Why You Hate Yourself (Sitcoms Online's own pity thread) - Sitcoms Online Message Boards

*Pleasant Tomorrow* · 06-06-2005, 10:52 PM

Hope the title didn't come off as too sarcastic, it's just whenever I share how I feel about myself people tend to think I'm just looking for pity. I'm actually just looking for someone who will understand. And the list:

I always feel stupid
I always feel like I'm bothering people
I avoid people I like
I feel bad complaining about my life when I know lots of others have it way worse
I'm rude
I'm too shy to be polite
Whenever I try not to be shy, people end up hating me
The people that like me are nice people...and I don't like them
I'm not the best at anything
My dad made me feel wrong all the time
My friends made me feel wrong all the time
I'm lazy
I'm too shy to ever get anywhere in life
I feel like I little whiney bitch right now
I made my parents nervous in 8th grade when I'd cry every morning and not go to school
These problems probably arn't half as bad as some of yours
I'll never be who I want to be because I'm scared of everything
I have a bad case of jealousy of better people
I'm stubborn
I have a short temper
Being shy towards some people and not towards others (because, for some reason or other, I'm less afraid of them) probably makes the other think I don't like them
I try so hard not to mess up, that I end up messing up worse than I would have...and it's such a habit, I can't stop it
I think too hard so that when I go to say things, or write things or whatever they don't make any sense
I always jokingly tease people, but when they do it back I can't take it
I'm spoiled, but I complain
I'm too negative, but I can't be positive
I feel like everyone hates me, or is at least annoyed by my presence

Well, that was miserable.

MsOrange · 06-06-2005, 10:57 PM

i feel fat, ugly, and stupid all the time. i have no self esteem and it hurts all the relationships in my life. Mine and Jonathan's relationship suffer from it. My mom constantly tells me that I look a little chubby; i'm starting to get frown lines; anything that's wrong w/ me, she points it out and that makes me feel like ****. Some mornings I don't want to get out of bed I hate myself so much.

I have aweful self esteem and it blows.

TheGreatPretender · 06-06-2005, 11:12 PM

I have no friends. I have people who say they are my friends but no friends. No one I can really talk to or anyone I can really trust without thinking they are out to decieve me. That makes me think what is wrong with me and why everyone hates me. And because of me thinking that I sound like I AM looking for pity. So I turn to dealing with pain in all of the wrong ways. So in conclucio"n I hate myself because I'm an ungrateful, emotional, insecure, drama queen/teenie.

Karen* · 06-07-2005, 01:14 AM

I walk like a ******.
I hardly fix my hair.
I talk funny.
I say dumb things sometimes.

I'll think of more later.

vienna waits · 06-07-2005, 01:23 AM

I'll respond the next time I'm in a bad mood.

Karen* · 06-07-2005, 01:33 AM

Oh yeah...

I need to lose weight (AKA exercise and cut back on soda).
I procrastinate.

dawsongirl · 06-07-2005, 01:46 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Idol Fanatic

I'll respond the next time I'm in a bad mood.

Same here.

RustyShackleford · 06-07-2005, 01:49 AM

Im too shy
Im too quiet
I don't think ahead

Rhiannon · 06-07-2005, 09:40 AM

i annoy people
my "friends" only talk to me when it's convenient
i'm bossy
i'm too shy to be polite
i buy too much **** and waste my money
i'm too dumb to study so i can pass classes

*MIBabe03* · 06-07-2005, 11:08 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MsOrange

i feel fat, ugly, and stupid all the time. i have no self esteem and it hurts all the relationships in my life. Mine and Jonathan's relationship suffer from it. My mom constantly tells me that I look a little chubby; i'm starting to get frown lines; anything that's wrong w/ me, she points it out and that makes me feel like ****. Some mornings I don't want to get out of bed I hate myself so much.

I have aweful self esteem and it blows.

That's sad that your mother criticizes you. She sounds like my grandma. Anyway, I hate the fact that I'm fat. Even though I'm working on it and it's paying off drastically. I also hate the fact that I don't seem to have friends anymore. It sucks that I can't seem to get into any kind of a relationship with a guy.

*MIBabe03* · 06-07-2005, 11:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by *Island Tahiti*

i annoy people
my "friends" only talk to me when it's convenient
i'm bossy
i'm too shy to be polite
i buy too much **** and waste my money
i'm too dumb to study so i can pass classes

I know what you mean about "friends." Ever since my friends found out I was Diabetic, they don't talk to me anymore. I don't really understand why, it's not like they can catch it from me. The last time I spoke to either one of them, was right before school let out. That was about a month ago. I think the reason we got along so well is because all we ever did was eat. Now that I have this disease, I've had to change all of habits, including eating. I think I'm just going to move on.

dawsongirl · 06-07-2005, 03:13 PM

I'm not really in a bad mood, but lemme try anyway. I'm bored.

I'm scared of guys who like me
I'm scared of getting too close (emotion-wise) to a guy
I always act like a freakin bitch around a guy that likes me, whether or not I like him back
I apparently don't think before I speak and I say really stupid things, especially to guys
I want to have a steady boyfriend and get married, but I'm scared of it and would most likely screw it up
Intimacy scares me ****less
I bitch about not having any offline friends, but I don't like doing things with people, like going out and being social
I don't act my age
I don't think rationally most of the time
I'm lazy
I think I'm getting dumber
People annoy me
I have a terrible temper
I have a big ego sometimes and want to control everything
I hate how most of the people my age act
I hate how most teenagers act
I'm going to die single and alone

dawsongirl · 06-07-2005, 03:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Desperate_Fan03

I know what you mean about "friends." Ever since my friends found out I was Diabetic, they don't talk to me anymore. I don't really understand why, it's not like they can catch it from me. The last time I spoke to either one of them, was right before school let out. That was about a month ago. I think the reason we got along so well is because all we ever did was eat. Now that I have this disease, I've had to change all of habits, including eating. I think I'm just going to move on.

They just liked you because you ate with them??

Do move on. I'm sure you can find friends who don't care what you eat or don't eat.

¤I Love Clay Aiken¤ · 06-09-2005, 01:13 AM

Im fat
I diet during the day, and binge at night. This needs to stop. I have no self control
I dont know how to manage money
I cant say no
Ive never had a boyfriend
Ill probably never get married
I get way too jealous
I have no friends up here
Im fat
Im not very pretty
I have no motivation
I dont know how to express my emotions without feeling uncomfortable
I cant handle 'serious' situations in public
Im too shy
Im a bitch
I live in a dream world
I feel stupid
Im an underachiever

dawsongirl · 06-09-2005, 01:43 AM

I have another couple:

I assume things that usually turn out not to be true.
I think everyone is ignoring me. I feel pretty confident about that one.
I can't do a ****ing thing with my hair and it pisses me off.
I get depressed when I think I look ugly.
I get depressed when I don't get any sleep.

06-06-2005, 10:52 PM	#1
Pleasant Tomorrow Member Forum Addict Join Date: Feb 19, 2003 Location: New York Posts: 69,525	Why You Hate Yourself (Sitcoms Online's own pity thread) Hope the title didn't come off as too sarcastic, it's just whenever I share how I feel about myself people tend to think I'm just looking for pity. I'm actually just looking for someone who will understand. And the list: I always feel stupid I always feel like I'm bothering people I avoid people I like I feel bad complaining about my life when I know lots of others have it way worse I'm rude I'm too shy to be polite Whenever I try not to be shy, people end up hating me The people that like me are nice people...and I don't like them I'm not the best at anything My dad made me feel wrong all the time My friends made me feel wrong all the time I'm lazy I'm too shy to ever get anywhere in life I feel like I little whiney bitch right now I made my parents nervous in 8th grade when I'd cry every morning and not go to school These problems probably arn't half as bad as some of yours I'll never be who I want to be because I'm scared of everything I have a bad case of jealousy of better people I'm stubborn I have a short temper Being shy towards some people and not towards others (because, for some reason or other, I'm less afraid of them) probably makes the other think I don't like them I try so hard not to mess up, that I end up messing up worse than I would have...and it's such a habit, I can't stop it I think too hard so that when I go to say things, or write things or whatever they don't make any sense I always jokingly tease people, but when they do it back I can't take it I'm spoiled, but I complain I'm too negative, but I can't be positive I feel like everyone hates me, or is at least annoyed by my presence Well, that was miserable.
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06-07-2005, 01:14 AM	#4
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06-07-2005, 01:23 AM	#5
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06-07-2005, 09:40 AM	#9
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06-09-2005, 01:13 AM	#14
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06-06-2005, 10:57 PM	#2
MsOrange Bringin' Sexy Back Forum Veteran Join Date: Dec 27, 2004 Posts: 6,133	i feel fat, ugly, and stupid all the time. i have no self esteem and it hurts all the relationships in my life. Mine and Jonathan's relationship suffer from it. My mom constantly tells me that I look a little chubby; i'm starting to get frown lines; anything that's wrong w/ me, she points it out and that makes me feel like ****. Some mornings I don't want to get out of bed I hate myself so much. I have aweful self esteem and it blows.

06-06-2005, 11:12 PM	#3
TheGreatPretender just because Forum Veteran Join Date: May 22, 2004 Location: Trying to think of a creative, witty location. Posts: 7,628	I have no friends. I have people who say they are my friends but no friends. No one I can really talk to or anyone I can really trust without thinking they are out to decieve me. That makes me think what is wrong with me and why everyone hates me. And because of me thinking that I sound like I AM looking for pity. So I turn to dealing with pain in all of the wrong ways. So in conclucio"n I hate myself because I'm an ungrateful, emotional, insecure, drama queen/teenie.

06-07-2005, 01:33 AM	#6
Karen* paradox. Forum Superstar Join Date: Jan 08, 2005 Location: San Francisco, CA Posts: 28,365	Oh yeah... I need to lose weight (AKA exercise and cut back on soda). I procrastinate.

06-07-2005, 01:49 AM	#8
RustyShackleford Member Frequent Poster Join Date: Dec 13, 2002 Location: Texas Posts: 369	Im too shy Im too quiet I don't think ahead

06-07-2005, 03:13 PM	#12
dawsongirl Member Forum Icon Join Date: Jan 04, 2001 Posts: 53,140	I'm not really in a bad mood, but lemme try anyway. I'm bored. I'm scared of guys who like me I'm scared of getting too close (emotion-wise) to a guy I always act like a freakin bitch around a guy that likes me, whether or not I like him back I apparently don't think before I speak and I say really stupid things, especially to guys I want to have a steady boyfriend and get married, but I'm scared of it and would most likely screw it up Intimacy scares me ****less I bitch about not having any offline friends, but I don't like doing things with people, like going out and being social I don't act my age I don't think rationally most of the time I'm lazy I think I'm getting dumber People annoy me I have a terrible temper I have a big ego sometimes and want to control everything I hate how most of the people my age act I hate how most teenagers act I'm going to die single and alone

06-09-2005, 01:43 AM	#15
dawsongirl Member Forum Icon Join Date: Jan 04, 2001 Posts: 53,140	I have another couple: I assume things that usually turn out not to be true. I think everyone is ignoring me. I feel pretty confident about that one. I can't do a ****ing thing with my hair and it pisses me off. I get depressed when I think I look ugly. I get depressed when I don't get any sleep.