Just want to know what's more important to some of the females out there. A guy without a car or his own place? These were two things that females asked me when I graduated college. Do you drive or do u live alone?

Originally posted by SOLOMON
Just want to know what's more important to some of the females out there. A guy without a car or his own place? These were two things that females asked me when I graduated college. Do you drive or do u live alone?

Did you not ask the same questions like a week ago? Anyways, I guess a home, because I have a car, and really could care less if a guy does or not. I mean, I guess I could drive him around. A house is more important to me.

Originally posted by Leah_2oo6


Did you not ask the same questions like a week ago? Anyways, I guess a home, because I have a car, and really could care less if a guy does or not. I mean, I guess I could drive him around. A house is more important to me.

I never asked a question about this. A house or an apt?

Originally posted by SOLOMON


I never asked a question about this. A house or an apt?

either. It doesn't matter, as long as they keep it clean.:)

I don't care so much about his living arrangements. I live with my folks, so if he does too, fine.

The car thing though...NO ONE DRIVES MY CAR BUT ME! So he better not think I'll loan it to him, 'cause I'd make the jerk walk first.

i think the car is more important.

Originally posted by Crimson_and_Clover
i think the car is more important.

More important than being disease free and straight????

Originally posted by SOLOMON


More important than being disease free and straight????

Or A Murderer :lol:

I couldn't care less about a guy living with his parents. I'm only 19, and I'm never out with guys TOO much older than me, so I actually expect them to be living with their parents. As I get older, I will probably expect them to live away. But this is many years down the road.

As far as a car... well, I expect the guy I go out with to have one. So far I've never been in a situation where a guy I liked didn't drive. It's not that I define a guy by having his own car, I just never knew a guy not to have one.

And actually, I expect the car to be pretty decent. It doesn't have to be FABULOUS, but no junkers please.

Originally posted by King Chad Doody


Or A Murderer :lol:
:lol:

Originally posted by Cashodeen
I couldn't care less about a guy living with his parents. I'm only 19, and I'm never out with guys TOO much older than me, so I actually expect them to be living with their parents. As I get older, I will probably expect them to live away. But this is many years down the road.

As far as a car... well, I expect the guy I go out with to have one. So far I've never been in a situation where a guy I liked didn't drive. It's not that I define a guy by having his own car, I just never knew a guy not to have one.

And actually, I expect the car to be pretty decent. It doesn't have to be FABULOUS, but no junkers please.


Hope u don't think a car makes a guy a good catch. But i guess it depends on where u live. I live in the city area where there are cabs every 5 min so i don't need one. BUt if a female lives in the burbs or country then i can see a car being important

Originally posted by SOLOMON
Hope u don't think a car makes a guy a good catch. But i guess it depends on where u live. I live in the city area where there are cabs every 5 min so i don't need one. BUt if a female lives in the burbs or country then i can see a car being important

That is so true. When you live in a big city, owning a car is really not a high priority. I live in a town with only about 13,000 people and very few taxis, so I expect the guys here to own one. But it doesn't make someone a good catch. And someone not owning a car wouldn't be a bad catch. When I move to a large city someday, I won't even expect it.

Nevermind!

Originally posted by SOLOMON


More important than being disease free and straight????

i dont believe you asked about that. you asked about a car or a place of his own. and how come everytime i reply to one of your threads you have to pick at what i have to say.

Originally posted by SOLOMON
More important than being disease free and straight????

She said more, not most. And that wasn't part of the question anyway!

Originally posted by Crimson_and_Clover


i dont believe you asked about that. you asked about a car or a place of his own. and how come everytime i reply to one of your threads you have to pick at what i have to say.


I just wanted a supporting statement on why a car was important.

Originally posted by dawsongirl


She said more, not most. And that wasn't part of the question anyway!

I know it wasn't part of the question, i was being sarscastic

Originally posted by SOLOMON



I just wanted a supporting statement on why a car was important.

you didnt have to be an ass about it, but i guess thats impossible for you

Originally posted by Crimson_and_Clover


you didnt have to be an ass about it, but i guess thats impossible for you


I wasn't being a ass, just a comedian

When you put these, ??????? after you asked about disease free and straight, I could have sworn you thought Crimson_and_Clover was trying to say it was the most important thing--like maybe you did think she said "most" instead of "more." I know you know how to read, but I did think you misunderstood. I had no idea it was sarcasm.

Well, I also said a car was more important... certainly not more than being disease free or straight! LoL.

Originally posted by SOLOMON



I wasn't being a ass, just a comedian

so you think youre funny

Originally posted by SOLOMON
I wasn't being a ass, just a comedian

LOL. Confident of your abilities, eh? ;)

Originally posted by Crimson_and_Clover


so you think youre funny


I been told i'm funny.

Originally posted by SOLOMON
I been told i'm funny.

And.... confident. I'm sure you've been told that a few times? Well, I just implied that in my last post, but I'm sure people you know in person have maybe said it. Just a hunch.

SOLOMON Is Funny

Originally posted by Cashodeen


And.... confident. I'm sure you've been told that a few times? Well, I just implied that in my last post, but I'm sure people you know in person have maybe said it. Just a hunch.

Yes confident also. What made u get the confident vibe from me?

Originally posted by SOLOMON
Yes confident also. What made u get the confident vibe from me?

Well actually, it's weird to pick up any sort of vibe on someone's confidence when you don't know the person, but then you don't have to be a brain surgeon to read a few of your posts and pick up on it. One time I was going to joke that, if you haven't already, you should go to law school. You ability to argue is great. LOL.

And I think a post of yours yesterday confirmed it. You said you were arrogant up until about a year ago, or something to that effect. I just assume if you used to be arrogant you probably just scaled your attitude down to a "confident" level. Lol.

Originally posted by Cashodeen


Well actually, it's weird to pick up any sort of vibe on someone's confidence when you don't know the person, but then you don't have to be a brain surgeon to read a few of your posts and pick up on it. One time I was going to joke that, if you haven't already, you should go to law school. You ability to argue is great. LOL.

And I think a post of yours yesterday confirmed it. You said you were arrogant up until about a year ago, or something to that effect. I just assume if you used to be arrogant you probably just scaled your attitude down to a "confident" level. Lol.

He could be the next Columbo.Ask so many questions on one subject that the bad guy gets annoyed:D.

Originally posted by Cashodeen


Well actually, it's weird to pick up any sort of vibe on someone's confidence when you don't know the person, but then you don't have to be a brain surgeon to read a few of your posts and pick up on it. One time I was going to joke that, if you haven't already, you should go to law school. You ability to argue is great. LOL.

And I think a post of yours yesterday confirmed it. You said you were arrogant up until about a year ago, or something to that effect. I just assume if you used to be arrogant you probably just scaled your attitude down to a "confident" level. Lol.


Yeah the arrogance went away with age. 95-99-vey arrogrant. 00-03-less arrogant

Originally posted by Elvis Fonzie Dean
He could be the next Columbo.Ask so many questions on one subject that the bad guy gets annoyed.:D

:lol:

Originally posted by SOLOMON
Yeah the arrogance went away with age. 95-99-vey arrogrant. 00-03-less arrogant

I see. But you didn't go to law school, did you? ;)

Originally posted by Cashodeen


I see. But you didn't go to law school, did you? ;)

LOL-no i didn't go to law school. U mentioned my ability to argue. You should read my post on the Spinoffs Board-Topic-Good Times/Maude-that has been a ongoing debate since March.-LOL

Originally posted by SOLOMON

LOL-no i didn't go to law school. U mentioned my ability to argue. You should read my post on the Spinoffs Board-Topic-Good Times/Maude-that has been a ongoing debate since March.-LOL

Oh yes, I have seen that debate. I chose to stay completely out of it. LOL. So you didn't go to law school? Well, I'll say it now, "You should have!" LOL

Originally posted by Cashodeen


Oh yes, I have seen that debate. I chose to stay completely out of it. LOL. So you didn't go to law school? Well, I'll say it now, "You should have!" LOL


Have u watched either Good Times or Maude before?

well Hell at my age HE BETTER have a house and a car I'D be scared if he didnt I mean I could see all you young folks not caring but when you get to be 30 its VERY important I mean you want a stable guy for you you know what I mean

Originally posted by SOLOMON
Have u watched either Good Times or Maude before?

Yes, but I don't know enough about them to get in the debate. I watched reruns of Good Times years ago... I hardly remember it. I haven't watched it recently. And Maude I've seen occationally when it's aired on TV Land.

It doesn't matter to me, if I like a guy its not about having a car or a house... material things don't matter much to me.

Originally posted by King Chad Doody


Or A Murderer :lol:


:lol:

Originally posted by SOLOMON


More important than being disease free and straight????

It all depends on the car.

;)

Originally posted by SOLOMON


More important than being disease free and straight????
If the guy wasnt straight, I wouldnt be dating him!

Hmm... whats more important.. car or house? Id have to go with car. You gotta have a car! Im old fashioned so I expect him to do the driving. Not saying Id never drive, but whoever asks who out has to be the driver. Its stupid if he asked wanna go out tomorrow night then said Pick me up @ 8! Or worse.. having his parents drive.:eek:

Originally posted by ¤MsConanOBrien¤

If the guy wasnt straight, I wouldnt be dating him!

Hmm... whats more important.. car or house? Id have to go with car. You gotta have a car! Im old fashioned so I expect him to do the driving. Not saying Id never drive, but whoever asks who out has to be the driver. Its stupid if he asked wanna go out tomorrow night then said Pick me up @ 8! Or worse.. having his parents drive.:eek:


I guess it depends on age. If a female is under 30 then it may not be as important but over 30 is a different story.

Originally posted by SOLOMON



I guess it depends on age. If a female is under 30 then it may not be as important but over 30 is a different story. Exactly SEE for me My man needs a Car and a House I mean it would seem odd to me why a man in his 30s still lived with his parents OR HELL worse had a BACHELOR pad that would turn on a red light in me that says the guy is REALLLY Immature and not ready for a commitment and Me being 30 I NEED a man whose ready to commit

Originally posted by AnahiemPMWitch
Exactly SEE for me My man needs a Car and a House I mean it would seem odd to me why a man in his 30s still lived with his parents OR HELL worse had a BACHELOR pad that would turn on a red light in me that says the guy is REALLLY Immature and not ready for a commitment and Me being 30 I NEED a man whose ready to commit


Females need to stop putting pressure on men to commit and just let things happen. I'm so tired of females putting a time limit on when they want to be married.

I think it's a good thing if the guy has a house, because if he lives with his parents or something, it's a sign that he'll have a hard time surviving without them. If he doesn't have his own house (like, if he lives with roommates or something), that's OK too.

Car? I wouldn't care so much if I lived in the city and there was public transportation, but I live in the country and I don't want to walk everywhere.

Originally posted by SOLOMON



Females need to stop putting pressure on men to commit and just let things happen. I'm so tired of females putting a time limit on when they want to be married. well but it depends on the person I mean YOU arent ready for marriage but there are guys out there that ARE as well as women I've had a few proposals but they werent THE ONE so I let them go I'm still lookin though I KNOW hes out there somewhere

Originally posted by SOLOMON



Females need to stop putting pressure on men to commit and just let things happen. I'm so tired of females putting a time limit on when they want to be married.

Yeah, pressure is no good. I'll avoid that at all costs. But unfortunately I have set in my head that I need some time limit on marraige. Someday if I don't lose that, it'll end up screwing me over. I know I don't want to be married before 30, but after that I fear I may start getting anxious. At least that's 10 years down the road and commitment now can take a hike.