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ABlairican Pie · 10-09-2004, 01:35 PM

So I finally get the phone call no one wants to get. My brother left a message to call him as soon as possible last night, so I call him and ask what's up.

What's up, indeed.

He tells me that yesterday before noon my mother passed away in her sleep in a nursing home. She would have been 62 this month. I felt numb, shocked, even disappointed that I didn't have
a chance to tell her about my kitties.

It seems so strange that two months ago she was doing okay with her home improvement things, what she liked to do most. It's like you expect it to happen, but I didn't think (and didn't wish) it would happen so soon.

So last Friday was my last day to see her. It was so hard to see her so ill and frail. You regret you don't get a chance to tell her things you had all your life to tell her.

EmoJoe · 10-09-2004, 01:36 PM

Im so sorry

MissZero · 10-09-2004, 01:41 PM

I'm so sorry

Michael [hXc] · 10-09-2004, 01:46 PM

omg how sad

i'm really sorry

Kitt · 10-09-2004, 01:48 PM

Sorry Greg.
My Dad died a year ago almost to the day. My mom just had a cancer scare and had to have surgery. So I'm battling with the 'no more mom and dad' blues myself.

I was just recently sort of forced into a major conversation with my mom about something. I don't know if we resolved anything but it seemed to bring us closer together that we both dealt with it. I guess maybe the 'dealing with' is maybe more important than the outcome of dealing with issues when it comes to families.

Sorry about the middle of the night call, Greg. I know how that one feels.

Janice · 10-09-2004, 01:48 PM

My deepest condolences to you and your family. Your mother isn't suffering anymore.

My thoughts are with you. Life is difficult without a mother especially at a young age.

There's no love like a mother's love.

ABlairican Pie · 10-09-2004, 01:49 PM

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Originally posted by Kitt
Sorry Greg.
My Dad died a year ago almost to the day. My mom just had a cancer scare and had to have surgery. So I'm battling with the 'no more mom and dad' blues myself.

I was just recently sort of forced into a major conversation with my mom about something. I don't know if we resolved anything but it seemed to bring us closer together that we both dealt with it. I guess maybe the 'dealing with' is maybe more important than the outcome of dealing with issues when it comes to families.

Sorry about the middle of the night call, Greg. I know how that one feels.

Kay Scarpetta · 10-09-2004, 01:52 PM

I've already spoken to you- but I want to take this opportunity to again tell you how profoundly sorry I am, Greg. Remember, we all love you here and will be here if you want to talk.

Janet McFarland · 10-09-2004, 02:02 PM

Oh wow.. I'm so sorry! Noone ever deserves that

Kazza · 10-09-2004, 02:02 PM

So sorry about your mother's loss. Remember that she's now watching you and watching over you.

Crimson and Clover · 10-09-2004, 02:05 PM

I am so sorry

Cactus Jack · 10-09-2004, 02:13 PM

IM so sorry about that

TheGreatPretender · 10-09-2004, 02:15 PM

I'm so sorry

my deepest sympathies go out to you and your family.

Dean Winchester · 10-09-2004, 02:22 PM

I am so sorry Cpt. I know exactly what you're feeling because I too lost my mother seven monts ago, you and your family have my deepest sympathies

I am very very sorry and I understand and realize that no "I am sorry" or "you're in my thoughts and prayers" can possibly make up for the fact that your mother is no longer a part of this life and knowing you're never going to see her again until you're dead. It is something that completely sucks and I hope you'll be able to deal as painlessly as you possibly can.

Superstar · 10-09-2004, 02:25 PM

I'm so sorry

10-09-2004, 01:35 PM	#1
ABlairican Pie Member Forum Superstar Join Date: Dec 12, 2001 Location: Living where cats reign more Supreme than a pizza. Posts: 31,619	My mother passed away. So I finally get the phone call no one wants to get. My brother left a message to call him as soon as possible last night, so I call him and ask what's up. What's up, indeed. He tells me that yesterday before noon my mother passed away in her sleep in a nursing home. She would have been 62 this month. I felt numb, shocked, even disappointed that I didn't have a chance to tell her about my kitties. It seems so strange that two months ago she was doing okay with her home improvement things, what she liked to do most. It's like you expect it to happen, but I didn't think (and didn't wish) it would happen so soon. So last Friday was my last day to see her. It was so hard to see her so ill and frail. You regret you don't get a chance to tell her things you had all your life to tell her.
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10-09-2004, 01:36 PM	#2
EmoJoe Cool cool cool Forum Addict Join Date: Apr 23, 2004 Location: New Jersey Posts: 71,478	Im so sorry
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10-09-2004, 01:41 PM	#3
MissZero serve it up baby Senior Member Join Date: Sep 12, 2004 Location: Pa (Blah) Posts: 1,901	I'm so sorry
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10-09-2004, 01:46 PM	#4
Michael [hXc] dying. Forum Fanatic Join Date: Feb 29, 2004 Posts: 8,532	omg how sad i'm really sorry
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10-09-2004, 01:48 PM	#6
Janice Retired Admin - Hollywood Swingin' Forum Legend Join Date: Aug 03, 2001 Location: Beantown Posts: 36,388	So sorry My deepest condolences to you and your family. Your mother isn't suffering anymore. My thoughts are with you. Life is difficult without a mother especially at a young age. There's no love like a mother's love.

10-09-2004, 01:48 PM	#5
Kitt James Dean Forum Veteran Join Date: Aug 16, 2001 Location: California Dreamin' Posts: 6,115	Sorry Greg. My Dad died a year ago almost to the day. My mom just had a cancer scare and had to have surgery. So I'm battling with the 'no more mom and dad' blues myself. I was just recently sort of forced into a major conversation with my mom about something. I don't know if we resolved anything but it seemed to bring us closer together that we both dealt with it. I guess maybe the 'dealing with' is maybe more important than the outcome of dealing with issues when it comes to families. Sorry about the middle of the night call, Greg. I know how that one feels.

10-09-2004, 01:52 PM	#8
Kay Scarpetta Defy Gravity 8.26.05 Forum Superstar Join Date: Jul 04, 2001 Location: La Vie Boheme Posts: 28,013	I've already spoken to you- but I want to take this opportunity to again tell you how profoundly sorry I am, Greg. Remember, we all love you here and will be here if you want to talk.
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10-09-2004, 02:02 PM	#9
Janet McFarland Member Forum 4000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 09, 2004 Posts: 4,344	Oh wow.. I'm so sorry! Noone ever deserves that

10-09-2004, 02:02 PM	#10
Kazza Member Forum 3000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 17, 2003 Posts: 3,244	So sorry about your mother's loss. Remember that she's now watching you and watching over you.

10-09-2004, 02:05 PM	#11
Crimson and Clover Member Forum Star Join Date: Jun 09, 2002 Location: NC Posts: 17,345	I am so sorry

10-09-2004, 02:13 PM	#12
Cactus Jack RonFingSwanson Forum Idol Join Date: Dec 09, 2001 Location: Santa Rosa Beach,FL Posts: 103,099	IM so sorry about that
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10-09-2004, 02:15 PM	#13
TheGreatPretender just because Forum Veteran Join Date: May 22, 2004 Location: Trying to think of a creative, witty location. Posts: 7,628	I'm so sorry my deepest sympathies go out to you and your family.
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10-09-2004, 02:22 PM	#14
Dean Winchester Member Forum Star Join Date: Sep 28, 2003 Location: Louisville KY Posts: 14,803	I am so sorry Cpt. I know exactly what you're feeling because I too lost my mother seven monts ago, you and your family have my deepest sympathies I am very very sorry and I understand and realize that no "I am sorry" or "you're in my thoughts and prayers" can possibly make up for the fact that your mother is no longer a part of this life and knowing you're never going to see her again until you're dead. It is something that completely sucks and I hope you'll be able to deal as painlessly as you possibly can.

10-09-2004, 02:25 PM	#15
Superstar Member Forum Icon Join Date: Dec 08, 2003 Posts: 63,316	I'm so sorry