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tenter · 12-21-2020, 06:56 PM

nobody in sitcomsonline users appreciates me my postings, except very few people

RetroGuy2000 · 12-21-2020, 07:01 PM

Why do you feel that way?

tenter · 12-21-2020, 08:31 PM

Because I'm getting some unapproved visitor message, that has been bolded (I don't want to name the user), and I have a feeling that none of the administrators like Pavan, TJ, or Janice were even helpful. I don't think they liked me.

MA · 12-21-2020, 08:34 PM

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Originally Posted by tenter

Because I'm getting some unapproved visitor message, that has been bolded (I don't want to name the user), and I have a feeling that none of the administrators like Pavan, TJ, or Janice were even helpful. I don't think they liked me.

Have you tried private messaging or emailing them?

OH Nuts! · 12-21-2020, 08:40 PM

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Originally Posted by tenter

Because I'm getting some unapproved visitor message, that has been bolded (I don't want to name the user), and I have a feeling that none of the administrators like Pavan, TJ, or Janice were even helpful. I don't think they liked me.

Maybe they don’t know this is happening. Send them private messages. As someone whose been here nearly 16 years, I can tell you TJ and Janice have no tolerance for anyone being harassed and will readily look into your situation.

tenter · 12-21-2020, 08:44 PM

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Originally Posted by MA

Have you tried private messaging or emailing them?

I already sent Janice and you email already. I haven't actually send TJ private mail.

MA · 12-21-2020, 08:45 PM

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Originally Posted by tenter

I already sent Janice and you email already. I haven't actually send TJ private mail.

You should send TJ a private message.

tenter · 12-21-2020, 08:45 PM

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Originally Posted by OH Nuts!

Maybe they don’t know this is happening. Send them private messages. As someone whose been here nearly 16 years, I can tell you TJ and Janice have no tolerance for anyone being harassed and will readily look into your situation.

I already did..

icecream · 12-21-2020, 09:07 PM

If there is someone sending you messages you don't want, you could put that person on your ignore list. Then they wouldn't be able to send you private messages or write on your wall.

tenter · 12-21-2020, 09:47 PM

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Originally Posted by MA

You should send TJ a private message.

I already did now.

tenter · 12-21-2020, 09:49 PM

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Originally Posted by catsrule

If there is someone sending you messages you don't want, you could put that person on your ignore list. Then they wouldn't be able to send you private messages or write on your wall.

yeah, thanks for that. but thats not the reason.. i just sent the user public message asking about why someone was banned from another site, then the response is im getting the "unapproved visitor message" about "moderator misunderstandings" I didn't know if that was wrong thing to do.

I really have learning disability and sometimes I'm a little autistic.

icecream · 12-23-2020, 06:45 AM

tenter, I wouldn't take it personal if the administrators haven't responded to your private messages yet. TJ hasn't posted at all since December 8, I sent him a message about something else and he hasn't responded yet. Janice only has 4 posts in all of December. They are probably taking an extended break over the Christmas holiday season, and might not have even seen your messages yet.

tenter · 12-23-2020, 12:14 PM

Janice responded to me, but she wasn't aware for what happened, and I sent her mail fully in detail, maybe she can respond later time..

You're right holidays can be a busy time

TJ · 12-23-2020, 02:42 PM

You weren't really clear in what you were talking about in your private message that you just sent two days ago. The reason that you would see those unapproved visitor messages is that new members are moderated before their posts and visitor messages are displayed to everybody. Members would potentially receive spam messages if they weren't moderated first. There are also a handful of members who are in the moderated group due to past issues. I just approved the one message you are talking about. This member should be sending you private messages and not posting visitor messages. It doesn't seem like a big issue, but now you at least know why it happened.

RetroGuy2000 · 12-23-2020, 03:46 PM

This sounds like a "Three's Company"-style big misunderstanding.

12-21-2020, 06:56 PM	#1
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12-21-2020, 08:31 PM	#3
tenter Member Forum 3000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 28, 2014 Posts: 3,578	Because I'm getting some unapproved visitor message, that has been bolded (I don't want to name the user), and I have a feeling that none of the administrators like Pavan, TJ, or Janice were even helpful. I don't think they liked me.

12-23-2020, 06:45 AM	#12
icecream Cat-tastic and Whiskerlicious Forum Celebrity Join Date: Sep 01, 2006 Location: The Catacombs Posts: 20,708	tenter, I wouldn't take it personal if the administrators haven't responded to your private messages yet. TJ hasn't posted at all since December 8, I sent him a message about something else and he hasn't responded yet. Janice only has 4 posts in all of December. They are probably taking an extended break over the Christmas holiday season, and might not have even seen your messages yet.

12-23-2020, 12:14 PM	#13
tenter Member Forum 3000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 28, 2014 Posts: 3,578	Janice responded to me, but she wasn't aware for what happened, and I sent her mail fully in detail, maybe she can respond later time.. You're right holidays can be a busy time

12-23-2020, 02:42 PM	#14
TJ Site Owner Administrator Forum Star Join Date: Feb 03, 2000 Location: Marietta, GA Posts: 10,673	You weren't really clear in what you were talking about in your private message that you just sent two days ago. The reason that you would see those unapproved visitor messages is that new members are moderated before their posts and visitor messages are displayed to everybody. Members would potentially receive spam messages if they weren't moderated first. There are also a handful of members who are in the moderated group due to past issues. I just approved the one message you are talking about. This member should be sending you private messages and not posting visitor messages. It doesn't seem like a big issue, but now you at least know why it happened.