I swear man i try to deal with women the best way i can but most of the time they make me wanna slap them. I try to refrain from getting mad at them but i see why so many men beat their women cause women will cause u to do that if u let them. Their attitudes are like night & day. I just met this black woman who works at a bank. I talked to her yesterday & she seemed like she didn't wanna be bothered. I called her when she got off work yesterday & she told me she would call me back as soon as i got on the phone with her. What's that about? She never did call me back. I never believe a woman when they tell me they're gonna call me back. I'm gonna call her today one last time & if she acts like she doesn't wanna be bothered again, i'm gonna leave her alone. There's this other black woman i met who likes me but she's involved with another man who is her baby daddy. She doesn't really wanna be with him but she says she has to cause they have a daughter together. Is that a lame excuse or what? There's plenty of women out here who have kids & they're not with their baby fathers. If a man makes u unhappy, leave him. Just because u have a child with him doesn't mean u have to stay together. I don't talk to her anymore either cause she's wasting my time. She said she was gonna give me her cell number but whenever i ask for it, she can't seem to remember what it is. I deal with black women a lot but i think i'm gonna stop talkin to them period cause black women are a trip. White guys on here, if you've never dealt with a black woman before, don't start cause you'll wish u didn't. I see why a lot of black men are dating a lot of white girls today cause white girls seem easier to get along with & they seem cool to deal with. To be honest, i don't like dealing with women period cause they're a pain in the ass. If i don't talk to them, my peers will think i'm strange or gay which isn't the case at all. I love women especially black women but i get tired of the same old bulls**t. I could be alone for the rest of my life & it wouldn't bother me none if i hadn't had any sex for a long time. There's things that i like to do such as watching tv & movies, watching football & basketball, listening to rap music besides thinking about a woman so not having a girlfriend doesn't bother me. It bothers my father. I don't know why it should. I think women like guys who are quiet like myself cause it shows them that i'm not trying to make the first move & i'm pretending like i don't have a interest in them. Most women like guys who make the first move but a lot of women also like guys who don't approach them cause it makes a woman wonder whether that guy is interested in her or not.

Isiah - Do you have any sisters? I'm just wondering.

Some woman when they don't like a guy gently try to make excuses. If you phone that 1st gal today and she doesn't respond "Forget aboout it"! There are so many fish in the sea. Don't let one or two gals get you down.

As far as your father is concerned he only tells you things because he's your parent and wants the best for you. Parents don't want to see their children alone. They think like "If anything happens to me..... Isiah will be alone"... The best time of your life is "now" so have fun! He probably doesn't want you to stay home all the time. He wants you to live your life. If you see a gal you like "invite her to the movies." If she says "No" then you say "NEXT"....................

Oh and Isiah - When you talk about slapping them that's not a good thing you know......... That may be the problem. Be COOL.................... :cool:

No i don't have any sisters & i'm glad i don't. It's just my brother & i.

You sound very bitter and intolerant.

Please explain how i sound bitter & intolerant.

Originally posted by isiahthomas
No i don't have any sisters & i'm glad i don't. It's just my brother & i. :lol: The reason why I asked you this is..... Having grown up without sisters it would be harder for you to deal with a woman. My hubby didn't grow up with sisters so it's a constant struggle for him to understand me sometimes. After many years he may have it down packed... First off....... Woman go through many hormonal changes that men don't get. That's alot of the reason why they change their mind so often.

For you....... You have to keep your temper under control with them. Realize that they go through their changes and they are very sensitive and you'll be okay. Just keep that in mind. Also remember If you have a short Fuse............ No one will tolerate you........ least of all a Woman!

Originally posted by isiahthomas
Please explain how i sound bitter & intolerant.

You sound like you have a lot of bitter,hostile feelings towards women.When you talk about wanting to slap them,that's not good.Maybe the women can sense this and that's why they act this way towards you.

I've never hit a woman in my life & i don't intend to. I've also never argued with a woman cause i don't believe in two people arguing about nothin & neither one's point is getting across. Pitooey that girl i told u about who works at the bank that i met, she returned my call last night after i left. I checked my caller id & saw she called so i guess that's a good thing but that means nothin really. If a girl calls u on her own, now that's a good thing.

Then maybe you should start ****ing men.

Originally posted by Avril Lavigne
Then maybe you should start ****ing men.
:rotflmao:!!

offtopic: How was Avril? I noticed your sign.!

Originally posted by •Shotz|NYC•

:rotflmao:!!

offtopic: How was Avril? I noticed your sign.!

She was awesome live. I posted my little story on the music board to a thread Brandon made.

Originally posted by Avril Lavigne


She was awesome live. I posted my little story on the music board to a thread Brandon made.
Oh ok! Thats awesome!!:woohoo:

I am a woman and I can understand some of the things you are saying but it is very difficult for some women to come right out and say what we feel. We don't want to hurt the guys feelings or anything by telling them we are not interested. Girls in general are raised to be nice and polite and considerate of others feelings more so than boys are. It seems to me that this woman sort of lead you on by saying she would call you. If she is not interested she should have told you but probably didn't want to make you mad or hurt your feelings.
As far as her not calling you when she said she would, I can't tell you how many guys have done that to me so it isn't just women who do things like that. Guys are just as guilty.

Originally posted by vintagetvgirl
You sound very bitter and intolerant.

Yeah, I have to agree.

Oh stop your bitching and moaning. With that attitude of yours, you're probably half the problem

Originally posted by isiahthomas
I deal with black women a lot but i think i'm gonna stop talkin to them period cause black women are a trip. White guys on here, if you've never dealt with a black woman before, don't start cause you'll wish u didn't. I see why a lot of black men are dating a lot of white girls today cause white girls seem easier to get along with & they seem cool to deal with. I dont see why you're giving this crap off that all black women are hard to get along with. My best friend is biracial with black and white and she is in NO way like that.....why do u even have to bring in race anyway?

Originally posted by Miss Karly
Oh stop your bitching and moaning. With that attitude of yours, you're probably half the problem

I agree. I think his attitude is the main problem here. The old saying "You catch more flies with sugar than with vinegar" is definately true. If you act all p*ssed off and bitter to women then they're gonna steer clear of you. Conversely, if you project a nice and loving image of yourself then they are gonna want to get to know you better.
I can attest this first-hand: I used to act like a moron and shut myself off and be all bitter and twisted. But since I've become more open and friendly towards people (many of whom I barely know) I've found that girls take a lot more interest in me. Ok, pretty much all of them are straight, but that's not the point.........
I had a male friend who grew up surrounded by all his brothers. His father practically raised him single-handedly and he had a poor relationship with his mother. He looked at women practically the same way isiahthomas does because he never had any female influence in his life.
I think lack of understanding is the key. He needs to spend more time with women and learn to appreciate them instead of losing his temper everytime they do or say something he doesn't understand.
Listen isiah - men and women will never figure out what's going on with each other, but it is possible to obtain some common ground. You will never be able to do that if you remain in your current mindset. I know you say you're not violent and you'd never hit a woman but the fact that you even think about it is cause for concern from where I'm standing. Don't hate all women just cos one or two of them hurt you. It's not fair. Women are beautiful and they deserve your respect.

Avril Lavigne shut the hell up, i didn't ask u for your opinion. Men is not a option. Ya'll are not hearing me. I said i will never hit a woman or argue with them no matter how upset they make me. As a matter of fact i don't even let women get me upset cause i just don't pay them any attention. There's this african woman who i'm talkin to right now who i think is attractive. She shows interest in me so i show interest back. I'm gonna ask her out & see what happens.

Originally posted by isiahthomas
As a matter of fact i don't even let women get me upset cause i just don't pay them any attention.

If you don't let women upset you then why the hell did you start this thread?!??

Originally posted by Avril Lavigne
Then maybe you should start ****ing men. :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

Originally posted by isiahthomas
There's this african woman who i'm talkin to right now who i think is attractive. She shows interest in me so i show interest back. I'm gonna ask her out & see what happens. Good Luck Isiah! :D

sure the ways of women can be hard to understand for guys like us. why do they fuss about hair and apperance or if their clothes match? why do they go to the bathroom in little groups? some questions are best left unanswered although the bathroom thing is really strange

anyway yes women can be trouble i don't know about black wemon but what does skin color matter i mean people are they same no matter what race right? it is all about what you are exposed to throughout your life

so turn gay

Originally posted by brownsocks
sure the ways of women can be hard to understand for guys like us. why do they fuss about hair and apperance or if their clothes match? why do they go to the bathroom in little groups? some questions are best left unanswered although the bathroom thing is really strange

anyway yes women can be trouble i don't know about black wemon but what does skin color matter i mean people are they same no matter what race right? it is all about what you are exposed to throughout your life

um.....ok.

Originally posted by Avril Lavigne
Then maybe you should start ****ing men.

:lol:

Originally posted by isiahthomas
I swear man i try to deal with women the best way i can but most of the time they make me wanna slap them. I try to refrain from getting mad at them but i see why so many men beat their women cause women will cause u to do that if u let them. Their attitudes are like night & day. I just met this black woman who works at a bank. I talked to her yesterday & she seemed like she didn't wanna be bothered. I called her when she got off work yesterday & she told me she would call me back as soon as i got on the phone with her. What's that about? She never did call me back. I never believe a woman when they tell me they're gonna call me back. I'm gonna call her today one last time & if she acts like she doesn't wanna be bothered again, i'm gonna leave her alone. There's this other black woman i met who likes me but she's involved with another man who is her baby daddy. She doesn't really wanna be with him but she says she has to cause they have a daughter together. Is that a lame excuse or what? There's plenty of women out here who have kids & they're not with their baby fathers. If a man makes u unhappy, leave him. Just because u have a child with him doesn't mean u have to stay together. I don't talk to her anymore either cause she's wasting my time. She said she was gonna give me her cell number but whenever i ask for it, she can't seem to remember what it is. I deal with black women a lot but i think i'm gonna stop talkin to them period cause black women are a trip. White guys on here, if you've never dealt with a black woman before, don't start cause you'll wish u didn't. I see why a lot of black men are dating a lot of white girls today cause white girls seem easier to get along with & they seem cool to deal with. To be honest, i don't like dealing with women period cause they're a pain in the ass. If i don't talk to them, my peers will think i'm strange or gay which isn't the case at all. I love women especially black women but i get tired of the same old bulls**t. I could be alone for the rest of my life & it wouldn't bother me none if i hadn't had any sex for a long time. There's things that i like to do such as watching tv & movies, watching football & basketball, listening to rap music besides thinking about a woman so not having a girlfriend doesn't bother me. It bothers my father. I don't know why it should. I think women like guys who are quiet like myself cause it shows them that i'm not trying to make the first move & i'm pretending like i don't have a interest in them. Most women like guys who make the first move but a lot of women also like guys who don't approach them cause it makes a woman wonder whether that guy is interested in her or not.

:eek::rolleyes: You've got a lot of guts to say something like that on a board that is mostly composed of women! Man, I'll be praying for your mortal soul!:wave:

I always thought women were human. :confused:

Originally posted by Original Prankster
I always thought women were human. :confused:

They Are! :p ;)

Originally posted by Original Prankster
I always thought women were human. :confused:

We are...it's the men I'm worried about! ;)

Originally posted by Original Prankster
I always thought women were human. :confused:

Sometimes I wonder...

:eek2: whoops! Excuse me, ladies. :seeya:

Originally posted by dawsongirl
We are...it's the men I'm worried about! ;)

:lol:

Originally posted by isiahthomas
Avril Lavigne shut the hell up, i didn't ask u for your opinion.

you didn't ask anyones opinion, but I am still gonna give it you. I said that because you sound like a bitter *******, I hope that girl kicks your ass.

Originally posted by brownsocks
why do they go to the bathroom in little groups?

so we can talk about the guys we're with of course. ;)

actually, im serious.



and isiah- chill out, so we're difficult sometimes, with that attitude i dont think you need to worry about it anytime soon.

Why bother?

You wonder why men get labels of beasts because of that kind of theory.Women are far more rational and can prioritize and organize their thoughts far better then men can.Then there are women who are brought up with mothers like my wife who don't want to face their feeling and why there feeling it.She tends to surpress her feeling until she can sort them out..Men cannot express themselves because were still learning how to find the ability to be human beings that can put aside their need to be incontrol and run everything and talk things out.my father is passive with his wife because he knows if he stands up to her she will take everything..If Men just admitted that women for the most part have their **** together men could get out of the dog house that most men are in all the time.There is no room for ego or pride in relationships especially when you have found your soulmate.I would rather be wrong and a have trish then be right and be alone.So far all the men who probably were brought up chomping on steaks before they were cooked get your collective egos and old man theories that brut force and scaring your wife is the way then I feel sorry for you -I wouldn't be half the man Iam today or the husband or father for that matter.Thats all