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Belair · 01-07-2005, 05:52 AM

My friend is 17 (2 years younger than me) and today she had an abortion.I had to accompany her to the clinic because the 18 year old boy who got her pregnant didn't want to come,which is really sad,because the two of them were together for 14 months,then she got pregnant and he broke up with her after that.It just really shows the maturity of these young kids who are having sex,and not taking responsibility.While she was having their baby aborted,he was out surfing with his friends.

Just had to vent about it.My friend is doing fine,its like she doesn't think its a big deal! I just hope she's learnt a lesson from this.Does anyone think that 17 is stil too young to be sleeping around?

Superstar · 01-07-2005, 06:00 AM

Thats a shame. I hope your friend will be fine. Her ex-boyfriend is obviously extremely immature.

SBTB Geek · 01-07-2005, 11:53 AM

Are you the same person who asked us if your friend was a whore?

*MIBabe03* · 01-07-2005, 11:54 AM

You may want to talk to your friend more and make sure that she sees a therapist or something. She may be fine now, but this could take its toll on her emotionally. I have an aunt who had an abortion, and it kind of messed her up in the head.

Georgia's on my Mind · 01-07-2005, 02:06 PM

wonderful, murder...but to answer your question...having sex is fine then but not being a slut

MandieR1980 · 01-07-2005, 02:25 PM

Isn't it against the law for someone under 18 to have an abortion without a parents permission? I have strong opinions about abortion which I won't post here.

Brent88 · 01-07-2005, 02:35 PM

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Originally Posted by MandieR1980

Isn't it against the law for someone under 18 to have an abortion without a parents permission? I have strong opinions about abortion which I won't post here.

I'm pretty sure it is. I think abortion should be against the law unless the mother's health depends on it. If you don't want the child, don't have sex. It's very simple.

MandieR1980 · 01-07-2005, 03:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Brent88

I'm pretty sure it is. I think abortion should be against the law unless the mother's health depends on it. If you don't want the child, don't have sex. It's very simple.

exactly they have plenty of options for birth control and there are thousands of people who are desperate for a baby and can't have them. The only way I'd have an abortion is if the baby has some severe medical problems and will suffer for the rest of it's life.

Lady T · 01-07-2005, 04:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Pretty in Purple

My friend is 17 (2 years younger than me) and today she had an abortion.I had to accompany her to the clinic because the 18 year old boy who got her pregnant didn't want to come,which is really sad,because the two of them were together for 14 months,then she got pregnant and he broke up with her after that.It just really shows the maturity of these young kids who are having sex,and not taking responsibility.While she was having their baby aborted,he was out surfing with his friends.

Just had to vent about it.My friend is doing fine,its like she doesn't think its a big deal! I just hope she's learnt a lesson from this.Does anyone think that 17 is stil too young to be sleeping around?

What a shame

Having an abortion is a rough deal and your friend is in my prayers; and I think at any age regardless if you are 17 or 97 is stupid for sleeping around, forget about becoming pregnant think about contracting A.I.D.S.. But having an abortion is a Big Deal though she might be indifferent now, it will hit her down the line and it is an emotional burden that she will be carrying for the rest of her life. I recommend that she gets some therpy for this ordeal of having an abortion and having a callous boyfriend

EricIdlefan · 01-07-2005, 05:05 PM

Instead of abortion, she could have given the baby up for adoption.

Hollow · 01-07-2005, 06:00 PM

k3wl. i wish i was aborted.

James"Thunder"Early · 01-07-2005, 06:22 PM

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Originally Posted by MandieR1980

Isn't it against the law for someone under 18 to have an abortion without a parents permission? I have strong opinions about abortion which I won't post here.

permission isn' required in most states. it has to do with privacy.

*Pleasant Tomorrow* · 01-07-2005, 07:14 PM

Erm...I think that's sad.

Fleet · 01-07-2005, 07:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Pretty in Purple

Does anyone think that 17 is stil too young to be sleeping around?

Yes.

snl75 · 01-07-2005, 07:53 PM

just give your friend all the support you can shes really going to need it. im sorry for what shes going through .

01-07-2005, 05:52 AM	#1
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01-07-2005, 07:14 PM	#13
Pleasant Tomorrow Member Forum Addict Join Date: Feb 19, 2003 Location: New York Posts: 69,525	Erm...I think that's sad.
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01-07-2005, 06:00 AM	#2
Superstar Member Forum Icon Join Date: Dec 08, 2003 Posts: 63,316	Thats a shame. I hope your friend will be fine. Her ex-boyfriend is obviously extremely immature.

01-07-2005, 11:53 AM	#3
SBTB Geek Smooth Moderator Forum Veteran Join Date: Feb 21, 2002 Location: Southern California Posts: 6,004	Are you the same person who asked us if your friend was a whore?

01-07-2005, 02:06 PM	#5
Georgia's on my Mind Senior Member Forum Superstar Join Date: Aug 19, 2001 Posts: 25,054	wonderful, murder...but to answer your question...having sex is fine then but not being a slut

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Hollow Member Forum Superstar Join Date: Dec 16, 2001 Posts: 30,406	k3wl. i wish i was aborted.

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snl75 Member Senior Member Join Date: Aug 25, 2004 Location: in the formen basement watching snl Posts: 1,377	just give your friend all the support you can shes really going to need it. im sorry for what shes going through .