Three'sCompanyrules
04-23-2003, 03:03 AM
I need some advice from you guys. I know a poster awhile back posted something like this, but now I find myself in the same situation.
Well about 4 months ago I met a girl on the internet. So I e-mailed her to introduce myself, because I found out she is from the same state I am, but our two towns is about an hour and a half drive from each other. So we e-mailed each other for about two months or so, and in late February or early March we started talking over Instant messanger, and we found our we have the same intrests and alot of the same views on certin issues, and we both seem real nice, we have also talked to each other over a microphone that you plug into your computer and we have nice conversations. I have seen a picture of her, but she hasn't seen a picture of me yet, because our scanner isn't working right, so she will see it once it is fixed, then we will know what we each look like. Then we talked about being boyfriend/girlfriend after 4 months of knowing each other and remember she hasn't seen a picture of me yet, however I'm not the best looking guy in the world, but I'm not an ugly guy either. We have talked about meeting each other in person, but it has been only 4 months since we have known each other. I showed my parents and friends her picture and explained to them how we met and stuff, and they are very happy for me and ok with it, however when she told her parents about me, they are like you can be friends but nothing more, and when she told her best friend about me and how we met she didn't take it very well. Now I can understand her concern, because you hear alot of stories about people meeting over the internet, but I am not one of those people, and I don't know how to convince them I'm a nice person. Some of her friends think this is great but we should take this very slow. Now we have agreed to be just friends, but we both still wish we could be a couple and we don't want to make anybody mad. So I have some questions that maybe you can help me answer. 1. Do you think we moved to fast? Since we wanted to meet after 4 months, or do you think we should wait a little longer? 2. How can I convince her parents and friends that I'm not a sex crazed maniac on the computer looking for a good time? 3. Do you think we should or Shouldn't meet in the future, because how will we know if we are or aren't meant to be if we never meet? Oh and remember she hasn't seen a picture of me yet. So if you could help me out and give me some advice about what I posted and the questions I asked, I would greatly appreciate it! Thanks!
PS. If I can think of more questions I will post them, becuase we both hope this can work out, but we agreed if it doesn't we will be friends.
pps I have thought of another question and this may tie all questions together, but with all I posted do you think this girl and I should think about becomming an item in the futre after everyone is happy about us or should we just remain friends?
Well about 4 months ago I met a girl on the internet. So I e-mailed her to introduce myself, because I found out she is from the same state I am, but our two towns is about an hour and a half drive from each other. So we e-mailed each other for about two months or so, and in late February or early March we started talking over Instant messanger, and we found our we have the same intrests and alot of the same views on certin issues, and we both seem real nice, we have also talked to each other over a microphone that you plug into your computer and we have nice conversations. I have seen a picture of her, but she hasn't seen a picture of me yet, because our scanner isn't working right, so she will see it once it is fixed, then we will know what we each look like. Then we talked about being boyfriend/girlfriend after 4 months of knowing each other and remember she hasn't seen a picture of me yet, however I'm not the best looking guy in the world, but I'm not an ugly guy either. We have talked about meeting each other in person, but it has been only 4 months since we have known each other. I showed my parents and friends her picture and explained to them how we met and stuff, and they are very happy for me and ok with it, however when she told her parents about me, they are like you can be friends but nothing more, and when she told her best friend about me and how we met she didn't take it very well. Now I can understand her concern, because you hear alot of stories about people meeting over the internet, but I am not one of those people, and I don't know how to convince them I'm a nice person. Some of her friends think this is great but we should take this very slow. Now we have agreed to be just friends, but we both still wish we could be a couple and we don't want to make anybody mad. So I have some questions that maybe you can help me answer. 1. Do you think we moved to fast? Since we wanted to meet after 4 months, or do you think we should wait a little longer? 2. How can I convince her parents and friends that I'm not a sex crazed maniac on the computer looking for a good time? 3. Do you think we should or Shouldn't meet in the future, because how will we know if we are or aren't meant to be if we never meet? Oh and remember she hasn't seen a picture of me yet. So if you could help me out and give me some advice about what I posted and the questions I asked, I would greatly appreciate it! Thanks!
PS. If I can think of more questions I will post them, becuase we both hope this can work out, but we agreed if it doesn't we will be friends.
pps I have thought of another question and this may tie all questions together, but with all I posted do you think this girl and I should think about becomming an item in the futre after everyone is happy about us or should we just remain friends?