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Janice Johnson
03-15-2007, 02:25 PM
Remember the love of my life, Ryan? http://www.sitcomsonline.com/boards/showthread.php?t=178190

Well, he dumped me.........................:( We're officially broken up............................. He moved to Broward for a little while, and when he came back to Miami, I had to hear from one of his co-workers that he was back in Miami and when I called Ryan, I knew something was wrong when I realized he didn't seem to happy to hear from me. He said, "Who told you I was back in Miami(in not a very happy tone). I didn't tell him the person's name, because with Ryan's tone, I figured Ryan's co-worker could be in a lot of trouble if I named the co-worker. So, I simply said, "Some guy told me." I asked if I could speak to him for five minutes and he said, I'm really busy." , so we hung up. When I spoke to him again, I was excited of the prospect of becoming a receptionist(A job agency had sent me on an interview to become a receptionist), I said, 'Guess what?" he said, 'I don't care what. Don't ever call me again. Have a nice life," and then hung up the phone.:( At least I had a little buffer......... The buffer was Ryan's tone when I called him the first day, so that helped with the pain....................(I kind of could see this coming from his tone the first time I spoke to him).

Max Whittaker
03-15-2007, 02:58 PM
Ouch! I'm sorry. Damn! That's a hell of a way to break up with someone!

Lex Luthor
03-15-2007, 03:12 PM
Breaking up with someone you love is extremely hard and I am sure it has hurt quite abit. Sometimes you can't help falling for the wrong people and even though they may seem bad for you it doesn't change how you feel.

From reading the previous thread it sounds like there were many warning signs and people offered some good advice but you were blinded by your feelings for him. I am sure that right now it hurts quite a bit but to be truthful, this guy seems like a total punk.

I am sure in time you will find that breaking up with him was one of the more fortunate events in your life. I am sorry for what you are going through now but count your blesings that he did not get you pregnant and then leave.

You will bounce bask and be far better off in the long run

Take Care

AB
03-15-2007, 03:55 PM
I'm sorry you're going through such a rough time with this guy. Not all guys
behave so badly but you're going to run into a few who do.

Kazza
03-15-2007, 07:25 PM
What a jerk! :mad:
Hope you can move on and heal soon.

mrs.gingerhinkley
03-15-2007, 08:51 PM
forget loser guys like that! you don't need anyone that's so mean.
single life ain't to bad.
sob, not that i'm dealing with it wonderfully... but that's just 'cause i'm madly in love with someone who i'm not sure thinks I exsist! woe is me.
but, I hope you feel better soon!

dawsongirl
03-15-2007, 08:52 PM
geez...what an ass.

Hollow
03-15-2007, 11:43 PM
oh dear....i know how you feel. to not only have someone you love hurt you, but remain in love with them. it truly hurts like hell. remember to respect his wishes though if you still love him...and use everything you have to pull through.

PrettyinPink55
03-16-2007, 01:20 AM
Wow! The way he broke up with you....what a jerk!!! I think you're better off without him!!

rusyd
03-16-2007, 04:51 PM
I'm sorry you are hurting right now. He's sounds like a real jerk! Hope you feel better soon.

Scoobiedoo30
03-16-2007, 05:00 PM
I am sorry to here about your Break up

Janice
03-16-2007, 05:46 PM
I'm sure it doesn't feel like it now, but someday you'll realize that this creep did you a favor. I'm sorry you're hurting. Heartbreak is a bitch.

Nighthawk76
03-16-2007, 06:19 PM
I'm sorry, Janice. :(

Courtnee
03-16-2007, 06:29 PM
That guy is a dick.

Courtnee
03-16-2007, 06:29 PM
That guy is a dick.

Janice Johnson
03-19-2007, 03:19 PM
What a jerk! :mad:
Hope you can move on and heal soon.

I was just thinking about this when I re-read my new Darryl story.............. I had written(as Darryl) "I was sorry mom's love turned out to be a jerk." Who knew I would soon be comparing my fictional character with my real-life love?:crazy: :( Oh the itony!:crazy: :(



http://www.sitcomsonline.com/boards/...d.php?t=193046 The "Jerk" character in my story has the same initial as Ryan!:crazy: Even more irony!:p :crazy:

Holly
03-20-2007, 09:13 AM
Remember the love of my life, Ryan? http://www.sitcomsonline.com/boards/showthread.php?t=178190

Well, he dumped me.........................:( We're officially broken up............................. He moved to Broward for a little while, and when he came back to Miami, I had to hear from one of his co-workers that he was back in Miami and when I called Ryan, I knew something was wrong when I realized he didn't seem to happy to hear from me. He said, "Who told you I was back in Miami(in not a very happy tone). I didn't tell him the person's name, because with Ryan's tone, I figured Ryan's co-worker could be in a lot of trouble if I named the co-worker. So, I simply said, "Some guy told me." I asked if I could speak to him for five minutes and he said, I'm really busy." , so we hung up. When I spoke to him again, I was excited of the prospect of becoming a receptionist(A job agency had sent me on an interview to become a receptionist), I said, 'Guess what?" he said, 'I don't care what. Don't ever call me again. Have a nice life," and then hung up the phone.:( At least I had a little buffer......... The buffer was Ryan's tone when I called him the first day, so that helped with the pain....................(I kind of could see this coming from his tone the first time I spoke to him).


My Advise is get over it he sound's like a loser there's much nicer guy's out there in the World!!!!!:D

Janice Johnson
03-29-2007, 02:27 PM
Breaking up with someone you love is extremely hard and I am sure it has hurt quite abit. Sometimes you can't help falling for the wrong people and even though they may seem bad for you it doesn't change how you feel.

From reading the previous thread it sounds like there were many warning signs and people offered some good advice but you were blinded by your feelings for him. I am sure that right now it hurts quite a bit but to be truthful, this guy seems like a total punk.

I am sure in time you will find that breaking up with him was one of the more fortunate events in your life. I am sorry for what you are going through now but count your blesings that he did not get you pregnant and then leave.

You will bounce bask and be far better off in the long run

Take Care

Could my feelings for Ryan been "smoke"? I was thinking about a Beyonce song, where she sings, "People told me about the flames, I couldn't see through the smoke." Could the "flames" be the strikes I was talking about in the other thread?:confused: