View Full Version : Find a Grave, hurtful messages


Anna
03-29-2002, 01:14 PM
:( Has anyone been to Find a Grave lately? People are leaving horrible messages to Freddie, and I don`t understand why. Even in death he is still getting kicked in the face.

MariposaLKB
03-29-2002, 01:52 PM
Anna, I go there quite often and I am very surprised those messages have not been removed. There have been others in the past and they have been removed promptly. I don't know how to ask the administrator of the site to remove them, or I would have already done that. What is really ironic about the batch in all capital letters is that, if you click on their "signatures", it turns out to be the same person writing all of them, and the last message he leaves is "R. I. P."!!! If he really wished Freddie peace he would not have posted such insensitive things about his talent, the circumstances of his death, or the future of his son!

I took your lead and left Freddie an Easter greeting--I hope more of us will do so and at least push those nasty messages farther down the list!

Here is the URL:

http://www.findagrave.com/cgi-bin/fg.cgi?page=gr&GRid=839

Cheryl Harrell
03-29-2002, 07:29 PM
I agree! There are too many bad messages on there that shouldn't be. There is an old saying you shouldn't speak ill of the dead. I have read some stuff on there that had me crying. :crying: I figured the Easter messages were from some of ya'll. Hopefully the bad messages will stop soon. It just breaks my heart... :crying:

atlangel
03-30-2002, 12:38 PM
It is very heartbreaking to see such terrible things written about someone that is so beloved. I too, had confidence that the Webmaster of the site would rapidly delete the negative messages. I hope that they will soon take care of this and restore the site to the honorary place it is intended to be.

I am baffled and hurt by anyone who would take their time out to be so mean. It is obvious that they have no concept or understanding of Freddie in the least. Perhaps, in time, they will thoroughly read this Board and many of the other fantastic websites that are dedicated to Freddie. Then they would learn what we here, have always known; That Freddie Prinze, Sr. was one of the most talented, sweet, kind, caring, and special individuals that ever lived. He had a heart that was sensitive and tender. Unfortunately, that heart was too often broken by people such as these who misunderstood and misjudged him.


It's alright now Baby. So many of us love you and always will, forever and a day.

FREDDIE FOREVER!!

:crying:

Pitooey
03-30-2002, 02:06 PM
I'm glad that we're sticking together and trying to fight off these nuts who bombard the website over there. I hate that. Those awful people should preach humility instead of evil. :mad:

Cheryl Harrell
03-30-2002, 03:24 PM
I bet the webmaster over there is probably so busy they haven't been able to keep a notice over there to see whats up. They probnably need to be notified so they can remove the bad messages. They ought to put a message on the boards saying no hurtful messages allowed. The anonymous message asking those folks to please quit talking bad about our Prinze was posted by me. I hope that shuts them up! We love ya Freddie! :heart:

Anna
03-30-2002, 06:15 PM
I hope they read that post of yours Cheryl and take heed,but unfortuately that may egg people like that hateful idiot on. I still don`t understand why all the hate toward Freddie. I guess I never will.

Cheryl Harrell
03-31-2002, 07:24 AM
For some reason people think bad of him because he killed himself. If only they wouldn't judge. If they knew him like we do even tho we never met him they would be more understanding towards him. It makes me so sad to see him being put down. He is a sweet person I bet. I wish the world knew that...

Anna
03-31-2002, 12:42 PM
I agree he was a sweetheart. I read on AOLs messge boards about the death of the Queen Mum, and the hateful things people were saying about her shocked me. :crying: And what did that do? But cause the Brits to write hateful things back. Like you said Cheryl, if you can`t say anything nice, don`t say anything at all.:)

Karen64
04-01-2002, 12:12 AM
The rude messages to Freddie were probably the work of some drunk college kid with nothing better to do and probably didn't even hear of Freddie Sr until Freddie Jr got famous.....
And he's probably mad 'cause his girlfriends got a crush of Freddie Jr.! :lol:

bella66
04-01-2002, 02:22 AM
You said it Karen!! I totally agree!!!!

Anna
04-01-2002, 01:18 PM
You may be right Karen, I hope he sobers up soon.

Pitooey
04-01-2002, 01:18 PM
I agree with you both!!!!

Joy
04-02-2002, 03:46 PM
I was at the find a grave site and posted a message for freddie using my real name ,and wishing him a happy easter.I read those nasty messages.how hurtful,but at least the good positive messages out number the bad

Anna
04-02-2002, 04:28 PM
I hope Maria and JR don`t see those nasty messages.

Joy
04-02-2002, 05:25 PM
I was just over to the site again and i see that a nasty message has also been left for Carrie Hamilton-Carol Burnette's daughter.
I wonder if they are the same person or people. thats so low

Anna
04-02-2002, 10:41 PM
I went over too Joy, I left a message to counter act that dope. That must be one hateful human being. Can one person be filled with that much hate???:crying:

tylersmistress2002
04-22-2002, 03:22 PM
My grandmother used to say "Jesus never sleeps". and basically I think that means...what goes around, comes around. Some day those nasty people will get theirs.

Anna
04-23-2002, 03:13 PM
Very true.

LADY LOVES FREDDIE
04-23-2002, 03:51 PM
:smash:When I read this post I about threw up! I cannot believe what total and complete crumbs there are in the world saying such crap to Freddie.I am writting to info@findagrave.com and I hope they remove that filth off the board.:boxing: :angryfire

Anna
04-24-2002, 02:49 PM
It`s amazing how they took down the awful things people were saying about Marilyn Monroe, but left Freddies up.:livid:

tylersmistress2002
04-24-2002, 02:52 PM
I hope they do take them down. Lady I am going to write to them to....its awful.

LADY LOVES FREDDIE
04-25-2002, 06:10 PM
I recieved an email and they said at find a grave they took it down and banned the person from using their site .......right on ! Now if only TV land would listen to us.

Cheryl Harrell
04-25-2002, 10:18 PM
Thanks! So glad they took that junk off...

Anna
04-25-2002, 11:53 PM
Yea!!! One in Freddies favor!!!!!:clap: :cheers: :dance:

tylersmistress2002
04-26-2002, 08:41 AM
HI Lady! and everyone else too! I got the same email after writing and requesting they do something about the disrespectful posts. Its nice to know we CAN make a difference!

Pitooey
04-26-2002, 12:38 PM
You ladies made my day! This is great news............ He was only human. ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;)