alright, I understand that this is a personal subject and some people feel more comfortable answering and talking about it then others, and so if you dont feel comfortable with this thread, you dont have to reply, and in no way am I trying offend anyone because I relieze that this is such a sensitive topic, but anyways, I have been thinking about sex lately (thats normal I guess, I am 17 after all) and recently I have been thinking a LOT about sex, and it doesnt help that mondays everwood was pracitically all about sex...

I was wondering when is too soon to have sex?...like I know thats a personal thing and it depends on the person, but do a lot of people have sex when they are in high school..cuz only a couple of my close friends have had sex, but there are a bunch of other kids in my grade who have...also are people goin to wait till marriage?

Well, Im 19 and a virgin, but then again Ive never had a boyfriend.......

Umm.. just because a bunch of kids in school do it, doesnt mean everyone is doing it. Half of them are probably doing it because everyone else is. I think that youll know when youre truly ready... like you can just tell. So, Id give it some time to think of all the consequences and really think if its the best idea. I mean, I dont wanna sound all preachy and stuff, but accidents do happen and in the long run would it be worth it?

Whenever you're ready, just wait for the right person. I had sex when I was 15, and it wasn't with the right person. I haven't even been with anyone since and I don't really care about ever having anyone.

Sorry, whenever anyone asks about sex I always mention me having sex at 15. :crazy: :lol: :D

I personally believe that you should wait till marriage for sex, but my opinion on that may change as I get older. I am almost 16, and I know that I, personally, am not ready, but someone else my age might be.

I'm 18 and I don't know if I'm ready for sex yet but it wouldn't matter anyway because I don't even have a boyfriend. I have a feeling though that the first real boyfriend I get will be the one I have sex with because I'm really picky when it comes to who I will date and I think by the time I fall in love with someone who is also in love with me, I will be ready. I don't think I will wait until marriage to have sex although I do think it would be nice to only be with one person in my life, the guy I end up marrying. Maybe that's just a silly dream but I can still hold on to it for now.

I'd say around 20. I'm only 15, but know that people around 20 are better of doing it then.I'd rather have a mom who had me at 20 than a mom who had me at 50.:D

I dont think there is a right age...it's about whenever you personally feel ready.

I'm 18 and I've never had sex...I'm glad I didn't in HS. I HAVE had boyfriends before, but I was in junior high and stuff...Yeah, you know.

When you've matured a lot to understand the consequences of having sex, then you'll be ready...It also has to depend on if you FEEL ready, too. I know for certain I'm not ready to have sex yet...that and I don't have a significant other.

I think it really depends on your situation...I don't know...

Please take this as wise advice! The worry about pregnancy is not worth it! I have been there. (Many years ago) The guy I was going with at the time was not worth the anguish! Please think! The second guy I had sex with was the man that I have been married to for the past 35 years! I really should have waited until marriage but it worked out really well for me the second time around!(He was several years older than I) . We married. And I am so glad that we did! Now that I am a mature, rational thinking adult I say don't be in a big hurry to throw your life away on some immature boy! It's not worth the anguish!:eek:

A few of my friends have done it numerous times, and they just think about it as no big deal. They just sleep around, bragging about who they've done and who they haven't. Talk about being sluts. Anyway.

I myself have not had sex yet, I'm waiting until the right person that I love and trust. I'm not going to screw around and get knocked up at 15 years old.

Hmm, weird. My friend was asking me about this today. She was like planning it all out. She was like "And I have condoms, spermicide and I'm on the pill. I'm all prepared!" And then she started having second thoughts. I just told her to go with her gut feeling.

But honestly...I mean, I'm 16. Only 16. I dont think its worth it at all. Not now anyways. I'm not ready at my age. Hell, I dont even have a boyfriend but even if I did I wouldnt do it. Thats just me though.

Anyways, I think when you're in high school, theres a lot of pressure and stuff and then you find out that its really not worth it. There are so many things to worry about when it comes to sex. I mean, you have to worry about pregnancy and diseases...and you cant trust anybody because no one gets themselves tested. So...I guess there really isnt a certain age but I think waiting until after high school would be better. And another thing, I dont think you hafta be married before you have sex. I think you have to truly love that person before you decide to go all the way with them...

Yeah, I'm rambling now..:wave:

yea, I really thing it depends on the person and the circumstances surrounding it. I myself haven't had sex yet, but I'm only in my first year of college. all the people I know have waited til at least college to lose it, so I don't feel like I'm behind or anything. i'm just waiting until I feel I'm ready, so maybe a few more years...I'm 19 and I think about sex a lot (I'm not going to deny it, because if you're a normal 16 - 23 year old, you think about sex all the time. so don't bother denying it cause everyone will know you're lying.) I'd give it a few more years for myself.

I'm 14 and think I'm going to wait until I am married to have sex. None of my friends have had sex (well, were a bunch of losers) but a couple people in my school have had sex. And if I do have sex before I am married I'm going to make sure it's the person I want to spend the rest of my life with.

Im Gonna wait for Marriage.

I Honestly dont think about it that Much. Theirs A Girl I Like alot and i think about her almost 24/7, But not In Sexual Ways.

To Be Honest, I Think Im More scared of it than anxious to do it.

Originally posted by Captain Juke "N" Jive
To Be Honest, I Think Im More scared of it than anxious to do it.

Mmhmm. :nod: Me, too. I definitely wanna wait until I'm married.

I was out of high school and had been with my boyfriend (at the time) for a couple of years before we ever did anything. For us, we had no doubts about whether it was right or not. When you're ready - really ready - you'll know it. Don't worry about what everyone else is doing or not doing - you're the one person you should be thinking of. Also, it's so important that there be a mutual understanding and respect between you and the person you choose to give yourself to. I'm sure I'm stating the obvious, but it's something that shouldn't be forgotten.

Originally posted by Colonel Juke "N" Jive
I'm 14 and think I'm going to wait until I am married to have sex. None of my friends have had sex (well, were a bunch of losers) but a couple people in my school have had sex. And if I do have sex before I am married I'm going to make sure it's the person I want to spend the rest of my life with.

Lucas, that doesn't make you and your friends 'losers.'

I highly recommend that you wait til you find someone who is really special in your life; I made of the mistake of rushing to loose my virginity...Sex should be a very special bond between two people who truly love and respect each other....

Originally posted by Swimfan85
alright, I understand that this is a personal subject and some people feel more comfortable answering and talking about it then others, and so if you dont feel comfortable with this thread, you dont have to reply, and in no way am I trying offend anyone because I relieze that this is such a sensitive topic, but anyways, I have been thinking about sex lately (thats normal I guess, I am 17 after all) and recently I have been thinking a LOT about sex, and it doesnt help that mondays everwood was pracitically all about sex...

I was wondering when is too soon to have sex?...like I know thats a personal thing and it depends on the person, but do a lot of people have sex when they are in high school..cuz only a couple of my close friends have had sex, but there are a bunch of other kids in my grade who have...also are people goin to wait till marriage?



Sex is overrated.

Originally posted by ¤MsConanOBrien¤
Well, Im 19 and a virgin, but then again Ive never had a boyfriend.......


Change 19 to 24 and you have me.

Originally posted by Czas na Zywiec
I'm 19 and I think about sex a lot (I'm not going to deny it, because if you're a normal 16 - 23 year old, you think about sex all the time. so don't bother denying it cause everyone will know you're lying.)

Isn't it more like 16-60 something?

Originally posted by Czas na Zywiec
(I'm not going to deny it, because if you're a normal 16 - 23 year old, you think about sex all the time. so don't bother denying it cause everyone will know you're lying.)
hmm...not me.

I'm 14 and wouldn't think about having sex (unless one of my crushes came up to me and said 'Have sex with me today or never' - which won't happen, cos half of them are teachers or my friend's moms!).

I'll probably wait until I'm 19 or so. Unless it just feels right...

Originally posted by dawsongirl
Isn't it more like 16-60 something?

*insert Hugh Hefner comment here*

Originally posted by Georgia's on my Mind
hmm...not me.

yes you. even if it's not every waking minute of your life, you can't say you don't think of sex a lot. it's not that you don't want to - it's a natural thing you can't change. you can supress it and quickly change your mind, but it's there.

Originally posted by Czas na Zywiec
I'm 19 and I think about sex a lot (I'm not going to deny it, because if you're a normal 16 - 23 year old, you think about sex all the time. so don't bother denying it cause everyone will know you're lying.) I'd give it a few more years for myself.

19? You and me have birthdays in the same week...You're not turning 19 for another 6 months :D

Originally posted by Miss Vicki
19? You and me have birthdays in the same week...You're not turning 19 for another 6 months :D

I'm going by the Polish system. :p you call yourself 19 because at your 18th birthday, you finished 18 years of your life, therefore you're starting your 19th year of life. and since 19 is a better number than 18, I choose to use it. ;)

Originally posted by Czas na Zywiec
I'm going by the Polish system. :p you call yourself 19 because at your 18th birthday, you finished 18 years of your life, therefore you're starting your 19th year of life. and since 19 is a better number than 18, I choose to use it. ;)

Gotcha.

Originally posted by Czas na Zywiec
I'm 19 and I think about sex a lot (I'm not going to deny it, because if you're a normal 16 - 23 year old, you think about sex all the time. so don't bother denying it cause everyone will know you're lying.) I'd give it a few more years for myself.

Well, I'd like to think that I'm normal and I can guarantee you that I don't think of sex all the time and I'm 25. You are just making an assumption and a generalization and you'd better not call me a liar b/c I don't take that very keenly.

Sex is overrated in my opinion. I'm a virgin and proud of it. When I get married I'll be able to give my husband the greatest gift ever.....me.

D

Believe it or not I was 26 when I first went 'All the way". I was out of my mothers house and on my own and mature enough to handle the consequences should I have become pregnant or whatever. I had a few boyfriends before that but was just not ready for sex. I don't think teenagers have any business having sex. It's very normal to think about it but teens to be concentrating on other things such as school JMO.

Originally posted by Sitcom Analyzer
Sex is overrated. maybe you're not doing it right

I'm a virgin and damn proud of it.

I'm 20 and haven't had a boyfriend, but it doesn't bother me. Someone will come along eventually, and if they're special enough we'll probably sleep together but until then I'm not going to just jump into bed with the first guy who asks me.

I was going through my old journals from 8th grade and I found an entry where I wrote all about sex and I said that I thought I would lose my virginity by the time I was 17 or 18. Well, I guess 18 could still happen, but what the hell was I thinking? :rolleyes:

Originally posted by Ags2000
Well, I'd like to think that I'm normal and I can guarantee you that I don't think of sex all the time and I'm 25. You are just making an assumption and a generalization and you'd better not call me a liar b/c I don't take that very keenly.

Sex is overrated in my opinion. I'm a virgin and proud of it. When I get married I'll be able to give my husband the greatest gift ever.....me.

D

well you're also a woman. women's minds and men's minds differ greatly on the subject of sex. it's mostly in the hormones. men reach their sexual peak at 18 while women reach it at 32.

also, by all the time, I don't mean every waking moment of your life. I meant like more than once a week. plus, you're 25 and probably done with college and focusing on a career. that's why I put 23 as the cut-off age. but once again, it's mostly prevelent in men. when you don't work and you're still in school, you have more time focusing on looking for that "right" one.

I am nearly 30 and a virgin still and proud of it!!:D

Originally posted by Czas na Zywiec
yes you. even if it's not every waking minute of your life, you can't say you don't think of sex a lot. it's not that you don't want to - it's a natural thing you can't change. you can supress it and quickly change your mind, but it's there.
no...but ok.

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Masturbation.

Let's keep this G-Rated please.

Lucas, that doesn't make you and your friends 'losers.' [/B][/QUOTE]

Oh, I know. But I mean like were too afraid to talk to girls LOL

Originally posted by Janice
Let's keep this G-Rated please.

PG13 could be more realistic. Or maybe guide the thread into a wait/don't wait til marriage discussion? I didn't think was I said was graphic. I think it's important people know condoms are NOT 100% effective in disease OR birth control.

I apologize Janice for everybody on this board and let's just do what TJ, Janice, and any and/or all moderators do because whatever they say goes and rules!!

Originally posted by Janice
Let's keep this G-Rated please.


I was surprised this Thread was not closed because it's hard to keep a topic like this G-rated. IMO, this is not an appropiate topic for SO

Originally posted by Sitcom Analyzer
I was surprised this Thread was not closed because it's hard to keep a topic like this G-rated. IMO, this is not an appropiate topic for SO
I don't know if you saw what I deleted....:eek:

Originally posted by Sitcom Analyzer
I was surprised this Thread was not closed because it's hard to keep a topic like this G-rated. IMO, this is not an appropiate topic for SO
Oh please, don't be such a prude. It's sex. Big deal. Everyone is having it, has had it, or will have it. On television, they constantly show people having sex and talking about sex and making sexual jokes. Who cares?

Originally posted by Sourbabie
Oh please, don't be such a prude. It's sex. Big deal. Everyone is having it, has had it, or will have it. On television, they constantly show people having sex and talking about sex and making sexual jokes. Who cares?



SEX IS OVERRATED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Originally posted by Sitcom Analyzer
SEX IS OVERRATED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You're just saying that cause you can't get any.

Originally posted by Sourbabie
Oh please, don't be such a prude. It's sex. Big deal. Everyone is having it, has had it, or will have it. On television, they constantly show people having sex and talking about sex and making sexual jokes. Who cares?

I know, seriously. It's 2004, not 1950. People have always been having sex, but I mean people are more opened about it now. It really isn't a big deal.

Originally posted by Kristina
You're just saying that cause you can't get any.

:rofl:

Originally posted by Sitcom Analyzer
SEX IS OVERRATED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
... says the person who probably hasn't gotten laid in years.

People who argue that sex is "overrated" either A.] Never had it. or B.] Haven't had it in a long time.

Everyone likes sex, but too many people are too prudish to admit it or talk about it. We all think about it. We all enjoy watching it. Those who don't have it want to have it. Those who are having it love it or at least like it. I don't care what anyone says: Sex is great, and the only way it could be "underrated" is if you have a ****** libido, if your partner is lousy in bed, if you are lousy in bed, or if you're both lousy in bed. Or if you have a nasty rash or The Clap or something, but that's another story.

Loosen up [no pun intended] people. There is nothing wrong with talking about sex.

Originally posted by Georgia's on my Mind
no...but ok.

if you were telling the truth, you wouldn't have a woman in your avatar who's practically falling out of her shirt.

Originally posted by Czas na Zywiec
if you were telling the truth, you wouldn't have a woman in your avatar who's practically falling out of her shirt.
Umm it's a picture of Ute...it's not even that revealing, and where does it say that putting a picture of someone in my avatar means I want to have sex with them...because I don't.

im 16...and so many of my friends have had sex its insane...

i personally dont want to have it now and i dont even think about it really..

but the pressure is always there

Originally posted by Kristina
You're just saying that cause you can't get any.
that comment is amusing.

Originally posted by Sourbabie
... says the person who probably hasn't gotten laid in years.

People who argue that sex is "overrated" either A.] Never had it. or B.] Haven't had it in a long time.

Everyone likes sex, but too many people are too prudish to admit it or talk about it. We all think about it. We all enjoy watching it. Those who don't have it want to have it. Those who are having it love it or at least like it. I don't care what anyone says: Sex is great, and the only way it could be "underrated" is if you have a ****** libido, if your partner is lousy in bed, if you are lousy in bed, or if you're both lousy in bed. Or if you have a nasty rash or The Clap or something, but that's another story.

Loosen up [no pun intended] people. There is nothing wrong with talking about sex.



I like FORELAY/FetisHes more than sex. I prefer LOVE MAKINHG, NOT SEX

Originally posted by SOLOMON
I like FORELAY/FetisHes more than sex. I prefer LOVE MAKING, NOT SEX

so it's true. air conditioners are what REALLY turn you on, not the women themselves.

Originally posted by Sitcom Analyzer
I like FORELAY/FetisHes more than sex. I prefer LOVE MAKINHG, NOT SEX
thanks for the info...?

Originally posted by Georgia's on my Mind
thanks for the info...?



How is that so different from saying I LOVE SEX????

Originally posted by Sitcom Analyzer
How is that so different from saying I LOVE SEX????
god, calm down. i honestly could not care any less. go check your bread, i don't think its completly baked.-LOL

Originally posted by Georgia's on my Mind
god, calm down. i honestly could not care any less. go check your bread, i don't think its completly baked.-LOL


Whatever. You wil find out all about sex when you are 21.

Originally posted by Sitcom Analyzer
I like FORELAY/FetisHes more than sex. I prefer LOVE MAKINHG, NOT SEX

Love making & sex are the same thing.

Originally posted by Miss Vicki
Love making & sex are the same thing.



Sorry but you are Wrong.

Originally posted by Sitcom Analyzer
Sorry but you are Wrong.

From Webster's collegiate dictionary:

lovemaking
1: Courtship
2: sexual activity

sex

Gives me the same thing...

Originally posted by Miss Vicki
From Webster's collegiate dictionary:

lovemaking
1: Courtship
2: sexual activity

sex

Gives me the same thing...



Sitcom Analyzer's Dictionary

Lovemaking: Good Chance I would still want to be around the Female after it's over

Sex: STRESS RELIEF!!!-LOL

Originally posted by Sitcom Analyzer
Sorry but you are Wrong. The only 'difference' between the 2 is 'making love' (a term that makes me cringe) sounds romantic.. having sex sounds more playful and not so close.

Originally posted by Sitcom Analyzer
Sitcom Analyzer's Dictionary

Lovemaking: Good Chance I would still want to be around the Female after it's over

Sex: STRESS RELIEF!!!-LOL

:rolleyes:

Originally posted by Sitcom Analyzer
Sitcom Analyzer's Dictionary

Lovemaking: Good Chance I would still want to be around the Female after it's over

Sex: STRESS RELIEF!!!-LOL

I don't agree with it, but the way he worded it killed me. :rotflmao: now THAT was funny my friend.

Originally posted by ¤MsConanOBrien¤
The only 'difference' between the 2 is 'making love' (a term that makes me cringe) sounds romantic.. having sex sounds more playful and not so close.

yea, lovemaking sounds more serious; sex is just putting one thing into another. lovemaking is actually the way you interpret sex and the other various activities that can be done, such as foreplay or just a really, long make-out session.

Originally posted by Czas na Zywiec
I don't agree with it, but the way he worded it killed me. :rotflmao: now THAT was funny my friend. :rofl:

Originally posted by Sitcom Analyzer
Whatever. You wil find out all about sex when you are 21.
WTF? because when you turn 21...you just instantly gain knowledge?:crazy:

Originally posted by Georgia's on my Mind
WTF? because when you turn 21...you just instantly gain knowledge?:crazy:


Yes

Originally posted by Sitcom Analyzer
Yes
that's the dumbest thing I have heard all day.

Originally posted by Georgia's on my Mind
that's the dumbest thing I have heard all day.

well, as the old saying goes, "experience comes with age."

Originally posted by Sitcom Analyzer
I like FORELAY/FetisHes more than sex. I prefer LOVE MAKINHG, NOT SEX
What the hell is forelay? By chance, would that be anything like foreplay?

Oh god, and don't give me that ******** about "love making". That phrase makes me want to vomit. Sex is sex. Try to sugarcoat it all you want, it doesn't matter because it is still sex. Two sweaty bodies thrashing around wildly like animals. People try to chalk their writhing around and pleasure filled screams up to "love". Why can't they just admit that they did what they did because they were horny and only cared about the big O? They think that "love" makes their acting like an animal in heat more dignified or something. Sex isn't about love. In fact, there is no such thing as love. We take what we want from people and that's it. There is never any love because such a thing doesn't exist.

Originally posted by Sourbabie
What the hell is forelay? By chance, would that be anything like foreplay?

Oh god, and don't give me that ******** about "love making". That phrase makes me want to vomit. Sex is sex. Try to sugarcoat it all you want, it doesn't matter because it is still sex. Two sweaty bodies thrashing around wildly like animals. People try to chalk their writhing around and pleasure filled screams up to "love". Why can't they just admit that they did what they did because they were horny and only cared about the big O? They think that "love" makes their acting like an animal in heat more dignified or something. Sex isn't about love. In fact, there is no such thing as love. We take what we want from people and that's it. There is never any love because such a thing doesn't exist.



For the last time,

Love Making:Two People who want to stay around each other after it's over

Sex: STRESS RELIEF ACTIVITY

Originally posted by Sitcom Analyzer
For the last time,

Love Making:Two People who want to stay around each other after it's over

Sex: STRESS RELIEF ACTIVITY
No

You really need to pull your head out of your ass.

When two people want to stay around one another after it's over, it's usually because they want more sex from eachother. They will feign love just to get a piece of ass.

Originally posted by Sourbabie
No

You really need to pull your head out of your ass.

When two people want to stay around one another after it's over, it's usually because they want more sex from eachother. They will feign love just to get a piece of ass.



Well maybe you can't seperate the two. Some people can, and some people can;t. And If i'm really in love with a women, SEX IS NOT IMPORTANT.

Originally posted by Sitcom Analyzer
Well maybe you can't seperate the two. Some people can, and some people can;t. And If i'm really in love with a women, SEX IS NOT IMPORTANT.

Originally posted by Sitcom Analyzer
Well maybe you can't seperate the two. Some people can, and some people can;t. And If i'm really in love with a women, SEX IS NOT IMPORTANT.
Why do people insist that when two people are really in love and in a committed relationship, sex doesn't matter? That's not true. You'll get sick of having that person around without getting anything from them and you will both end up as cranky bitches, one sleeping on the couch while the other takes the bed. It happens.

You have sex with one person and only one person and you do it if you are really in love with that person and want a commitment from that person and in return, you gave that person a commitment because the commitment to each other will last a lifetime and it is your one and only shot!!

Originally posted by Sitcom Analyzer
And If i'm really in love with a women, SEX IS NOT IMPORTANT. Thats good to hear, honest. :)


And theres no such thing as 'love'? Wtf.. maybe not for you because either A). You never loved, or B.) You were never loved.

I am saving my having sex with somebody for my husband but first I need to find a boyfriend!!

Originally posted by ¤MsConanOBrien¤
And theres no such thing as 'love'? Wtf.. maybe not for you because either A). You never loved, or B.) You were never loved.
Love is stupid.

My opinion is that if you really feel right about it and you really care about the person then do it. But it's whatever you're feeling at the time. That's just my opinion though.

Originally posted by Sourbabie
, there is no such thing as love. We take what we want from people and that's it. There is never any love because such a thing doesn't exist.

Oh really?

The comical bitter front you present suggests you have been burned so hard that you have to crap on anyone else's parade.

I love a lot of things, and you would be hard pressed to even prove the slightest thing I even mention.

I love cheese.

What is cheese giving me?

Oh, and oh crap, you don't happen to be from a broken family do you ?

Originally posted by dlemond
I love cheese.

What is cheese giving me? Gas?

Originally posted by dlemond
Oh really?

The comical bitter front you present suggests you have been burned so hard that you have to crap on anyone else's parade.

I love a lot of things, and you would be hard pressed to even prove the slightest thing I even mention.

I love cheese.

What is cheese giving me?

Oh, and oh crap, you don't happen to be from a broken family do you ?
Yes, you are so right. You have figured me out. You have managed to uncover all of my deep psychological traumas.

Yeah, right.

Do me a favor and spare me your psycho babble.

Yay, a fight! just when im allowed back! :cheer: continue please.

Originally posted by Sourbabie
Love is stupid.

love is vain...
a humiliating business...oh how true...

ok, now i need to watch putting it together.

Originally posted by Sourbabie
Yes, you are so right. You have figured me out. You have managed to uncover all of my deep psychological traumas.

Yeah, right.

Do me a favor and spare me your psycho babble.

That would take 2 seconds.

In fact, you should take that to heart.

Let the trumpets blare.

Originally posted by Kristina
Do you have a one inch penis or something?:wave:


Hey watch your Language, this is a PG-rated Board.

Originally posted by Colonel Juke "N" Jive

Oh, I know. But I mean like were too afraid to talk to girls LOL [/B]

Ohhh, I gotcha now. :lol:

Originally posted by Sourbabie
What the hell is forelay? By chance, would that be anything like foreplay?

Oh god, and don't give me that ******** about "love making". That phrase makes me want to vomit. Sex is sex. Try to sugarcoat it all you want, it doesn't matter because it is still sex. Two sweaty bodies thrashing around wildly like animals. People try to chalk their writhing around and pleasure filled screams up to "love". Why can't they just admit that they did what they did because they were horny and only cared about the big O? They think that "love" makes their acting like an animal in heat more dignified or something. Sex isn't about love. In fact, there is no such thing as love. We take what we want from people and that's it. There is never any love because such a thing doesn't exist.
First, stop the swearing. That's the moderator talking.

Just because you don't believe in love doesn't mean it doesn't exist. It just doesn't exist for you.

I've been with my husband for 20 years, and we're very much in love, and that's a fact.

Originally posted by Czas na Zywiec
when you don't work and you're still in school, you have more time focusing on looking for that "right" one.

I never did find him...the jerk.



:lol:

Originally posted by Czas na Zywiec
so it's true. air conditioners are what REALLY turn you on, not the women themselves.

:rotflmao:

Originally posted by dawsongirl
I never did find him...the jerk.
:lol:
You will Cathy. I didn't meet my husband until I was 25.

My husband's daughter is 40 now, happily married with two children. She didn't meet her husband until she was 30. She was successful, very pretty, but just had one succession of jerks after another.

When you least expect it, it will happen. :)

Originally posted by Sitcom Analyzer
Sitcom Analyzer's Dictionary

Lovemaking: Good Chance I would still want to be around the Female after it's over

Sex: STRESS RELIEF!!!-LOL

How many of those dictionaries have you sold? And how many were to "females"?

Originally posted by Janice
You will Cathy. I didn't meet my husband until I was 25.

My husband's daughter is 40 now, happily married with two children. She didn't meet her husband until she was 30. She was successful, very pretty, but just had one succession of jerks after another.

When you least expect it, it will happen. :)

I hope so. :) But I guess I don't mind being picky. I don't want to end up with a lot of jerks like your husband's daughter. I've met enough of those without dating!

Originally posted by Sitcom Analyzer
And If i'm really in love with a women, SEX IS NOT IMPORTANT.

Oh my...something I agree with.

Originally posted by ¤MsConanOBrien¤
Gas?

:rofl: :fart:

LOL@Solomon spelling foreplay without the p hahahahahahaha.

Originally posted by dawsongirl
:rofl: :fart: :eek: Clear the room!! Cathy has Swiss!!! :seeya:

Originally posted by Janice

Just because you don't believe in love doesn't mean it doesn't exist. It just doesn't exist for you.



Amen to that sistah! And as for the almost 3o year old who's never had sex...you're really missing out--it's time for some self-inspection of the cranium, or perhaps a check-up from the neck-up from a professional. I am always leery of people who are "saving themselves for marriage" and they're "of a certain age." It's time for some intimacy or you should find out what's cookin' that you're avoiding it.

Wait as long as you possibly can, BELIEVE ME!! I lost my virginity with the wrong guy and I wish I had waited for somebody who I was in love with. Not everybody in high school is having sex, you might think that everybody except you is, but that's not the case.

Wait, Wait, Wait!!:eek2:

Originally posted by Sourbabie
What the hell is forelay? By chance, would that be anything like foreplay?

Oh god, and don't give me that ******** about "love making". That phrase makes me want to vomit. Sex is sex. Try to sugarcoat it all you want, it doesn't matter because it is still sex. Two sweaty bodies thrashing around wildly like animals. People try to chalk their writhing around and pleasure filled screams up to "love". Why can't they just admit that they did what they did because they were horny and only cared about the big O? They think that "love" makes their acting like an animal in heat more dignified or something. Sex isn't about love. In fact, there is no such thing as love. We take what we want from people and that's it. There is never any love because such a thing doesn't exist.

No matter what you say, love does exist. There is nothing you can do to stop it. It starts with the feeling of attraction, which is caused by pheromones, a chemical created and received around the nasal area. Once both people have established their attraction for each other, they begin to connect emotionally. The combination of attraction and the emotional connection is "love."

Originally posted by ¤MsConanOBrien¤
:eek: Clear the room!! Cathy has Swiss!!! :seeya:

Don't make me use it!

Originally posted by ArmoredFist
No matter what you say, love does exist. There is nothing you can do to stop it. It starts with the feeling of attraction, which is caused by pheromones, a chemical created and received around the nasal area. Once both people have established their attraction for each other, they begin to connect emotionally. The combination of attraction and the emotional connection is "love."
... if i need help with biology i'll ask you.

Hey I am nearly 30 years old and I am still a virgin and proud of it and please wait until you are married because you can give your spouse the gift of virginity!!

Originally posted by HenryTheEighth
or perhaps a check-up from the neck-up
:lol: That struck me as hilarious. I hope you don't mind if I borrow the phrase.

Originally posted by EricIdlefan
Hey I am nearly 30 years old and I am still a virgin and proud of it and please wait until you are married because you can give your spouse the gift of virginity!!

That's OK, my brother is 31 and I think he's still a virgin. Or maybe I just don't want to get the image of him having sex!!

Originally posted by Sitcom Analyzer
Hey watch your Language, this is a PG-rated Board.

The word "penis" is mentioned about 4 million times on TV everyday. Kids hear worse words on the school bus when they are 9.

Originally posted by HenryTheEighth
The word "penis" is mentioned about 4 million times on TV everyday. Kids hear worse words on the school bus when they are 9.


Really?

Well you seemed Oh So Concerned someone said "penis." SO I assumed you were offended since you said "keep it PG 13) I don't consider "penis" a PG13 word anymore. Am I misunderstanding your post?

Originally posted by Sitcom Analyzer
Really?

Yes. I read my first sex book when I was 8 and in 3rd grade. That was circa 1993.

All i can say is sex is good & when u have it, u wanna have it over & over again cause ain't nothin like kissing a woman's naked body & touching a woman's body.

Originally posted by Miss Vicki
Yes. I read my first sex book when I was 8 and in 3rd grade. That was circa 1993.

Wow! Way back in the Olden Days!;)


:lol:

Originally posted by Penny Lane
Wow! Way back in the Olden Days!;)


:lol:

:lol:

Never underestimate how much a little kid knows...I knew more about sex and birth control than any of my friends did at that age. :rofl:

And it was all due to taking a book about sex out of the library. ;)

I dont think you should have to wait until marriage.
But I do think you should wait for someone you love.


Im 15, and Ive never had sex.
But then again.... Ive never had a girlfriend, for a long period of time,




idk.... its your decision.


I dont think there's anything wrong with sex before marriage.
I just think you should use all the protection available.

Originally posted by Penny Lane
Wow! Way back in the Olden Days!;)


:lol:

Oh yes. I was having a conversation with my friends and we were talking about "the good old days, back in the '90's." ;)

Originally posted by HenryTheEighth
The word "penis" is mentioned about 4 million times on TV everyday. Kids hear worse words on the school bus when they are 9.

THAT is right. I heard the F word several times a day on the bus, not to mention other things.

I'm going to go with the generic "it's different for everyone" response. For me, I can't even comprehend sex at this age. A lot of people have had sex by the time they're 17 but I'm no where near ready for something like that. Considering I've never been in a relationship...

It's like when you're 8 and you think about graduating high school. It's so far away that it's hard to even comprehend.

I personally believe in waiting until marriage, and I'm going to. So I guess if I never get married, it will never happen. :lol:

Originally posted by ~LadyJess~
Oh yes. I was having a conversation with my friends and we were talking about "the good old days, back in the '90's." ;)

:lol:

A lot of today's younger teens (the ones that turn 13-16 this year) don't remember the early 1990's, but I know we do, since we were both born in 1985. :D

I'll never forget my vacation to Disney World - that was 14 years ago, in January '90 :D

Originally posted by Miss Vicki
:lol:

A lot of today's younger teens (the ones that turn 13-16 this year) don't remember the early 1990's, but I know we do, since we were both born in 1985. :D

I'll never forget my vacation to Disney World - that was 14 years ago, in January '90 :D

The early '90's were great. :D My first trip to Disney World was 13 years ago, March 1991.