I know hate is a strong word, but I really don't like my niece. She's my sister's kid. She is 19 and very disrespectful. She talks back to her parents, she makes life miserable for her other siblings, and she's a cold-hearted bitch! She has a 3 year-old, doesn't know who the father is, she dropped out of school in 8th grade, and is headed nowhere. My sister lost control of her, and doesn't know what to do with her. She has stolen from everyone, including me. I haven't spoken to her in over a year, and that's the way I like it. She has no friends, and the few she had, she's driven them away. And check this out, everytime the father tries to discipline her, she calls the police! She holds the psycological advantage. I can't stand my neice!

I know hate is a strong word, but I really don't like my niece. She's my sister's kid. She is 19 and very disrespectful. She talks back to her parents, she makes life miserable for her other siblings, and she's a cold-hearted bitch! She has a 3 year-old, doesn't know who the father is, she dropped out of school in 8th grade, and is headed nowhere. My sister lost control of her, and doesn't know what to do with her. She has stolen from everyone, including me. I haven't spoken to her in over a year, and that's the way I like it. She has no friends, and the few she had, she's driven them away. And check this out, everytime the father tries to discipline her, she calls the police! She holds the psycological advantage. I can't stand my neice!Man, she sounds like a bad @ss. If she were my neice I'd hate her too-lol

Man, she sounds like a bad @ss. If she were my neice I'd hate her too-lol

Wow... Yeah, if she was my niece, I wouldn't like her either.

Man, she sounds like a bad @ss. If she were my neice I'd hate her too-lol

It is sort of my sister's own fault, because when she was younger, and someone else wanted to discipline her, my sister took offense and stated, "No one chastise my kids but me!"

See how things can come back and bite you?

It is sort of my sister's own fault, because when she was younger, and someone else wanted to discipline her, my sister took offense and stated, "No one chastise my kids but me!"

See how things can come back and bite you?Some people can see no wrong with their children. Does your sis still protect her?

Just steer clear of her as you're doing now, I have a Nephew like that. I just look at it this way, I don't want a relationship with him plain and simple. You don't have to have a relationship with her and if she asks then tell her the truth it might wake her up especially if no one talks to her.

Just steer clear of her as you're doing now, I have a Nephew like that. I just look at it this way, I don't want a relationship with him plain and simple. You don't have to have a relationship with her and if she asks then tell her the truth it might wake her up especially if no one talks to her.

Really think that's a good idea? I mean the niece might sock Garfield.

I can relate. I cant stand my youngest brother.

I don't think it's wrong to dislike a relative. I dislike several of my relatives because a few of them have mistreated me and others are similar to your niece.

Hell, I don't like my uncle from my mother's side of the family!

He said that once my grandma moved into her apartment, he found a buyer for her old house and we have to get everything out ASAP!

What an *******!:mad:

Some people can see no wrong with their children. Does your sis still protect her?

From what I know....yes, she does. She also downplays some major problems too.

Really think that's a good idea? I mean the niece might sock Garfield.

I wish she would, I would knock the living dog doo-doo out of her if she ever put her hands on me! And I don't care if she's a female, she'd have it coming to her!

I'm sorry to hear that. No, I don't think you're wrong to feel that way.

I haven't spoken to my uncle in over four years. My sister didn't invite him to her wedding - there's a lot of bad blood in our family with this man. We've decided to steer clear of him and just pretend he doesn't exist. He's not worth the effort.

I think it's untrue that you can't choose your family. I think you totally can. I have friends that I think of as sisters, and my boss is really like a second mother to me. My uncle is a worthless pile of scum that I refuse to acknowledge. I've chosen my family, and am much happier because of it. :)

Your niece sounds like a giant headache. The one thing I want to caution you on is how much of this behavior have you seen, and how much of it have you merely heard about? Things have a way of getting exaggerated when people are fed up. That said, if she is as bad as you say, I wouldn't waste the time in dealing with her. Your sister may find herself caught in the middle, but she needs to be the parent here and take control.

I don't blame you for feeling that way at all. I think your neice sounds like a real troublemaker and that she's heading down a dangerous path. I would say maybe you and/or your sister should try to get her some help, talk to her, see if she feels remorse or guilt and try to help her get adjusted to a new life. But sadly, I think there's some people who don't care and will only try to take advantage of you.

No I don't think it's wrong at all. Just because they are family doesn't give them the right to treat you like crap or act like they are all high and mighty. My eyes about popped out of my head when I read that your niece is 19 and has a three year old! Wow! Not that it's a big deal these days, but 16 is much to young to have children. I think it's your sister who's the problem here (sorry if I'm being harsh). She needs to take control of her daughter and listen to other family members or at least find someone else to help her deal with her daughter's abusive nature. Can I ask if your sister is married? You mentioned her dad, so I'm just wondering. What do the police do when she calls? I would think that they would listen to the father instead of a 19 year old, but maybe not. Hmmm... seemed like common sense to me.
Thank God none of my relatives are that bad. I moved away from them in 1996, but I do miss them. My in-laws are another story. I've only met my mother and sister in law ONCE, and that was the day before my wedding (in 96). A few months later my husband called his mom because he found out that she was in the hospital and he was livid when she told him that he could have done better in finding a wife! That sure shocked the hell out of me, and I wanted to tell her "Lady, I'm not going to look any better than I did in that wedding dress!" My mom was SO ticked when I told her about that comment!

Andrea

Eh, I want an uncle of mine to die. You don't sound that cruel, so you're doing fine.

he was livid when she told him that he could have done better in finding a wife! That sure shocked the hell out of me, and I wanted to tell her "Lady, I'm not going to look any better than I did in that wedding dress!" My mom was SO ticked when I told her about that comment!

Andrea

:eek: What a hag.

I know hate is a strong word, but I really don't like my niece. She's my sister's kid. She is 19 and very disrespectful. She talks back to her parents, she makes life miserable for her other siblings, and she's a cold-hearted bitch! She has a 3 year-old, doesn't know who the father is, she dropped out of school in 8th grade, and is headed nowhere. My sister lost control of her, and doesn't know what to do with her. She has stolen from everyone, including me. I haven't spoken to her in over a year, and that's the way I like it. She has no friends, and the few she had, she's driven them away. And check this out, everytime the father tries to discipline her, she calls the police! She holds the psycological advantage. I can't stand my neice!

If she were my neice I would give some Sweet Chin Music if she ever laid a hand on me

No I don't think it's wrong at all. Just because they are family doesn't give them the right to treat you like crap or act like they are all high and mighty. My eyes about popped out of my head when I read that your niece is 19 and has a three year old! Wow! Not that it's a big deal these days, but 16 is much to young to have children. I think it's your sister who's the problem here (sorry if I'm being harsh). She needs to take control of her daughter and listen to other family members or at least find someone else to help her deal with her daughter's abusive nature. Can I ask if your sister is married? You mentioned her dad, so I'm just wondering. What do the police do when she calls? I would think that they would listen to the father instead of a 19 year old, but maybe not. Hmmm... seemed like common sense to me.
Thank God none of my relatives are that bad. I moved away from them in 1996, but I do miss them. My in-laws are another story. I've only met my mother and sister in law ONCE, and that was the day before my wedding (in 96). A few months later my husband called his mom because he found out that she was in the hospital and he was livid when she told him that he could have done better in finding a wife! That sure shocked the hell out of me, and I wanted to tell her "Lady, I'm not going to look any better than I did in that wedding dress!" My mom was SO ticked when I told her about that comment!

Andrea

My sister isn't legally married, but her and her boyfriend (the father of the neice) has been together for nearly 30 years. And from what I know, the police does nothing when they do have to come out there because the police has been called dozens of times.

I haven't spoken to my uncle in over four years. My sister didn't invite him to her wedding - there's a lot of bad blood in our family with this man. We've decided to steer clear of him and just pretend he doesn't exist. He's not worth the effort.

I think it's untrue that you can't choose your family. I think you totally can. I have friends that I think of as sisters, and my boss is really like a second mother to me. My uncle is a worthless pile of scum that I refuse to acknowledge. I've chosen my family, and am much happier because of it. :)

Your niece sounds like a giant headache. The one thing I want to caution you on is how much of this behavior have you seen, and how much of it have you merely heard about? Things have a way of getting exaggerated when people are fed up. That said, if she is as bad as you say, I wouldn't waste the time in dealing with her. Your sister may find herself caught in the middle, but she needs to be the parent here and take control. I have seen a lot of bad behavior and I hear even lots more. About a year ago, at my 34th birthday celebration, she was there. Some chaos broke out, she was in the middle of it, the police was called, to make a long story short, as she was escorted out of the celebration, she told me, and the rest of my siblings, "F*uck ya'll!" And that was it. That is why I haven't spoken to the whore in over a year!