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Rickenbacker
11-18-2003, 05:25 PM
Did your parents let you have it when you were little? I know mine sure did! Hand or belt, but only after repeated warnings & I definitely had it coming.
My guess is more older people will say they did than younger ones.

Of course it was always funny as hell when it happened to your little brother or a neighbor!...funny til *you* got it! :lol:

There was this one time me & my best friend next door neighbor saw this kid (accidentally) break a window (or a bottle. Don't remember now) And JUST for sake of seeing this kid get whacked, we went in our building & rang nearly every doorbell just to tell on him. We lost track of time & didn't realize it was well after dark & our parents were worried. We got back on the elevator & awww sh*t! BOTH our moms were in it looking for us!

So what'd we *both* get when we got home? (http://www.rockinsoftware.com/sounds/whip.wav)

automatic princess
11-18-2003, 05:27 PM
:lol: funny story!

I used to get spankings when I was younger, not often though.

Kay Scarpetta
11-18-2003, 06:25 PM
I got spanked once when I was 3 or 4, and never again. I wasn't even "hit". I was tapped on the butt, just enough to make me stop being a brat.

My sister, on the other hand..... Holy Jesus. She was a devil..

pandora_spocks
11-18-2003, 06:41 PM
I used to get spanked all the time. I was a bad girl. :lol:
Once when I was little they held me down and washed my mouth out with soap. It was horrible! And to this day my dad wonders why I hate him. He also even choked me once. I might have deserved to be spanked, but choking me was stepping out of line. Can't say too much for the soap thing though that only happened once and it was when I was very small so I barely even remember it.

jsizzle
11-18-2003, 06:45 PM
I was always in trouble,sometimes for no reason,and when I got in trouble,they hit me with whatever was in their hands,but though my dad left years ago he only hit me when he was drunk.

¤I Love Clay Aiken¤
11-18-2003, 07:40 PM
Not really. Maybe like.. a spanking? I was a good girl. :p My mother would threaten to pull my pants down in front of everyone though at stores.:o

TJL
11-18-2003, 07:56 PM
Let's just say there was a large wooden spoon in our kitchen that Mom didn't use to cook with...


;)

*Pleasant Tomorrow*
11-18-2003, 08:04 PM
Umm...I guess I few times I don't really remember. More yelling that getting hit. My dad has the biggest mouth, I swear, and for a little kid it's scary as hell :(

fr00ti
11-18-2003, 08:21 PM
One time I got one. Not fun. Nope.ohno:

Georgia's on my Mind
11-18-2003, 08:24 PM
I was more psychologically abused as a child than physically...

Hollow
11-18-2003, 08:26 PM
My dad used to beat me with a hairbrush. he's also slapped me and a few months ago when i was sitting on the floor he grabbed my face and slammed it on a metal bed frame like 3 times.

Hollow
11-18-2003, 08:35 PM
Originally posted by pandora_spocks
He also even choked me once. I might have deserved to be spanked, but choking me was stepping out of line.
Yeah my dad pushed my mom on the ground and choked her one time. they were having problems with eachother at the time and my mom had depression but thats just wrong. hes an *******. i remember after that my mom took me and my brother to a safehouse with her and we lived there for about a week. hell i actually enjoyed it there, partially cause there was no screaming and fighting.

*Pleasant Tomorrow*
11-18-2003, 08:46 PM
Originally posted by Georgia's on my Mind
I was more psychologically abused as a child than physically...

Same here...still. My dad likes to do that to My mom, and my sister and me...but especially me because I'm more like my mom. Makes me feel like ****, but you get used to it and it doesn't bother you as much...I know he doesn't mean it, but still...

pandora_spocks
11-18-2003, 08:51 PM
Originally posted by sArAh123¼
Yeah my dad pushed my mom on the ground and choked her one time. they were having problems with eachother at the time and my mom had depression but thats just wrong. hes an *******. i remember after that my mom took me and my brother to a safehouse with her and we lived there for about a week. hell i actually enjoyed it there, partially cause there was no screaming and fighting.

That's awful. My mom once told me that before my brother and I were born my dad used to hit her a lot. I always wondered why she'd never file for divorce. I know now why she hasn't and I really can't say it here on the boards. Plus, my dad is the jealous type of guy. He has to know where you are and what you're doing every minute of the day. If he calls and you don't pick up he thinks my mom is out screwing another guy, which she isn't. I swear my dad is such a *****. He has to know where I am every minute of everyday too and I'm 19 years old. How freakin' sad is that?

My dad is always yelling at my mom over something. Whether it be about the bills or about how none of us derserve anything or we're no good, blah, blah, blah. Just this morning I woke up around 8 and heard him going on about the bills to my mom. I really think she should just hire a hitman or something. Anything is better than listen to this crap 24/7.

Oh, and he's allowed to mourn his mother in this house and whine about how she's dead and all, but my mom isn't allowed to show sympathy or feel hurt because her mom is dead now too. And her mom died a couple months before his mom did! She's also not allowed to bring stuff from her mom's house over to here like my dad has been doing with his mom's crap. I swear our house is becoming a junk pile with all her crap. I think I need to get myself some self-esteem and move the hell out.

BlueEyes
11-18-2003, 09:55 PM
I would get spanked when I was bad, but it wasn't abuse. Just hard enough where I'd behave :p

The Modfather
11-18-2003, 10:15 PM
I was spanked. I was a bad little boy. Nothing to bad. Just one spank across my butt!

Hollow
11-18-2003, 11:10 PM
Originally posted by pandora_spocks
That's awful. My mom once told me that before my brother and I were born my dad used to hit her a lot. I always wondered why she'd never file for divorce. I know now why she hasn't and I really can't say it here on the boards. Plus, my dad is the jealous type of guy. He has to know where you are and what you're doing every minute of the day. If he calls and you don't pick up he thinks my mom is out screwing another guy, which she isn't. I swear my dad is such a *****. He has to know where I am every minute of everyday too and I'm 19 years old. How freakin' sad is that?

My dad is always yelling at my mom over something. Whether it be about the bills or about how none of us derserve anything or we're no good, blah, blah, blah. Just this morning I woke up around 8 and heard him going on about the bills to my mom. I really think she should just hire a hitman or something. Anything is better than listen to this crap 24/7.

Oh, and he's allowed to mourn his mother in this house and whine about how she's dead and all, but my mom isn't allowed to show sympathy or feel hurt because her mom is dead now too. And her mom died a couple months before his mom did! She's also not allowed to bring stuff from her mom's house over to here like my dad has been doing with his mom's crap. I swear our house is becoming a junk pile with all her crap. I think I need to get myself some self-esteem and move the hell out.
That's really terrible. :( i think you should move out, things would probably be alot better.

Crimson and Clover
11-18-2003, 11:12 PM
I never got spanked.

pandora_spocks
11-18-2003, 11:15 PM
Originally posted by sArAh123¼
That's really terrible. :( i think you should move out, things would probably be alot better.

I think I should too, but part of me doesn't want to leave and part of me wants to go. If I could just figure out what I want to do with my life then maybe I could get the strength to leave, but my depression doesn't help either. I'm just so screwed up. :(

Crimson and Clover
11-18-2003, 11:18 PM
Originally posted by pandora_spocks
I think I should too, but part of me doesn't want to leave and part of me wants to go. If I could just figure out what I want to do with my life then maybe I could get the strength to leave, but my depression doesn't help either. I'm just so screwed up. :(

I get abused by my little sister, but Im like you; I want to leave but then I dont. In 2 months Ill have a chance of moving in with my older sister now that I have a job, but I cant decided if I want to or not.

pandora_spocks
11-18-2003, 11:34 PM
Originally posted by Crimson and Clover
I get abused by my little sister, but Im like you; I want to leave but then I dont. In 2 months Ill have a chance of moving in with my older sister now that I have a job, but I cant decided if I want to or not.

Why does your little sister abuse you?

Crimson and Clover
11-18-2003, 11:37 PM
Originally posted by pandora_spocks
Why does your little sister abuse you?

Cause shes psycho.

pandora_spocks
11-18-2003, 11:41 PM
Originally posted by Crimson and Clover
Cause shes psycho.

Oh, well hey if you've got a job and a place to stay after you leave. I'd say go for it.

Czas na Zywiec
11-19-2003, 12:29 AM
Oh you know it. Except I got THE BELT.

dawsongirl
11-19-2003, 01:09 AM
No. I got spanked once of twice when I was little, but that was it. I got yelled at mostly.

Brian
11-19-2003, 01:14 AM
Sometimes. There was one time where I got a bare butt spank. One of the hardest two minutes of my life. :eek:

dawsongirl
11-19-2003, 01:15 AM
Originally posted by sArAh123¼
My dad used to beat me with a hairbrush. he's also slapped me and a few months ago when i was sitting on the floor he grabbed my face and slammed it on a metal bed frame like 3 times.

That's awful.

dawsongirl
11-19-2003, 01:23 AM
Originally posted by pandora_spocks
That's awful. My mom once told me that before my brother and I were born my dad used to hit her a lot. I always wondered why she'd never file for divorce. I know now why she hasn't and I really can't say it here on the boards. Plus, my dad is the jealous type of guy. He has to know where you are and what you're doing every minute of the day. If he calls and you don't pick up he thinks my mom is out screwing another guy, which she isn't. I swear my dad is such a *****. He has to know where I am every minute of everyday too and I'm 19 years old. How freakin' sad is that?

My dad is always yelling at my mom over something. Whether it be about the bills or about how none of us derserve anything or we're no good, blah, blah, blah. Just this morning I woke up around 8 and heard him going on about the bills to my mom. I really think she should just hire a hitman or something. Anything is better than listen to this crap 24/7.

Oh, and he's allowed to mourn his mother in this house and whine about how she's dead and all, but my mom isn't allowed to show sympathy or feel hurt because her mom is dead now too. And her mom died a couple months before his mom did! She's also not allowed to bring stuff from her mom's house over to here like my dad has been doing with his mom's crap. I swear our house is becoming a junk pile with all her crap. I think I need to get myself some self-esteem and move the hell out.

:( That's just wrong. Sick and wrong. I despise men like that.

Makes me glad I have the dad I do.

pandora_spocks
11-19-2003, 02:35 AM
Originally posted by dawsongirl
:( That's just wrong. Sick and wrong. I despise men like that.

Makes me glad I have the dad I do.

Yeah, it is. I really can't stand guys like my father. I mean I have nothing against guys unless they're like my dad's type. I don't need any guy controlling me whether he's my dad or just a friend.

Mijada
11-19-2003, 11:20 AM
I got spanked a lot by my mom. She would use this wooden paddle that my brother made in shop class.

EricIdlefan
11-19-2003, 12:46 PM
I got spankings from my birth until I was twelve!! It hurts!! Ouch!!

PZelda
11-19-2003, 02:13 PM
PRICK.

Kay Scarpetta
11-19-2003, 03:01 PM
Originally posted by EricIdlefan
It hurts!! Ouch!!

No, I actually thought it tickled..... [/sarcasm]

Anyway, I've gone through similar experiences, mostly what Holly was saying about her Dad. Mine's the same way. Always bitching and moaning about the bills, how I'm ungrateful and don't give a damn about anyone but myself, always about how my mom can't do anything right, then he starts cursing everyone out, becoming verbally abusive. I hate him so much... 3 more years and I'm outta here.

Janice
11-19-2003, 03:30 PM
Please stop using the word, pr**ck.

pandora_spocks
11-19-2003, 03:57 PM
Originally posted by Miss Karly
No, I actually thought it tickled..... [/sarcasm]

Anyway, I've gone through similar experiences, mostly what Holly was saying about her Dad. Mine's the same way. Always bitching and moaning about the bills, how I'm ungrateful and don't give a damn about anyone but myself, always about how my mom can't do anything right, then he starts cursing everyone out, becoming verbally abusive. I hate him so much... 3 more years and I'm outta here.

Wow, I didn't think anyone went through the same stuff I do with my dad. And if I didn't know better I'd say you were describing him. I can't believe there's other people out there just like him. Kind of makes you feel hopeless. :(

Originally posted by Janice
Please stop using the word, pr**ck.

Sorry, about that. When I talk about my dad I get really mad as you can probably tell. Anyway, I'll stop saying it.

PZelda
11-19-2003, 04:05 PM
Originally posted by Janice
Please stop using the word, pr**ck.

It isn't censored - see, prick - and it can be used to describe a feeling of a thing...Like, those trees were prickly...It's not as bad as the word, **** and ****, which are both censored. If you don't want us using "prick", ask TJ to censor it, but I'm not sure how that would go over with him.

Moonlight Lady
11-19-2003, 04:21 PM
My parents spanked me a few times. They used their hand, not on bare skin and hard enough that it made me behave. They really didn't have to do it much. I pretty much stayed out of trouble.

Anybody ever have their father tell them "Stop crying or i'll give you something to cry about"? I've gotten that on occasion as a kid.

Janice
11-19-2003, 06:17 PM
Originally posted by PZelda: VICKI!!
It isn't censored - see, prick - and it can be used to describe a feeling of a thing...Like, those trees were prickly...It's not as bad as the word, **** and ****, which are both censored. If you don't want us using "prick", ask TJ to censor it, but I'm not sure how that would go over with him.
Are you describing trees? No, you're calling someone a obscene name--a penis, or more specifically, a d-ck.

You didn't use the word as an adjective, but as a noun. I don't think there's a place for that offensive word on this website

The filtering system doesn't censor the word because it has other meanings. You've found a loophole, and you're driving a bus through it.

We will let TJ decide. If he okays the word, then I guess that means that everyone can use it to their heart's content.

Ewan's My Man
11-19-2003, 08:14 PM
I never got spanked, hit, whatever.


Just yelled at.

Georgia's on my Mind
11-19-2003, 08:21 PM
Originally posted by Janice
Are you describing trees? No, you're calling someone a obscene name--a penis, or more specifically, a d-ck.

You didn't use the word as an adjective, but as a noun. I don't think there's a place for that offensive word on this website

The filtering system doesn't censor the word because it has other meanings. You've found a loophole, and you're driving a bus through it.

We will let TJ decide. If he okays the word, then I guess that means that everyone can use it to their heart's content.
meangya also means penis...and there is a smilie with that word on it...erm

Kay Scarpetta
11-19-2003, 08:30 PM
Originally posted by pandora_spocks
Wow, I didn't think anyone went through the same stuff I do with my dad. And if I didn't know better I'd say you were describing him. I can't believe there's other people out there just like him. Kind of makes you feel hopeless. :(


Yep, that's my dad. But other times he can be fun to talk to and fine... I dunno.. my dad, you can't help feel bad for him sometimes. He's like a lost soul. He was never like that, either. Just recently, past few years...

pandora_spocks
11-19-2003, 08:47 PM
Originally posted by Miss Karly
Yep, that's my dad. But other times he can be fun to talk to and fine... I dunno.. my dad, you can't help feel bad for him sometimes. He's like a lost soul. He was never like that, either. Just recently, past few years...

I could never talk to my father. He never even noticed I was in the room unless he wanted to yell at someone. I've pretty much given up hope on him hoping that one day he'd be proud of me for some reason or another.

Kitt
11-19-2003, 08:55 PM
Originally posted by Georgia's on my Mind
meangya also means penis...and there is a smilie with that word on it...erm Respect for, and appreciation of the board moderator, Janice, is missing in this converstation something awful. She has stuck her neck out and taken on the task of trying to moderate the chit chat boards. For you all to be toying with this P**** game is just childish and disrespectful behavior. I hope you will all just apologize for being smart alecks, and stand by what she has requested without giving her any more if this unecessary grief.

Janice--I apologize if I have stepped in where I wasn't invited, but it was paining me to see this ugly game being played on you. I know what a great job you have been doing on these boards. It irks me to see this gamesmanship being played out at your expense. I hope the players will stop it, and stop it right quick.

Georgia's on my Mind
11-19-2003, 09:05 PM
Originally posted by Kitt
Respect for, and appreciation of the board moderator, Janice, is missing in this converstation something awful. She has stuck her neck out and taken on the task of trying to moderate the chit chat boards. For you all to be toying with this P**** game is just childish and disrespectful behavior. I hope you will all just apologize for being smart alecks, and stand by what she has requested without giving her any more if this unecessary grief.

Janice--I apologize if I have stepped in where I wasn't invited, but it was paining me to see this ugly game being played on you. I know what a great job you have been doing on these boards. It irks me to see this gamesmanship being played out at your expense. I hope the players will stop it, and stop it right quick.
erm...i was just pointing out something...dont get your bloomers in a twist.

Kitt
11-19-2003, 10:24 PM
Originally posted by Georgia's on my Mind
erm...i was just pointing out something...dont get your bloomers in a twist. I was just pointing out something too. Only it was a lot more important than your play on genatalia. Too bad that it's more important to you to be a smart aleck than it is to show some respect and appreciation for someone who is trying hard to fairly monitor this board.

Georgia's on my Mind
11-19-2003, 10:32 PM
Originally posted by Kitt
I was just pointing out something too. Only it was a lot more important than your play on genatalia. Too bad that it's more important to you to be a smart aleck than it is to show some respect and appreciation for someone who is trying hard to fairly monitor this board.
Because I am challenging something Janice said, that makes me disrespectful? I think I stated my observation in a decent way...so don't jump down my throat, because I do have the right to contribute to add my 2 cents.

Janice
11-19-2003, 10:53 PM
Originally posted by Georgia's on my Mind
meangya also means penis...and there is a smilie with that word on it...erm
In what language? Penis in Italian is pene. If meangya does means penis in another language, and there is a meangya smilie--that makes it acceptable to use the word pr*ck on this site?

That's one quantum leap of logic you're taking there. It's like a game of connect the dots to justify using offensive language.

Georgia's on my Mind
11-19-2003, 11:02 PM
Originally posted by Janice
In what language? Penis in Italian is pene. If meangya does means penis in another language, and there is a meangya smilie--that makes it acceptable to use the word pr*ck on this site?

That's one quantum leap of logic you're taking there. It's like a game of connect the dots to justify using offensive language.
Frankly, I don't give a damn whether the word is/n't allowed on this site. I haven't, and don't intend on using it anytime soon. I was just commenting...that meangya...which Crystal said the meaning of hundreds of times...is allowed as a smilie...and a word which isn't censored is not...when they both have practically the same negative connotation.

spunkygirl
11-19-2003, 11:34 PM
My grandparents used a switch. I know we all sure deserved it(my brother and cousins and myself), and IMO switches hurt more than belts do. :(

~*Hannah_Lee*~
11-20-2003, 12:42 AM
Oh yeah. I got spanked a lot, with switches and belts and fly-swatters. I got in trouble for everything....back-talking, yelling, not minding my manners, and doing anything else my parents thought was wrong. I think it was a good thing though. It taught me how to behave and how not to behave. It bothers me to death when I see parents whose kids need to be punished for their behavior. It's only gonna hurt those kids in the long run, because eventually they are gonna have to pay for their behavior.

~*Hannah_Lee*~
11-20-2003, 12:54 AM
Originally posted by Katie Tripper
Anybody ever have their father tell them "Stop crying or i'll give you something to cry about"? I've gotten that on occasion as a kid.
More times than I can count....