If you cheat once, does that mean you'll do it again?

Yes :crazy:

Yes :crazy:

Not what I wanted to hear at all because last night I was the cheater

Everyone makes mistakes.

So the fact that I liked making out with this guy who isnt my fiance, means??? that I should break it off, so I tried to and he begged me not to go. Shouldn't it be the other way around?

I don't believe that's true with everyone who cheats. I agree though, people do make mistakes. You should break up with your fiancee though if you're interested in someone else, otherwise you'll end up hurting him more in the long run.

My 2 cents

I don't believe that's true with everyone who cheats. I agree though, people do make mistakes. You should break up with your fiancee though if you're interested in someone else, otherwise you'll end up hurting him more in the long run.

My 2 cents

I know I need to either break up with him or force myself to forget about the other guy

Jo/Blair. If you are cheating on your fiancee you are definitely not ready to get married.

I know I need to either break up with him or force myself to forget about the other guy

I do not believe that someone who cheats once will necessarily do it again. What I do believe is that if someone cheats, there must be a reason, and you should take some time to figure out why you did it. You have to be honest with yourself and your fiance. Both of you will be better off if you take some time to really look at your relationship and your feelings before rushing into anything.

:bighug: Good luck!

I have been in relationships where I was cheated on. That was the end. A woman cheats on me, she can say adios. I dont cheat, so I expect the same in return.

I have been in relationships where I was cheated on. That was the end. A woman cheats on me, she can say adios. I dont cheat, so I expect the same in return.

I see where you are coming from Mickey. I have been cheated on myself, and it hurts. I think it is really hard to ever trust that person again and so I made the decision not to and to say good-bye to the relationship.

I still think some people can make mistakes and learn from them. I have friends who have overcome cheating in their relationships and are happy. I think it really depends on whether or not both people can agree to try to make things work. I agree with you...I won't try to make things work with someone who cheated on me, but others can and do so I wish them the best of luck.

I have been in relationships where I was cheated on. That was the end. A woman cheats on me, she can say adios. I dont cheat, so I expect the same in return.
I totally agree with you. After someone cheats, I don't know how you can ever trust that person again. Even if you try, it'll always be in the back of your mind.

I do not believe that someone who cheats once will necessarily do it again. What I do believe is that if someone cheats, there must be a reason, and you should take some time to figure out why you did it. You have to be honest with yourself and your fiance. Both of you will be better off if you take some time to really look at your relationship and your feelings before rushing into anything.

:bighug: Good luck!

That sounds like very wise advice, and some excellent perceptions to me!

If you see somebody cheating on you, I think you should try digging your key into the side of his/her pretty little souped-up four wheel drive, then carve your name into his/her leather seat of the car, then take a Louisville Slugger to both headlights, slash a hole in all four tires, and maybe next time he/she will think before he/she cheats. :)

well I told him and he was hurt and took a few hours to think and he decided that he wants to give me a second chance which I m so thankful for I just hope I never do it agian.

Meghan, I think that a person can cheat once and not do it again. Some people who cheat will always cheat, and some people just make a mistake. I certainly think that you're one of the latter.

However, if you cheated on your boyfriend, I think there is cause for concern. There has to be somthing wrong with the relationship. I think you really need to give the relationship some serious though. Good luck, Meghan. :)

If you see somebody cheating on you, I think you should try digging your key into the side of his/her pretty little souped-up four wheel drive, then carve your name into his/her leather seat of the car, then take a Louisville Slugger to both headlights, slash a hole in all four tires, and maybe next time he/she will think before he/she cheats. :)


LOL. That Damn Carrie Underwood......:lol: :crazy: I originally thought she sang, "I carved my name into his LEGACY! OUCH!:eek: :lol: :crazy: I thought, 'Legacy" was a eupherism for a male's "personal friend"....:eek: :lol: