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TVFactFan · 03-30-2005, 07:56 PM

focus your attention on first? Finding Love or Finding a job? Some people think it's ok to still looking for that special someone and they don't have a job. If i have no job, i can't think about finding a companion, I need to find a JOB first!!!-lol Anyone Agree?

*MIBabe03* · 03-30-2005, 08:04 PM

Finding a job. I mean it's great if you can find that special someone, especially if they can pay your bills. Without a job, you can't really survive in the world.

Georgia's on my Mind · 03-30-2005, 08:58 PM

job.

Fleet · 03-30-2005, 09:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TVShow Analyzer

Anyone Agree?

Agree.

Number 9 Dream · 03-30-2005, 10:07 PM

Definately a job. A career is more important to me in the long run *shrugs*

dawsongirl · 03-30-2005, 10:16 PM

OMG...no boyfriend is gonna pay my bills. Definetly look for a job first!

Rebel Queen 1980 · 03-30-2005, 11:57 PM

Try anything. Right now I still live with my parents and sister. I babysit
my 5 year old nephew. I want to save the money I earn from doing this
so that I can find my own place to live and get a job somewhere else and
also for transportation money because I can't drive due to a visual disability.

MsOrange · 03-30-2005, 11:57 PM

what's... wrong.. with doing.... both?

TVFactFan · 03-31-2005, 12:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MsOrange

what's... wrong.. with doing.... both?

I think doing both is not a good idea. Why bring problems into a relationship when you can just find the job first and then look for a companion later.

MsOrange · 03-31-2005, 12:10 AM

well, i guess it depends on what you mean by companion. If you mean looking for a serious relationship that could lead to marriage--obviously you don't need to be jobless--and of course, not having a job would make it pretty hard to pay for dinner...making second base all the more harder to reach. But just dating around-hey if you can afford it, i say go for it if you feel comfortable and you find someone that doens't care if you are currently working or not.

Brian Damage · 03-31-2005, 12:30 AM

Well, I did meet my wife while I was unemployed. She would pay for us at times because I had no money. It was kind of demoralizing for me because as a man, I feel I should pay. It all worked out in the end, but I would definitely say get a job first.

Lady T · 03-31-2005, 12:33 AM

If I was not working, then the very last thing that would be on my mind would be finding a romantic relationship. I would not want to date a man who was unemployeed and vice-versa...

03-30-2005, 07:56 PM	#1
TVFactFan Member Forum Junkie Join Date: Aug 17, 2002 Posts: 99,130	New Debate started at work, if you are single and unemployed what should you focus your attention on first? Finding Love or Finding a job? Some people think it's ok to still looking for that special someone and they don't have a job. If i have no job, i can't think about finding a companion, I need to find a JOB first!!!-lol Anyone Agree?

03-30-2005, 08:04 PM	#2
MIBabe03 Loving Swingtown! Forum 4000 Club Member Join Date: Jul 28, 2002 Location: TX Posts: 4,646	Finding a job. I mean it's great if you can find that special someone, especially if they can pay your bills. Without a job, you can't really survive in the world.
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Number 9 Dream That '70s Girl Forum Veteran Join Date: Jan 18, 2005 Location: Long Island, NY Posts: 5,875	Definately a job. A career is more important to me in the long run shrugs
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03-30-2005, 08:58 PM	#3
Georgia's on my Mind Senior Member Forum Superstar Join Date: Aug 19, 2001 Posts: 25,054	job.

03-30-2005, 10:16 PM	#6
dawsongirl Member Forum Icon Join Date: Jan 04, 2001 Posts: 53,140	OMG...no boyfriend is gonna pay my bills. Definetly look for a job first!

03-30-2005, 11:57 PM	#7
Rebel Queen 1980 Member Senior Member Join Date: Nov 05, 2002 Location: Watching Classic Sitcoms 24/7.... Posts: 1,509	Try anything. Right now I still live with my parents and sister. I babysit my 5 year old nephew. I want to save the money I earn from doing this so that I can find my own place to live and get a job somewhere else and also for transportation money because I can't drive due to a visual disability.

03-30-2005, 11:57 PM	#8
MsOrange Bringin' Sexy Back Forum Veteran Join Date: Dec 27, 2004 Posts: 6,133	what's... wrong.. with doing.... both?

03-31-2005, 12:10 AM	#10
MsOrange Bringin' Sexy Back Forum Veteran Join Date: Dec 27, 2004 Posts: 6,133	well, i guess it depends on what you mean by companion. If you mean looking for a serious relationship that could lead to marriage--obviously you don't need to be jobless--and of course, not having a job would make it pretty hard to pay for dinner...making second base all the more harder to reach. But just dating around-hey if you can afford it, i say go for it if you feel comfortable and you find someone that doens't care if you are currently working or not.

03-31-2005, 12:30 AM	#11
Brian Damage I'm Rich Bitch Forum Icon Join Date: Feb 03, 2002 Location: What Ain't No Country I Ever Heard Of...They Speak English in What? Posts: 63,107	Well, I did meet my wife while I was unemployed. She would pay for us at times because I had no money. It was kind of demoralizing for me because as a man, I feel I should pay. It all worked out in the end, but I would definitely say get a job first.

03-31-2005, 12:33 AM	#12
Lady T Member Forum Star Join Date: Apr 20, 2003 Posts: 17,361	If I was not working, then the very last thing that would be on my mind would be finding a romantic relationship. I would not want to date a man who was unemployeed and vice-versa...