View Full Version : Friends with your EXs?


Janice
05-05-2009, 11:30 PM
Do you remain friends with your EXs, or does it depend how the relationship ended? I'm not friends with my EXs, but I'm friendly if I see them. Two paid their respects when my sisters died. Still, no steady contact. Not for any particular reason either, just time and space keeps us apart.

Nighthawk76
05-05-2009, 11:31 PM
No, not really. Usually there are too many hurt feelings involved to stay friends.

Scoobiedoo30
05-05-2009, 11:35 PM
No I am not friends with my EX

Darren J.
05-05-2009, 11:38 PM
The way I see it, they're your ex for a reason. It's probably best to avoid contact as it can create problems with your current boyfriend/girlfriend.

Brian Damage
05-05-2009, 11:41 PM
I am not friend's with any of my ex's, although that wasn't the case when I got out of the Navy. A couple of them becam booty calls for awhile, but after a bit, it grew tiresome and we went our separate ways.

phoebe7165
05-05-2009, 11:44 PM
No, not really. Usually there are too many hurt feelings involved to stay friends.

I agree!! To me, staying friends with an ex would also be too weird for me.

Hollow
05-05-2009, 11:50 PM
my only ex and i are best friends. i think things would be much smoother though if we had spent some time away from each other after the breakup.

LuLu Rogers
05-06-2009, 12:13 AM
I'd love to run into my ex's...with my car! ;)

I'm not a heartless person, but I have been BURNED by my ex's ohno:


http://imagecache.allposters.com/images/pic/EPH/8299~Ran-Into-My-Ex-Posters.jpg

Brad Russ
05-06-2009, 12:14 AM
Donna is still my best friend, as I usually see her a couple times a week. We started off as friends, and unless we get back together, it's always going to stay that way. She's too special to me to not associate with her. I'm also still friends with an older woman I dated before Donna named Delyla. Infact, I got a couple emails from her this morning, asking me if I could help out her friend again who's moving this week, and needs help with the move, and with fixing up his house and stuff. I said of course I'll help. Those are the only women I've dated that I'm still in contact with.

PunkyP0WER
05-06-2009, 12:15 AM
i don't know....has hell frozen over yet?

LuLu Rogers
05-06-2009, 12:19 AM
i don't know....has hell frozen over yet?


:lol: EXACTLY!

dawsongirl
05-06-2009, 12:19 AM
I hope most of mine die a slow and lingering death ;)

I'm not a heartless person, but I have been BURNED by my ex's ohno:
:lol: You go, girl.


I don't have any exes, but all my ex crushes can burn with Lulu's exes.

Darren J.
05-06-2009, 12:22 AM
I'd love to run into my ex's...with my car! ;)

I'm not a heartless person, but I have been BURNED by my ex's ohno:


http://imagecache.allposters.com/images/pic/EPH/8299~Ran-Into-My-Ex-Posters.jpg


I'm sorry you had to go through that. I just hope you don't label all guys as jerks. I've seen that far too often.

LuLu Rogers
05-06-2009, 12:22 AM
:lol: You go, girl.


I don't have any exes, but all my ex crushes can burn with Lulu's exes.


Check my edited post ;)

Nighthawk76
05-06-2009, 12:23 AM
:lol: You go, girl.


I don't have any exes, but all my ex crushes can burn with Lulu's exes.

Oh, Cathy. :lol:

LuLu Rogers
05-06-2009, 12:23 AM
I'm sorry you had to go through that. I just hope you don't label all guys as jerks. I've seen that far too often.


No, not all guys :)

dawsongirl
05-06-2009, 12:26 AM
Check my edited post ;)
:rofl:

dawsongirl
05-06-2009, 12:28 AM
Oh, Cathy. :lol:
I have one that needs to be run over by a Mac truck. Repeatedly!

:angdev:

browneyes106
05-06-2009, 12:55 AM
I have never really had any bad breakups. I'm a close friend with one of my ex's. He works nearby my workplace and often we go out to eat lunch together. I do keep in touch with a couple of others ex's through email, myspace and facebook.

Theda Bara
05-06-2009, 01:02 AM
One of my ex-boyfriend's happens to be one of my dearest friends; we were actually engaged to be married (back in 1992) but I broke up the engagement because I was too young at the time. But my other exes, I would literally run the other way if I saw them...

beautifuldreamer
05-06-2009, 01:06 AM
Ugh, to hell with them... I don't even think it's worth talking about. :lol:

Nighthawk76
05-06-2009, 01:11 AM
I have one that needs to be run over by a Mac truck. Repeatedly!

:angdev:

:lol:

Sharop
05-06-2009, 09:32 AM
I only have one ex (a guy called Kieran, who I was friends with in school and we tried dating a couple of times - the first time when we were 13 and the second time when we were 15.)

We don't see each other often now but we still like one another (on a friendly basis.) He's a nice guy and I sometimes wish I saw him more often.

MickeyMac
05-06-2009, 04:59 PM
My last few ex girlfriends left me for other guys(they were all worthless but thats a topic for another thread), and left me with a broken heart, so I dont have any interest in being friends with them or seeing them. The good news is my last two exes no longer live in town :clap :clap

Theda Bara
05-06-2009, 08:06 PM
My last few ex girlfriends left me for other guys(they were all worthless but thats a topic for another thread), and left me with a broken heart, so I dont have any interest in being friends with them or seeing them. The good news is my last two exes no longer live in town :clap :clap
Lucky you. I had an interesting experience about two months ago. I went out to my regular haunt and the band was the performing that night, guess who was the lead male vocalist? Yep, some ass I dated when I was in my early 20's; he looked like utter hell and was married (I feel sorry for his wife). Anyway, I did not have a GREAT time that evening (to say the least):lol:

MickeyMac
05-07-2009, 01:01 PM
Lucky you. I had an interesting experience about two months ago. I went out to my regular haunt and the band was the performing that night, guess who was the lead male vocalist? Yep, some ass I dated when I was in my early 20's; he looked like utter hell and was married (I feel sorry for his wife). Anyway, I did not have a GREAT time that evening (to say the least):lol:



I have never had that problem because I always hook up with girls who would rather sit in front of the televison set than do music. :lol: :lol: