So for over a week now, my boyfriend hasn't talked to me, looked at me, or noticed me. I wrote him a note asking him about this about a week ago, and for all i know he hasn't LOOKED at it. Can someone give me advice as to what to do about this? I don't want the answer "Dump him b/c he doesn't notice you, therefore it's not worth your time" b/c I haven't been going out w/ him very long and I still like him.

Thanks for the advice.

I take it this is like a junior high "relationship"?

Forget about the guys and concentrate on school! Trust me, guys aren't even worth looking at until they are over 18 or at least near 18 and have matured...somewhat. Plus you'll thank yourself later when you see that report card;) .

Just walk up to him and ask what's going on. Since you haven't been seeing him that long you shouldn't let this bother you too much. He doesn't sound like much of a boyfriend anyway. Take DianeChambers advice. School is more important.

Originally posted by DianeChambers87
Forget about the guys and concentrate on school! Trust me, guys aren't even worth looking at until they are over 18 or at least near 18 and have matured...somewhat. Plus you'll thank yourself later when you see that report card;) .

I agree...you don't need a boyfriend when you're still a kid...

Originally posted by Nirvana
I take it this is like a junior high "relationship"? :rolleyes: ;)

Originally posted by Nirvana
I take it this is like a junior high "relationship"?
ohno: see what watching lizzie mcguire can do to you?

thank god i never went to a "middle" school with people whining about these kinds of things.

You shouldn't have to chase after this guy. If a guy likes you he will be going after you. Maybe he just doesn't want to be your boy friend and is too much of a shy guy or a jerk to tell you this. Don't make yourself look foolish by obsessing over him. You should just try to concentrate on your school work. There will be pleanty of time for boys later. ;) good luck. :wave:

Boys suck and they are stupid they don't know how to treat weman! If he can't talk to you talk to him! Make him talk to you make him tell you whats going on!

Originally posted by sArAh123¼
ohno: see what watching lizzie mcguire can do to you?

thank god i never went to a "middle" school with people whining about these kinds of things.

I do. It sucks :grr:

Originally posted by DianeChambers87
Forget about the guys and concentrate on school! Trust me, guys aren't even worth looking at until they are over 18 or at least near 18 and have matured...somewhat. Plus you'll thank yourself later when you see that report card;) . Great advice! I agree 100% :)

Originally posted by MaydayMalonesGirl
I do. It sucks :grr:

I do too it sux I used to whine about not having a boyfriend and I'm super ahsamed of myself! Now I think I don't need a guy all I need is friends I'm to young for them!

Thanks, guys. You're right. School is more important than my b/f, and if he really likes me, he'll chase after me, not vise versa. He is kinda shy, NEVER a jerk. Maybe he's too shy to chase after me and admit how much he likes me (he's halfway there, I can reassure you of that), and that's okay. I like shy people anyway. Thanks a lot. I hope it works...

So what are you gunna do?

OMG and b/f shouldn't be used in the same sentence.

Originally posted by .:Illusion:.
Thanks, guys. You're right. School is more important than my b/f, and if he really likes me, he'll chase after me, not vise versa. He is kinda shy, NEVER a jerk. Maybe he's too shy to chase after me and admit how much he likes me (he's halfway there, I can reassure you of that), and that's okay. I like shy people anyway. Thanks a lot. I hope it works...
do your feet stink?

Maybe hes gay

I wouldn't worry about him. I'd give him a little more time, and give subtle hints to see if he's just shy. If he's not interested, don't worry about him and focus your attentions on something more worthwhile. School is way more important than some guy who dosen't even notice you.

no they don't sArAh.

I'm going to ask him if he finished the note. If he didn't i'm just going to ask him straight out what I think about him, ask him what he thinks about me, and why he won't talk to me. I don't know, maybe he's intimidated by me... but i guess i don't see how he could be intimidated

Illusion, give us a little more background info. How did he become your boyfriend? Do you guys talk on the phone have you ever had a date or anything?

Kick him in the crotch.

Originally posted by Colonel Juke "N" Jive
Kick him in the crotch.
yeah go for it. ive learned from my guy friends that getting tweaked is the worst pain a guy can feel. haha last week cooper was jumping up and down after he got tweaked to get rid of the pain.

Originally posted by sArAh123¼
yeah go for it. ive learned from my guy friends that getting tweaked is the worst pain a guy can feel. haha last week cooper was jumping up and down after he got tweaked to get rid of the pain.

It kills, been hit there with a baseball many times.

Sometimes people ignore their gf's or bf's because they don't like them anymore. Sumtimes when i ignore the guys that likes me, it means i just want them to leave me alone and stay out of my life! Sometimes i feel like their smuthering me, and i try to hurt their feelings on purpose just so they will go away. (i know it sonds mean, but guys can't take hints, so u have to be straight forward with them)...get it?

k thanx TeddyBear I'm gonna try it. When I'm going back from t-giving vaca, i'm gonna ask him straight out "Why are you ignoring me? Do you hate me now? Do you wanna dump me? I need to know because I want to know and so that I can take a possible hint and leave the relationship." does that sound like too much?

ya, cuz maybe the reason he's ignoring u iz cuz something happend..like maybe his family member died, or he thought u cheated on him. so u have to ask him straight up. if he still acts like a jerk, leave him alone and ignore him..either way u should leave him because relationship is about trust, if he trust u enough he should be able to tell u his problem.

I think he trusts me, i'm not sure tho. I'm gonna ask him and if he doesn't tell me I'm gonna ask him if he trusts me. then the rest is gonna go from there


thanx everyone you've helped me a lot in my decision. On Monday I'm going to post my results

Originally posted by .:Illusion:.
t-giving vaca
vaca means cow in spanish