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Cheryl Harrell · 05-12-2003, 03:39 PM

Fortunately my hubby Mike understands & likes CATM too. So I have no trouble getting him to watch the show!

He still doesn't understand tho, why I cry over him. But he has his stars & I have mine!

Prince · 05-13-2003, 09:18 PM

I have enjoyed reading all the posts on this thread. You inner most thoughts are so moving. It is so nice to know that as fans, we are not alone in our thinking huh? I'm old enough to remember CATM when it was first broadcast...and can remember thinking that he was so handsome. I also remember his death..sadly to say. But my real connection with this man came when I just happened to tune into TV Land's marathon of CATM that weekend in January a couple years back. I can't even explain it. I liked Freddie back in the 70's but wasn't over the moon in love or anything. As soon as I began watching the show...I was hooked. I couldn't drag myself away from the TV....and the rest is history. Not only have I fallen for this beautiful man...his heart and soul...his eyes, his tight jeans, his dimpled smile and that incredible accent and voice...but I have fallen in love with his spirit. He moves me though my day..filling me with ease and comfort. I will always be grateful for his laughter and that oh so tender heart...but most of all for the joy he has brought to each and every one of us. Freddie friendships are the best. I am so grateful.

Pitooey · 05-13-2003, 11:04 PM

When Freddie left us........ He left behind some important things for us to ponder.

One of those things was "Don't do drugs", If he had to teach us anything that was the first thing he taught us.

He also told us to "Stay away from firearms" Even though I know people have firearms this is an invaluable lesson that Freddie taught us. Look at the countless innocent children killed because of them.

He also taught us that if we have any emotional problems "Seek the help we need" he would want us to be strong for our family, friends and everyone who crosses our paths.

He also taught us that suicide/accident is not the way to go. He told us that "YES I was angry at alot of things in my life but, suicide is not the way" He did what he did because he had no control over his own life anymore. He couldn't balance out his life because it got under his own control so he would tell us "NOT" to go that route.

He would tell us "Learn from my mistakes and don't make the mistakes that I made" and we've all learned and listened to him.

Beside his humor and great potential he taught us these invaluable lessons.

sfditusa · 05-13-2003, 11:23 PM

My question now is, how did we all come to the same conclusion that Freddie was so kind hearted, and an all around great person.

Was it from viewing the way he portrayed Chico? Was it from studying his actions, and any non-verbal cues we picked up on? Or was it what we wanted to believe. I find it interesting that we all came to the same conclusion. Any thoughts on that?

Sandra

Cheryl Harrell · 05-14-2003, 01:34 AM

I agree with ya'll. When I first got into CATM & Freddie, I thought well maybe Chico is who I love being I didn't know the real Freddie & what he was like. Plus I read all this stuff that made him out to be some kind of nut for killing himself. But after reading his moms book plus some stuff some folks who knew him had written on here about him, plus reading some otherr articles on him, it all helped me discover what a sweet dear he was. Plus the fan fiction stories helped too. I figured any guy who'd cry over sad movies just has to be sweet & kind. As time went on I grew to love him more & more.

I can so relate to Macca.

I wasn't into him then or in love with him but when the TVLAND re-runs came on something hit me smack over the head & I never got over it

This is a GREAT support group!

Pitooey · 05-15-2003, 12:52 AM

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Originally posted by sfditusa
My question now is, how did we all come to the same conclusion that Freddie was so kind hearted, and an all around great person.

Was it from viewing the way he portrayed Chico? Was it from studying his actions, and any non-verbal cues we picked up on? Or was it what we wanted to believe. I find it interesting that we all came to the same conclusion. Any thoughts on that?

Sandra

To me Freddie grew up in New York a place where I have lived my entire life. In hearing his comedy and satire I felt like I understood him and related to his ways of life. When he did his stand up I understood his plight. I may not have been heavy (fat) growing up like he was but, everything that came out of his comedic mouth I understood. He spoke like I did at the time. He was the first comic that I applauded. (Although there were many) I applauded Freddie. He was also my age which I found great...

Did I want to believe that he was a good and gentle soul? I believe in my heart he was. He didn't turn his back on his mother and bought her that house he promised her. Even if he had all his problems, he fulfilled his promise to his Mom. Only a person with a heart would do that.

He did love his wife and child. I can attest to it only because I read about it and remembered how happy he was during this time. He had a good heart.............

Joy · 05-16-2003, 03:33 PM

well Freddie wasn't a corpse when you fell in love with him so i don't think that counts. Does it???
And i agree 100%
My family thinks my elevator doesn't go all the way to the top in regards to Freddie they don't understand.
I love freddie not only because of the beautiful packaging, Ha ha aha
but because he was a man who made me laugh and forget about all that was not so funny in my life at that time, and because he cared about others.

wheeeone · 05-17-2003, 02:26 PM

Oh my....how could I not post on this thread?

I am one of the very silent members of the Freddie Family here and remain grateful for your grace on that. When I started to read all of your response's to the original question....the tears started to flow. To know that the depth of Freddie's influence in other's life is shared by all of you makes those all encompassing grief filled moments that sneak past the "everyday life" protective wall of mine....a little easier to go through.

I thank you all for your beautiful words and for sharing your hearts in such a profound way in your responses. You have filled my heart with comfort that wraps around the Freddie memories in my own heart.

Prince · 05-17-2003, 09:47 PM

I just had to reply to your reaction Wheeeone. I can remember back to when I first started posting on this board and I read about your encounters with Freddie Prinze. I loved him with such intensity after what you wrote about him...his kindness and tenderness toward you and your girlfriend backstage at the CATM set. You are so fortunate to have actually meant the man of our affection. I loved your writings and how everything was so positive. Freddie is not here to defend his actions...and we will never really know why he chose the path he did...but it is not for us to judge or question..but instead enjoy the enormous body of work that he left behind. His talent is unmatched for someone so young. Thanks for sharing your heart with us Wheeeone. I will never forget your stories. Everyone who has posted at this thread has poured out thier hearts and love for our Prince. As a big fan...I just want to say thank you...I have enjoyed reading each and every one of them.

kriziazafiro · 05-17-2003, 10:49 PM

I agree with Macca...
I know Freddie loves all of us, but I am sure you have a special place,....

Gracias,...

Cheryl Harrell · 05-18-2003, 03:15 AM

You were so lucky to have known him. I bet he really liked you...

05-12-2003, 03:39 PM	#16
Cheryl Harrell I Love You Mike 4-Ever Forum Veteran Join Date: Mar 23, 2001 Location: Pixley!!!! Actually VA--USA LOL! Posts: 6,192	Fortunately my hubby Mike understands & likes CATM too. So I have no trouble getting him to watch the show! He still doesn't understand tho, why I cry over him. But he has his stars & I have mine!
	__________________ RIP darling Mike. I love you forever... You are with Freddie Prinze & Jesus now. 1951-2009 "Make it your way, who can beat the Lord, the Son of God. Dear Lord, help me be strong where I am weak, if it be your will"-- The Late Freddie Prinze Sr

05-13-2003, 09:18 PM	#17
Prince Prince of Peace Senior Member Join Date: Jan 26, 2001 Posts: 1,137	Freddie Prinze I have enjoyed reading all the posts on this thread. You inner most thoughts are so moving. It is so nice to know that as fans, we are not alone in our thinking huh? I'm old enough to remember CATM when it was first broadcast...and can remember thinking that he was so handsome. I also remember his death..sadly to say. But my real connection with this man came when I just happened to tune into TV Land's marathon of CATM that weekend in January a couple years back. I can't even explain it. I liked Freddie back in the 70's but wasn't over the moon in love or anything. As soon as I began watching the show...I was hooked. I couldn't drag myself away from the TV....and the rest is history. Not only have I fallen for this beautiful man...his heart and soul...his eyes, his tight jeans, his dimpled smile and that incredible accent and voice...but I have fallen in love with his spirit. He moves me though my day..filling me with ease and comfort. I will always be grateful for his laughter and that oh so tender heart...but most of all for the joy he has brought to each and every one of us. Freddie friendships are the best. I am so grateful. Attached Images
	__________________ A friend is faithful, trusting and helpful…someone that realizes your imperfections and stands by you--Freddie Prinze "Come here to me" --- Freddie Prinze "Beautiful, Beautiful, Beautiful...Beautiful Boy" When I watched Freddie Prinze perform...his future was so bright that it burned my eyes. Live simply, Love generously, Care deeply, Speak kindly and Leave the rest to God. "Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle."

05-13-2003, 11:04 PM	#18
Pitooey Member Forum Star Join Date: Feb 15, 2001 Location: Rocking in Transylvania. Posts: 15,042	When Freddie left us........ He left behind some important things for us to ponder. One of those things was "Don't do drugs", If he had to teach us anything that was the first thing he taught us. He also told us to "Stay away from firearms" Even though I know people have firearms this is an invaluable lesson that Freddie taught us. Look at the countless innocent children killed because of them. He also taught us that if we have any emotional problems "Seek the help we need" he would want us to be strong for our family, friends and everyone who crosses our paths. He also taught us that suicide/accident is not the way to go. He told us that "YES I was angry at alot of things in my life but, suicide is not the way" He did what he did because he had no control over his own life anymore. He couldn't balance out his life because it got under his own control so he would tell us "NOT" to go that route. He would tell us "Learn from my mistakes and don't make the mistakes that I made" and we've all learned and listened to him. Beside his humor and great potential he taught us these invaluable lessons.
	__________________ Pitooey... AKA JennyLee - I love the Monkees all over again! *SAY NO TO DRUGS* Jesus saves...

05-14-2003, 01:34 AM	#20
Cheryl Harrell I Love You Mike 4-Ever Forum Veteran Join Date: Mar 23, 2001 Location: Pixley!!!! Actually VA--USA LOL! Posts: 6,192	I agree with ya'll. When I first got into CATM & Freddie, I thought well maybe Chico is who I love being I didn't know the real Freddie & what he was like. Plus I read all this stuff that made him out to be some kind of nut for killing himself. But after reading his moms book plus some stuff some folks who knew him had written on here about him, plus reading some otherr articles on him, it all helped me discover what a sweet dear he was. Plus the fan fiction stories helped too. I figured any guy who'd cry over sad movies just has to be sweet & kind. As time went on I grew to love him more & more. I can so relate to Macca. I wasn't into him then or in love with him but when the TVLAND re-runs came on something hit me smack over the head & I never got over it This is a GREAT support group! Attached Images

05-16-2003, 03:33 PM	#22
Joy Member Forum 3000 Club Member Join Date: May 10, 2001 Location: In Mn lovin my DVD and the Prinze of comedy!!! Posts: 3,247	well Freddie wasn't a corpse when you fell in love with him so i don't think that counts. Does it??? And i agree 100% My family thinks my elevator doesn't go all the way to the top in regards to Freddie they don't understand. I love freddie not only because of the beautiful packaging, Ha ha aha but because he was a man who made me laugh and forget about all that was not so funny in my life at that time, and because he cared about others.
	__________________ <img src="http://www.quia.com/files/quia/users/crimscience/Avatars/angiesigbar.jpg">

05-13-2003, 11:23 PM	#19
sfditusa Member Frequent Poster Join Date: Aug 01, 2002 Posts: 168	My question now is, how did we all come to the same conclusion that Freddie was so kind hearted, and an all around great person. Was it from viewing the way he portrayed Chico? Was it from studying his actions, and any non-verbal cues we picked up on? Or was it what we wanted to believe. I find it interesting that we all came to the same conclusion. Any thoughts on that? Sandra

05-17-2003, 02:26 PM	#23
wheeeone Member Frequent Poster Join Date: May 11, 2001 Location: Woodland Hills, Ca Posts: 138	Oh my....how could I not post on this thread? I am one of the very silent members of the Freddie Family here and remain grateful for your grace on that. When I started to read all of your response's to the original question....the tears started to flow. To know that the depth of Freddie's influence in other's life is shared by all of you makes those all encompassing grief filled moments that sneak past the "everyday life" protective wall of mine....a little easier to go through. I thank you all for your beautiful words and for sharing your hearts in such a profound way in your responses. You have filled my heart with comfort that wraps around the Freddie memories in my own heart.
	__________________ Practice Kindness

05-17-2003, 09:47 PM	#24
Prince Prince of Peace Senior Member Join Date: Jan 26, 2001 Posts: 1,137	Reply to Wheeeone I just had to reply to your reaction Wheeeone. I can remember back to when I first started posting on this board and I read about your encounters with Freddie Prinze. I loved him with such intensity after what you wrote about him...his kindness and tenderness toward you and your girlfriend backstage at the CATM set. You are so fortunate to have actually meant the man of our affection. I loved your writings and how everything was so positive. Freddie is not here to defend his actions...and we will never really know why he chose the path he did...but it is not for us to judge or question..but instead enjoy the enormous body of work that he left behind. His talent is unmatched for someone so young. Thanks for sharing your heart with us Wheeeone. I will never forget your stories. Everyone who has posted at this thread has poured out thier hearts and love for our Prince. As a big fan...I just want to say thank you...I have enjoyed reading each and every one of them. Attached Images

05-17-2003, 10:49 PM	#25
kriziazafiro Pensando en ti,... Frequent Poster Join Date: May 20, 2002 Location: If love is blind, what's the purpose of lingerie? Posts: 210	Gracias,Wheeeone,... I agree with Macca... I know Freddie loves all of us, but I am sure you have a special place,.... Gracias,...
	__________________ Freddie: "If tears could build a stairway, and memories a lane, I'd walk right up to heaven and bring you home again."

05-18-2003, 03:15 AM	#26
Cheryl Harrell I Love You Mike 4-Ever Forum Veteran Join Date: Mar 23, 2001 Location: Pixley!!!! Actually VA--USA LOL! Posts: 6,192	You were so lucky to have known him. I bet he really liked you...