I get treated so badly and unfairly!!

[G-Force Glockstar]

I have two babysitters who treat me really badly and unfairly.
They're just plain mean. And my littlest sister who is a major b*tch always is mean to me and aggravtaies me, and I'm the only one who gets in trouble.
Like for example, she'll call me a bunch of mean names and hurt me, then I'll try to get her back, and I'm the only one in trouble. My oldest babysitter who is 54 sometimes pushes me, yells at me, and is really mean.
Why are my babysitters and sister so mean? Do they hate me?
Why am I the only one who gets in trouble?

[Mossopp]

You've learned a valuable lesson, kid - life sucks. Welcome to the real world!
Just kidding.....
Seriously though, if your babysitters are treating you unfairly then you should tell your parents about it as soon as possible. Babysitters have no right whatsoever to push someone else's children around.
Unfortunately it seems to be the way of the world that - no matter how much of a brat a little brother or sister is - it's always the older sibling who gets in trouble for it. I guess that's because people expect you to be the mature one and rise above the immature stuff. I know it's unfair that you have to endure that kind of crap but that's how it goes.
I bet you anything that neither your sister nor your babysitters "hate" you, so stop worrying about that. Just talk to your parents about how you feel - tell them exactly what you just told us. And if your parents aren't responsive then maybe you could try talking to teacher at school whom you feel you can trust.
I hope this helps.

[roseannefan4ever14]

I agree with Mossopp. Babysitters have no right whatsoever to push ones child around- thats just un-called for. And for your little sister well I think she is the one who needs to get in trouble but don't get back at her or she will be crying to your parents that it was your fault. But I do understand how your siblings can pick on you- for example- I have 2 younger siblings who treat me like crap but I don't get back at them or I would be the one who gets in trouble since I'm the oldest- understand FullHouseFan8795? Hope that helps

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[I am Him]

Originally posted by FullHouseFan8795
And my littlest sister who is a major b*tch always is mean to me and aggravtaies me, and I'm the only one who gets in trouble.

Does that include getting spanked?

[Georgia's on my Mind]

cry me a river, kid

[G-Force Glockstar]

Originally posted by I am Him
Does that include getting spanked?

No, I haven't gotten spanked in a long time!
Well, about a year ago.

[Michael [hXc]]

Originally posted by Mossopp
You've learned a valuable lesson, kid - life sucks. Welcome to the real world!
Just kidding.....
Seriously though, if your babysitters are treating you unfairly then you should tell your parents about it as soon as possible. Babysitters have no right whatsoever to push someone else's children around.
Unfortunately it seems to be the way of the world that - no matter how much of a brat a little brother or sister is - it's always the older sibling who gets in trouble for it. I guess that's because people expect you to be the mature one and rise above the immature stuff. I know it's unfair that you have to endure that kind of crap but that's how it goes.
I bet you anything that neither your sister nor your babysitters "hate" you, so stop worrying about that. Just talk to your parents about how you feel - tell them exactly what you just told us. And if your parents aren't responsive then maybe you could try talking to teacher at school whom you feel you can trust.
I hope this helps.

The being mature stuff is what my mother tells me. I always get in trouble for my brother but that's just the way it works.

[I am Him]

Originally posted by Mossopp
- no matter how much of a brat a little brother or sister is - it's always the older sibling who gets in trouble for it. I guess that's because people expect you to be the mature one and rise above the immature stuff. I know it's unfair that you have to endure that kind of crap but that's how it goes.

Thats a very bad parenting tactic because the younger sibling never learns personal responsibility. Thats why younger siblings usually end up either being failures in life, or not as successful as the older sibling.

In the adult world, those that harass people will suffer consequences. It doesn't matter who is younger or older.

[Michael [hXc]]

Originally posted by I am Him
Thats a very bad parenting tactic because the younger sibling never learns personal responsibility. Thats why younger siblings usually end up either being failures in life, or not as successful as the older sibling.

In the adult world, those that harass people will suffer consequences. It doesn't matter who is younger or older.

The thing is, as kids the younger one gets all of the priviledges and is spoiled by their parents and normally never learns responsibility (no offense to anyone who is a younger sibling here). But as adults, the older one would have learned responsibility and will be less likely to be like that on their children.

[Chain Gang Member]

Originally posted by Mossopp
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Just talk to your parents about how you feel - tell them exactly what you just told us. And if your parents aren't responsive then maybe you could try talking to teacher at school whom you feel you can trust.
I hope this helps.

You'll definently feel better getting this off your chest to a trustworthy person,someone who you can trust not to repeat this to anyone

[Mossopp]

Originally posted by I am Him
Thats a very bad parenting tactic because the younger sibling never learns personal responsibility. Thats why younger siblings usually end up either being failures in life, or not as successful as the older sibling.

I agree with you. I'm not saying that it is a good parenting technique. All I'm saying is that it is usually the stance that most parents take.
Trust me - I know all about bad parenting techniques. My parents screwed-up on just about every level you can think of. However, considering what they put me through, I think I turned out OK. You don't have to let your family's shortcomings affect you in the longterm.

[TheGreatPretender]

Originally posted by I am Him
Thats a very bad parenting tactic because the younger sibling never learns personal responsibility. Thats why younger siblings usually end up either being failures in life, or not as successful as the older sibling.

im the youngest and i consider myself very responsible. and fullhousefan the younger ones don't have it easy either, every one always thinks they are the boss of me and im also expected to be like my older siblings and do almost exactly what they do. every position in the family has it's weak spot. and tell your parents to fire this babysitter IF she really is pushing you physicially just because she is older doesnt mean it gives her the right to be mean to you.

[EmoJoe]

I think you should tell your parents that your being treated badly and maybe theyll do something.

[G-Force Glockstar]

Originally posted by RurryMicelli
I think you should tell your parents that your being treated badly and maybe theyll do something.

I can't because my Mom is very close to all of my babysitters.

I use to have a babysitter last year that was only 1 year older than me and she could be so mean!! Like my sister would kick me, and then I'd TRY to kick her and I'm the only one in trouble.
Usually, it's my babysitters that just get me in trouble.
When we're with my parents, we both usually get equally in trouble.

[G-Force Glockstar]

Originally posted by RurryMicelli
Its so good being an only child

You're lucky!
I would like to be the only child...or at least my sisters are always nice to me.