Ok I Have a bit of a problem, And I Figured Maybe some of you can help. Ok...The past 7 years (Yes 7 Years) I Have had a crush on this girl. I Used to go to School with her and still see her around because her Mom is friends with Mine. We're not really close friends or anything but Shes generally Nice to me (Although In 5th and 6th Grade we tended to Be a little meaner to each other, I Liked her even than). Anyways, I Have never been able to bring Myself to tell her how i feel. Believe me, I Have planned to In My Head Millions and MILLIONS Of times and Even tryed to On a few occasions....But it just never comes out when shes around.

I Told my Mom about it just a few Months ago and she seemed surprised, And My Best friend has known about it for years but he always tells me theirs not much chance. She Has a boyfriend that i know about, But i still cant help But want to try. Shes always On My Mind and Im afraid if i dont say something soon i may never get anouther chance. Just the thought of That makes me feel Nautious and Thats not something i want to live with the rest of my life. What should i do?

If I were you, I'd just tell her. I've done that with girls numerous times and I had no problems. It'll just keep bothering you until you get it out of your system. Trust me.

Tell her. The worst that can happen is she laughs at you so prepare yourself for that. It'll be ok!

I agree with Brian and Vera. Simply tell her how you feel. I would take it slow at first...to see her reaction. Don't pour your heart out unless she seems interested in what you're telling her.

Good luck and let us know how it turns out. You may be pleasantly surprised. She may feel the same way about you. :)

Alright..no one get mad at me for this one because I'm being perfectly honest.

I don't think you should tell her right now. If she already has a boyfriend, she's only gonna feel bad about you liking her since she already has someone. It'll only make things more complicated for her and no one wants that.

So I suggest you tell her if/when she and her boyfriend break up because that way you'll have more of a chance of actually getting together with her. I'm sure she would appreciate it especially if it's been 7 years.

Originally posted by Krisalicious
Alright..no one get mad at me for this one because I'm being perfectly honest.

I don't think you should tell her right now. If she already has a boyfriend, she's only gonna feel bad about you liking her since she already has someone. It'll only make things more complicated for her and no one wants that.

So I suggest you tell her if/when she and her boyfriend break up because that way you'll have more of a chance of actually getting together with her. I'm sure she would appreciate it especially if it's been 7 years. :nod: Im with her. I think you should def. tell her, but IMO now is not the best time. How long has she and her bf been dating? Is it serious? If its not too serious, I dont think it would be that long of a wait. Just give it a little time and youll be all set. If youre really too nervous to tell her, maybe you could have your best friend tell her. Sometimes its a bit easier having a friend do it for you and then pretending like you had nothing to do with it LOl. Either way, good luck Chad!!! :yourock:

Tell her your true feelings about the way you have been feeling about her and how you have felt about her for the past seven years and hopefully she will understand and if she doesn't buy it, it's her loss but your gain!! Good luck and God bless and let us know how it turns out!!

Wow, a 7 year crush. I'll have to go with telling her, even if she has a boyfriend. At least she would know, and if she doesn't feel the same way, then at least you'd know. Do you really want to go through life pondering "What if?" With any luck, maybe things won't work out between her & her boyfriend.

Originally posted by Krisalicious
Alright..no one get mad at me for this one because I'm being perfectly honest.

I don't think you should tell her right now. If she already has a boyfriend, she's only gonna feel bad about you liking her since she already has someone. It'll only make things more complicated for her and no one wants that.

So I suggest you tell her if/when she and her boyfriend break up because that way you'll have more of a chance of actually getting together with her. I'm sure she would appreciate it especially if it's been 7 years.

Your right. I Dont want to start any problems or anything.

Im Just gonna wait off and hope for the best.

Thanks for the advice everyone.

maybe you should take the opportunity to get comfortable just talking to her now, while she has a boyfriend, and maybe just get closer to her and then talk to her about yer crush when youre ready to

Ok Chad, tell her to visit us here on Chit Chat and we will all tell her how cool you are!:D
Seriously, I only wish you the best and I really know how difficult things can be at your age!


Yay Chad!:kiss: :clap: :yourock: :bighug:

i say become a nosexual like me. then you wont have to worry about anything.

I have had a crush on somebody for nearly five years but he is now married with kids!!

Originally posted by EricIdlefan
I have had a crush on somebody for nearly five years but he is now married with kids!!

Thats...Not Making Me feel any better. :lol:

Originally posted by Captain Juke "N" Jive
Ok I Have a bit of a problem, And I Figured Maybe some of you can help. Ok...The past 7 years (Yes 7 Years) I Have had a crush on this girl. I Used to go to School with her and still see her around because her Mom is friends with Mine. We're not really close friends or anything but Shes generally Nice to me (Although In 5th and 6th Grade we tended to Be a little meaner to each other, I Liked her even than). Anyways, I Have never been able to bring Myself to tell her how i feel. Believe me, I Have planned to In My Head Millions and MILLIONS Of times and Even tryed to On a few occasions....But it just never comes out when shes around.

I Told my Mom about it just a few Months ago and she seemed surprised, And My Best friend has known about it for years but he always tells me theirs not much chance. She Has a boyfriend that i know about, But i still cant help But want to try. Shes always On My Mind and Im afraid if i dont say something soon i may never get anouther chance. Just the thought of That makes me feel Nautious and Thats not something i want to live with the rest of my life. What should i do?



Stop being a WUSS and get her phone number. BE A MAN!!!!!!

Originally posted by Sitcom Analyzer
Stop being a WUSS and get her phone number. BE A MAN!!!!!!

It's different.This is his dream girl.He has to be careful of what he does so he can go out with her.If it was a girl that wasn't this important to him than it would be different and he could approach it in an easier way.

You don't want to make her boyfriend be angry and come down and haunt him and/or even much, much, more worse!! Do you??

Originally posted by Sitcom Analyzer
Stop being a WUSS and get her phone number. BE A MAN!!!!!! Easier said than done.

Originally posted by ¤MsConanOBrien¤
Easier said than done.

Definitely.