View Full Version : I'm In Love...With a Married Woman!


ronaldmcdonald
09-05-2012, 08:24 PM
Last Sunday marked the 1-year anniversary of my meeting this BEAUTIFUL, SEXY, Woman Online via Twitter.

The problem: She's MARRIED!!!!!!

The woman, Candace, is 10 years older than me & has been happily married for 15+ years to a retired Pro Hockey Player, Val, with whom she has a trio of kids (a teen daughter who JUST became a High-School Freshman & 2 pre-teen boys ages 10 & 12) and lives in Ft. Lauderdale, Florida.

Out of respect for Candace, I DON'T talk very much to her because I DON'T wanna do anything that could CAUSE a permanent rift between us (as friends), yet despite the fact that she's MARRIED, Candace has helped me accept the reality that my college crush, Amy, is NEVER coming back.

It's like this: 6 1/2 years ago, when I met Amy in college, I KNEW that she was the one I was meant for, and though an initial error in judgment on my part (similar to stunts I'd pulled on girls as a teenager) could have ended things unhappily between us, in the end, Amy forgave me for the error, and in the process, I too was able to forgive my own self for all that had gone wrong for me since I was an 11-year-old boy.

On the downside, though, since Amy forgave me, I started feeling extremely remorseful for all that had gone wrong for me, from being severely abused as an 11-year-old boy after a group of young boys in my class were told by our female teacher to hold my penis for me as I tried peeing, to a different female teacher always getting me into trouble EVERY DAY, 9 out of 10 times for NO REASON, in 7th grade, to my pre-Amy high-school crush Lauren ****ing me over weeks prior to our high-school graduation, upon learning through the annual yearbook, with ZERO prior knowledge, that Lauren was both seeing AND premaritally fornicating a guy a year older than us named Matt, who shes SINCE married AND has a 2-year-old daughter with.

As if THOSE weren't horrific enough, my mom was admitted to a local Hospital in my hometown an hour Southeast from the Georgia coast, only to be transferred to the Hospital an Hour away, 24 hours later, where the doctors discovered the Hometown Doc damaged her left foot below the knee beyond repair--and was forced to amputate the foot.

Those last 2 experiences led me to, among other things, my own Hospital admission for Psychiatric problems in connection with the Double Whammy situation, but not even THAT admission was enough, because I tried Suicide 6 weeks after the Hospital admission--ironically less than 24 hours AFTER a Civil Court case involving me and Lauren.

But back to the topic: I didn't start feeling ANY remorse over the above experiences until AFTER Amy forgave me.

Earlier this Summer, the friendship between me and Candace has expanded to the world of Facebook, but despite the fact that, like I said earlier, Candace is LONG married, I feel SO compatible with Candace, and to me, it's more than JUST an Infatuation, it's EVERYTHING.

I became a devout Christian at age 21, right after Amy forgave me, and soon after losing my Grandma Dot in January 2009, my faith has grown stronger through the evangelical TV preachings of a preacher named Kirk.

In fact, it was soon after Dot died that I discovered that, like I said earlier, that Candace, who I met September 2, 2011 via Twitter, is his Sister, along with the above information, through Kirk's official site, about Candace living in Ft. Lauderdale like I said earlier in this post.

Upon seeing the picture of Candace and her family of 5 on Kirk's official site, I KNEW I had to meet her someday; THAT day came on Twitter on September 2, 2011.

I'll be honest with you readers: in the year since our 1st meeting, despite her being Married, I've PROUDLY fallen MORE AND MORE in LOVE with Candace to the point of Sexcerising for her sake (in case Candace & I EVER cross paths in real life, which I'm not in any rush for, but if it DOES happen, I'll WELCOME that).

On a related note, I ALSO met Kirk via Google + last year and WE are Facebook friends too.

Anyway, folks, if you folks have any SIMILAR experiences, PLEASE feel free to respond to this post

AKA
09-06-2012, 03:03 PM
This is very creepy. You should get help and move on with your life.

cleverfun3000
09-06-2012, 03:14 PM
I have never been with a married woman. I never liked the idea of being intimate with a woman who was legally sexually bound to the sexual whims of another man. No matter how beautiful or gorgeous the woman is or was, when she tells me (or I find out) she's married, I lose all interest. It's just too filthy a situation for me to want to be a part of.

MickeyMac
09-06-2012, 05:22 PM
Taking an interest or getting involved with someone who is married is like lighting mathes in a room full of dynamate.


There are plenty of single ladies out there. Go after one of them.

phoebe7165
09-06-2012, 05:27 PM
You probably don't want any advice but here goes anyway - Break all ties with this woman. You may be in love with her, but run, don't walk from this "relationship" or whatever you call it. I guarantee you, she will NOT leave her husband, will string you along for God knows how long, and do nothing but break your heart.

And I really don't know why you would brag about something like this.

Find somebody unattached, trust me, you'll just get hurt otherwise.

Mr. Television
09-06-2012, 05:32 PM
This guy is in love with Candace Cameron. It is creepy. He's posted this stuff before.

phoebe7165
09-06-2012, 05:37 PM
This guy is in love with Candace Cameron. It is creepy. He's posted this stuff before.

Um, OK.:crazy: :lol:

Janice
09-06-2012, 05:50 PM
Take it elsewhere, you freak. I'm going to do what I can to warn Candace about you.

Keep off Chit Chat!

Zoneboy
09-06-2012, 07:03 PM
This guy is in love with Candace Cameron. It is creepy. He's posted this stuff before.

His obsession with both Kirk and Candace is weird. I'm not sure exactly how many different names he's used on this board (at least 6) but everytime he creates a new account the first thing that's usually posted is another Kirk bio and his birthdate not being correct and the source of the info is none other than the E! True Hollywood Story. :rolleyes:

AKA
09-06-2012, 07:07 PM
Celebrity obsessions are no joke. Look what happened when people became obsessed with John Lennon, Jodie Foster and Rebecca Schaefer. This guy is dangerous.

Mr. Television
09-06-2012, 07:44 PM
His obsession with both Kirk and Candace is weird. I'm not sure exactly how many different names he's used on this board (at least 6) but everytime he creates a new account the first thing that's usually posted is another thread Kirk bio and his birthdate not being correct and the source of the info is none other than the E! True Hollywood Story. :rolleyes:
He even posted some nude celebrity photos on here once that got him bounced but he still came back.

*ROGER*
09-06-2012, 10:01 PM
Take it elsewhere, you freak. I'm going to do what I can to warn Candace about you.

Keep off Chit Chat!
Seriously, please report this guy and try to have Candace Cameron warned. This guy is a crazy, psycho stalker. I wouldn't be surprised if this whacko tracked poor Candace down in Florida and did something to her similar to the fate of Rebecca Schaefer.

AKA
09-06-2012, 10:03 PM
Probably should warn Kirk Cameron about him, too, because he's just as obsessed with him and his family as he is Candace.

Janice
09-06-2012, 11:17 PM
Well, I went to Kirk and Candace's websites and got their management emails. I didn't want to go the Twitter route. Here's what I wrote.

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To Whom It May Concern:

I moderate a large sitcom website called SitcomsOnline.There is a person there who completely obsesses over Candace Cameron. He appears to have lost touch with reality. The site's owner bans him as soon as he registers (yet again). I get a very creepy vibe off the guy. Many members there do as well. Here are a couple of threads he made (below). He claims that Candace has given him advice on Twitter a year ago. If so, I'm sure she was just trying to be nice. Still, there are so many crazy stalkers out here, and I'd rather be safe than sorry.

Please pass this on to Candace and Kirk.

Thank you for your time. Feel free to email me with any questions you may have. I'll be happy to assist you with anything.

Sincerely,

Janice


This week
http://www.sitcomsonline.com/boards/showthread.php?t=303685

Last year
http://www.sitcomsonline.com/boards/showthread.php?t=288996&highlight=candace

AKA
09-06-2012, 11:50 PM
Good on you, Janice! Thanks for taking action! Hopefully something can come of this before this guy harms others or himself.

Janice
09-07-2012, 07:04 AM
Thanks Brad. Also, hat tip to Charles (Zoneboy). He found the older thread as well as this, https://twitter.com/DannyHooley2, which is creepy dude. I forward the Cameron reps that as well. He's probably so blocked on her Twitter. I wonder if he'd still be able to post there if he was. Guy can't take a hint, that's for sure.

*ROGER*
09-07-2012, 07:14 AM
^ It's so great that you took steps to warn Candace about this freak. He is certainly stalker material. A sicko like this will never change. Maybe he belongs in a mental institution or something. I just hope he never gets the chance to really hurt anyone.

Super job, Janice! :)

Mr. Television
09-07-2012, 09:54 AM
It sounds good Janice. You were right to take action. You just don't know who you're dealing with on the internet. This person does sound like a nut.

Zoneboy
09-07-2012, 10:49 AM
The obsession with Candace is bad enough but the infatuation with Kirk's d.o.b. is ridiculous. He has started the following threads about Kirk and included his bio where it wasn't even relevant but just an excuse to shove it down our throats. All these are under 4 different names...

ronaldmcdonald
monkeefan
nobaloney
poof

I know there are previous aliases that were also banned and probably more of this crap that has been deleted.

Thread #1. (http://www.sitcomsonline.com/boards/showthread.php?t=303074&highlight=bausmith)
Thread #2. (http://www.sitcomsonline.com/boards/showthread.php?t=299231&highlight=bausmith)
Thread #3. (http://www.sitcomsonline.com/boards/showthread.php?t=298265&highlight=bausmith)
Thread #4. (http://www.sitcomsonline.com/boards/showthread.php?t=296621&highlight=bausmith)
Thread #5. (http://www.sitcomsonline.com/boards/showthread.php?t=291189&highlight=bausmith)
Thread #6. (http://www.sitcomsonline.com/boards/showthread.php?t=289138&highlight=bausmith)
Thread #7. (http://http://www.sitcomsonline.com/boards/showthread.php?t=290483&highlight=bausmith)

AKA
09-07-2012, 12:16 PM
Does anyone know how to report this (https://plus.google.com/109942403020070255114/posts/RnmpQ8h8hgw) particular post to Google? It's absolutely criminal. He's posted the same screed here before.

JamesG
09-07-2012, 12:56 PM
Does anyone know how to report this (https://plus.google.com/109942403020070255114/posts/RnmpQ8h8hgw) particular post to Google? It's absolutely criminal. He's posted the same screed here before.

I'm not a lawyer, but if he's just stating where certain material (underage nudity) can be found via legal movies/tv shows then I don't think there is anything really criminal about it.

Immoral maybe, but not criminal.


It would be totally different if he's saying where illegal child pornography can be found.

Penny Lane
09-07-2012, 01:00 PM
You did the right thing Janice. It certainly couldn't hurt! I myself didn't catch on right away. I knew nothing about this guy. I see that he has been banned but he will probably be back. He's nuts!:crazy:

AKA
09-07-2012, 01:05 PM
I'm not a lawyer, but if he's just stating where certain material (underage nudity) can be found via legal movies/tv shows then I don't think there is anything really criminal about it.

Immoral maybe, but not criminal.


It would be totally different if he's saying where illegal child pornography can be found.
You're probably right. It's still pretty terrible. Hopefully that sort of thing is against Google's TOS (probably not, though).

Janice
09-07-2012, 02:25 PM
Does anyone know how to report this (https://plus.google.com/109942403020070255114/posts/RnmpQ8h8hgw) particular post to Google? It's absolutely criminal. He's posted the same screed here before.
This is chilling. I forwarded it along to their managers just now.

I heard back from both Kirk and Candace's managers this morning. They thanked me for the head's up and told me that they would pass the information along to their clients.

Penny Lane
09-07-2012, 03:05 PM
That's good Janice! Even if he does nothing it is still the right thing to let them know about it. I'm sure that the Cameron's will appreciate what you did!:D:wave:

Vahan
09-07-2012, 03:17 PM
Why don't you just ban his IP altogether?

MRPITT
09-07-2012, 04:05 PM
Candace was warned last year about this guy they are aware of him. I dont think they are concerned as of yet.

*ROGER*
09-07-2012, 04:17 PM
Candace was warned last year about this guy they are aware of him. I dont think they are concerned as of yet.
It's still good that Janice gave them a recent warning with evidence of this creep and his obsession. The Cameron's will probably be more concerned now.

MRPITT
09-07-2012, 04:24 PM
It's still good that Janice gave them a recent warning with evidence of this creep and his obsession. The Cameron's will probably be more concerned now.


I agree its good that she did that no doubt.

James28
09-07-2012, 09:27 PM
This is probably what would happen if the stalker actually met Candace Cameron Bure:

Anonymous stalker of Ms. Cameron-Bure: You know, I'm sorry for sending over a thousand messages over the past few years, only for you to not read them. Can't you read at least one of them right now, please?

Ms. Cameron-Bure: (w/ a stern tone) No. I am a happily married woman. Now I want you to leave me alone, or I am calling the cops!

And a few statements about this issue:

* Why would anyone like or love an already-married woman?
* Why would the anonymous stalker be obsessed with Kirk and Candace Cameron and create untrue facts/stories about them?
* The stalker has created no less than 6 different usernames on this site and gets banned for creating the same untrue stories about KTC and CHC-B.
* The stalker probably never even actually met Candace or Kirk. And the stalker apparently dislikes Valeri Bure (a Russian ice hockey player)
* Because he goes on social networking sites only for the purpose of stalking celebrities, he needs to be banned from Twitter and all social networking sites. Plus he needs to stay away from all women, married or not. Matter of fact, needs to stay away from all celebrities. He can be locked into solitary confinement for life.

Big3sCompanyFan
09-08-2012, 07:37 AM
This is very creepy. You should get help and move on with your life.

I agree it's creepy and he shouldn't be obsessed with a married chick but why did he get banned for it??

People have affairs all the time and it's not against the law!

*ROGER*
09-08-2012, 07:43 AM
I agree it's creepy and he shouldn't be obsessed with a married chick but why did he get banned for it??

People have affairs all the time and it's not against the law!
You might want to read through this entire thread. This guy STALKS celebrities. He is obsessive and unrealistic. He creates false facts about Kirk Cameron over and over again in his obsessive threads. He's had several screen names...he keeps getting banned, but he keeps coming back. Not only is he obsessed with Candace Cameron, but he harrasses her on twitter and he also posts about child nudity on google. The guy is sick. You couldn't realize that from the very first post in this thread?

Big3sCompanyFan
09-08-2012, 08:47 AM
You might want to read through this entire thread. This guy STALKS celebrities. He is obsessive and unrealistic. He creates false facts about Kirk Cameron over and over again in his obsessive threads. He's had several screen names...he keeps getting banned, but he keeps coming back. Not only is he obsessed with Candace Cameron, but he harrasses her on twitter and he also posts about child nudity on google. The guy is sick. You couldn't realize that from the very first post in this thread?

LOL...ok.

I didn't read through the entire thread but I'll take your word for it. Speaking of wackos there is no bigger wacko than Kirk Cameron. He's mistaking mythology for reality.

These "Left Behind" movies might as well be about Zeus and Hercules! They show millions of people magically disappearing instantly while driving cars or flying in planes! The odds of this actually happening are the same as Zeus or Thor showing up on your front doorstep! :lol:

shotzette
09-09-2012, 06:20 PM
LOL...ok.

Speaking of wackos there is no bigger wacko than Kirk Cameron.:

Agreed; KC went around the bend years ago.:crazy:

Zoneboy
09-09-2012, 06:37 PM
Tweeted earlier today:

Danny Hooley ‏@DannyHooley2
Seriously, I read a message board on @sitcomsonline that has 3 pages worth of ridiculation on me over the last 48 hours, it makes me sick.

https://twitter.com/DannyHooley2

*ROGER*
09-09-2012, 07:26 PM
Tweeted earlier today:

Danny Hooley ‏@DannyHooley2
Seriously, I read a message board on @sitcomsonline that has 3 pages worth of ridiculation on me over the last 48 hours, it makes me sick.

https://twitter.com/DannyHooley2
Awwww....the psycho stalker/pedophile has hurt feelings. :(

Coffeecup
09-09-2012, 07:52 PM
I agree it's creepy and he shouldn't be obsessed with a married chick but why did he get banned for it??

People have affairs all the time and it's not against the law!
It's not against the law but it is not the proper thing to do.

Big3sCompanyFan
09-10-2012, 12:36 AM
Agreed; KC went around the bend years ago.:crazy:

I even remember a celebrity called him out several years ago to stop with the religious mumbo jumbo but I can't recall who it was.

I did see KC get destroyed in a debate on Nightline though! 3 or 4 years ago.

Schmoopie
09-10-2012, 01:43 AM
Wow, this is really creepy and I commend you, Janice for taking the time to alert Candace and her family about this. I admit I did find this thread 'wrong' even when I read the topic. Even if this was a thread about someone being in love with a married woman who was not a celebrity, I don't think that has any place being on a message board anyway.

Myles
09-10-2012, 11:08 AM
On his google+ profile, he states that he has autism. And his recent twitter feeds reveal a very depressed person (previous suicide attempts, etc). Very sad.

Let's just close this thread. The appropriate people were already alerted.