I hear so much talk about he was too nce for me or a like a guy with a rough edge. So how do you know when u r in the presence of a Nice Guy-someone who wouldn't date, and hw do you know when u r around the Bad Boy?

A nice guy is one who isn't self-centered or egotistical. Even though everyone has an ego, he doesn't let it over-ride basic kindness and politeness. Some famous men who I consider nice are/were Rick Nelson, the ultimate nice, good person, this twin sons, Matt and Gunnar, and John Travolta, to name a few.

Bad guys are those who take rebellion too far, or who are arrogant, drug addicts or use women. Celebrity examples, since everyone can relate to them, include Michael Jackon, Emenem, and Charlie Sheen, until recently. Even if these guys are not so bad, at least the image or perception is that they are at the very least offensive to "good" people.

Hope this didn't sound like I'm that judgemental, just MHO.

Originally posted by mcgwirefan
A nice guy is one who isn't self-centered or egotistical. Even though everyone has an ego, he doesn't let it over-ride basic kindness and politeness. Some famous men who I consider nice are/were Rick Nelson, the ultimate nice, good person, this twin sons, Matt and Gunnar, and John Travolta, to name a few.

Bad guys are those who take rebellion too far, or who are arrogant, drug addicts or use women. Celebrity examples, since everyone can relate to them, include Michael Jackon, Emenem, and Charlie Sheen, until recently. Even if these guys are not so bad, at least the image or perception is that they are at the very least offensive to "good" people.

Hope this didn't sound like I'm that judgemental, just MHO.


So why do some females see nice guys as FRIENDS instead of having a romantic interest in them?

Well it depends some girls say we want them as friends because they......well don't meet their standers I know it's mean but guys do it too.

Originally posted by CheersChild4life
Well it depends some girls say we want them as friends because they......well don't meet their standers I know it's mean but guys do it too.


Why is a Nice Guy considered Boring you think by some females?

Originally posted by Sitcom Analyzer
Why is a Nice Guy considered Boring you think by some females?
I'm not a girl, but I don't believe that most of them view nice guys as boring. JMO.

Originally posted by Sitcom Analyzer
Why is a Nice Guy considered Boring you think by some females?

They aren't boring they are i dunno nice they seem like the kind of guys who'd be afraid to defend you or sumtin i dunno

Originally posted by Sitcom Analyzer
Why is a Nice Guy considered Boring you think by some females?

Well I'm a girl and I don't view a nice guy as being boring as long as he and I share some common interests. If we don't have anything in common than it makes no difference to me whether he is nice or not. I feel that in order for a relationship to grow there have to be some common interests.

Originally posted by Mijada
Well I'm a girl and I don't view a nice guy as being boring as long as he and I share some common interests. If we don't have anything in common than it makes no difference to me whether he is nice or not. I feel that in order for a relationship to grow there have to be some common interests.


Nice Response

Yeah!

Originally posted by Sitcom Analyzer
Why is a Nice Guy considered Boring you think by some females?

Because theyre TOO nice. I dont know why but I think I do get bored if someones just "nice" all the time. It becomes a 'why bother he'll just smile, nodd, and agree anyways...' and some nice guys will never disagree with anything you say and that annoys me. I know when Im with a real "nice guy" I get bored because I have to be careful what I say (ex: talking about someone i dont like or cursing even a little bit) or I feel like a burden (ex: I despise when a guy pulls a chair out for me or wont talk about himself at all)
Bottom line: nice guys are good, but 'too nice' guys arent!

Its all about balance. I dont think Id ever date the other extreme either.

I like the nice guys never ever liked the bad guys. There are alot of handsome nice guys....bad guys look like they don't care for themselves in my opinon. They take drugs and smoke...who would want to kiss a guy who just smoked? BLECH!

Nice Guys are 1# in my list :D

i recently realized that i NEVER like guys for their looks. just personality, which would be outgoing and funny and acting stupid and immature for the fun of it. :grr:

Originally posted by Titania
(ex: I despise when a guy pulls a chair out for me or wont talk about himself at all)
Bottom line: nice guys are good, but 'too nice' guys arent!

Its all about balance. I dont think Id ever date the other extreme either.

I agree with that completely. I hate being waited on, or the thought that the relationship is all about me.

Originally posted by BrandonS
I'm not a girl, but I don't believe that most of them view nice guys as boring. JMO.

You're right, not all of us do.

I think a nice guy is someone who treats a woman with respect, and appreciates her for the person she is. That goes for all women he meets. As for a 'bad' guy, I see them as having huge egos and thinking only of themselves. They're disrespectful and they know it. I've seen enough of them, and I could definately do without.

If you treat me with respect and scratch my back every now and then, that's all I ask for. I don't expect you to jump through hoops or give me everything under the moon.

Originally posted by ~°Sarah°~
i recently realized that i NEVER like guys for their looks. just personality, which would be outgoing and funny and acting stupid and immature for the fun of it. :grr:
That's a good thing Sarah. I wish I didn't let guys looks influence me as much as they do. I tend to overlook the personality sometimes.

Right now, the way I look at it, the nice guys are hiding something. They think if they act all sweet and nice, the girl will fall for it and not realize they really are a jerk until it's too late.

And bad boy doesn't put up a facade. He's bad and he doesn't give a crap who knows.

There are probably 20 guys in the US that are nice and are being sincere.

Originally posted by dawsongirl
There are probably 20 guys in the US that are nice and are being sincere.

21.

;)

Cat People: Great movie, with a nice shot of a naked Malcolm McDowell. Sorry...just saw that as someone's avatar and was impressed. Not many people I know are familiar with it. Great David Bowie opening theme, too. :)



A Nice Guy: Is polite, buys you roses, and respects you.

A Bad Guy: Does all of the above, but then slices your body into tiny pieces and feeds them to his co-workers as hors d'oeuvres.

Note: Jeffrey Dahmer often served his victims to unsuspecting co-workers, who when interviewed stated he was a "charming man."

Ted Bundy was also a very attractive and "charming man" who used those traits to lure young brunette women into his clutches to brutally murder them. A woman who scorned Bundy during his college years is said to have an uncanny resemblence to every single one of his victims.

Makes you think, doesn't it?

Remember: Sociopaths appear normal, which is why they are the most dangerous criminals of them all.

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y'know, i used to feel sorry for the girls who always just wanted to be friends with the nice guys, then turned around and went after the "bad" boys who would repeatedly hurt them and treat them like cr@p - then I realized that they MUST be happy that way

Originally posted by robyrob
y'know, i used to feel sorry for the girls who always just wanted to be friends with the nice guys, then turned around and went after the "bad" boys who would repeatedly hurt them and treat them like cr@p - then I realized that they MUST be happy that way

Well, I have a simple explanation.

Women *do* want nice guys...but at the same time, we want a man who isn't a total p***y, to put it bluntly. Unfortunately, one of the flawed traits of nice guys is that they are usually timid. Passiveness is a huge turn-off.

There are the cases where some women are used to having a male in their life that treated them like crap (usually the father) and they unwittingly are drawn to that type of personality.

But, I'm not going to bother and get all Freudian on you. ;)

Originally posted by TJL
21.

;)

Okay...21. :D

Someone who is a total walk-all over type. A pushover. But we do want him to be sweet and caring. We also want him to know how to NOT be taken advantage of, stand up for himself and us, and speak his mind.

Originally posted by Janice Johnson
Someone who is a total walk-all over type. A pushover. But we do want him to be sweet and caring. We also want him to know how to NOT be taken advantage of, stand up for himself and us, and speak his mind.


So what's your defintion of a BaD GUY

Originally posted by Sitcom Analyzer
So what's your defintion of a BaD GUY A bad guy to me would be one that I couldnt tolerate, because of habits or the way he treated me. Different girls have different variations of the "good guy/bad guy" deal.