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~Teddybear~ · 04-11-2004, 04:42 PM

I'm 14 years old, and I've never kissed a boy, and i haven''t had a bf in almos 2 years. My best friend was telling me how many boys she kissed and how young she was when she got her first kiss. She told me that i was very pretty (i know my looks aren't an issue, everyone says I'm pretty) and she said that she was shocked because of my age. She also said that it ould be that boys are intimidated by me because i'm sophisticated and smart, but i feel pathetic compared to her....what could i be doing wrong?

Rhiannon · 04-11-2004, 04:49 PM

I didn't kiss a boy until I was 15

¤I Love Clay Aiken¤ · 04-11-2004, 04:51 PM

Youre only 14. Im 20. Meh.

dawsongirl · 04-11-2004, 05:13 PM

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Originally posted by ~Teddybear~
I'm 14 years old, and I've never kissed a boy, and i haven''t had a bf in almos 2 years. My best friend was telling me how many boys she kissed and how young she was when she got her first kiss. She told me that i was very pretty (i know my looks aren't an issue, everyone says I'm pretty) and she said that she was shocked because of my age. She also said that it ould be that boys are intimidated by me because i'm sophisticated and smart, but i feel pathetic compared to her....what could i be doing wrong?

Nothing. Don't let her intimidate you. It's your life...if you feel comfy, then go with it.

Now if you end up like me, 24 and never been kissed, then you might start to wonder.

But I'm gonna use that "Guys are intimidated by me" excuse from now on.

Kazza · 04-11-2004, 05:25 PM

I wouldn't worry about it! You are only 14yrs old and a lot more interesting things await for you to do besides kissing a boy

Nanny Fine · 04-11-2004, 05:29 PM

My goodness, you are so young. I didn't was...dateless...until I was 21 years old. When you are ready, you will be ready. I'm going through a whole date thing right now - and I'm a grown, 30 something year old adult with a child! You have plenty of time for this stuff! Enjoy being a kid!

Mijada · 04-11-2004, 05:50 PM

I was 19 before I was kissed by a guy so don't feel so bad. And anyway, who's to say your friend isn't exaggerating about the number of boys she has kissed. Even if she is telling you the truth she is only going to wind up with a bad reputation later on because kissing will definitely lead up to other things. You don't want that to happen to you so just be patient. You have plenty of time.

David · 04-11-2004, 06:25 PM

it's okay, don't feel pressured. You're still young and have many years ahead of you. Just let everything fall into place and you'll see it happen sooner than you expect. (wow i just sounded like a fortune cookie...)

Georgia's on my Mind · 04-11-2004, 06:51 PM

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Originally posted by dawsongirl
Nothing. Don't let her intimidate you. It's your life...if you feel comfy, then go with it.

Now if you end up like me, 24 and never been kissed, then you might start to wonder.

But I'm gonna use that "Guys are intimidated by me" excuse from now on.

yep, 17 here and never been kissed.

Hollow · 04-11-2004, 07:07 PM

oh my, im so glad i've stopped caring what people think.

*Marilyn Monroe* · 04-11-2004, 07:42 PM

It shouldn't matter when as long as you like the guy. Sounds like you don't even have a boyfriend...maybe you should work on getting one of those first, then worry about kissing him.

Penny Lane · 04-11-2004, 08:07 PM

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Originally posted by Georgia's on my Mind
yep, 17 here and never been kissed.

Aw.....................

Swimfan85 · 04-11-2004, 08:22 PM

its all good, someone of my friends havent had kisses, so dont worry...personally I am a p.i.m.p. hah

MandieR1980 · 04-11-2004, 08:23 PM

There are way more important things in life than this who cares what other people think.

barwars · 04-11-2004, 08:26 PM

Is there a difference between making out and kissing??

Because Ive made-out with girls before....
but Ive never really "kissed" a girl

know what I mean??

04-11-2004, 04:42 PM	#1
~Teddybear~ The New and Improved Forum Regular Join Date: Jun 17, 2002 Location: I'm eveywhere...I could be right behind you.... Posts: 547	I fell pressured... I'm 14 years old, and I've never kissed a boy, and i haven''t had a bf in almos 2 years. My best friend was telling me how many boys she kissed and how young she was when she got her first kiss. She told me that i was very pretty (i know my looks aren't an issue, everyone says I'm pretty) and she said that she was shocked because of my age. She also said that it ould be that boys are intimidated by me because i'm sophisticated and smart, but i feel pathetic compared to her....what could i be doing wrong?
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04-11-2004, 04:49 PM	#2
Rhiannon oh, snap! Forum Fanatic Join Date: Jul 19, 2002 Location: middle of nowhere Posts: 11,097	I didn't kiss a boy until I was 15
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04-11-2004, 04:51 PM	#3
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04-11-2004, 05:29 PM	#6
Nanny Fine Justine and Holden.. Senior Member Join Date: Jan 01, 2003 Location: Watching The Ellen Degeneres Show and luvin' it Posts: 2,852	My goodness, you are so young. I didn't was...dateless...until I was 21 years old. When you are ready, you will be ready. I'm going through a whole date thing right now - and I'm a grown, 30 something year old adult with a child! You have plenty of time for this stuff! Enjoy being a kid!
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04-11-2004, 06:25 PM	#8
David mcphee. Forum Superstar Join Date: Jan 30, 2003 Location: jacksonville, FL. Posts: 28,115	it's okay, don't feel pressured. You're still young and have many years ahead of you. Just let everything fall into place and you'll see it happen sooner than you expect. (wow i just sounded like a fortune cookie...)
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04-11-2004, 05:25 PM	#5
Kazza Member Forum 3000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 17, 2003 Posts: 3,244	I wouldn't worry about it! You are only 14yrs old and a lot more interesting things await for you to do besides kissing a boy

04-11-2004, 05:50 PM	#7
Mijada Spencers mom Forum 4000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 02, 2001 Location: eastern US Posts: 4,093	I was 19 before I was kissed by a guy so don't feel so bad. And anyway, who's to say your friend isn't exaggerating about the number of boys she has kissed. Even if she is telling you the truth she is only going to wind up with a bad reputation later on because kissing will definitely lead up to other things. You don't want that to happen to you so just be patient. You have plenty of time.

04-11-2004, 07:07 PM	#10
Hollow Member Forum Superstar Join Date: Dec 16, 2001 Posts: 30,406	oh my, im so glad i've stopped caring what people think.

04-11-2004, 07:42 PM	#11
Marilyn Monroe Diamonds... Forum 4000 Club Member Join Date: Aug 24, 2001 Location: Where gentlemen actually prefer brunettes Posts: 4,811	It shouldn't matter when as long as you like the guy. Sounds like you don't even have a boyfriend...maybe you should work on getting one of those first, then worry about kissing him.
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04-11-2004, 08:22 PM	#13
Swimfan85 Member Forum Veteran Join Date: Jul 04, 2001 Posts: 7,030	its all good, someone of my friends havent had kisses, so dont worry...personally I am a p.i.m.p. hah

04-11-2004, 08:23 PM	#14
MandieR1980 Member Senior Member Join Date: Mar 03, 2001 Location: East Taunton, Massachusetts Posts: 2,635	There are way more important things in life than this who cares what other people think.
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04-11-2004, 08:26 PM	#15
barwars .. Forum Star Join Date: May 04, 2002 Posts: 13,273	Is there a difference between making out and kissing?? Because Ive made-out with girls before.... but Ive never really "kissed" a girl know what I mean??