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TMC
11-20-2011, 03:43 AM
I just learned that my father, Johnnie Clay, Jr. had passed away at the age of 69 while in Texas. His aunt called while my mom and I were out to tell us that he was found unconscious. A couple of days prior, he was hospitalized but he seemed to be on good enough spirits when he called. He was planning on driving back home to San Jose on Monday. My dad has had numerous health issues in recent years regarding his blood pressure and heart (he was also a borderline diabetic). My mom is somehow, hanging in there but we have to tell my two older brothers what happened (one in Southern California and another in Austin, TX). I don't know how I'm going to be able to function in the short-term without my dad managing the household. I'm just incredibly numb and in sheer disbelief right about now.

Retro4Life
11-20-2011, 04:22 AM
My deepest condolences on your loss. The loss of a parent is just...beyond anyone's capacity to understand unless you have been there yourself, and I have been, twice, unfortunately.

Take it one day, one hour, one minute at a time. You will get through it. Use the fact that your dad would WANT you to get through it to help you. You have my prayers and best wishes.

80sTrivia
11-20-2011, 06:04 AM
I am so very sorry to hear your deeply sad news. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time...

old grouch
11-20-2011, 09:41 AM
You and Your family are in my prayers.

Mr. Television
11-20-2011, 10:19 AM
How Awful. :( I am so sorry and right before the Holidays too. You and your family have my deep sympathies and prayers. :( I lost my Mom 9 years ago last month so I know what you're going through. Hang in there and God Bless.

sunshinefizzy
11-20-2011, 11:03 AM
I'm so sorry to hear that. I'll be praying for you.

MrCleveland
11-20-2011, 11:26 AM
Sorry for your loss....

Brian Damage
11-20-2011, 11:49 AM
I am so sorry....if you need anybody to talk to or pray with, I am here.

janet42
11-20-2011, 12:00 PM
I'm sorry for your loss.

Leigh Ann
11-20-2011, 12:05 PM
Sorry to hear that. :(

HuntingtonM15
11-20-2011, 12:30 PM
I'm very sorry to hear of your tragic loss.

AKA
11-20-2011, 12:53 PM
I'm so, so sorry. That's awful. There are no words.

mystery_daisy
11-20-2011, 03:00 PM
So Sorry for your loss. xx

Crimson and Clover
11-20-2011, 03:08 PM
Im very sorry.

Marvo301
11-20-2011, 06:16 PM
I am very sorry for you loss. You and your family are in my prayers.

Janice
11-20-2011, 07:40 PM
My deepest condolences. I'm so sorry for your profound loss. Life without a parent(s) is difficult. Nobody loves us the way our parents do. Such unconditional love. You and your family are in my prayers. Be well.

70s show watcher
11-20-2011, 08:07 PM
im very sorry for your loss i will pray for you and your family

Schmoopie
11-20-2011, 08:19 PM
So very sorry to hear this. Prayers for you and your family.

Family Ties Forever!
11-20-2011, 10:35 PM
I'm sorry to hear that your father died. :(

Yooch
11-20-2011, 11:52 PM
I am very sorry to hear about your Dad. :(

catlover79
11-21-2011, 01:27 AM
I am so sorry to hear this news!! God bless your and your family. May your father :rip:.

ponytail
11-21-2011, 05:36 AM
My condolences to you and your family. My prayers are with you.

OH Nuts!
11-21-2011, 06:37 PM
This is the first I've seen of your post. My heatfelt condolences...I know what a shock and loss it is.

steevo
11-21-2011, 07:45 PM
I am so sorry to hear about your loss, you are in my prayers. :(

Brad Russ
11-30-2011, 04:09 PM
I'm so sorry to hear this. i just said a prayer for you and your family, and i will keep them coming. Hang in there!!

Tubehead
11-30-2011, 10:17 PM
my grandmama passsed away year ago they were getting ready to go to church she just feel over. we didn't think their was anything worng withwith her mygrandpapa stil misses her then my other grandppa passed awaye 2 years ago i miss them both

Tubehead
11-30-2011, 10:20 PM
sorry double post

isiahthomas
12-03-2011, 03:11 PM
Sorry to hear your dad died. I lost my grandparents also and they meant a lot to me. I miss them. My mom has breast cancer and i hope she survives because if she dies, i will be upset because my mom and i are very close. She's my best friend.