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Mrs. Ducky · 04-30-2004, 03:20 PM

Okay one of my best friends in the whole world broke up with his girlfriend because he didn't think they were ready to get into a relationship. Well, when he did she cried to her friend. The friend came up to him and told him that he'd better go back out with her or something bad would happen. He didn't let it bother him until all they did was tell him that they had to go back out because his ex girlfriend is "crazy about him". Well, he started dating a different girl and they got really mad at both of them. So his new girlfriend broke up with him. Well, it got so bad that his first girlfriend told her mom that he wouldn't date her so she called him and left this terrible message on their machine about how my friend was an ******* and that she was gonna hurt him if he didn't dateher daughter again. So now he's dating her again even though he really hates her. And she gets mad when me and his other female friends are hanging around with him because she claims we're trying to "steal her man". What do you guys think he should do about her?

Hollow · 04-30-2004, 03:48 PM

holy hell, that sounds so unrealistic.

Sterling Holobyte · 04-30-2004, 03:51 PM

He should move to a different town because that girl and especially her mom are wacko's!

Moonlight Lady · 04-30-2004, 04:17 PM

Wow, that's really messed up. He move far away from these people. Nobody should be forced to date someone.

Kitt · 04-30-2004, 04:22 PM

Holy hell, that's a screamer.

julian bozo · 04-30-2004, 04:49 PM

I am confused

Your friend is dating this girl he hates.
He broke up with her.
She her friends and mom all threatened him.
He was in a relationship with a new girl but she broke it off.
So that's the basic facts.
First of all this girl must have no self esteem. I mean if I was dating someone and we broke up and they started going out with someone else. I would take it to mean they did not want me
anymore. She sounds really desperate. That is sad she had to get her mom got involved. Tell your friend to break up with her if he is unhappy. Also if that girl or any her friends or mom threaten him anymore he can go to the police. Because then it becomes harassment.
Why did that new girl break up with him?

Mrs. Ducky · 04-30-2004, 05:07 PM

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Originally posted by julian bozo
Why did that new girl break up with him?

Because she was afraid of his old girlfriend.

Mrs. Ducky · 04-30-2004, 05:12 PM

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Originally posted by safety pin
holy hell, that sounds so unrealistic.

Well, it's true and I wish it weren't because the girl is getting me involved. She told everyone that when he was still dating her he was secretly fooling around with me and one of my friends and it's our fault that he broke up with her, and now people are calling me a slut.

Hollow · 04-30-2004, 06:27 PM

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Originally posted by Mrs. Ducky
Well, it's true and I wish it weren't because the girl is getting me involved. She told everyone that when he was still dating her he was secretly fooling around with me and one of my friends and it's our fault that he broke up with her, and now people are calling me a slut.

I'm sorry but that is the craziest story i've ever heard. It is unbelievably immature for a mother to call someone an ******* and threaten to hurt them for not dating her daughter. If that really happened then that lady needs to grow up and learn how to be a better parent.

robyrob · 04-30-2004, 07:06 PM

your friend should get in the habit of tape-recording his telephone conversations and get in contact with the police if someone is actually threatening him,

but wouldn't it just be simpler for your friend to just talk to the girl and explain the situation to her?

Tuesday Weld · 04-30-2004, 07:11 PM

That's awful. No one should be forced to be with someone, they don't love. I can think of a case like that and it was hell, for the man. The woman was a selfish, possessive, manipulative b----. Her parents even helped her manipulate the guy.

Mrs. Ducky · 04-30-2004, 07:38 PM

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Originally posted by robyrob
but wouldn't it just be simpler for your friend to just talk to the girl and explain the situation to her?

He tried that. He said: "Angie, please I think that this is getting way out of hand. You're starting to scare me and I don't want to be with someone I'm scared of. Why don't you go out with Trevor, he seems to like you." and she said: (crying and screaming) "But I love you and you love me and you're staying with me no matter what! Don't listen to your friends don't listen to your family only listen to me!" and he said: "I don't love you, okay." and she said: "Yes you do and I'll make you if you don't." and I said: "Angie, he doesn't love you and you can't change that." and she says: "Shut-up you bitch you're the whole cause for this." Then she grabbed his hand and pulled him away. I was soooooooooo mad!

Hollow · 04-30-2004, 07:49 PM

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Originally posted by Mrs. Ducky
He tried that. He said: "Angie, please I think that this is getting way out of hand. You're starting to scare me and I don't want to be with someone I'm scared of. Why don't you go out with Trevor, he seems to like you." and she said: (crying and screaming) "But I love you and you love me and you're staying with me no matter what! Don't listen to your friends don't listen to your family only listen to me!" and he said: "I don't love you, okay." and she said: "Yes you do and I'll make you if you don't." and I said: "Angie, he doesn't love you and you can't change that." and she says: "Shut-up you bitch you're the whole cause for this." Then she grabbed his hand and pulled him away. I was soooooooooo mad!

omg that sounds so fake. CRYING AND SCREAMING? Sorry but i find all this incredibly hard to believe.

robyrob · 04-30-2004, 08:12 PM

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Originally posted by Mrs. Ducky
He tried that. He said: "Angie, please I think that this is getting way out of hand. You're starting to scare me and I don't want to be with someone I'm scared of. Why don't you go out with Trevor, he seems to like you." and she said: (crying and screaming) "But I love you and you love me and you're staying with me no matter what! Don't listen to your friends don't listen to your family only listen to me!" and he said: "I don't love you, okay." and she said: "Yes you do and I'll make you if you don't." and I said: "Angie, he doesn't love you and you can't change that." and she says: "Shut-up you bitch you're the whole cause for this." Then she grabbed his hand and pulled him away. I was soooooooooo mad!

maybe he should smother her with attention, tell her he doesnt like her hanging around with her "friends" because they are poisoning her mind and turning her against him, then do the same thing with her family, and make her move to a different town, until she has no one left in her life but him, then he can safely dump her without fear of reprisal

barwars · 04-30-2004, 09:33 PM

I could be wrong.... but this may be a form of rape (which includes sexual harassment -- which this definately is)

04-30-2004, 03:20 PM	#1
Mrs. Ducky Member Senior Member Join Date: Apr 01, 2003 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 1,461	Forcing someone to date you Okay one of my best friends in the whole world broke up with his girlfriend because he didn't think they were ready to get into a relationship. Well, when he did she cried to her friend. The friend came up to him and told him that he'd better go back out with her or something bad would happen. He didn't let it bother him until all they did was tell him that they had to go back out because his ex girlfriend is "crazy about him". Well, he started dating a different girl and they got really mad at both of them. So his new girlfriend broke up with him. Well, it got so bad that his first girlfriend told her mom that he wouldn't date her so she called him and left this terrible message on their machine about how my friend was an ******* and that she was gonna hurt him if he didn't dateher daughter again. So now he's dating her again even though he really hates her. And she gets mad when me and his other female friends are hanging around with him because she claims we're trying to "steal her man". What do you guys think he should do about her?
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04-30-2004, 04:17 PM	#4
Moonlight Lady Member Forum Star Join Date: Aug 18, 2002 Posts: 16,052	Wow, that's really messed up. He move far away from these people. Nobody should be forced to date someone.
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04-30-2004, 04:22 PM	#5
Kitt James Dean Forum Veteran Join Date: Aug 16, 2001 Location: California Dreamin' Posts: 6,115	Meangha Holy hell, that's a screamer.

04-30-2004, 07:06 PM	#10
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04-30-2004, 07:11 PM	#11
Tuesday Weld I missed you all. hugs Forum Celebrity Join Date: Feb 02, 2003 Location: Having a great time. Posts: 22,285	That's awful. No one should be forced to be with someone, they don't love. I can think of a case like that and it was hell, for the man. The woman was a selfish, possessive, manipulative b----. Her parents even helped her manipulate the guy.
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04-30-2004, 03:48 PM	#2
Hollow Member Forum Superstar Join Date: Dec 16, 2001 Posts: 30,406	holy hell, that sounds so unrealistic.

04-30-2004, 03:51 PM	#3
Sterling Holobyte Harper House Senior Member Join Date: Nov 07, 2002 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 2,896	He should move to a different town because that girl and especially her mom are wacko's!

04-30-2004, 04:49 PM	#6
julian bozo Member Senior Member Join Date: Jun 30, 2001 Location: Cullman,Al,United States Posts: 1,534	I am confused Your friend is dating this girl he hates. He broke up with her. She her friends and mom all threatened him. He was in a relationship with a new girl but she broke it off. So that's the basic facts. First of all this girl must have no self esteem. I mean if I was dating someone and we broke up and they started going out with someone else. I would take it to mean they did not want me anymore. She sounds really desperate. That is sad she had to get her mom got involved. Tell your friend to break up with her if he is unhappy. Also if that girl or any her friends or mom threaten him anymore he can go to the police. Because then it becomes harassment. Why did that new girl break up with him?

04-30-2004, 09:33 PM	#15
barwars .. Forum Star Join Date: May 04, 2002 Posts: 13,273	I could be wrong.... but this may be a form of rape (which includes sexual harassment -- which this definately is)