View Full Version : I can see why James was upset about Florida going back to school


TVFactFan
12-03-2012, 08:43 PM
Because when Florida came home with the news, she never showed any interest in why James was so excited. It was all about her and night school and every time James mentioned something about his new job Florida would bring up her good news again.

So she basically never gave him a chance to express his happiness and I can understand why he wasn't all that thrilled about her going to school.

One of the most selfish moments of Florida during the entire series

*ROGER*
12-03-2012, 10:09 PM
Florida did act selfish in that episode. Her news was good for her, but James' news was more important since he was the soul bread winner for the family. I hated the way she kept trying to cut off James. She didn't consider his feelings at all.

TVFactFan
12-03-2012, 10:12 PM
Florida did act selfish in that episode. Her news was good for her, but James' news was more important since he was the soul bread winner for the family. I hated the way she kept trying to cut off James. She didn't consider his feelings at all.


I know as soon as he started to talk about the job she would bring her the school things again lol


I was like..."Damm let the man tell his good news"


Florida was like...."ME TOO" :lol:

*ROGER*
12-03-2012, 10:14 PM
Florida was all about Florida in that episode. James' news was meant to benefit the whole family. James was thinking of his kids and his wife. Florida was only concerned with her own selfish needs.

Yes, she was a real shrew in that episode.

TVFactFan
12-03-2012, 10:33 PM
Florida was all about Florida in that episode. James' news was meant to benefit the whole family. James was thinking of his kids and his wife. Florida was only concerned with her own selfish needs.

Yes, she was a real shrew in that episode.



Don't know why this scene made me laugh so hard, I guess because it was 3am in the morning

Florida: "James I should have talked it over with you first but i'm going to ask you now. I want to go back to school is that alright you?

James: "NO"



LMAO:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

*ROGER*
12-04-2012, 12:34 AM
I didn't like Florida at all in this episode. It also reminds me of another episode I didn't like her in....the one where she slaps Michael in the face...when she starts going to those women's meetings with Wilona.

TVFactFan
12-04-2012, 01:15 AM
I didn't like Florida at all in this episode. It also reminds me of another episode I didn't like her in....the one where she slaps Michael in the face...when she starts going to those women's meetings with Wilona.


Oh yeah when she was in a bad mood


I think that happened twice, season 2 and season 4

*ROGER*
12-04-2012, 01:19 AM
Oh yeah when she was in a bad mood


I think that happened twice, season 2 and season 4
She behaved very shameful in that episode.

Brieannas21
12-04-2012, 12:04 PM
He wasn't upset because Flroida kept cutting him off or wouldn't let him tell her about his good news. He's ego and pride took over his mind set because the thought that his wife becoming more educated than him pissed him off. That is why when Florida was studying his bad attitude became worse.

TVFactFan
12-04-2012, 01:27 PM
He wasn't upset because Flroida kept cutting him off or wouldn't let him tell her about his good news. He's ego and pride took over his mind set because the thought that his wife becoming more educated than him pissed him off. That is why when Florida was studying his bad attitude became worse.


I believe if she had showed interest in his good news he would have been more openminded about it when she first told him about it

Brieannas21
12-04-2012, 03:35 PM
I believe if she had showed interest in his good news he would have been more openminded about it when she first told him about it

No he wouldn't, because the next day he was still upset.

TVFactFan
12-04-2012, 04:38 PM
No he wouldn't, because the next day he was still upset.



because she stole his moment. if she had waited until the next day to mention it then I don't think it would have been a issue.


Every time he tried to tell her about the new job she kept interrupting him so she can talk about why she was happy

Brieannas21
12-04-2012, 08:12 PM
because she stole his moment. if she had waited until the next day to mention it then I don't think it would have been a issue.


Every time he tried to tell her about the new job she kept interrupting him so she can talk about why she was happy

A person does not stay mad at their spouse for that length of time just because their wife/husband keeps interrupting them while trying to share good news. James even went to the bar and had a conversation with his friend about Florida going back to school. James was just insecure in the fact that Florida was trying to better herself.

TVFactFan
12-04-2012, 08:31 PM
A person does not stay mad at their spouse for that length of time just because their wife/husband keeps interrupting them while trying to share good news. James even went to the bar and had a conversation with his friend about Florida going back to school. James was just insecure in the fact that Florida was trying to better herself.


I think she would have sounded a lot better if she said

"Oh james that is wonderful news, we both had a good day. I will tell you about my day later but tell me more about this new job of yours??

*ROGER*
12-05-2012, 04:17 AM
I believe if she had showed interest in his good news he would have been more openminded about it when she first told him about it
There is no reason why Florida couldn't have waited until the next day to tell James about her desire to go back to school. She should have let James have his moment of good fortune about his job. It was important to him and important to the whole family. Florida's news was only important to her. I still say she was being selfish.

Brieannas21
12-05-2012, 09:25 PM
I think she would have sounded a lot better if she said

"Oh james that is wonderful news, we both had a good day. I will tell you about my day later but tell me more about this new job of yours??

But that isn't the reason why James was upset. Florida could have waited to tell James her news but James was still going to get upset and leave the house. The whole point of the episode was about Florida going to school to better herself and James didn't want her changing.

TVFactFan
12-05-2012, 10:53 PM
But that isn't the reason why James was upset. Florida could have waited to tell James her news but James was still going to get upset and leave the house. The whole point of the episode was about Florida going to school to better herself and James didn't want her changing.


Well she started acting crazy when she was telling him how to talk to his son based on what was inside the school books. That is what made him get pissed and leave the house

Brieannas21
12-06-2012, 05:25 AM
Well she started acting crazy when she was telling him how to talk to his son based on what was inside the school books. That is what made him get pissed and leave the house

She was just correcting his speech, which I don't think she should have done. James still had an attitude before then because he had an attitude towards the kids. I think James just wanted his wife to stay home, cook, clean and look after him and the kids.

TVFactFan
12-06-2012, 12:43 PM
She was just correcting his speech, which I don't think she should have done. James still had an attitude before then because he had an attitude towards the kids. I think James just wanted his wife to stay home, cook, clean and look after him and the kids.


But he was right about her not even discussing it with him. Just made the decision and never even mentioned it to james

*ROGER*
12-06-2012, 12:49 PM
James had every right to feel insulted....he felt as if his wife wasn't satisfied with her life with the family.

TVFactFan
12-06-2012, 01:49 PM
James had every right to feel insulted....he felt as if his wife wasn't satisfied with her life with the family.


You know I just thought about something, I can see how James was feeling some type of way

Say I;m living with a girl who has Bachelor's and I was supported the family while she stayed home"

Then all of a sudden she comes home one day saying she wants to better herself and go and get her Masters LOL


Right after I told her I got a job making more money

Brieannas21
12-06-2012, 05:01 PM
You know I just thought about something, I can see how James was feeling some type of way

Say I;m living with a girl who has Bachelor's and I was supported the family while she stayed home"

Then all of a sudden she comes home one day saying she wants to better herself and go and get her Masters LOL


Right after I told her I got a job making more money

So you're not going to share the spotlight with your wife? Florida told James that she was happy for him. A person going back to school shouldn't make their spouse upset. The husband or wife should be happy for each other, James should have told Florida "Great baby" or "That's wonderful", Not get upset the way he did.

TVFactFan
12-06-2012, 05:49 PM
So you're not going to share the spotlight with your wife? Florida told James that she was happy for him. A person going back to school shouldn't make their spouse upset. The husband or wife should be happy for each other, James should have told Florida "Great baby" or "That's wonderful", Not get upset the way he did.


You are right but she didn't share the spotlight. Everytime James tried to tell her about the job she would say........"me too"


SELFISH:lol:

Brieannas21
12-06-2012, 06:05 PM
You are right but she didn't share the spotlight. Everytime James tried to tell her about the job she would say........"me too"


SELFISH:lol:

That is because she was overly excited. Florida was always James' cheerleader, he could have taken a seat back and been hers. He could have told her it was wonderful that she was going back to school, and he should have kept it moving. Not get mad and throw a hissy fit.

*ROGER*
12-07-2012, 09:00 PM
You know I just thought about something, I can see how James was feeling some type of way

Say I;m living with a girl who has Bachelor's and I was supported the family while she stayed home"

Then all of a sudden she comes home one day saying she wants to better herself and go and get her Masters LOL


Right after I told her I got a job making more money
That's why James felt like he was being slapped in the face by his wife who ALL OF A SUDDEN was not satisfied with her home life. A lot of men would have felt the same way as James.

TVFactFan
12-07-2012, 09:08 PM
That's why James felt like he was being slapped in the face by his wife who ALL OF A SUDDEN was not satisfied with her home life. A lot of men would have felt the same way as James.


And it was all because of Willona:lol:

*ROGER*
12-07-2012, 09:09 PM
And it was all because of Willona:lol:
Willona the constant butt-inski :lol: