TVFactFan
12-20-2003, 02:26 PM
MARRIAGE and Having Kids? I'm tuned off if a female brings that up on a first date. Maybe even the second date. I like to connect with a female before discussing MARRIAGE/KIDS
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View Full Version : Who hates to hear about this on a FIRST DATE?? TVFactFan 12-20-2003, 02:26 PM MARRIAGE and Having Kids? I'm tuned off if a female brings that up on a first date. Maybe even the second date. I like to connect with a female before discussing MARRIAGE/KIDS Mr. Stefani 12-20-2003, 02:43 PM Well seeing how the majority of SO posters are teens, i'd say we'd be a little creeped out. Mijada 12-20-2003, 02:45 PM Well I sometimes bring that up on first dates. I like to know if the guy wants the same things out of life that I want. I don't want to waste my time with someone who just wants to live together or doesn't like kids. TVFactFan 12-20-2003, 03:04 PM Originally posted by Nirvana Well seeing how the majority of SO posters are teens, i'd say we'd be a little creeped out. It was obvious that the post was directed at someone who is NOT A TEEN. 20 and over mcgwirefan 12-20-2003, 03:09 PM I'm so glad I don't have to do the whole dating scene since I've been married longer than some of the kids on here are old. I wouldn't think talking about marriage and kids on the first date would be too cool. We certainly didn't do it way back when. LOL That topic can wait until later; at least a month isn't too much time to invest in dating if he/she turns out to not be suited to you. Mr. Stefani 12-20-2003, 03:58 PM I'm sure theres a "Dating For Dummies" book you can buy, Sitcom Analyzer. Ewan's My Man 12-20-2003, 04:43 PM If someone were to mention kids to me on a first date, I'd be like, "subtle way to get me in bed..." I'm 14, so OBVIOUSLY that topic wouldn't come up. I don't want kids...at all. Nanny Fine 12-20-2003, 04:56 PM Wouldn't bother me. I'd like to know what someone's long term intentions in general might be. A lot of guys just want 1 thing and bolt. I may not be talking marriage that night but I'd like to know in the future if there are plans for something like family/kids. No sense in wasting my time. ¤I Love Clay Aiken¤ 12-20-2003, 10:42 PM Its one thing to be curious what theyre interests are, but if they have everything all planned out and stuff.. then I dont want to hear it. Lady T 12-20-2003, 11:48 PM That would be a major turn off for me if a man brought up Marriage and Children on the first date...... Lady T 12-21-2003, 12:07 AM Originally posted by Mrs. R.N.HARRIS That would be a major turn off for me if a man brought up Marriage and Children on the first date...... my reason since I do not want any children in the future spunkygirl 12-21-2003, 12:11 AM Originally posted by Nirvana I'm sure theres a "Dating For Dummies" book you can buy, Sitcom Analyzer. :lol: Hollow 12-21-2003, 12:17 AM i dont go on dates.. but that would turn me off robyrob 12-21-2003, 10:59 AM Originally posted by Sitcom Analyzer MARRIAGE and Having Kids? I'm tuned off if a female brings that up on a first date. Maybe even the second date. I like to connect with a female before discussing MARRIAGE/KIDS i dunno about turn-offs, but I would want to know if you are going out with someone who is married and/or has kids |