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Rebel Queen 1980 · 12-17-2004, 02:03 AM

I don't feel much like celebrating the holidays this year. My
dad is sick with pneumonia right now,He's at home,It's
not that bad to where he has to go to the hospital,but
after my aunt was in and now my cousin which I've haven't
any news on yet.It's really hard on me.I wish I could make
things better.I worry about things too easily.I get scared
easily too.I hate when bad things happen because I can't
think right and everybody in my family just laughs or looks
at me weird when I complain.So if anyone want to send me
anything,It could just a hug or something.I don't want any
presents this year. I just my family to healthy and happy.
I would like that the most. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year
to all of you who never have problems in your life like I do.

snl75 · 12-17-2004, 02:12 AM

im sorry things arent going well for you right now jo cool and you and your family will be in my prayers

crystals · 12-17-2004, 04:09 AM

I'm sorry your dad isn't well. These kinds of things really makes people see what Christmas is all about. Being with family and friends. I hope your dad gets better. I understand how you feel. My dog passed on in December 2002 and that year I didn't feel like celebrating Christmas, but I was forced to because my parents wanted to go ahead with Christmas plans. I was really upset and wanted to say to them, Where's your soul? It's really sad when loved ones get sick. I hope your dad gets better soon.

James · 12-18-2004, 02:32 AM

rusyd · 12-18-2004, 02:47 AM

I'm so sorry to hear things aren't going well for you latley. My thoughts and prayers are w you and your family.

Mr. Television · 12-18-2004, 02:49 AM

I'm real sorry to hear about your dad and I hope he gets well soon.

Christmas is all about family and when something happens like this I know from experience you don't feel like celebrating. You and your family will be in my prayers.

80s_Fan · 12-18-2004, 11:07 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by JoCool
I don't feel much like celebrating the holidays this year. My
dad is sick with pneumonia right now,He's at home,It's
not that bad to where he has to go to the hospital,but
after my aunt was in and now my cousin which I've haven't
any news on yet.It's really hard on me.I wish I could make
things better.I worry about things too easily.I get scared
easily too.I hate when bad things happen because I can't
think right and everybody in my family just laughs or looks
at me weird when I complain.So if anyone want to send me
anything,It could just a hug or something.I don't want any
presents this year. I just my family to healthy and happy.
I would like that the most. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year
to all of you who never have problems in your life like I do.

I'm in the same boat as you are; I don't feel like celebrating either because my mom has cancer and at this point we don't know if it's really severe or not. She's going to see the doctor on tuesday and I get the feeling that it will be pretty bad news.

Janice · 12-18-2004, 12:59 PM

It's hard to get into the holiday spirit when you're burdened with heartache. Just do your best. There's no law that says you have to be all happy happy simply because of the holidays. Allow yourself a pass this year.

Since losing my family, my holidays have never been and never will be the same, but I have to go through the motions. My husband has adult children and grandchildren, so I make it festive for everyone.

If not for that, I wouldn't even bother.

Brian Damage · 12-18-2004, 05:07 PM

Holidays can be very depressing, you as is everyone is entitled to feel depressed. Especially during this time of year.

*Pleasant Tomorrow* · 12-18-2004, 05:14 PM

I'm sorry

I hope things get better

Janet McFarland · 12-18-2004, 05:26 PM

I'm sorry about your dad. Hang in there

MissZero · 12-18-2004, 06:20 PM

Just hang in there....like they say, everything is good in the end so if its not good then its not the end. ::hugs::

TheGreatPretender · 12-18-2004, 06:31 PM

I'm so sorry

Rebel Queen 1980 · 12-18-2004, 10:12 PM

Yeah,I hope so too.

''Sometimes I don't understand.
Feels like I living in a world gone mad.
Look around,All round it's just the same people.
Just rush everywhere, No time to ever take the time to care.
We're the ones. We're the loser in this game.
So where is the tenderness we sacrifice for a progress.
And where is the love we need. You know it makes me wonder.

What If Everybody reached and took one hand.
What If Everybody sang out with one voice maybe we could
change things.What Everybody cared cared with their own heart.
What If Everybody tried to light one spark.

Maybe we could changes things somehow.

Somehow it's all up to us.
Gotta take this world,make a world of love.
We gotta do it now, we gotta find make the change
somehow.There's gotta be a way for us to make it better.

( Chorus)

Here in our heart oh the answer is there
If we only would look there inside them.

We can make it better,We can it better if we tried together.''

( Chorus)
There's gotta be a way for us to make it better.
There's gotta be a way for us to make it better.

What If Everybody cared with their own heart.
What If Everybody just tried little one spark.
Maybe we could change things .

Dude111 · 10-25-2022, 07:04 AM

I havent felt like celebrating holidays in years...... Just nothing to celebrate!

Christmas used to be beautiful but now its ugly and bland...... (Ugly lights,decorations,music,etc...)

I havent celebrated christmas in several years.... I get stuff AS I FIND IT

12-17-2004, 02:03 AM	#1
Rebel Queen 1980 Member Senior Member Join Date: Nov 05, 2002 Location: Watching Classic Sitcoms 24/7.... Posts: 1,509	I Don't Feel Like Celebrating The Holidays I don't feel much like celebrating the holidays this year. My dad is sick with pneumonia right now,He's at home,It's not that bad to where he has to go to the hospital,but after my aunt was in and now my cousin which I've haven't any news on yet.It's really hard on me.I wish I could make things better.I worry about things too easily.I get scared easily too.I hate when bad things happen because I can't think right and everybody in my family just laughs or looks at me weird when I complain.So if anyone want to send me anything,It could just a hug or something.I don't want any presents this year. I just my family to healthy and happy. I would like that the most. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to all of you who never have problems in your life like I do.

12-17-2004, 04:09 AM	#3
crystals Member Senior Member Join Date: Feb 02, 2004 Location: Canada Posts: 1,829	I'm sorry your dad isn't well. These kinds of things really makes people see what Christmas is all about. Being with family and friends. I hope your dad gets better. I understand how you feel. My dog passed on in December 2002 and that year I didn't feel like celebrating Christmas, but I was forced to because my parents wanted to go ahead with Christmas plans. I was really upset and wanted to say to them, Where's your soul? It's really sad when loved ones get sick. I hope your dad gets better soon.
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12-18-2004, 02:49 AM	#6
Mr. Television 23 Years at Sitcoms Online Forum Icon Join Date: Jun 06, 2003 Location: Somewhere you're Not Posts: 62,132	I'm real sorry to hear about your dad and I hope he gets well soon. Christmas is all about family and when something happens like this I know from experience you don't feel like celebrating. You and your family will be in my prayers.
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12-18-2004, 05:14 PM	#10
Pleasant Tomorrow Member Forum Addict Join Date: Feb 19, 2003 Location: New York Posts: 69,525	I'm sorry I hope things get better
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12-18-2004, 06:20 PM	#12
MissZero serve it up baby Senior Member Join Date: Sep 12, 2004 Location: Pa (Blah) Posts: 1,901	Just hang in there....like they say, everything is good in the end so if its not good then its not the end. ::hugs::
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12-17-2004, 02:12 AM	#2
snl75 Member Senior Member Join Date: Aug 25, 2004 Location: in the formen basement watching snl Posts: 1,377	im sorry things arent going well for you right now jo cool and you and your family will be in my prayers

12-18-2004, 02:32 AM	#4
James Member Forum Veteran Join Date: Jan 07, 2001 Location: Dayton, Ohio, USA Posts: 6,370

12-18-2004, 02:47 AM	#5
rusyd Member Forum Star Join Date: Mar 30, 2004 Posts: 13,505	I'm so sorry to hear things aren't going well for you latley. My thoughts and prayers are w you and your family.

12-18-2004, 12:59 PM	#8
Janice Retired Admin - Hollywood Swingin' Forum Legend Join Date: Aug 03, 2001 Location: Beantown Posts: 36,388	It's hard to get into the holiday spirit when you're burdened with heartache. Just do your best. There's no law that says you have to be all happy happy simply because of the holidays. Allow yourself a pass this year. Since losing my family, my holidays have never been and never will be the same, but I have to go through the motions. My husband has adult children and grandchildren, so I make it festive for everyone. If not for that, I wouldn't even bother.

12-18-2004, 05:07 PM	#9
Brian Damage I'm Rich Bitch Forum Icon Join Date: Feb 03, 2002 Location: What Ain't No Country I Ever Heard Of...They Speak English in What? Posts: 63,107	Holidays can be very depressing, you as is everyone is entitled to feel depressed. Especially during this time of year.

12-18-2004, 05:26 PM	#11
Janet McFarland Member Forum 4000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 09, 2004 Posts: 4,344	I'm sorry about your dad. Hang in there

12-18-2004, 06:31 PM	#13
TheGreatPretender just because Forum Veteran Join Date: May 22, 2004 Location: Trying to think of a creative, witty location. Posts: 7,628	I'm so sorry
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12-18-2004, 10:12 PM	#14
Rebel Queen 1980 Member Senior Member Join Date: Nov 05, 2002 Location: Watching Classic Sitcoms 24/7.... Posts: 1,509	Yeah,I hope so too. ''Sometimes I don't understand. Feels like I living in a world gone mad. Look around,All round it's just the same people. Just rush everywhere, No time to ever take the time to care. We're the ones. We're the loser in this game. So where is the tenderness we sacrifice for a progress. And where is the love we need. You know it makes me wonder. What If Everybody reached and took one hand. What If Everybody sang out with one voice maybe we could change things.What Everybody cared cared with their own heart. What If Everybody tried to light one spark. Maybe we could changes things somehow. Somehow it's all up to us. Gotta take this world,make a world of love. We gotta do it now, we gotta find make the change somehow.There's gotta be a way for us to make it better. ( Chorus) Here in our heart oh the answer is there If we only would look there inside them. We can make it better,We can it better if we tried together.'' ( Chorus) There's gotta be a way for us to make it better. There's gotta be a way for us to make it better. What If Everybody cared with their own heart. What If Everybody just tried little one spark. Maybe we could change things .

10-25-2022, 07:04 AM	#15
Dude111 Forum Legend Join Date: Nov 05, 2013 Posts: 37,267	I havent felt like celebrating holidays in years...... Just nothing to celebrate! Christmas used to be beautiful but now its ugly and bland...... (Ugly lights,decorations,music,etc...) I havent celebrated christmas in several years.... I get stuff AS I FIND IT