So, on a certain Website, I was being attacked by other Posters. I asked an Admin for help, expecting her to say something like,"You Posters attacking Janice Johnson really need to stop attacking her. She's upset and I don't blame her. I would be upset too if I were in her shoes." Instead she said something like,"Janice, suck it up and grow up, or I will ban you!":eek::confused: I was stunned and even on a connecting Website, Posters were like,"How messed up is it that Janice Johnson asked an Admin for help and she replied,"Suck it up and grow up or I will ban you!" She said this to Janice Johnson who is the VICTIM who asked her for help, NOT the Perpetrator(s) I feel so bad for Janice Johnson!" At least other Posters realized how incredibly messed up ME getting the threat of being banned was when I was the VICTIM!

On another Website where I also posted this, a Poster responded something like,"You whined to the Admin about being harassed by other Posters expecting the Admin to say something like,"You Posters need to stop harassing Janice Johnson," except she told you to suck it up and grow up or she would ban you." You were being immature and childish, whining to the Admin about Posters harassing you. I'm actually on the Admin's side for what she said to you. She's not your Kindergarten Teacher and you're not a five year old to be like,"Teacher, the other kids are bothering me! Please help me!" You're an Adult knocking on 40! You should have given back the harassing you got from the other Posters and given it harder, not go whine to the Admin for help." Other Posters were like,"Thank God I'm not the only one who was on the Admin's side and thought Janice Johnson was being immature in this situation, whining to an Admin as a damn near 40 adult instead of handling the harassing herself!"

Im sorry Janice,

Dont let them bother ya honey.... You were a better co-admin here than they have been reg members there!!

We love ya Janice!!

Im sorry Janice,

Dont let them bother ya honey.... You were a better co-admin here than they have been reg members there!!

We love ya Janice!!

Thanks for the warm words, :D but I'm not Janice The Admin. I'm Janice Johnson, a regular Member. ;)

Ah ok :)

Your still awesome!!

Ah ok :)

Your still awesome!!

:D Thank you for your warm words! :D

There are so many websites out there, and unfortunately some are run by imbeciles and idiots. Failing to stand up for you when things are unfair is definitely bad treatment.

So if they're treating you badly it's their mistake, and when you leave, it's their loss.

Some sites like city-data dont care....... They keep blocking ya over and over..... 1 would think they would give up and let the person stay after 900+ accounts but they seem as determined as I am sadly........

If I was a real trouble maker I would understand why they are doing this but Im not..... I do the same thing there as I do here -- POST ON THE BASES!!

Some sites like city-data dont care....... They keep blocking ya over and over..... 1 would think they would give up and let the person stay after 900+ accounts but they seem as determined as I am sadly......

I'm not trying to start an argument, but they probably say "I can't believe this guy won't give up and realize we won't let him back on."

Some sites like city-data dont care....... They keep blocking ya over and over..... 1 would think they would give up and let the person stay after 900+ accounts but they seem as determined as I am sadly........

If I was a real trouble maker I would understand why they arre doing this but Im not..... I do the same thing there as I do here -- POST ON THE BASES!!


You have over 900 accounts on City Data? :eek: That's a LOT of Email Accounts! :eek:

There are so many websites out there, and unfortunately some are run by imbeciles and idiots. Failing to stand up for you when things are unfair is definitely bad treatment.

So if they're treating you badly it's their mistake, and when you leave, it's their loss.

The Admin in my OP permanently banned me after I cussed her out in a one time fed up cussing rant after she harassed me one too many times. (She accused me of hijacking a thread yet said NOTHING to the Poster I was replying to and I finally went off on her after taking her harassing and insulting of me politely for three years ) A Poster said something like,"Janice Johnson, quick, delete that post!" I responded,"No, I'm sick of this!" The Poster responded something like,"Actually, Janice Johnson is right. The female Admin is incredibly mean to Janice Johnson and gets absolutely no consequences for.being incredibly mean to Janice Johnson." I was soon permanently banned.

The Head Admin upheld the permanent banning saying something like,"If I take Janice Johnson's side on this, the Female Admin will resign and she's been a Loyal Admin for me for years. I can't lose her for overriding Janice Johnson's permanent banning. I must uphold the permanent banning." Ironically, she soon ended up leaving him for the most part anyways and only sporadically visits and has gone like SIX months stretches without even visiting ONCE. I would have been much more loyal than she ended up being. I did apologize multiple times for the one time fed up cussing rant on connected Websites in hopes of being reinstated. The Head Admin told me to wish the Female Admin a Happy birthday. :rolleyes: WHY would I want to wish her a happy birthday? She treated me like trash for three years and then permanently banned me after a one time fed up cussing rant! :rolleyes: I wished her a happy birthday in hopes that the head Admin would override the permanent banning. He didn't and I felt used, played, and manipulated.

On another non connected Website, I mentioned being permanently banned from that Website and wanting to be let back. Posters responded something like,"Why are you so hellbent on wanting to be taken back on a Website that dumped YOU and not the other way around? You were treated like trash for three years and when you finally had enough and stood up for yourself, you were thrown out like yesterday's trash when at LEAST the Head Admin should have supported you and overrode overrode the permanent banning. At least the Poster pointed out that the Female Admin was incredibly mean to you with no consequences for being mean." Good points.

You have over 900 accounts on City Data? :eek: That's a LOT of Email Accounts! :eek:Thank yuu honey....

Yes well if happend here Stevie,wouldnt you guys just stop blocking them?? (I mean ya see theres no point they come right back)

Thank yuu honey....

Yes well if happend here Stevie,wouldnt you guys just stop blocking them?? (I mean ya see theres no point they come right back)


Maybe they're trying to make an example out of you? Because if they had let you back after say the first 10 Accounts after your permanent banning, what's to say that other banned posters wouldn't just make a bunch of alternate Accounts and expect to be let back too like you were? It would set a dangerous precedent.

Speaking of making an example out of someone, I mentioned being banned at that Website for the one time fed up cussing rant and apologizing in hopes of being reinstated and am still permanently banned from that Website.

Posters were like,"Those Admins needed to make an example out of you. Had they let you back because you apologized for the one time fed up cussing rant, it could have easily set a dangerous precedent where Posters would cuss out admins , get banned, and apologize,and expect to be let back. They had to nip this in the bud by showing that cussing rants against Admins was a non revokable permanent banning offense."

OP: First of all is another member using your UN?

What blows me away is when one gets thrown off a fourm for what THEY call spamming.

I presume when one is a member of a forum, they are posting info etc...and THEY continue with this spamming crappola.

If someone registers over 900 accounts, they really want to be there. Dude111 isn't a troll, but he should move on at some point. He's fighting a losing battle. They will never let him back on there unless they get a new owner/moderating team.

I would probably give up trying to block someone after five accounts if they tried to follow the rules and be a positive member. Thankfully it has never been an issue here.

So, on a certain Website, I was being attacked by other Posters. I asked an Admin for help, expecting her to say something like,"You Posters attacking Janice Johnson really need to stop attacking her. She's upset and I don't blame her. I would be upset too if I were in her shoes." Instead she said something like,"Janice, suck it up and grow up, or I will ban you!":eek::confused: I was stunned and even on a connecting Website, Posters were like,"How messed up is it that Janice Johnson asked an Admin for help and she replied,"Suck it up and grow up or I will ban you!" She said this to Janice Johnson who is the VICTIM who asked her for help, NOT the Perpetrator(s) I feel so bad for Janice Johnson!" At least other Posters realized how incredibly messed up ME getting the threat of being banned was when I was the VICTIM!

On another Website where I also posted this, a Poster responded something like,"You whined to the Admin about being harassed by other Posters expecting the Admin to say something like,"You Posters need to stop harassing Janice Johnson," except she told you to suck it up and grow up or she would ban you." "You were being immature and childish, whining to the Admin about Posters harassing you. I'm actually on the Admin's side for what she said to you. She's not your Kindergarten Teacher and you're not a five year old to be like,"Teacher, the other kids are bothering me! Please help me!" You're an Adult knocking on 40! You should have given back the harassing you got from the other Posters and given it harder, not go whine to the Admin for help." Other Posters were like,"Thank God I'm not the only one who was on the Admin's side and thought Janice Johnson was being immature in this situation, whining to an Admin as a damn near 40 adult instead of handling the harassing herself!"

If your efforts to act right on a certain forum/website are hindered by constant harassment, and that forum's/website's administrators did threaten to ban you for real for simply for being a victim of such harassment (and then end up actually going through with that ban), then that's just inexcusable behavior from those admins right there. Expecting you to handle the harassment directed toward you all by yourself? Have you ever tried to tell those other members to just stop the harassment, please? I guess that forum/website must encourage fighting, and letting those "harassers" and "bullies" get away with the behavior they commit. If I had been given similar treatment on a forum/website, I would just flame at those bullies and harassers nonstop until an admin intervenes.

If your efforts to act right on a certain forum/website are hindered by constant harassment, and that forum's/website's administrators did threaten to ban you for real for simply for being a victim of such harassment (and then end up actually going through with that ban), then that's just inexcusable behavior from those admins right there. Expecting you to handle the harassment directed toward you all by yourself? Have you ever tried to tell those other members to just stop the harassment, please? I guess that forum/website must encourage fighting, and letting those "harassers" and "bullies" get away with the behavior they commit. If I had been given similar treatment on a forum/website, I would just flame at those bullies and harassers nonstop until an admin intervenes.


I smiled politely as I was being treated like trash, and then was tired of smiling politely as I got treated like trash and asked the Admin for help and she replied something like,"Suck it up and grow up or I will ban you!" :eek::confused: On a similar website, Posters were shocked that I, the victim got told this by the Admin when I asked her for help. Poster said something like,"Since when do Admins speak so rudely to victims who asked them for help? "

That Admin seemed to have it out for me , giving me a two week Suspension for "hijacking a thread," with Alimony. A Poster said something like,"I was gambling in a Casino, and a guy playing next to me hit a $4,000 Jackpot win. He begged me to claim the Win as my own and he would pay me $2,000. I claimed the win as my own and he gave me $4,000. Should I not have agreed to claim the Win as my own? It did seem strange that he would offer a complete Stranger $2,000 to claim the win as their own and didn't want the entire $4,000. Why wouldn't he want his entire $4,000? Another Poster replied,"He could have Alimony Payments. I don't even know what Alimony is, but it seems awful. "

I, Janice Johnson replied,"Alimony is what you pay an ex spouse after divorce. I've always hated the idea of Alimony. Why should I have to financially support another Adult who I am no longer legally or blood bonded to anymore? Especially if the reason for the Divorce in the first place is because my ex spouse cheated on me. So, I have to pay someone who cheated on me? No, just no!"

Another Poster replied,"Alimony is like buying oats for d horse you no longer own."

Another Poster replied something like,"My Friend's Ex Wife cheated on him and they divorced. They didn't have a prenup, so half of every check goes to her. Sad really."

I Janice Johnson posted,"Alimony sucks! It should be outlawed!"

The Head Admin said something like,"You have brought up Alimony that is in a thread about the OP wondering why a complete Stranger offered him $2,000 to claim his $4,000 Jackpot as his, not about Alimony. You have hijacked his thread by mentioning Alimony. Two week Suspension."

At first, I assumed she meant the people who brought up Alimony first. I didn't think she meant me. I was stunned when I saw she quoted my post and realized she gave me a two week Suspension for hijacking the Confusion about Gambler offering complete Stranger $2,000 to claim $4,000 Jackpot as his. She even did a dastardly thing, only quoting MY post where I was responding to someone else who brought up Alimony first, and falsely made it look like I just brought up Alimony out of nowhere. Posters were like,"Janice Johnson doesn't deserve a two week Suspension. She didn't hijack anything
She responded to people who brought up Alimony first. You've done worse things. This is one of the most unfair Suspensions I have ever seen. You owe Janice Johnson an apology and a full reinstatement." The two week Suspension stuck, WTF? :rolleyes::mad::eek: I came back after my two week Suspension, and Posters were like,"Janice Johnson is a much stronger person than I ever would be. I would have permanently left this Website after that unfair two week Suspension over Alimony when I was merely responding to Posters who brought it up first."

After my permanent banning for finally cussing the Female Admin out on a one time fed up cussing rant, Posters were like,"Janice Johnson let the Female Admin harass, insult, and attack her far too long. Janice Johnson politely took the Female Admin's abuse for THREE years before finally reaching her boiling point limit and FINALLY snapping on the Female Admin. I was wondering when Janice Johnson was going to stand up for herself. I would have snapped on the Female Admin three years ago. I don't know how Janice Johnson politely took the Female Admin's abuse for three years. Shame Janice Johnson has been permanently banned."

I apologized multiple times for that one time fed up cussing rant. I apologized because I wanted to be let back. The Head Admin told me to apologize for that cussing rant. I did it in order to get reinstated, but I'm still banned there.

He even told me to wish her a happy birthday. I REALLY didn't want to wish this Batch a happy birthday, she treated me like trash for three years, why the hell would I want to wish my Abuser a happy birthday? :rolleyes:I wished her a happy birthday in order to get reinstated. I am still banned there. I feel used, played, and manipulated by the Head Admin. I even pointed out on a similar website that he should have left me the hell alone if he wasn't going to reinstate me even after I did his requests. Better to be ignored than used, played, and manipulated.

Sometimes, moderators are stupid like that.
That is when the only thing that you can do is to find a nicer message board and leave.