-2005, 04:10 PM

I wish I had waited til I was married.

I would have been nice to share that honor with my husband.

isiahthomas · 11-19-2005, 04:22 PM

I don't think there's anything wrong with having sex because i like to touch a woman, kiss her body and feel her body against mine but i just think people should wait until they're ready to have sex instead of being forced to have it because you don't want people laughin at you for being a virgin. I haven't seen the movie The 40 Year Old Virgin but i think i'm gonna check it out when it comes on video just to see how it was. The white guy who was the main character in the movie gets pressured by his friends to have sex which is so typical. What's wrong with a man being 40 and a virgin?

isiahthomas · 11-19-2005, 04:25 PM

See the problem in the black community is that there's too much sex going on because that's why there's so many young black women walkin around pushing strollers with babies in them because they're too stupid to say to themselves, i ain't gonna let a man pressure me into having sex just because he's telling me what i wanna hear just to get into my panties. Black women need to stop letting black men tell them bullsh*t just so they can screw them and then when they get pregnant, the black man has left her because he's too lazy to take care of his responsibility.

James"Thunder"Early · 11-19-2005, 04:34 PM

Nothing wrong with that at all, I believe in waiting until marriage. Watching an paternity test episode of Maury Povich or Judge Hatchett should be reason enough to make people wait. All those people come on the show screaming that they don't know who the child's father is and have tell everything they've done. Doing something before you are ready leads to trouble.

GARFIELDKOOL · 11-19-2005, 04:56 PM

Former NBA player A.C. Green waited until he was about 40 when he had sex for the first time, and I believe he got married at that point.

Jonathan · 11-19-2005, 05:25 PM

Thanks for the info.

isiahthomas · 11-19-2005, 05:30 PM

Shaq made fun of AC Green for being a virgin. I bet some other NBA players laughed at him too but he didn't care. I don't think AC Green should've mentioned he was a virgin anyway. I don't know why blacks have to tell their business.

Ireneparalegal · 11-19-2005, 05:40 PM

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Originally Posted by isiahthomas

Shaq made fun of AC Green for being a virgin. I bet some other NBA players laughed at him too but he didn't care. I don't think AC Green should've mentioned he was a virgin anyway. I don't know why blacks have to tell their business.

Because he wanted to set an example for other young men...he is tired of the stereotype that NBA players and other athletes have set up that being in pro sports means you gotta "have the women". AC Green gave a good example of sleeping around when he mentioned MAGIC JOHNSON. That's the only example one should have etched in their heads that having sex can lead to DEATH.

isiahthomas · 11-19-2005, 05:45 PM

It's not just sports that men athletes think they gotta f*ck every woman that comes their way. It's male movie stars and male singers also that they think they gotta holla at and f*ck every woman they see. It's a sad situation that people think they gotta have sex a lot. It's too many people in this country that got sex on the brain at all times. There are a bunch of men that watch pornos. Why is that? They're perverts. I've never watched a porno because it's stupid to see people having sex for hours and doing nothin else. Porno industry is a billion dollar industry now because you got so many perverts out there that wanna watch that trash.

dawsongirl · 11-19-2005, 06:37 PM

26 and a virgin. And I have no problem with it.

TVFactFan · 11-19-2005, 07:05 PM

That's why it's good to practice SAFE SEX. like Fetish Activity-lol Safest Way for an Adult to have fun. Can't go wrong with EXTENDED FOREPLAY

*MIBabe03* · 11-19-2005, 07:53 PM

I'm 20, and a virgin, and I can't believe I'm going to admit this but all I think about is having sex. Being a virgin really does suck.

rusyd · 11-19-2005, 08:04 PM

I wish I would've waited, but I just had to know what it was all about and it wasn't all it was cracked up to be. It would of been so much nicer if I would've waited and been w someone I loved.

11-19-2005, 03:59 PM	#1
isiahthomas Member Forum Star Join Date: Aug 20, 2002 Location: Cleveland, Ohio Posts: 10,704	Ain't Nothin Wrong With Being A Virgin If i had to do all over again, i'd be one because the women i had sex with weren't about nothin. One of them i had sex with has 5 kids, another girl i had sex with is white and she had 3 kids at the time. She was about to have another baby when i broke up with her. Sex is overrated to me. So many people just gotta have it. Why is that? Sex is scary nowadays. Too many people got sexual diseases and people are just f*ckin anybody. You even got black men now who are having sex with women and men. There's this black guy author who wrote a book about that called Black Men On The Down Low. I haven't read the book but i've seen it in the bookstore. I posted this topic on a couple of black websites and i got laughed at which is expected because most black men are ignorant and sex is all they think about and talk about. It's not that i don't like women but women piss me off so much because of the silly games they play and i'd rather not be bothered with them. For example, yesterday i saw on my caller id that this black girl i'm talkin to called me in the afternoon. When i called her last night to ask her if she called me, she said no. I said are you sure. She said yeah. So i said to myself, why would her sister or her mom call me when they're not interested in me. She's the only one living at her sister's house that is interested in me. I think she's lying. I agree with everything Willie D said about black women always got their hand out, selfish and only want a man that can take care of them. I know that women whether they're black or white say men ain't about nothin but wanting to get in their panties but every man isn't like that. I know i'm not only about wanting to have sex. I don't think every woman is like the way i described but it seems that i keep runnin into the wrong women. Even the women that are educated and don't have any kids got issues too because i've dealt with women like that.

11-19-2005, 04:10 PM	#3
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11-19-2005, 04:34 PM	#6
James"Thunder"Early Whoever's In New England Forum Veteran Join Date: Feb 23, 2004 Location: The Apollo Posts: 7,088	Nothing wrong with that at all, I believe in waiting until marriage. Watching an paternity test episode of Maury Povich or Judge Hatchett should be reason enough to make people wait. All those people come on the show screaming that they don't know who the child's father is and have tell everything they've done. Doing something before you are ready leads to trouble.
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11-19-2005, 07:53 PM	#14
MIBabe03 Loving Swingtown! Forum 4000 Club Member Join Date: Jul 28, 2002 Location: TX Posts: 4,646	I'm 20, and a virgin, and I can't believe I'm going to admit this but all I think about is having sex. Being a virgin really does suck.
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11-19-2005, 04:01 PM	#2
isiahthomas Member Forum Star Join Date: Aug 20, 2002 Location: Cleveland, Ohio Posts: 10,704	I also wanna tell every young man and old man on here, don't trip about people laughin at you because your a virgin. Let them laugh. Don't let people dictate your life and tell you when you should have sex because sex is somethin that's personal and it's nobody's business. I don't know why black men feel that they have to tell their buddies who they had sex with. What's cool about braggin to your friends about who you screwed?

11-19-2005, 04:22 PM	#4
isiahthomas Member Forum Star Join Date: Aug 20, 2002 Location: Cleveland, Ohio Posts: 10,704	I don't think there's anything wrong with having sex because i like to touch a woman, kiss her body and feel her body against mine but i just think people should wait until they're ready to have sex instead of being forced to have it because you don't want people laughin at you for being a virgin. I haven't seen the movie The 40 Year Old Virgin but i think i'm gonna check it out when it comes on video just to see how it was. The white guy who was the main character in the movie gets pressured by his friends to have sex which is so typical. What's wrong with a man being 40 and a virgin?

11-19-2005, 04:25 PM	#5
isiahthomas Member Forum Star Join Date: Aug 20, 2002 Location: Cleveland, Ohio Posts: 10,704	See the problem in the black community is that there's too much sex going on because that's why there's so many young black women walkin around pushing strollers with babies in them because they're too stupid to say to themselves, i ain't gonna let a man pressure me into having sex just because he's telling me what i wanna hear just to get into my panties. Black women need to stop letting black men tell them bullsh*t just so they can screw them and then when they get pregnant, the black man has left her because he's too lazy to take care of his responsibility.

11-19-2005, 04:56 PM	#7
GARFIELDKOOL Member Forum Veteran Join Date: Sep 02, 2004 Location: Rochester, NY Posts: 7,204	Former NBA player A.C. Green waited until he was about 40 when he had sex for the first time, and I believe he got married at that point.

11-19-2005, 05:25 PM	#8
Jonathan ***** Senior Member** Join Date: Aug 28, 2004 Posts: 2,304	Thanks for the info.

11-19-2005, 05:30 PM	#9
isiahthomas Member Forum Star Join Date: Aug 20, 2002 Location: Cleveland, Ohio Posts: 10,704	Shaq made fun of AC Green for being a virgin. I bet some other NBA players laughed at him too but he didn't care. I don't think AC Green should've mentioned he was a virgin anyway. I don't know why blacks have to tell their business.

11-19-2005, 05:45 PM	#11
isiahthomas Member Forum Star Join Date: Aug 20, 2002 Location: Cleveland, Ohio Posts: 10,704	It's not just sports that men athletes think they gotta fck every woman that comes their way. It's male movie stars and male singers also that they think they gotta holla at and fck every woman they see. It's a sad situation that people think they gotta have sex a lot. It's too many people in this country that got sex on the brain at all times. There are a bunch of men that watch pornos. Why is that? They're perverts. I've never watched a porno because it's stupid to see people having sex for hours and doing nothin else. Porno industry is a billion dollar industry now because you got so many perverts out there that wanna watch that trash.

11-19-2005, 06:37 PM	#12
dawsongirl Member Forum Icon Join Date: Jan 04, 2001 Posts: 53,140	26 and a virgin. And I have no problem with it.

11-19-2005, 07:05 PM	#13
TVFactFan Member Forum Junkie Join Date: Aug 17, 2002 Posts: 99,154	That's why it's good to practice SAFE SEX. like Fetish Activity-lol Safest Way for an Adult to have fun. Can't go wrong with EXTENDED FOREPLAY

11-19-2005, 08:04 PM	#15
rusyd Member Forum Star Join Date: Mar 30, 2004 Posts: 13,505	I wish I would've waited, but I just had to know what it was all about and it wasn't all it was cracked up to be. It would of been so much nicer if I would've waited and been w someone I loved.