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¤I Love Clay Aiken¤ · 03-31-2004, 12:03 AM

I went over Amandas @ 9 for games and such and at about 10:35 or so the phone rings and Diana was like.. its your mom! So she gives me the phone but I accidently hang up, but I can hear like a scream. So right off the bat I knew what is was.

I feel fine.. I mean, Im sad and all.. but Im not whicked upset or anything. I dunno.. its my first human death thats close to me so who knows.. Im sure itll hit me when I go to bed and start thinking. Weird how lastnight we just saw her, me my mom and Amanda. Last time I had seen her before that was on Thanksgiving, but we went down lastnite because she had pneumonia.. we were gonna go again tomorrow too. My moms mad now that we didnt go down tonight, but we didnt know. My dads coming home from Maine tonight so they can make arrangements tomorrow. Meangya, she cant contact her brother or anything..

AKA · 03-31-2004, 12:07 AM

I'm so, so sorry to hear that. I'm very close to my grandmother, and I can't imagine what that's like. You'll be in my thoughts.

~*Hannah_Lee*~ · 03-31-2004, 12:09 AM

I'm so sorry Crystal. I know what you're going through. Losing my grandmother was the hardest thing I've ever experienced.

¤I Love Clay Aiken¤ · 03-31-2004, 12:09 AM

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Originally posted by AKA
I'm so, so sorry to hear that. I'm very close to my grandmother, and I can't imagine what that's like. You'll be in my thoughts.

Thank you.

I think why Im not all shook up about it is because I was expecting it at some point. I mean, she was 88 years old.. she lived well over the average years. Im also a firm believer that everything happens for a reason, and when your life is complete on Earth, you move on.

-*Leah*- · 03-31-2004, 12:11 AM

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Originally posted by ¤MsConanOBrien¤
I went over Amandas @ 9 for games and such and at about 10:35 or so the phone rings and Diana was like.. its your mom! So she gives me the phone but I accidently hang up, but I can hear like a scream. So right off the bat I knew what is was. I feel fine.. I mean, Im sad and all.. but Im not whicked upset or anything. I dunno.. its my first human death thats close to me so who knows.. Im sure itll hit me when I go to bed and start thinking. Weird how lastnight we just saw her, me my mom and Amanda. Last time I had seen her before that was on Thanksgiving, but we went down lastnite because she had pneumonia.. we were gonna go again tomorrow too. My moms mad now that we didnt go down tonight, but we didnt know. My dads coming home from Maine tonight so they can make arrangements tomorrow. Meangya, she cant contact her brother or anything..

I am so sorry Crystal. When my aunt Margaret first died last year, I think I was in shock at first. It didn't hit me until it got time for our decoration at my grandparents graves...it was really hard not seeing her. I still think about her a lot, and it been just over a year, but it gets easier with time, it really does. Just hang in there.

TJ · 03-31-2004, 12:23 AM

Sorry to hear about your loss. I remember visiting my grandmother in Chicago for Thanksgiving and then she passed away 2 weeks later. My mom was so glad she had that one final chance to see her since we lived so far away. Sometimes they just know when it's their time. Be thankful you got to see who that one final time.

Janice · 03-31-2004, 12:40 AM

My deepest condolences to you on your loss Crystal.

Small Wonderian · 03-31-2004, 12:47 AM

I'm sorry to hear of your grandmother's passing. I extend my sincerest condolences to you.

Mr. Television · 03-31-2004, 12:57 AM

I've very sorry to hear about your grandmother. I lost all my Grandparents but I still think of them. You have my deepest sympathies.

Chad22 · 03-31-2004, 12:59 AM

Im Sorry To Hear About That.

consentida · 03-31-2004, 01:01 AM

Oh my gosh. I'm so sorry to hear about your grandmother.

crystals · 03-31-2004, 04:44 AM

I'm so sorry. When the first death happened to one of my pets that was the first time I had ever experienced losing something close to me. I always react with shock first. Then, the tears start to flow. I didn't even get over the death of my pet until 2 months after the death. It was a miracle I even passed my first semester final exams in the state I was in.

My deepest condolences to you and your family.

dandelion wine · 03-31-2004, 04:55 AM

Crystal, I'm so sorry about your grandmother. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.

Tuesday morning I recieved a call from my great-aunt, letting me know that my grandfather had just passed away the night before. I don't want to take away from what you're going through right now, so I'll just leave it at that.

Faith · 03-31-2004, 06:01 AM

I am so sorry Crystal

Tuesday Weld · 03-31-2004, 06:45 AM

I'm very sorry, Crystal.

Almost a year ago, I lost MY Grandmother and it was and is still painful.

03-31-2004, 12:03 AM	#1
¤I Love Clay Aiken¤ MISS APRIL Forum Addict Join Date: Jul 19, 2001 Location: Parsonsfield ME Shaws - Screwing my way up the employment ladder! Posts: 68,780	My grandmother passed away I went over Amandas @ 9 for games and such and at about 10:35 or so the phone rings and Diana was like.. its your mom! So she gives me the phone but I accidently hang up, but I can hear like a scream. So right off the bat I knew what is was. I feel fine.. I mean, Im sad and all.. but Im not whicked upset or anything. I dunno.. its my first human death thats close to me so who knows.. Im sure itll hit me when I go to bed and start thinking. Weird how lastnight we just saw her, me my mom and Amanda. Last time I had seen her before that was on Thanksgiving, but we went down lastnite because she had pneumonia.. we were gonna go again tomorrow too. My moms mad now that we didnt go down tonight, but we didnt know. My dads coming home from Maine tonight so they can make arrangements tomorrow. Meangya, she cant contact her brother or anything..
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03-31-2004, 12:09 AM	#3
~Hannah_Lee~ Let's dance in style Forum Veteran Join Date: Apr 09, 2002 Location: Alabama Posts: 7,358	I'm so sorry Crystal. I know what you're going through. Losing my grandmother was the hardest thing I've ever experienced.
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03-31-2004, 12:47 AM	#8
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03-31-2004, 12:57 AM	#9
Mr. Television 23 Years at Sitcoms Online Forum Icon Join Date: Jun 06, 2003 Location: Somewhere you're Not Posts: 62,132	I've very sorry to hear about your grandmother. I lost all my Grandparents but I still think of them. You have my deepest sympathies.
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03-31-2004, 04:44 AM	#12
crystals Member Senior Member Join Date: Feb 02, 2004 Location: Canada Posts: 1,829	I'm so sorry. When the first death happened to one of my pets that was the first time I had ever experienced losing something close to me. I always react with shock first. Then, the tears start to flow. I didn't even get over the death of my pet until 2 months after the death. It was a miracle I even passed my first semester final exams in the state I was in. My deepest condolences to you and your family.
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03-31-2004, 12:07 AM	#2
AKA Member Forum Star Join Date: Dec 17, 2001 Posts: 15,746	I'm so, so sorry to hear that. I'm very close to my grandmother, and I can't imagine what that's like. You'll be in my thoughts.

03-31-2004, 12:23 AM	#6
TJ Site Owner Administrator Forum Star Join Date: Feb 03, 2000 Location: Marietta, GA Posts: 10,745	Sorry to hear about your loss. I remember visiting my grandmother in Chicago for Thanksgiving and then she passed away 2 weeks later. My mom was so glad she had that one final chance to see her since we lived so far away. Sometimes they just know when it's their time. Be thankful you got to see who that one final time.

03-31-2004, 12:40 AM	#7
Janice Retired Admin - Hollywood Swingin' Forum Legend Join Date: Aug 03, 2001 Location: Beantown Posts: 36,388	My deepest condolences to you on your loss Crystal.

03-31-2004, 12:59 AM	#10
Chad22 Captain Juke N Jive Moderator Forum Addict Join Date: Nov 23, 2002 Location: Caribou, Maine Posts: 71,662	Im Sorry To Hear About That.

03-31-2004, 01:01 AM	#11
consentida oh, you pretty things Forum 3000 Club Member Join Date: Jan 21, 2002 Location: New York Posts: 3,841	Oh my gosh. I'm so sorry to hear about your grandmother.

03-31-2004, 04:55 AM	#13
dandelion wine ~ Forum Superstar Join Date: Jul 20, 2003 Location: Behind the Couch Posts: 34,967	Crystal, I'm so sorry about your grandmother. My deepest sympathies to you and your family. Tuesday morning I recieved a call from my great-aunt, letting me know that my grandfather had just passed away the night before. I don't want to take away from what you're going through right now, so I'll just leave it at that.
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03-31-2004, 06:01 AM	#14
Faith Internet Junkie Forum Fanatic Join Date: Sep 07, 2002 Location: HELL Posts: 9,879	I am so sorry Crystal

03-31-2004, 06:45 AM	#15
Tuesday Weld I missed you all. hugs Forum Celebrity Join Date: Feb 02, 2003 Location: Having a great time. Posts: 22,285	I'm very sorry, Crystal. Almost a year ago, I lost MY Grandmother and it was and is still painful.
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