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Sweet Brunette · 04-26-2005, 06:16 AM

I had a really horrible day at school today.I swear,there are people in my grade who really have something against me,and hate me alot.I just want people to stop talking about me.It all started when some ******** in my year thought I liked this other ********,and since then the whole group of boys have just been complete *******s to me.I wish I had the guts to tell the guy how much I hate him,but I'm the biggest wuss,and can never stand up for myself.So now,I'm just really depresssed.I go through my whole day getting weird looks from people,and hearing them talk about me.I really dont know what to do,I wish I was strong enough to cope with it,but I'm not.I feel like killing myself right now,everything is just a mess.

Georgia's on my Mind · 04-26-2005, 11:17 AM

Seek professional help A.S.A.P.

MsOrange · 04-26-2005, 01:45 PM

what grade are you in?
i remeber in HS all I could think about was "4 more years", "3 more years", "only 2 more years"... I was ready to graduate the minute I got in.

dawsongirl · 04-26-2005, 02:30 PM

This is certainly not something to kill yourself over. These boys are just being extremely immature. The only way immature people know how to communicate is to put other people down to make themselves feel better, talk about people, etc. They are SO NOT worth your time.

Best thing to do is ignore them and pretend like it doesn't bother you, cuz if it doesn't bother you, they'll probably quit. They'll move on to something else.

crystals · 04-27-2005, 04:18 PM

I remember having to deal with guys like that too in high school. I usually just ignored them, but if they really got on my nerves I told them off. I got bugged all through school. From elementary to high school. It's funny, I don't miss school one bit. I'm glad to not have to deal with those immature jerks anymore.

AllIWantIsYourClutch · 04-27-2005, 06:47 PM

That's exactly what happened to me yesterday, actually. What a coincidence. Just blow them off. Because honestly, once they see you don't care, then they won't be amused by it anymore.

Penny Lane · 04-27-2005, 08:30 PM

I remember that well! Most high school romances don't amount to anything! When I met my husband (as of now we are 35 years married ) he was 24 and I was 17. He had been in the army and was quite mature. I fell for him totally. Luckily it has been a match made in heaven. My high school romances were worthless. I guess that sounds skeptical but in my case I am eternally grateful that I met my wonderful husband. I have seen my ex boyfriends over the years and most of them are pretty good guys now but at the time they were very immature(of course! they were only teens) Maturity is king!

I Know!

Hollow · 04-27-2005, 08:35 PM

don't go out of your way to face them about it. give them the impression you don't care and have better things to worry about. if you go hysterical trying to defend rumors, they're going to think you're lying and will have more fun trying to mess with you.

The Modfather · 04-28-2005, 07:25 PM

Kick them in the nuts

MissZero · 04-28-2005, 07:27 PM

oooh my, im sorry you had to g thru that...but believe me it could always be a lot worse (imagine the week I had)

but if theres anything i learned in these last two days is don't hold grudges because something could happen in an instant and it could be over...please dont fall into the pety **** in life

Heart Shaped Box · 04-28-2005, 07:36 PM

I don't think that this is something to kill yourself over. Those boys are really immature. Most guys in my school are the same way. All they talk about is sex, video games, rappers..and sex. Trust me, just totally ignore them, it'll work. Believe me, I try to annoy my younger brother sometimes - and he usually ignores me so I just leave him alone. If they don't leave you alone, just try and speak out. Tell them how you feel, and don't be afraid to scream at them if you need too. Oh, and make sure to point out that you don't like the d---head.

04-26-2005, 06:16 AM	#1
Sweet Brunette I Love Sitcoms Frequent Poster Join Date: Nov 28, 2004 Location: Boulevard of broken dreams Posts: 147	I'm so upset that I allow people to do this to me! I had a really horrible day at school today.I swear,there are people in my grade who really have something against me,and hate me alot.I just want people to stop talking about me.It all started when some ****** in my year thought I liked this other ****,and since then the whole group of boys have just been complete *****s to me.I wish I had the guts to tell the guy how much I hate him,but I'm the biggest wuss,and can never stand up for myself.So now,I'm just really depresssed.I go through my whole day getting weird looks from people,and hearing them talk about me.I really dont know what to do,I wish I was strong enough to cope with it,but I'm not.I feel like killing myself right now,everything is just a mess.
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04-27-2005, 04:18 PM	#5
crystals Member Senior Member Join Date: Feb 02, 2004 Location: Canada Posts: 1,829	I remember having to deal with guys like that too in high school. I usually just ignored them, but if they really got on my nerves I told them off. I got bugged all through school. From elementary to high school. It's funny, I don't miss school one bit. I'm glad to not have to deal with those immature jerks anymore.
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04-27-2005, 08:30 PM	#7
Penny Lane Butter Pie Forum Icon Join Date: Jul 03, 2001 Location: Beneath the blue suburban skies Posts: 51,261	I remember that well! Most high school romances don't amount to anything! When I met my husband (as of now we are 35 years married ) he was 24 and I was 17. He had been in the army and was quite mature. I fell for him totally. Luckily it has been a match made in heaven. My high school romances were worthless. I guess that sounds skeptical but in my case I am eternally grateful that I met my wonderful husband. I have seen my ex boyfriends over the years and most of them are pretty good guys now but at the time they were very immature(of course! they were only teens) Maturity is king! I Know!
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04-28-2005, 07:27 PM	#10
MissZero serve it up baby Senior Member Join Date: Sep 12, 2004 Location: Pa (Blah) Posts: 1,901	oooh my, im sorry you had to g thru that...but believe me it could always be a lot worse (imagine the week I had) but if theres anything i learned in these last two days is don't hold grudges because something could happen in an instant and it could be over...please dont fall into the pety **** in life
	__________________ ~MissZero~

04-28-2005, 07:36 PM	#11
Heart Shaped Box Member Senior Member Join Date: Feb 16, 2005 Location: New York Posts: 2,510	I don't think that this is something to kill yourself over. Those boys are really immature. Most guys in my school are the same way. All they talk about is sex, video games, rappers..and sex. Trust me, just totally ignore them, it'll work. Believe me, I try to annoy my younger brother sometimes - and he usually ignores me so I just leave him alone. If they don't leave you alone, just try and speak out. Tell them how you feel, and don't be afraid to scream at them if you need too. Oh, and make sure to point out that you don't like the d---head.
	__________________ We are leaving somethings unsaid And we are breathing deeper instead There's really no way to reach me There's really no way to reach me There's really no way to reach me Cause I'm already gone

04-26-2005, 11:17 AM	#2
Georgia's on my Mind Senior Member Forum Superstar Join Date: Aug 19, 2001 Posts: 25,054	Seek professional help A.S.A.P.

04-26-2005, 01:45 PM	#3
MsOrange Bringin' Sexy Back Forum Veteran Join Date: Dec 27, 2004 Posts: 6,133	what grade are you in? i remeber in HS all I could think about was "4 more years", "3 more years", "only 2 more years"... I was ready to graduate the minute I got in.

04-26-2005, 02:30 PM	#4
dawsongirl Member Forum Icon Join Date: Jan 04, 2001 Posts: 53,140	This is certainly not something to kill yourself over. These boys are just being extremely immature. The only way immature people know how to communicate is to put other people down to make themselves feel better, talk about people, etc. They are SO NOT worth your time. Best thing to do is ignore them and pretend like it doesn't bother you, cuz if it doesn't bother you, they'll probably quit. They'll move on to something else.

04-27-2005, 06:47 PM	#6
AllIWantIsYourClutch peaceout. Forum Icon Join Date: Aug 02, 2001 Location: Illinois. Posts: 53,424	That's exactly what happened to me yesterday, actually. What a coincidence. Just blow them off. Because honestly, once they see you don't care, then they won't be amused by it anymore.

04-27-2005, 08:35 PM	#8
Hollow Member Forum Superstar Join Date: Dec 16, 2001 Posts: 30,406	don't go out of your way to face them about it. give them the impression you don't care and have better things to worry about. if you go hysterical trying to defend rumors, they're going to think you're lying and will have more fun trying to mess with you.

04-28-2005, 07:25 PM	#9
The Modfather It Sure Does Moderator Forum Celebrity Join Date: Jul 12, 2003 Location: canada Posts: 21,149	Kick them in the nuts