Do y'all have trouble expressing your feelings and saying your sorry or is it easy for you?












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when i wanna say something, i'll say it, no matter what it is. even if i know ppl don't wanna hear it. sometimes, it's hard for me to say sorry, depending on the subject.

well, expressing feelings and apologizing are totally different. I constantly say what i think, express my feelings, ramble endlessly....etc.. and thats no problem
But when it comes to saying sorry its not easy because i really hate admitting im wrong, i am working on this though.

It's REALLY hard for me to say what I think or how I feel to people. I get self conscious or what they're going to think about me or something I guess. I don't know. I'm weird.

I express my feelings sometime, but other times I keep my feelings bottled up.

Well it's not that hard for me to express my feelings. It is very hard for me to say I'm sorry.

I come right out with something if I'm mad at someone. If I'm mad at someone, I'll start yelling at them right then and there and I don't care who's looking and if I'm causing a scene or not.

Other then the above, no. I keep to myself and don't talk, because I'm too damn self-conscious and have no self-esteem

And "sorry" never comes out easily. I'm a very stubborn person, and hate admitting that I'm wrong

hmm i dunno sometimes im open.. sometimes im not

i keep everything inside. yup. i never express nething to anyone. well, most of the time.

I find it really, really hard to be open and honest about the way I feel which makes it hard for me to make and keep friends.
I've tried to be more open but being open just makes it easier for people to hurt you. And I'd rather keep everything bottled up and have no friends than have people take advantage of me and hurt me.
It's happened before and I'm not gonna let it happen again.

I totally can't say I'm Sorry to anyone...exept my friends. I don't know why, I guess around my family here I don't wanna admit I'm wrong or anything.

And I don't usually cry around people either but yesterday was a different story...*cough*...anyway....

Originally posted by Maura Tierney
It's REALLY hard for me to say what I think or how I feel to people. I get self conscious or what they're going to think about me or something I guess. I don't know. I'm weird.

I have the same problem!
As far as for saying I'm sorry, I have no problem with that at all! You see, I am always right!:rolleyes:

Well, if I know I have something to be sorry for, I will be the first person to admit it. I don't know though -- the way I feel is pretty obvious by my actions and expressions, so everyone would prolly be able to detect how I feel without me saying anything. :happyface :happyface :happyface

I always make sure people know how I feel about something. I never do say I'm sorry about things though.

I always express my feelings and when it comes to say I'm sorry, I always do, it just takes forever.

I hate saying sorry to people and I can't remember the last time I did..... I guess I just don't piss people off very often but when I do I hate apologizing because I'm pretty stubborn at times. I won't just give in to make things better.

And as far as expressing my true feelings its pretty hard. I pretty always say I'm fine or I'm happy when I'm not.... generally I am but theres a lot of times when I'm not. I just prefer to mask it though.

Originally posted by Mossopp
I find it really, really hard to be open and honest about the way I feel which makes it hard for me to make and keep friends.
I've tried to be more open but being open just makes it easier for people to hurt you. And I'd rather keep everything bottled up and have no friends than have people take advantage of me and hurt me. It's happened before and I'm not gonna let it happen again.

Ditto. I totally agree with you. We're in the same boat!

Originally posted by: tootieismyfav
And as far as expressing my true feelings its pretty hard. I pretty always say I'm fine or I'm happy when I'm not.... generally I am but theres a lot of times when I'm not. I just prefer to mask it though.

That's what I do. I try to hide it...but I end up making myself sick. I wish I could just stop being so shy and just tell people...GRR. And as far as sorry goes...I try to, but I get kinna nervous and never do it. Then I feel bad.

I simply treat people the way they treat me...except 10 times worst or better...

i hardly ever say im sorry. unless its like really bad and everyone's upset and stuff, which they're usually not because i hardly ever make people cry. and expressing my feelings, i try to [well i used to try to] tell some people but they just look at me all funny and say i'm crazy and stuff. So, i stopped. Now i keep everything bottled up inside and it's not really helping. I turned really shy all of the sudden. Well I was always shy but now it's gotten really bad, I can't even look at people anymore, its really wierd.

Originally posted by Maura Tierney
It's REALLY hard for me to say what I think or how I feel to people. I get self conscious or what they're going to think about me or something I guess. I don't know. I'm weird. I feel the same way. I am afraid to tell peopel things becasue I am afraid of what they wil think of me afterwards.

I dont express my feelings to anyone! I dont cry in public, unless for some reason I cant fight back the tears. I always hated seeing the girls in school crying about stupid things and it just made me want to puke! I promised myself to never cry in public and look like an a$$. There are more important things than your one week boyfriend breaking up with you! I mean..we were 18 not 10!! Ahhh lol. Oh, and as for saying sorry..eek no! Well, there are 2 different kind of sorry's: One being the one when you accidently hit someone or break something and you just automatically say SORRY. But then theres the one that when you say it, it means a LOT. I HATE apologizing. If I have to say Im sorry, I try to do it online..its much easier to do!!

Originally posted by .:MilKnPepSi:.
I dont express my feelings to anyone! I dont cry in public, unless for some reason I cant fight back the tears. I always hated seeing the girls in school crying about stupid things and it just made me want to puke!

Me too!

I am so bad at expressing my feelings...it's really hard for me, especially for family. If it's someone I feel close to, it's easier but...for the most part, I stink.

As for saying I'm sorry....yeah, I can't do that either.