I have quite a few:


-I'd like to gain a few pounds
-Stop eating Chinese food on a regular basis
-Less facial hair(shaving twice a day is annoying)
-I wish I wasn't so sensitive

- I'd like to LOSE a few more pounds :lol:
- Socialize more (i.e., start dating)
- Stop being so lazy


Those are the major ones :)

I wish my nose was smaller.

I am much happier with the person that I am today than the person that I was a year ago. In April of this year I began attending church again and have also been trying to lead a more Christian life. As a result I have not only become a better person, but a happier one. I also have much higher self-esteem than I did last year at this time. I have a long way to go before I am the person that I wish to be, but I'm heading in the right direction. :)

To have more tolerance and patience with certain people in my life.

Honestly, it would be quicker to say what i wouldnt want to change ^_^'

Honestly, it would be quicker to say what i wouldnt want to change ^_^'
:lol:

I wish my nose was smaller.
For whatever my opinion is worth, i think you look very cute, just as you are, Courtnee

For whatever my opinion is worth, i think you look very cute, just as you are, Courtnee
I agree. Such a beauty, why mess with perfection? :D :cool:

I don't wanna go here. :lol:

Oh Gawd...everything?

My anxiety/shyness
My lack of ability to hold a conversation
My lack of motivation to do anything
The pudge around my stomach
My lack of confidence
I wish I were a little bit smarter
I wish I knew what I wanted to do with my life
My lack of a boyfriend
I wish I weren't so fond of sitting on my ass rather than doing things with people
I wish I didn't hate my life the majority of the time

well i need to stop eating as much as i do lol.

other then that, i need to stop caring about what people think of me so much, really. i care way too much about that and always think that people find me annoying or dont like me.

id like to get a litttle more outgoing too, but in the past 3-4 months i've actually gotten a lot better at that.

Honestly, it would be quicker to say what i wouldnt want to change ^_^'
Ditto that.

I have issues with how much I hate myself sometimes. I wish I had more self-esteem, was less of a perfectionist, and was way less sensitive. Among 700 other things I dislike.

people find me annoying or dont like me.

I'm pretty sure most people think that way about me. IRL anyway.

I have issues with how much I hate myself sometimes. I wish I had more self-esteem, was less of a perfectionist, and was way less sensitive. Among 700 other things I dislike.
I used to be that way too, but with age it's all gotten a whole lot better. In fact, a lot of things mentioned here have gotten a whole lot better with age. Some of it did change for me, and some of it just became things I came to accept in myself, not on purpose or anything but more like they just didn't matter as much as they used to. Even with my weight (like Oprah! lol) I know where the line is and I'm just not one of those people who will ever be rail-thin. So it's ok.
I do wish I could motivate myself to clean my house more and do some of the other things I don't like to do.

I need to stop procrastinating so much.

I need to stop procrastinating so much.
Same here and I can be really lazy sometimes and take the easy way out. I really need to challenge myself more. I would want to also gain some more muscle weight and have more courage to talk to a certain girl. I talk to girls a lot but somehow I can't talk to this one.

Get over my fear of swimming. I love the water, ocean, pools, etc. I can wade in them and so forth, but swimming scares me to death.

I agree. Such a beauty, why mess with perfection? :D :cool:
Thanks, guys.

I need to stop putting myself down and being jealous of others.

I need to stop putting myself down

So do I. I'm very self-depricating sometimes. Drives my mom and boyfriend nuts.

My vision (I can't change it, but I wish I could). I wish I had regular 20/20 vision. My vision isn't even close to that. :(


Yea same here. My vision is so messed up it seems as if it gets worse everytime I get my eyes checked

I wish I had better vision and hearing.

I wish I was taller, skinnier, and prettier.

I wish I was more outgoing.

I wish I had more friends and a boyfriend.

I wish I could trust people instead of being afraid of them.

I wish I was a happier person.

I wish I liked myself better.

I wish I came from a more loving, supportive family.

What I would change about myself is: I would want to be less hyper, less nervous, have more patience, being able to work with stress and pressure, etc....so that I could keep a job longer and not give up so easily.

lose a few pounds but thats about it.

Sometimes I wish I could stop being so laid back. It might sound stupid, but i'm so laid back,not many things truely bother me and people tend to think I don't care, but I do. Maybe I wish I could be more expressive.

Do you have enough space for my list? :lol:

I'd like to....

-control my anxiety and think rationally instead of irrationally.
-stop over-analyzing everything (people's behaviors, actions, words, expressions, and how they talk to me as opposed to someone else they like better, etc)
-stop feeling subconscious all the time.
-lose weight - I am at a plateau.
-stop feeling too paranoid.
-stop worrying about certain online people and hoping they would initiate talking to me (I feel like they don't like me for some reason, and it bugs the hell out of me!)
-feel more relaxed. I'm always tense/panicky.

Ha, add to my list as well. I do exactly the same, damn thing, and I even drive my self nuts. I feel for you, Mona. I have this trait, too, and it is annoying!!!
I hear ya! It's a veeeeeeeeeeery weird habit to control, I think....

I wish I was pretty, less introverted (I'm horrible at starting conversations - offline, that is) and had a real woman's body instead of one that looks like somebody's kid brother. I wish I had more money so that I could move out and be on my own (I'm trying to get all my debts paid). I'm 28 and see no marriage prospects on the horizon - and I do so want to get married someday. Other than that, I'm OK with myself. :D I don't take a lot of things personally like I did when I was younger, and I've become more motivated, too.