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Lindsay(Day)King · 08-14-2018, 10:40 PM

Hello all,

It has been quite some time since my last post about my father.

We are living well, I am married now and he is retired from the Fire Department.

My father did try to involve the police, but not at the time he saw Christophe outside because he was afraid of creating a scene and creating more problems. The courts were involved, however, with them being in France it was difficult to do anything. My father had a private investigator that has been searching for years. He still talks to him and they send Christmas cards every year.

Yes, my father could have helped Christophe with his Leukemia if his ex wife would have called him.

I have never been able to meet Christophe. My father remarried and had me. I had never met his ex wife. He has not heard from her since. I have a brother I never met and I have no idea if he is alive or not.

We haven't been able to get 100% confirmation on Christophes death, so honestly, we have no idea. In my heart I hope he is alive and I feel awkward, but I am going to start to send Facebook friend requests. Maybe he changed his name, I don't know. It is worth a try though.

My father is handling, but if there was some way he is still alive and I could talk to him and let him see our dad, that would be amazing.

Lindsay (Day) King

LooksLikeCRicci · 08-17-2018, 01:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Lindsay(Day)King

Hello all,

It has been quite some time since my last post about my father.

We are living well, I am married now and he is retired from the Fire Department.

My father did try to involve the police, but not at the time he saw Christophe outside because he was afraid of creating a scene and creating more problems. The courts were involved, however, with them being in France it was difficult to do anything. My father had a private investigator that has been searching for years. He still talks to him and they send Christmas cards every year.

Yes, my father could have helped Christophe with his Leukemia if his ex wife would have called him.

I have never been able to meet Christophe. My father remarried and had me. I had never met his ex wife. He has not heard from her since. I have a brother I never met and I have no idea if he is alive or not.

We haven't been able to get 100% confirmation on Christophes death, so honestly, we have no idea. In my heart I hope he is alive and I feel awkward, but I am going to start to send Facebook friend requests. Maybe he changed his name, I don't know. It is worth a try though.

My father is handling, but if there was some way he is still alive and I could talk to him and let him see our dad, that would be amazing.

Lindsay (Day) King

Thank you for posting. Your brother's story is one that is a tough one to watch, at least for me. I hope that he IS alive and you're able to reconnect with him. That would be a much happier ending than the one we've been left with.

Please continue to check in to let us know how you're doing.

dynoguy88 · 08-21-2018, 08:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Lindsay(Day)King

We haven't been able to get 100% confirmation on Christophes death, so honestly, we have no idea. In my heart I hope he is alive and I feel awkward, but I am going to start to send Facebook friend requests. Maybe he changed his name, I don't know. It is worth a try though.

This really makes me angry. When the text update was first shown on TV, I felt horrible about the circumstances at first but then I felt worse thinking that it wouldn't be beyond comprehension if Betty lied about Christophe dying just to stick it to Bill one last time.

He finally tracked Betty down in 1999. And here we are 19 years later and your family still can't be 100% sure if Christophe actually died or not. I wish there was some way for you guys to get proof. But every step along the way, Betty has had people do her bidding. And I don't know how you could trust anyone who is in her orbit to give you guys the honest answers you deserve. It also probably doesn't help matters with her living in a foreign country, if she is indeed still in France.

Mike82 · 08-22-2018, 08:35 AM

Fascinating post that confirms pretty much all my suspicions. If there is anything to take away from this it's that it okay to get law enforcement involved when you are in a situation with someone unreasonable and vindictive like Betty. Better for the child to see a parent hauled away to jail (if Betty were to resist and create a scene that's on her, not Bill) than to have their life ruined by a vengeful custody battle. People like Betty are capable of ANYTHING, including making false claims of abuse and I hope that this case serves as a warning for what can happen when you try to be rational with a crazy person.

charmedsignora · 08-22-2018, 01:56 PM

It never occurred to me that Christophe dying of leukemia could have been a lie. Is there any way that you could contact the American embassy in France? If anyone could help, it would probably be them.

sdb4884 · 06-01-2020, 11:59 AM

I would think that if in fact Christophe would still be alive there would at least be some news about the possibility. Betty is a con-woman so I guess there is a chance.

sdb4884 · 07-24-2026, 06:37 AM

According to the Wiki in 2020 there is some possibility that Christoph is sitll alive?

08-14-2018, 10:40 PM	#46
Lindsay(Day)King Member First Time Poster Join Date: Aug 14, 2018 Location: VA Posts: 1	Hello Everyone Hello all, It has been quite some time since my last post about my father. We are living well, I am married now and he is retired from the Fire Department. My father did try to involve the police, but not at the time he saw Christophe outside because he was afraid of creating a scene and creating more problems. The courts were involved, however, with them being in France it was difficult to do anything. My father had a private investigator that has been searching for years. He still talks to him and they send Christmas cards every year. Yes, my father could have helped Christophe with his Leukemia if his ex wife would have called him. I have never been able to meet Christophe. My father remarried and had me. I had never met his ex wife. He has not heard from her since. I have a brother I never met and I have no idea if he is alive or not. We haven't been able to get 100% confirmation on Christophes death, so honestly, we have no idea. In my heart I hope he is alive and I feel awkward, but I am going to start to send Facebook friend requests. Maybe he changed his name, I don't know. It is worth a try though. My father is handling, but if there was some way he is still alive and I could talk to him and let him see our dad, that would be amazing. Lindsay (Day) King

08-22-2018, 01:56 PM	#50
charmedsignora Member Frequent Poster Join Date: May 31, 2006 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 204	It never occurred to me that Christophe dying of leukemia could have been a lie. Is there any way that you could contact the American embassy in France? If anyone could help, it would probably be them.
	__________________ "Just an honest, clean kind of person."

08-22-2018, 08:35 AM	#49
Mike82 Member Frequent Poster Join Date: Oct 19, 2017 Posts: 299	Fascinating post that confirms pretty much all my suspicions. If there is anything to take away from this it's that it okay to get law enforcement involved when you are in a situation with someone unreasonable and vindictive like Betty. Better for the child to see a parent hauled away to jail (if Betty were to resist and create a scene that's on her, not Bill) than to have their life ruined by a vengeful custody battle. People like Betty are capable of ANYTHING, including making false claims of abuse and I hope that this case serves as a warning for what can happen when you try to be rational with a crazy person.

06-01-2020, 11:59 AM	#51
sdb4884 UM Meme Guy Senior Member Join Date: Sep 01, 2008 Location: Perth, Western Australia Posts: 1,235	I would think that if in fact Christophe would still be alive there would at least be some news about the possibility. Betty is a con-woman so I guess there is a chance.

07-24-2026, 06:37 AM	#52
sdb4884 UM Meme Guy Senior Member Join Date: Sep 01, 2008 Location: Perth, Western Australia Posts: 1,235	According to the Wiki in 2020 there is some possibility that Christoph is sitll alive?