I'm deeply sorry everyone for all my negetiveness, I really truely am. I'm deeply sorry to those I PM'ed too. I'm really just having some tough times, right now. I wish everyone would accept what I'm saying, and believe me. If I post negetively again you can yell at me all you want, and report me to TJ. But, please be considerate and understanding, and give me a chance. I'm really really just having rough times right now. Again I'm very very deeply sorry, and I just want peace between me, and you all and no more arguments. Please please please try to forgive me, believe me, and give me a chance to be positive. I'm going to try to get out and make some friends, and do more activities then maybe I'd be more positive and self-confident of myself and others. I just want to drop this whole thing, and forget about it. I may come back sometime if I have anything, to say about HD. But, for now I'm going to do other things. I know I apologize too much, but I just want you all to give me a chance to stop writing, negetive things. The thing that is important is that I'm sorry, and know I did wrong and have learned a lesson. I'm just so deeply sorry and please please please everyone, accept what I say, believe it, and give me a chance to stop being negetive. I'm just having some rough times now. But, I'll be ok don't worry. I just want peace, and all those wonderful things between us. If this apology is'nt good enough then, I'm sorry. I tried. :( :crying: I'm going away now for awhile, and would more than appreciate everyone's understanding, kindness, and consideration. I'm sure you all are, wonderful people. Please give me a chance to stop being negetive, and don't be against me, please. :( :crying:

I accept your apology.:happyface

Dear FLJ,

I haven't known you for very long, but I want to say hi and send you a bouquet of real white roses and easter lilies.

I also give you a sand dollar from Florida, a guardian angel feather to let you know someone loves you...

The strength to search your own soul and spirit even in yang incomprehensible....

The strength to face raw facts about people around you IRL/OL and including your own self...even if it hurts with the pain of two hundred and twenty millennia...

of all the people of all the past civilizations of this world and even in the fictional world...

The heart of a lion, the soul of a knight of the round table...

and a hug to make up for all lost time, 777 decades ago and 777 decades forward.

Read every book by a man called David Pelzer. I swear I recommend him to everyone in HDO.

May this prayer be sent to FLJ, wherever she may be. Amen.

Oh come on...We've already heard this 30 times! Yet you continue to send people PMs and turn on us again. Why dont you just make it easy on yourself and everyone and just leave? You've done this so many times i dont trust you.

No comment

Originally posted by Chad Doody
Oh come on...We've already heard this 30 times! Yet you continue to send people PMs and turn on us again. Why dont you just make it easy on yourself and everyone and just leave? You've done this so many times i dont trust you.
Ya. I was right... she PMd me this morning. I dont do her sob stories anymore.

Whatd she say this time?

Originally posted by Chad Doody
Whatd she say this time?
I deleted it.:( LOl. But yea.. nothing we havent heard before.

Im sorry. I had a bad day. Youre my friend. Please forgive me. Ill be fine, dont worry. Blah blah blah.

Originally posted by ¤MsConanOBrien¤

I deleted it.:( LOl. But yea.. nothing we havent heard before.

Im sorry. I had a bad day. Youre my friend. Please forgive me. Ill be fine, dont worry. Blah blah blah. Poor girl, every day is a bad day.:rolleyes:

This doesn't sound like something I want to be involved in, but I think what I have to say may help.

First off, FLJ, I have chacked back and seen some really 'not nice' posts of yours. Now I know I can be a pain in the a$$, but so far no one has ever been mad at me (or if they have they have never posted it) so I have no reason to believe they would get made and un-appreceative with you. One think I have noticed with your temper tantrums is that you get real mad at the fact that people don't reply to your posts, but thats not true. I have had many posts where no-one has replied, but on the other hand I have had lots of replys. It's the same with you. Sure, some don't get answered, but lots do. Anyways, instead of getting all upset (which you have done many times, and thats why no-one ever believes you anymore) I suggest you talk about your problems with either me or any other member on the board... and do so nicely. If we know the problem, we can help you. But, don't go around with an "I have a problem, I want help, I feel so useless" routine, I have seen people do that alot in the past. Instead, try and figure it out on your own, and if you really can't get through it, ask for help. And one last thing... no-one has ever back stabbed you, we have all stood behind you when you needed it.

Secondly, everyone else, I understand why you all are getting annoyed. I suggest we give another chance to work things through. I think FLJ has become part of the family here, and family members do have fights, and bothers, but they always work through it. I think, as I posted above, that we should try and talk to FLJ and get to understand the problem. Perhaps make a new thread for the topic? That way we can prevent things like this from happening in the future. Now, this is all under the promise that FLJ won't post any more of this kind of stuff, and that there will be no more PMs sent, unless there is a problem and she requires help. If FLJ does this again, I say fine, give up. But one more chance may do the trick if you all go by what I am trying to do.

Atleast, just consider what I said, and when you think about it, it makes sense. I know that I like FLJ, and I think it would be a shame to lose a friend when you can work it through and find a solution. Thanks.

Here's my two cents. Granted, they're not worth much, but I thought I'd share anyway.


This reminds me of an episode of Cheers (wrong show for this board, I know...but go with me for a second, if you will). Carla had a problem with her temper. She was a fiesty little woman with a huge mouth. Sure, she was a great person. She was actually one of my favorite characters on the show. But she couldn't control her temper and it got her into trouble. One day, she went off on a customer who got highly irrate and threatened to sue the bar if Sammy didn't fire her. Carla even apologized, but the apologies were of little use after the guy realized they weren't sincere. So, Carla had to take anger management classes and meet with a phsychologist. She had to work through her problem and show some real progress before the guy agreed to drop his grievance. She had to prove that she had actually changed.

FLJ, if you're reading this, you need to seek real help. I'm sure it must be difficult for you. Personally, I have nothing against you except the fact that you went off on some truly awesome people. Make an appointment with a reputable psychologist. Work your problems out. Then, come back and prove that you're a nice person. I have confidence in you. I know that you will be able to come out on top of this whole thing if you want to. :hug:

FLJ, I hope you're still listening...

Yes, like I told you...life don't need a reason, hon, it can lift you or leave you bleeding.

But just because life, by nature, can often really make like a Euro Pro Bagless Stick Shark by sucking like it's the apocalypse...well it doesn't mean the person who has it needs to give people, OL or offline, the wrong impression...which, I hate to give it to you raw, is what you've done w/most of these good folks.

But just hang on and wait, no matter how long it takes. Don't do anything drastic or dramatic...it'll bring you to ruin no matter how heavy-duty your Bagless Stick Shark may be.

Other good books to read:

The Power of Positive Thinking by Norman Vincent Peale
The Power of Positive Living by the same guy

Any book by SARK

I would not recommend any therapists or psychologists. They have been known to be very emotionally/verbally abusive and can work in reverse. A project I did a long time ago in school has shown that many can work in reverse,


It's like playing Russian Roulette, which is the last thing you want.

*gives FLJ the strength and courage of twenty lions to be her own therapist and be unashamed, and the endurance of the Starship Enterprise to take the pain of whatever she may find...to see hope and light...and be rebuilt to suit a brighter future.*

I just thought Id share the PM she sent me LOl. Made me laugh..

Originally posted by ¤MsConanOBrien¤
I just thought Id share the PM she sent me LOl. Made me laugh..
:lol: :rotflmao:

Originally posted by TheFonz

:lol: :rotflmao:
LOl I know huh!! I mean.. shes serious about it! Thats what makes it so funny!!

Shes Nutso :lol:

Oops double post!:blush:

Here's one she sent me...
____________________________________________________
YES MCOB WAS MEAN TO ME, AND SO WERE SOME OTHERS ON CC AND HAPPY DAYS!!!!!! You're the same idiot as the rest of them, and yes you are a liar and a traitor. You act like you're my big buddy sticking up for me and all, then you turn around and are, all mean and acting like an idiot, like you're on everyone else's side. Just because MCOB is you're buddy, does'nt mean you have to agree with everything she does!!!!!!! Well, forget you then you're just a looser, a betrayer, and a phoney like the rest of them!!!!!!!! This is my last mail to you and you're not worth having as a friend, or worth anything. You're just a stupid idiot looser, and if you have to mislead girls into thinking you're their friend, then you've got serious problems and should'nt even be around them. Well, thanks for misleading me and the helicopter with you, you worthless, lying, selfish, looser!!!!!!!!!!
____________________________________________________

Originally posted by TheFonz
Here's one she sent me...
____________________________________________________
YES MCOB WAS MEAN TO ME, AND SO WERE SOME OTHERS ON CC AND HAPPY DAYS!!!!!! You're the same idiot as the rest of them, and yes you are a liar and a traitor. You act like you're my big buddy sticking up for me and all, then you turn around and are, all mean and acting like an idiot, like you're on everyone else's side. Just because MCOB is you're buddy, does'nt mean you have to agree with everything she does!!!!!!! Well, forget you then you're just a looser, a betrayer, and a phoney like the rest of them!!!!!!!! This is my last mail to you and you're not worth having as a friend, or worth anything. You're just a stupid idiot looser, and if you have to mislead girls into thinking you're their friend, then you've got serious problems and should'nt even be around them. Well, thanks for misleading me and the helicopter with you, you worthless, lying, selfish, looser!!!!!!!!!!
____________________________________________________
LMAO. Her and her damn helicopter!!! My God!!!!:lol: :lol: :lol:

Thatll be her "last" PM for today LOl..

Ok, Thats it. Fonzies Leather Jacket, You are officially a Dork Chop

Originally posted by ¤MsConanOBrien¤

LMAO. Her and her damn helicopter!!! My God!!!!:lol: :lol: :lol:

Thatll be her "last" PM for today LOl..
I think she sent me that 3 days ago, anyways she sent me one telling me she was sorry again, But now she has it set so she can't sent or recieve PMs now.

Originally posted by TheFonz

I think she sent me that 3 days ago, anyways she sent me one telling me she was sorry again, But now she has it set so she can't sent or recieve PMs now.

I Know, I was just about to PM her and give her a piece of my mind.

Originally posted by Chad Doody


I Know, I was just about to PM her and give her a piece of my mind.
She told me earlyer if I "Come to my senses" I should PM her and say I'm sorry for what I did to her...How the heck can I do that if she has it set so she can't recieve PMs? :crazy:

As i said...DORKCHOP!

I Just thought about something...You think she has that Multiple Personality thing?

Originally posted by Chad Doody
I Just thought about something...You think she has that Multiple Personality thing?

No I don't think so. This is just a form of depression where whomever has it always feels down, unless they can get people to say nice things about them. As we have, when the nice things are said the person calms down, but as you see it doesn't last. Like CollegeGirl said she needs to seek out a reputable threpist.
If it was dif personalities she'd be using different user names and it would seem like different people.

Originally posted by Chad Doody
Ok, Thats it. Fonzies Leather Jacket, You are officially a Dork Chop
LMAO that made me laugh.

Dorkchaaupsh.. and uhappleshaaush.

Originally posted by ¤MsConanOBrien¤

LMAO that made me laugh.

Dorkchaaupsh.. and uhappleshaaush.

:rotflmao: Omg!! that's funny! Oh Lordy B'Gordy that's good!

Originally posted by ¤MsConanOBrien¤

LMAO that made me laugh.

Dorkchaaupsh.. and uhappleshaaush.
:rotflmao: LOL, OMG! Good one MCOB!

Originally posted by Chad Doody
Ok, Thats it. Fonzies Leather Jacket, You are officially a Dork Chop

Ok...I'm coming in way late on this I know, and I have nothing to do with it...so I guess you could say this is offtopic: but I just wanted to say that was FUNNY! And this Fonzesleatherjacket girl sounds like a looney. Anywho...I have never personally spoken to you chad doody, but I have read a lot of your posts! I just wanted to say you are hilarious! I love happy days and I am probably gonna start posting here more, so hi everyone I'm brittany, hope to get to know you all better soon! :D

(Sorry I used this topic as kind of a way to introduce myself...I get carried away sometimes...all I meant to say was Fonzesleatherjacket is crazy and chad doody is funny.:rolleyes: )

LOl. WOOWOO :woohoo: Ha.. Im watching TBB right now.. Bobbys having another moment :My whole class hates me!!! Wahh!!!!!!!

Which episode is that Crys?

Welcome Brittany :) Leave it Beaver is a cool show too. I love the very first episode and the one where he gets trapped in up in that bowl. That was funny. You'll like it here. Yes, FLJ's gone postal. Everyone else here is great! :D

Originally posted by Katie_NY
Welcome Brittany :) Leave it Beaver is a cool show too. I love the very first episode and the one where he gets trapped in up in that bowl. That was funny. You'll like it here. Yes, FLJ's gone postal. Everyone else here is great! :D

:D Thanks. I've been keeping my eye on things and the HD board seems to be the "happenin" place to be. I hope to make this my second home next to the litb board.:D

Hey welcome to the boards! my name is Ashley :) Everyone here is super nice you will love it!

Originally posted by *ShortCake*
Hey welcome to the boards! my name is Ashley :) Everyone here is super nice you will love it!

I am noticing this! Why have I been staying away for so long???

Ok...I have another offtopic: question...(i seem to be good at these)...what is the "Happy Days Mafia" (don't hurt me for not knowing, IM NEW!) Is it like a gang you guys have??? I wanna be in a gang...:( Don't worry though, i would never start one of my own...by the looks of things this is the only good gang...(i've noticed another one called "the slayers" or something...)

Originally posted by BeaversBiggestFan


I am noticing this! Why have I been staying away for so long???

Ok...I have another offtopic: question...(i seem to be good at these)...what is the "Happy Days Mafia" (don't hurt me for not knowing, IM NEW!) Is it like a gang you guys have??? I wanna be in a gang...:( Don't worry though, i would never start one of my own...by the looks of things this is the only good gang...(i've noticed another one called "the slayers" or something...)


Yep its a gang!!! :D You are welcome to join if you want.. talk to crystal about joining! Do you have AIM? mine is LucyBall1000 or StarMoulinRouge.. I am on all the time!

Originally posted by *ShortCake*



Yep its a gang!!! :D You are welcome to join if you want.. talk to crystal about joining! Do you have AIM? mine is LucyBall1000 or StarMoulinRouge.. I am on all the time!

Cool...I'll have to do that. I do have aim...SparkySparkles1. :D

Originally posted by BeaversBiggestFan


Ok...I'm coming in way late on this I know, and I have nothing to do with it...so I guess you could say this is offtopic: but I just wanted to say that was FUNNY! And this Fonzesleatherjacket girl sounds like a looney. Anywho...I have never personally spoken to you chad doody, but I have read a lot of your posts! I just wanted to say you are hilarious! I love happy days and I am probably gonna start posting here more, so hi everyone I'm brittany, hope to get to know you all better soon! :D

(Sorry I used this topic as kind of a way to introduce myself...I get carried away sometimes...all I meant to say was Fonzesleatherjacket is crazy and chad doody is funny.:rolleyes: )
Hi! Welcome to the HD board! :welcome:
And you are welcome to join the HD Mafia if you'd like!

Who's the leader of this gang anyway?

peace: I come in peace...take me to your leader peace:

Originally posted by BeaversBiggestFan
Who's the leader of this gang anyway?

peace: I come in peace...take me to your leader peace:
I don't know...I don't think there is one, we all are leaders!:D

Originally posted by FonzForever


No I don't think so. This is just a form of depression where whomever has it always feels down, unless they can get people to say nice things about them. As we have, when the nice things are said the person calms down, but as you see it doesn't last. Like CollegeGirl said she needs to seek out a reputable threpist.
If it was dif personalities she'd be using different user names and it would seem like different people.


Also, with MPS the different personalities have no comprehension of the others. So, if one personality came on, she would have no recollection of anything that happened to the others. This is definitely one person who is very coherent in what she is doing. But, ack, I could go on a Roger tangent and talk psychology all day.....please! Someone stop me!

Stop Rogering out on us....

:) :lol:

:lol: :lol:

Originally posted by Katie_NY
Which episode is that Crys?

Welcome Brittany :) Leave it Beaver is a cool show too. I love the very first episode and the one where he gets trapped in up in that bowl. That was funny. You'll like it here. Yes, FLJ's gone postal. Everyone else here is great! :D
Law & Disorder? No, I forget the name LOl. Bobby becomes hall moniter. Mike also brings home the "Titanic" of a boat!!:lol:

LITB! I love that show! Wallys soo hot!!:liplick:

Originally posted by BeaversBiggestFan


I am noticing this! Why have I been staying away for so long???

Ok...I have another offtopic: question...(i seem to be good at these)...what is the "Happy Days Mafia" (don't hurt me for not knowing, IM NEW!) Is it like a gang you guys have??? I wanna be in a gang...:( Don't worry though, i would never start one of my own...by the looks of things this is the only good gang...(i've noticed another one called "the slayers" or something...)
:welcome:Welcome to the boards!!!:bighug: Youll love it here!!:woohoo:

The Happy Days Mafia (HDM) is a thing we started when Amanda (JoJoJoJoJoJoJoJoJoJo..LOl) referred to us as a Happy Days Mafia because we're so nice LOl. So, we started this!! If you really want the goods on it, read the thread titled HAPPY DAYS MAFIA.. its explained in all on the first page.:D

Originally posted by ¤MsConanOBrien¤

:welcome:Welcome to the boards!!!:bighug: Youll love it here!!:woohoo:

The Happy Days Mafia (HDM) is a thing we started when Amanda (JoJoJoJoJoJoJoJoJoJo..LOl) referred to us as a Happy Days Mafia because we're so nice LOl. So, we started this!! If you really want the goods on it, read the thread titled HAPPY DAYS MAFIA.. its explained in all on the first page.:D
There's also alot of other good stuff. Me and Chad's fight over Daphne (:loveya: ) Classic stuff!

Oh yeah, I remember that episode. That's the one where he rescues the girls cat from that abandoned house. I loved it when he put too much soap in the washing machine and it overflowed. :rotflmao: that's something I would have done.

Ok, so I read all the stuff about happy days mafia. Do I just make me a little thing for my siggy? ( i know how ) This is so awesome...I've never been in a gang before!

I know me too, Ever since the first time I watched Welcome Back Kotter and wanted to be a sweathog. :rotflmao: Happy Days Mafia is even better.

Originally posted by BeaversBiggestFan
Ok, so I read all the stuff about happy days mafia. Do I just make me a little thing for my siggy? ( i know how ) This is so awesome...I've never been in a gang before! How you join the HD mafia:

Get a banner for your signature (Go to the mafia thread for a selection, or make your own at http://www.flamingtext.com ).

Ask Katie (if you don't know how to do them) for a mysterious picture like mine to put in your signature, put the pictures in, and you're inamundo!

:happyface

I made you a mafia pic for you sig, It's here if you need it :)

yall like my logo?

Very cool! I like the colors :)

Originally posted by Katie_NY
I made you a mafia pic for you sig, It's here if you need it :)



Fonzie!! :D I LOVE that pic, Katie!

Originally posted by BeaversBiggestFan
yall like my logo?



Oooohhhh....pretty. :D

Originally posted by Katie_NY
I made you a mafia pic for you sig, It's here if you need it :)

wait a minute is that for me!?! i hope so!

Yep that's for you BBF

Thank you CG :) I was getting worried that I was hitting a dry spell as far as imagination goes. :eek: