View Full Version : Girls, How To Tell Your Man Probably Wants To Be Cut Loose From The Relationship


Janice Johnson
02-11-2008, 03:18 PM
Just in time for Valentine's Day, and from my experience(I just recently broke up with my boyfriend)



1. He doesn't call or talk to you for days, and when he finally does, you can count on one hand the minutes you actually talk to him.

2. He hypothetically tells you that he would buy condoms, but wouldn't use them on you(Hmm. He may be implying that he wants to be free to date other girls).

3. You haven't seen him since December 2007, and when he finally gets the chance to see you, he stands you up.

4. You haven't talked to him since January 2008.

5. He gets upset when you get upset because he hasn't called or text you. he calls you a mean girl.

6.He has no desire to meet your parents, even though you streesed to him how important it is to you that he meet your parents.

7. He keeps asking if you have another boyfriend.(obsessively). He could secretly hope you have another boyfriend, so that he can dump you and vbe free of the relationship.

8.He said the words, "This relationship isn't working out."

These are some big signs that he may not want to be in the relationship anymore.

RoryGilmore
02-11-2008, 03:24 PM
9. You guys normally say "love you" at the end of a conversation. You still say it but he says me too or ditto. But he wont say love you.

Hollow
02-11-2008, 03:45 PM
7. He keeps asking if you have another boyfriend.(obsessively).
probably indicates that he WANTS to be in the relationship, but is really insecure and paranoid. unhealthy, nonetheless.

8.He said the words, "This relationship isn't working out."
that could easily mean that he's concerned about the relationship and wants to save it rather than end it. some problems can be worked out.

but anyway, i suppose i could contribute. he suddenly urges you to get rid of him, and seems happy that you do, but starts treating you like garbage for no apparent reason.

Kazza
02-12-2008, 11:08 AM
You'll see signs on the guy if he wants out the door...
I am too busy
I have other plans,
Today is not possible, tomorrow either...
I think I was falling in love with you but now I'm not,
You need a makeover (instead of saying I would like for you to cut/grow your hair),
I think you are texting me too much and I have a life you know
You have kids? I don't want them

Courtnee
02-12-2008, 10:23 PM
How about instead of all that ****, he grows some testicles and tells you he wants out?

Max Whittaker
02-12-2008, 10:52 PM
How about instead of all that ****, he grows some testicles and tells you he wants out?

If we could all be more honest about our feelings, both going in and going out of a relationship, we'd all be a lot happier. I hate mind games. Not interested in playing. Or being played...

Janice Johnson
02-13-2008, 12:32 PM
How about instead of all that ****, he grows some testicles and tells you he wants out?

It could be that he doesn't want to hurt your feelings, so he takes the "easy" way out.

Courtnee
02-13-2008, 05:50 PM
It could be that he doesn't want to hurt your feelings, so he takes the "easy" way out.
It seems very immature to me.

coffield3
02-13-2008, 06:21 PM
How about instead of all that ****, he grows some testicles and tells you he wants out?
:lol: