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Belair · 04-14-2005, 06:31 AM

1.How do you act towards someone when you know they have a crush on you?

2.Can you tell someone you fancy them,when you do,or do you fear rejection?

3.How do you act towards a crush? Do you think your feelings are too obvious sometimes?

4.Are you more likely to avoid your crush and not talk to them,or are you more likely to talk to them alot?

5.Have you ever had a crush on someone who you completely could not have?

swedeace · 04-14-2005, 08:41 AM

1.How do you act towards someone when you know they have a crush on you?
It's happened once, but I was spooked off by it a couple of years ago. I was not interested in the guy, so I kindly turned him down. I fear that would happen with the guys I crush on too.

2.Can you tell someone you fancy them,when you do,or do you fear rejection?
I have July 2004, so I know I could do it! People have told me they were amazed that I "have the balls" to do it!

But in all seriousness, it does not mean it'll get easier everytime you want to approach a crush. Hence, I'm scared about this new crush too....

3.How do you act towards a crush? Do you think your feelings are too obvious sometimes?
Not unless I attempt to talk with the guy. Once he can notice that I am trying to converse with him, I will try to steer the convo so he will see I am interested in him. It's hard sometimes because I am quiet and reserved, and I tend to fall for the same type of guys! So that makes it harder for them to open up too!

4.Are you more likely to avoid your crush and not talk to them, or are you more likely to talk to them alot?
Oh, talk to them a lot, most definitely! If I don't attempt to, I'll just be focusing on my crush without them knowing it! I HAVE to get noticed or nothing furthers.

5.Have you ever had a crush on someone who you completely could not have?
I did after - a gay guy. But I didn't know it beforehand.

~*Emma*~ · 04-14-2005, 10:06 AM

1.How do you act towards someone when you know they have a crush on you? I just try and act like nothings changed but usually I end up sounding false and fake.

2.Can you tell someone you fancy them,when you do,or do you fear rejection? I once told a good friend I liked him, and our friendships never been the same. He turned me down and I used to be able to joke with him all the time but I've since become very quiet whenever I see him. I even almost try and avoid him. He started going out with my best friend not long ago but they broke up. I always try and act the way I used to whenever I see him but it never works. I'm trying again tomorrow. We'll be with friends so I might be able to. But basically thats how I got my fear of rejection.

3.How do you act towards a crush? Do you think your feelings are too obvious sometimes? My feelings are ALWAYS obvious. Except to the guy I have a crush on now. We've been friends for ages but lately I've been sorta more giggley

and I'm starting to get the feeling he likes me too. When me and my mum (he's her friends son) went to there house, the first thing he asked when he got in the door was if I was there.

4.Are you more likely to avoid your crush and not talk to them,or are you more likely to talk to them alot? Talk to them ALOT.

5.Have you ever had a crush on someone who you completely could not have? No not really. I'm not saying I could have anyone or anything because I certainly COULDN'T but I'm pretty good at picking ppl where the feelings are mutual.

Georgia's on my Mind · 04-14-2005, 10:58 AM

I am a homosexual, therefore my opinions on love do not exist.

dawsongirl · 04-14-2005, 03:13 PM

1.How do you act towards someone when you know they have a crush on you?: When I know they have a crush on me, huh? Well, if I like them back, then it sorta turns into weird flirting. If I don't like them back, I usually end up treating them like a bitch.

2.Can you tell someone you fancy them,when you do,or do you fear rejection?: TOTALLY FEAR REJECTION

3.How do you act towards a crush? Do you think your feelings are too obvious sometimes?: With all the ones that didn't know I existed, I'd get really conscious about how I looked and acted, which usually led to me looking like an idiot. Especially since they didn't notice me any more than they would have. If we're friends, then we just act like friends.

4.Are you more likely to avoid your crush and not talk to them,or are you more likely to talk to them alot?: Too shy to talk to them. Only reason I talked to my current crush is because a) he talked first, and b) I didn't have a crush on him then.

5.Have you ever had a crush on someone who you completely could not have?: Story of my life.

*Pleasant Tomorrow* · 04-14-2005, 03:52 PM

1.How do you act towards someone when you know they have a crush on you? I'm pretty good with hiding my knowledge of those things, not that it happens a lot. Then again, it might help that I'm constantly acting like an idiot so when I act like an idiot out of nerves people just think "well, she's always like that. ****in tard lolz"

2.Can you tell someone you fancy them,when you do,or do you fear rejection? I don't fear rejection so much as I fear attention being on me from that person or anyone they tell

3.How do you act towards a crush? Do you think your feelings are too obvious sometimes? Pretty much the same as my answer to number 1

4.Are you more likely to avoid your crush and not talk to them,or are you more likely to talk to them alot? Avoid them, I'm scared pitless of people I like...

5.Have you ever had a crush on someone who you completely could not have? Yes

Belair · 04-14-2005, 04:45 PM

1.How do you act towards someone when you know they have a crush on you?
I feel really bad about how I've treated people who I wasn't interested in,in the past.I would ignore and deliberately avoid people I didn't like back,oand would it make it clear that I was uncomfortable,all while not saying a word to them.But I now know how that feels,and when I was wondering why I was getting treated so bad,I realise its karma for how I treated guys in the past.You dont really think about the other person's feelings until you've felt like that.

2.Can you tell someone you fancy them,when you do,or do you fear rejection?
I am awful,I keep it bottled up inside and never tell .I really fear rejection,or just knowing that they know I like them.

3.How do you act towards a crush? Do you think your feelings are too obvious sometimes?
I get very nervous and shy.I am completely at ease with other people,but if I fancy a guy I'll just sit there and say nothing.That makes me look like a bitch though.

4.Are you more likely to avoid your crush and not talk to them,or are you more likely to talk to them alot?
Not talk to them.I feel so self conscious talking to guys I fancy.I dont talk to them unless they talk to me.

5.Have you ever had a crush on someone who you completely could not have?
Many times.I had a crush on a teacher once who was married with kids,and in the end I just started being really rude to him because he was just being nice to me,but I thought he was leading me on.

Courtnee · 04-14-2005, 06:14 PM

1.How do you act towards someone when you know they have a crush on you? I just act the same

2.Can you tell someone you fancy them,when you do,or do you fear rejection? I can tell them or i send someone else to talk to them for me

3.How do you act towards a crush? Do you think your feelings are too obvious sometimes? I just be myself. Sometimes I think that

4.Are you more likely to avoid your crush and not talk to them,or are you more likely to talk to them alot?talk alot

5.Have you ever had a crush on someone who you completely could not have?yes!!!!!!

Hollow · 04-14-2005, 06:26 PM

1.How do you act towards someone when you know they have a crush on you? i tend to act cold towards them. it just bothers me. I CAN'T STAND it when they make it well known that they like me. i had to tell a few last year to shut up and **** off because they were so annoying. please no one EVER think you're going to get someone that way. i'm not known to be as attractive anymore though. last year i got fed up with it and stopped wearing makeup and everything.

2.Can you tell someone you fancy them,when you do,or do you fear rejection? i'm a wimp

3.How do you act towards a crush? Do you think your feelings are too obvious sometimes? the thing is i tend to only like people i've known for at least several months, so it's easy to be myself without being nervous. just friendly and outgoing.

4.Are you more likely to avoid your crush and not talk to them,or are you more likely to talk to them alot? somewhere in between.

5.Have you ever had a crush on someone who you completely could not have? yes

04-14-2005, 06:31 AM	#1
Belair Back@SO&Loveit! Forum Veteran Join Date: Dec 13, 2004 Location: New York City Posts: 5,925	A few questions about being in love... 1.How do you act towards someone when you know they have a crush on you? 2.Can you tell someone you fancy them,when you do,or do you fear rejection? 3.How do you act towards a crush? Do you think your feelings are too obvious sometimes? 4.Are you more likely to avoid your crush and not talk to them,or are you more likely to talk to them alot? 5.Have you ever had a crush on someone who you completely could not have?
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04-14-2005, 03:52 PM	#6
Pleasant Tomorrow Member Forum Addict Join Date: Feb 19, 2003 Location: New York Posts: 69,525	1.How do you act towards someone when you know they have a crush on you? I'm pretty good with hiding my knowledge of those things, not that it happens a lot. Then again, it might help that I'm constantly acting like an idiot so when I act like an idiot out of nerves people just think "well, she's always like that. ****in tard lolz" 2.Can you tell someone you fancy them,when you do,or do you fear rejection? I don't fear rejection so much as I fear attention being on me from that person or anyone they tell 3.How do you act towards a crush? Do you think your feelings are too obvious sometimes? Pretty much the same as my answer to number 1 4.Are you more likely to avoid your crush and not talk to them,or are you more likely to talk to them alot? Avoid them, I'm scared pitless of people I like... 5.Have you ever had a crush on someone who you completely could not have? Yes
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04-14-2005, 06:14 PM	#8
Courtnee MAN VS SAMMICH. Forum Star Join Date: Mar 23, 2005 Location: Louisiana Posts: 16,413	1.How do you act towards someone when you know they have a crush on you? I just act the same 2.Can you tell someone you fancy them,when you do,or do you fear rejection? I can tell them or i send someone else to talk to them for me 3.How do you act towards a crush? Do you think your feelings are too obvious sometimes? I just be myself. Sometimes I think that 4.Are you more likely to avoid your crush and not talk to them,or are you more likely to talk to them alot?talk alot 5.Have you ever had a crush on someone who you completely could not have?yes!!!!!!
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04-14-2005, 08:41 AM	#2
swedeace Member Forum Fanatic Join Date: Sep 22, 2003 Posts: 9,009	1.How do you act towards someone when you know they have a crush on you? It's happened once, but I was spooked off by it a couple of years ago. I was not interested in the guy, so I kindly turned him down. I fear that would happen with the guys I crush on too. 2.Can you tell someone you fancy them,when you do,or do you fear rejection? I have July 2004, so I know I could do it! People have told me they were amazed that I "have the balls" to do it! But in all seriousness, it does not mean it'll get easier everytime you want to approach a crush. Hence, I'm scared about this new crush too.... 3.How do you act towards a crush? Do you think your feelings are too obvious sometimes? Not unless I attempt to talk with the guy. Once he can notice that I am trying to converse with him, I will try to steer the convo so he will see I am interested in him. It's hard sometimes because I am quiet and reserved, and I tend to fall for the same type of guys! So that makes it harder for them to open up too! 4.Are you more likely to avoid your crush and not talk to them, or are you more likely to talk to them alot? Oh, talk to them a lot, most definitely! If I don't attempt to, I'll just be focusing on my crush without them knowing it! I HAVE to get noticed or nothing furthers. 5.Have you ever had a crush on someone who you completely could not have? I did after - a gay guy. But I didn't know it beforehand.

04-14-2005, 10:06 AM	#3
~Emma~ -------------------- Senior Member Join Date: Feb 12, 2005 Posts: 2,761	1.How do you act towards someone when you know they have a crush on you? I just try and act like nothings changed but usually I end up sounding false and fake. 2.Can you tell someone you fancy them,when you do,or do you fear rejection? I once told a good friend I liked him, and our friendships never been the same. He turned me down and I used to be able to joke with him all the time but I've since become very quiet whenever I see him. I even almost try and avoid him. He started going out with my best friend not long ago but they broke up. I always try and act the way I used to whenever I see him but it never works. I'm trying again tomorrow. We'll be with friends so I might be able to. But basically thats how I got my fear of rejection. 3.How do you act towards a crush? Do you think your feelings are too obvious sometimes? My feelings are ALWAYS obvious. Except to the guy I have a crush on now. We've been friends for ages but lately I've been sorta more giggley and I'm starting to get the feeling he likes me too. When me and my mum (he's her friends son) went to there house, the first thing he asked when he got in the door was if I was there. 4.Are you more likely to avoid your crush and not talk to them,or are you more likely to talk to them alot? Talk to them ALOT. 5.Have you ever had a crush on someone who you completely could not have? No not really. I'm not saying I could have anyone or anything because I certainly COULDN'T but I'm pretty good at picking ppl where the feelings are mutual.

04-14-2005, 10:58 AM	#4
Georgia's on my Mind Senior Member Forum Superstar Join Date: Aug 19, 2001 Posts: 25,054	I am a homosexual, therefore my opinions on love do not exist.

04-14-2005, 03:13 PM	#5
dawsongirl Member Forum Icon Join Date: Jan 04, 2001 Posts: 53,140	1.How do you act towards someone when you know they have a crush on you?: When I know they have a crush on me, huh? Well, if I like them back, then it sorta turns into weird flirting. If I don't like them back, I usually end up treating them like a bitch. 2.Can you tell someone you fancy them,when you do,or do you fear rejection?: TOTALLY FEAR REJECTION 3.How do you act towards a crush? Do you think your feelings are too obvious sometimes?: With all the ones that didn't know I existed, I'd get really conscious about how I looked and acted, which usually led to me looking like an idiot. Especially since they didn't notice me any more than they would have. If we're friends, then we just act like friends. 4.Are you more likely to avoid your crush and not talk to them,or are you more likely to talk to them alot?: Too shy to talk to them. Only reason I talked to my current crush is because a) he talked first, and b) I didn't have a crush on him then. 5.Have you ever had a crush on someone who you completely could not have?: Story of my life.

04-14-2005, 04:45 PM	#7
Belair Back@SO&Loveit! Forum Veteran Join Date: Dec 13, 2004 Location: New York City Posts: 5,925	1.How do you act towards someone when you know they have a crush on you? I feel really bad about how I've treated people who I wasn't interested in,in the past.I would ignore and deliberately avoid people I didn't like back,oand would it make it clear that I was uncomfortable,all while not saying a word to them.But I now know how that feels,and when I was wondering why I was getting treated so bad,I realise its karma for how I treated guys in the past.You dont really think about the other person's feelings until you've felt like that. 2.Can you tell someone you fancy them,when you do,or do you fear rejection? I am awful,I keep it bottled up inside and never tell .I really fear rejection,or just knowing that they know I like them. 3.How do you act towards a crush? Do you think your feelings are too obvious sometimes? I get very nervous and shy.I am completely at ease with other people,but if I fancy a guy I'll just sit there and say nothing.That makes me look like a bitch though. 4.Are you more likely to avoid your crush and not talk to them,or are you more likely to talk to them alot? Not talk to them.I feel so self conscious talking to guys I fancy.I dont talk to them unless they talk to me. 5.Have you ever had a crush on someone who you completely could not have? Many times.I had a crush on a teacher once who was married with kids,and in the end I just started being really rude to him because he was just being nice to me,but I thought he was leading me on.

04-14-2005, 06:26 PM	#9
Hollow Member Forum Superstar Join Date: Dec 16, 2001 Posts: 30,406	1.How do you act towards someone when you know they have a crush on you? i tend to act cold towards them. it just bothers me. I CAN'T STAND it when they make it well known that they like me. i had to tell a few last year to shut up and **** off because they were so annoying. please no one EVER think you're going to get someone that way. i'm not known to be as attractive anymore though. last year i got fed up with it and stopped wearing makeup and everything. 2.Can you tell someone you fancy them,when you do,or do you fear rejection? i'm a wimp 3.How do you act towards a crush? Do you think your feelings are too obvious sometimes? the thing is i tend to only like people i've known for at least several months, so it's easy to be myself without being nervous. just friendly and outgoing. 4.Are you more likely to avoid your crush and not talk to them,or are you more likely to talk to them alot? somewhere in between. 5.Have you ever had a crush on someone who you completely could not have? yes