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dawsongirl · 10-17-2006, 09:39 PM

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Originally Posted by JO jr

IN READING THESE COMMENTS, IT MAKES ME WONDER IF ANY OF YOU HAVE TALKED TO YOUR DOCTOR, OR HAVE DONE RESEARCH ON THE POSSIBLITY OF ENDOMETRIOSIS.

MY FRIEND DESCRIBED THE PAIN AND SYSTOMS TO ME. THEY ARE MORE INTENSE THAN WHAT USUALLY ACCOMODATES A PERIOD. SHE SAID THERE WERE DAYS SHE COULDN'T EVEN GO INTO WORK, DUE TO THE PAIN. SHE WAS PRESCRIBED BIRTH CONTROL YEARS AGO TO CONTROL IT.

PLEASE, DO YOURSELF A FAVOR, AND INQUIRE ABOUT THIS; BECAUSE IF IN FACT ANY OF YOU HAVE IT, YOU MIGHT BE ABLE TO GET RELIEF! HOPE THIS HELPS

My mom had that. Her periods were insanely heavy. They just took her uterus out eventually.

~LadyJess~ · 10-17-2006, 09:55 PM

Mine's not bad. Usually only lasts 3 or 4 days and the 2nd day is the only heavy one. If I get cramps at all it's the first night and it takes awhile to fall asleep. I do get pretty pissy/emotional the week before my period starts, but once again that's it.

Ireneparalegal · 10-17-2006, 11:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Brieannas21

I suffer from chronic menstrual cramps, My cramps are so bad that they go from my lower abdomen to my lower back and down my legs. I also have a heavy blood flow, from the time I start till the time I stop. When I was in the 9th grade I was put on birth control pills to deal with the pain, but that didn't help at all. So after that, I was prescribed naproxen for a while. Then I stopped taken that and now I just take 3 Aleve every couple hrs. It dulls the pain to where I can stand it.

So I feel your daughters pain.

One BC that she can take is the seasonle you have like 4 periods a yr. And theres another one that my doc told me about, I can't think of the name right now.

As a matter of fact, my daughter's doctor wanted her to try the regular BC pills and see how that works, if it didn't help, she would put her on the ones that cause one to only have four periods a year. But I guess my daughter was so frustrated with the regular BC pills and having to remember to take them, that she said "forget it." It's her choice, I can't force it on her. Maybe she will change her mind later.

Brieannas21 · 10-17-2006, 11:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Ireneparalegal

As a matter of fact, my daughter's doctor wanted her to try the regular BC pills and see how that works, if it didn't help, she would put her on the ones that cause one to only have four periods a year. But I guess my daughter was so frustrated with the regular BC pills and having to remember to take them, that she said "forget it." It's her choice, I can't force it on her. Maybe she will change her mind later.

The birth control pills didn't do anything but make me gain weight and prevented me from getting pregnant. I think it was just a waste of time, after a year on BC pills I was put on naproxen and then I was taken off that because my mom didn't want it to become and addiction. After that I took Tylenol and that stopped working and now I take Aleve. My husband thinks that I'll overdose on Aleve because I'll take 3 every two hrs or so. Men just don't know the pain a woman goes through.

Ireneparalegal · 10-18-2006, 12:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Brieannas21

The birth control pills didn't do anything but make me gain weight and prevented me from getting pregnant. I think it was just a waste of time, after a year on BC pills I was put on naproxen and then I was taken off that because my mom didn't want it to become and addiction. After that I took Tylenol and that stopped working and now I take Aleve. My husband thinks that I'll overdose on Aleve because I'll take 3 every two hrs or so. Men just don't know the pain a woman goes through.

They sure don't. The thing abt BC pills is, it's pointless for me for the reasons you stated and because my tubes are tied. I am 41, I take other medication for back pain and other stuff without having to worry abt taking another pill. I WANT MY UTERUS OUT

ponytail · 10-18-2006, 07:04 AM

My periods are irregular, either too early or late. I do recommend progesterone cream. You can get at the health food store. Look at the label though, if it parabens in it don't buy. Look for all natural progesterone cream. Follow the directions, it relieves alot of the symptoms.

¤I Love Clay Aiken¤ · 10-18-2006, 08:30 AM

My period is the worst thing ever. I got it when I was... 13 and itd be off and up until I was about 17/18 where it finally got somewhat normal. The first few years Id get it once a year, every 6 months, etc.. totally unpredictable. Past couple years has probably been the most regular, and I find that when Im eating healthy and sticking to my diet, its the best. I went to the gyno for it last year and was put on the pill, but I didnt like it so I stopped. It worked too! lol. My period is ridiculously heavy - wearing 3 overnight pads and that doesnt always work. Its very frustrating, especially when Id have it for 14 days and then get it every 2.5 weeks. Thats how it was all last year before the pill and it really took a toll on me. Im also THE BIGGEST BITCH during it and get very emotional, Im like a rollercoaster. Cramps come and go.. some periods theyre mellow [like right now], but last time I had it [which was from this July-September] they were aweeeeeeeeeeeful in the beginning. I was at work laying on a table wanting to throw up. One way I can always tell Im gonna get my period is I get diahrea the first or 2nd day, no idea why, but it happens. My period isnt too bad right now, but Ive gotten back on track eating wise this past week or so and I really think thats affecting it. I hope so, Ive been trying really hard. As for other symptoms, Ill wake up in the morning with cold-like symptoms and as the morning goes on, they dissapear.

Ireneparalegal · 10-18-2006, 10:25 AM

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Originally Posted by ¤I Love Clay Aiken¤

My period is the worst thing ever. I got it when I was... 13 and itd be off and up until I was about 17/18 where it finally got somewhat normal. The first few years Id get it once a year, every 6 months, etc.. totally unpredictable. Past couple years has probably been the most regular, and I find that when Im eating healthy and sticking to my diet, its the best. I went to the gyno for it last year and was put on the pill, but I didnt like it so I stopped. It worked too! lol. My period is ridiculously heavy - wearing 3 overnight pads and that doesnt always work. Its very frustrating, especially when Id have it for 14 days and then get it every 2.5 weeks. Thats how it was all last year before the pill and it really took a toll on me. Im also THE BIGGEST BITCH during it and get very emotional, Im like a rollercoaster. Cramps come and go.. some periods theyre mellow [like right now], but last time I had it [which was from this July-September] they were aweeeeeeeeeeeful in the beginning. I was at work laying on a table wanting to throw up. One way I can always tell Im gonna get my period is I get diahrea the first or 2nd day, no idea why, but it happens. My period isnt too bad right now, but Ive gotten back on track eating wise this past week or so and I really think thats affecting it. I hope so, Ive been trying really hard. As for other symptoms, Ill wake up in the morning with cold-like symptoms and as the morning goes on, they dissapear.

Wow!!!! That is BAD!!!!!!!!! Damn, the crap us ladies go through. I don't know how it would be if I had to go to work with this going on. I know I would be calling in sick a lot and ending up losing my job. I am blessed I can be home and work from here. I feel for the ladies who have to deal with going to work and having to deal with pain, cramps, and all the other symptoms. Men, really haven't a clue. I am sure they think they can understand, especially if they have a girlfriend or wife, but they can't imagine the overall pain and drama, not to mention the moodiness that can come with it.

However, I don't want men to think that whenever a woman is moody or bitchy, that she is ON HER PERIOD. That is the stupidest thing that can come out of a man's mouth. "Oh she is bitchy, it's that time of the month." NO SUCKER. Maybe there are other things going on in our lives, like work, business, career, financial problems, stupid men, etc. Hey, I have seen plenty of "bitchy" men, and I highly doubt it's because they are having their period.

Chocoholic · 10-18-2006, 03:07 PM

I hate getting my period!

I get all irritable and break out in zits during the week before, then I'm cramped, bloated, bleeding, and pissy for another week.

¤I Love Clay Aiken¤ · 10-18-2006, 08:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Ireneparalegal

Wow!!!! That is BAD!!!!!!!!! Damn, the crap us ladies go through. I don't know how it would be if I had to go to work with this going on. I know I would be calling in sick a lot and ending up losing my job. I am blessed I can be home and work from here. I feel for the ladies who have to deal with going to work and having to deal with pain, cramps, and all the other symptoms. Men, really haven't a clue. I am sure they think they can understand, especially if they have a girlfriend or wife, but they can't imagine the overall pain and drama, not to mention the moodiness that can come with it.

However, I don't want men to think that whenever a woman is moody or bitchy, that she is ON HER PERIOD. That is the stupidest thing that can come out of a man's mouth. "Oh she is bitchy, it's that time of the month." NO SUCKER. Maybe there are other things going on in our lives, like work, business, career, financial problems, stupid men, etc. Hey, I have seen plenty of "bitchy" men, and I highly doubt it's because they are having their period.

Its awwwwweful. Usually the heavier/more intense the period is, the more the symptoms are noticeable. Like this time around its pretty mellow so my mood swings, cravings, etc. arent so bad. Sometimes when its really bad I have cravings in the worst way and I mean THE WORST WAY lol.

Ireneparalegal · 10-18-2006, 10:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Hollywood Rock Chic

My periods, as I stated before are easy; and I think the reason why, is because I am a very active person (I run 8 miles a day) and I am in good shape; so I highly recommend becoming active physcially, like walking, etc. I rarely get cramps, my flow is normal and my periods usually do not last more than four days (and I am also very regular..every 28 days on the spot!); the only set back I have, I am a major, overly emotional bitch

I need to stay away from my car (and driving) because yesterday, I drove through a red light (praise the Lord, there were not any cops around *knock on wood*)

Auntie · 10-19-2006, 08:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Rock Princess

Thank you, mum. I just need something to take the edge off. I throw up at least once during that time from the pain. It's horrible.

When I was in high school, I'd end up in the nurse's office from the pain, almost passing out. Now, the pain isn't as bad as when I was a teenager, but I still get cramps and everthing else that comes along with it. Also, I wanted to ask you girls, when you get it, does it ever put you in a bad mood? Me, when I have it and someone gets an attiude with me, prepare for a fight! (not physical).

BensonFan · 10-19-2006, 01:24 PM

I just get moody and extremely emotional. That's when I'll start thinking of my dad who died 5 years ago and cry like it just happened.

I also get cramps and lower back pain. Yeah, guys, it's LOADS of fun!

Ireneparalegal · 10-19-2006, 02:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Auntie

When I was in high school, I'd end up in the nurse's office from the pain, almost passing out. Now, the pain isn't as bad as when I was a teenager, but I still get cramps and everthing else that comes along with it. Also, I wanted to ask you girls, when you get it, does it ever put you in a bad mood? Me, when I have it and someone gets an attiude with me, prepare for a fight! (not physical).

I get an attitude with anyone who messes with me AT ANYTIME!

The thing with most women is the pain is more than cramps, as it has been posted, it can lead to lower back pain. For me, that is especially true. The uterus gets so bloated and filled that it presses on my lower spine, where I had my spine fused/operated on. So that area of my back is prone to recurring pain, flare-ups (as I stated a few weeks ago when I was in bed for almost two weeks). ADD A BLOATED UTERUS, and we are talking major lower back pain. And as anyone can tell you, back pain makes one feel like sh*t ALL OVER, physically and mentally. So of course, we are not going to be in the best of moods.

Hey guys, if you read this, try doing your job with a major headache, a stabbing pain in your lower back and a major stomach ache where you are doubling over from the pain. JUST TRY TO IMAGINE THAT FOR AT LEAST THREE DAYS. Some of us have to deal with it for more than that. I get my symptoms a week before and then I have to deal with my actual period for another 7 FUN FILLED DAYS!

LuLu Rogers · 10-20-2006, 02:41 PM

I didn't start my period until I was 16. The doctor checked me out and said that I needed to be put on birth control to stay regular. Even on the BC pills I still have bad cramps and I bleed pretty heavy. My mother, sister and I are all a week apart, so my dad wants to run and hide during those 3 weeks of the month. LOL!

10-17-2006, 09:55 PM	#17
~LadyJess~ Football Chick Forum Fanatic Join Date: Mar 15, 2002 Location: At the Shamrock doing shots with Mo Posts: 8,260	Mine's not bad. Usually only lasts 3 or 4 days and the 2nd day is the only heavy one. If I get cramps at all it's the first night and it takes awhile to fall asleep. I do get pretty pissy/emotional the week before my period starts, but once again that's it.
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10-18-2006, 08:30 AM	#22
¤I Love Clay Aiken¤ MISS APRIL Forum Addict Join Date: Jul 19, 2001 Location: Parsonsfield ME Shaws - Screwing my way up the employment ladder! Posts: 68,780	My period is the worst thing ever. I got it when I was... 13 and itd be off and up until I was about 17/18 where it finally got somewhat normal. The first few years Id get it once a year, every 6 months, etc.. totally unpredictable. Past couple years has probably been the most regular, and I find that when Im eating healthy and sticking to my diet, its the best. I went to the gyno for it last year and was put on the pill, but I didnt like it so I stopped. It worked too! lol. My period is ridiculously heavy - wearing 3 overnight pads and that doesnt always work. Its very frustrating, especially when Id have it for 14 days and then get it every 2.5 weeks. Thats how it was all last year before the pill and it really took a toll on me. Im also THE BIGGEST BITCH during it and get very emotional, Im like a rollercoaster. Cramps come and go.. some periods theyre mellow [like right now], but last time I had it [which was from this July-September] they were aweeeeeeeeeeeful in the beginning. I was at work laying on a table wanting to throw up. One way I can always tell Im gonna get my period is I get diahrea the first or 2nd day, no idea why, but it happens. My period isnt too bad right now, but Ive gotten back on track eating wise this past week or so and I really think thats affecting it. I hope so, Ive been trying really hard. As for other symptoms, Ill wake up in the morning with cold-like symptoms and as the morning goes on, they dissapear.
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10-19-2006, 01:24 PM	#28
BensonFan Board Psychologist Senior Member Join Date: Mar 16, 2004 Location: Chicago, IL USA Posts: 2,733	I just get moody and extremely emotional. That's when I'll start thinking of my dad who died 5 years ago and cry like it just happened. I also get cramps and lower back pain. Yeah, guys, it's LOADS of fun!
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10-20-2006, 02:41 PM	#30
LuLu Rogers Colonel Brandon Forum Fanatic Join Date: Mar 23, 2004 Location: The Hogwarts Dungeons Posts: 11,013	I didn't start my period until I was 16. The doctor checked me out and said that I needed to be put on birth control to stay regular. Even on the BC pills I still have bad cramps and I bleed pretty heavy. My mother, sister and I are all a week apart, so my dad wants to run and hide during those 3 weeks of the month. LOL!
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10-18-2006, 07:04 AM	#21
ponytail Member Forum 4000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 20, 2004 Location: In Happy, Healthy, Wealthyville Posts: 4,273	My periods are irregular, either too early or late. I do recommend progesterone cream. You can get at the health food store. Look at the label though, if it parabens in it don't buy. Look for all natural progesterone cream. Follow the directions, it relieves alot of the symptoms.

10-18-2006, 03:07 PM	#24
Chocoholic Member Forum Star Join Date: Dec 01, 2000 Location: Between a rock and a hard place. Posts: 11,235	I hate getting my period! I get all irritable and break out in zits during the week before, then I'm cramped, bloated, bleeding, and pissy for another week.