The same if it was a heterosexual couple? I was buying a soda last night in my neighborhood market and the cashier who works in there is gay. He makes it no secret, so while i was in line buying my soda, his boyfriend comes up and askes him-"Are you spending tonight over my house or Am i staying over your house?" The cashier refused to answer HIM in front of me and never did answer him until I guess after I left-lol So I wonder if the gay guy was ashamed of HIM or was he embarassed about being Gay? Only reason I asked this is because if I worked in a market as a cashier and my beautiful girlfriend comes up and says-"So are you staying over my house tonight" in front of a stranger I would have answer with no problem. So what i really want to know is what was THE BIG DEAL???????? It's not like no one knew he was GAY so why did he get all quiet in front of strangers???-lol Another Interesting Moment in my life-lol

Ask him...

Ask him...


I really don;t care why I just wanted to know would it be the same with heterosexual couples. FOR EXAMPLE, if your man came and said that to you would you answer him in front of a stranger?

maybe he was just trying to be professional.

maybe he was just trying to be professional.


Ok I'm off that situation, would you have answered Ms. Orange?

Ok I'm off that situation, would you have answered Ms. Orange?
probably not, not in front of a customer at least.

I wouldn't have answered either if I was in the same position, as a matter of fact, I just might be pissed she asked me that in front of customers.

I dont really see the big deal with it no matter what your preferences may be. Id probably be taken aback a bit if they asked me, but I wouldve answered nonetheless. Its not like he asked him something more 'sexual'.

I wouldn't have answered either if I was in the same position, as a matter of fact, I just might be pissed she asked me that in front of customers.


Come on, Eva Longoria comes in and say-"Brian are you coming over my house tonight? And you are saying you wouldn't answer-LOL

Come on, Eva Longoria comes in and say-"Brian are you coming over my house tonight? And you are saying you wouldn't answer-LOL


Let's deal in reality, I'll answer when I am done with customers. I am sure a boss wouldn't appreciate that kind of talk.

Let's deal in reality, I'll answer when I am done with customers. I am sure a boss wouldn't appreciate that kind of talk.


I guess i see your point-LOL

I wouldn't have answered either if I was in the same position, as a matter of fact, I just might be pissed she asked me that in front of customers.

:yeahthat That is waaaay unprofessional. I don't care if he was flipping burgers at McDonald's or working for a sex hotline, the guy's boyfriend could have left their business where it belongs, at home. Don't come to my job with that mess unless the house was on fire.

:yeahthat That is waaaay unprofessional. I don't care if he was flipping burgers at McDonald's or working for a sex hotline, the guy's boyfriend could have left their business where it belongs, at home. Don't come to my job with that mess unless the house was on fire.



I guess that GUY he really happy to be with him and wanted the World to know it

I guess that GUY he really happy to be with him and wanted the World to know it

:lol: Pleased as punch.

I really don;t care why I just wanted to know would it be the same with heterosexual couples. FOR EXAMPLE, if your man came and said that to you would you answer him in front of a stranger?
My man wouldn't say that in front of anyone because it is not professional to have that kind of talk going on at your place of business, whether you are a cashier, clerk, lawyer or doctor.

That is the reason why the guy didn't respond. I bet he told his friend later on that day that what he did was stupid and he should never talk "personal" at work, especially in front of customers.

My man wouldn't say that in front of anyone because it is not professional to have that kind of talk going on at your place of business, whether you are a cashier, clerk, lawyer or doctor.

That is the reason why the guy didn't respond. I bet he told his friend later on that day that what he did was stupid and he should never talk "personal" at work, especially in front of customers.


I have to say that in college I didn't mind my Girl talking to me on the SIDE while I served Food to a Line of People-LOL What can I say I was young and foolish

I have to say that in college I didn't mind my Girl talking to me on the SIDE while I served Food to a Line of People-LOL What can I say I was young and foolish
Foolish being the operative word. :lol: Remember, you wouldn't talk foolish on the phone (slang talk, etc) while working or looking for an apt. therefore, same holds for what you say at the workplace.

Foolish being the operative word. :lol: Remember, you wouldn't talk foolish on the phone (slang talk, etc) while working or looking for an apt. therefore, same holds for what you say at the workplace.



I didn't care because she was HOT and I enjoyed the attention-lol

The same if it was a heterosexual couple? I was buying a soda last night in my neighborhood market and the cashier who works in there is gay. He makes it no secret, so while i was in line buying my soda, his boyfriend comes up and askes him-"Are you spending tonight over my house or Am i staying over your house?" The cashier refused to answer HIM in front of me and never did answer him until I guess after I left-lol So I wonder if the gay guy was ashamed of HIM or was he embarassed about being Gay? Only reason I asked this is because if I worked in a market as a cashier and my beautiful girlfriend comes up and says-"So are you staying over my house tonight" in front of a stranger I would have answer with no problem. So what i really want to know is what was THE BIG DEAL???????? It's not like no one knew he was GAY so why did he get all quiet in front of strangers???-lol Another Interesting Moment in my life-lol


I don't think sexuality has anything to do with it. It was really unprofessional to be asked something like that in front of customers. I wouldn't have answered either.

I don't think sexuality has anything to do with it. It was really unprofessional to be asked something like that in front of customers. I wouldn't have answered either.


I was surprised the Cashier didn't answer since he ANSWERS his cell phone while he is taking care of customers-lol

I was surprised the Cashier didn't answer since he ANSWERS his cell phone while he is taking care of customers-lol

Okay, that puts a different perspective on things. I still wouldn't think he was ashamed. Maybe it was a business call?

Okay, that puts a different perspective on things. I still wouldn't think he was ashamed. Maybe it was a business call?


There is no excuse for answering your cell phone while you are working as a cashier-lol

oy vey

I was surprised the Cashier didn't answer since he ANSWERS his cell phone while he is taking care of customers-lol
I'm surprised you care. I mean, you are a customer. You are watching everything he did like you were with the CIA. :lol: You got toooo much time on your hands to be noticing such things. I can see if you felt you didn't get proper service or were treated rudely...you read tooooo much into things.

I'm surprised you care. I mean, you are a customer. You are watching everything he did like you were with the CIA. :lol: You got toooo much time on your hands to be noticing such things. I can see if you felt you didn't get proper service or were treated rudely...you read tooooo much into things.

:brent

If I had a girlfriend who asked me that in that same situation, I wouldn't answer either. I would just say, we can talk about this after I get off work. That's not other people's business, so I don't blame the guy. I feel sorry for him that he has a boyfriend that would put him in that kind of ackward situation. I don't understand why the guy didn't just wait until there were no customers around to ask such a personal question.

I wouldn't have answered either if I was in the same position, as a matter of fact, I just might be pissed she asked me that in front of customers.
Me too. Ask me when I'm NOT working.

I'm surprised you care. I mean, you are a customer. You are watching everything he did like you were with the CIA. :lol: You got toooo much time on your hands to be noticing such things. I can see if you felt you didn't get proper service or were treated rudely...you read tooooo much into things.


Irene I have EARS, his boyfriend was right next to me when he asked the question-lol

Irene I have EARS, his boyfriend was right next to me when he asked the question-lol
Oooookay. So, as you heard this going on you told yourself, "I got a new thread idea for S.O." :lol:

I mean, we all have eyes and ears and we see and hear things all the time, but there is just times when you may overhear something or see something and it just "flies on by"...something like that wouldn't have caught my attention. As long as I was being serviced, and being serviced WELL, that is all I care abt.

Oooookay. So, as you heard this going on you told yourself, "I got a new thread idea for S.O." :lol:

I mean, we all have eyes and ears and we see and hear things all the time, but there is just times when you may overhear something or see something and it just "flies on by"...something like that wouldn't have caught my attention. As long as I was being serviced, and being serviced WELL, that is all I care abt.



Not everything is Chit Chat Material like a Female Cop looking at me like I was Breakfast one morning but what I heard that day defintely was something to Chat about-lol