Does anyone know how? For serious, there has GOT to be a way.

It's times like these where my anger for not turning into a witch on my 16th birthday resurfaces.

get a turtle.

Gah, there's no easy way about this, unfortunately. I've been in love with someone for a very long time now, even though I know this person is not good for me. All I can suggest is to get involved with friends or some sort of activity to keep your mind off of it (which is hard for me because I have neither friends, nor interesting things to do). Good luck :wave:

Fall for someone else.

Lol the turtle in your avatar is hopping to the beat of a song that's on tv now. :lol:

Neways I don't know a way sorry. :(

The thing is, I've been trying to make it go away for a long time now. I do try to focus on other things and nothing helps. I feel like it's hopeless and I just have to wait until it takes its sweet time to go away, or something happens between us...which is won't. So I'm stuck waiting. And I know I have my whole life for this, but now it's just really painful. Especially seeing him prancing around with some other girl.

Right now I'm okay, but every once in awhile it literally gets me sick to my stomach.

Fall for someone else.
I've tried -_- Because yeah, it seems like that's the only way to cancel it out. I wish I could just go straight to not caring about anyone. Perhaps I should crawl in a hole. :wallbang

Especially seeing him prancing around with some other girl.

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Tar and feather em. Or just tell the Sexual Harrasment Panda on them. :lol:

But seriously any guy who "prances" around the school with their girlfriend obviously just wants attention. I mean come on can't people find a better place? There is this guy I know who holds a certain girl's hand in the hall just to get other people not to flirt with him, they end up looking like 8 year olds on a playground. :lol:

Tar and feather em. Or just tell the Sexual Harrasment Panda on them. :lol:

But seriously any guy who "prances" around the school with their girlfriend obviously just wants attention. I mean come on can't people find a better place? There is this guy I know who holds a certain girl's hand in the hall just to get other people not to flirt with him, they end up looking like 8 year olds on a playground. :lol:
Well, I mean...if they like each other they like each other and there's nothing I can do about it. So, that's why I'm forcing it to go away.

Sometimes I wish there was a way to never fall in love...it causes so many problems. :(

Fall for someone else.
:yeahthat That works wonders. It's not necessarily quick though.


Or manifest your feelings into anger toward someone else, most likely the girl he's dating or a girl who also has a crush on him. You'll be so pissed off at her you'll forget about him...temporarily anyway. Yes, I have jealousy and anger issues. My hatred for some girls runs very very deep. In HS, the girl who was dating my crush (well, one of them...manwhore) was like, my biggest enemy. I wanted to vandalize her car.

Right now I'm okay, but every once in awhile it literally gets me sick to my stomach.

Yeah...felt that. It's any wonder I don't have a giant hole in my stomach.

:yeahthat That works wonders. It's not necessarily quick though.


Or manifest your feelings into anger toward someone else, most likely the girl he's dating or a girl who also has a crush on him. You'll be so pissed off at her you'll forget about him...temporarily anyway. Yes, I have jealousy and anger issues. My hatred for some girls runs very very deep. In HS, the girl who was dating my crush (well, one of them...manwhore) was like, my biggest enemy. I wanted to vandalize her car.
Argh, it doesn't help that she's a nice girl. I mean, I already feel guilty for being so pissed at her.

Sometimes I wish there was a way to never fall in love...it causes so many problems. :(
Amen.

Yeah...felt that. It's any wonder I don't have a giant hole in my stomach.
Yeah, ha, I remember in like september when I first realized he liked her how sick I got. Gooddd Lord and once I almost cried in Spanish when he left the room to walk around in the halls with her. (teachers a dumbass, she doesn't get it even though the girl is standing right at the door waiting for him) Mmhmm yeah, good times.

I honestly think I'm getting better, though. I don't get as disgusted when I see them holding hands now.

Falling for someone who doesn't love you is hard and it just takes time for your heart to heal. I know it's easier said than done. I have had this happen to me on more than one occasion and I thought I would never make it but I did. Be good to yourself in the meantime though.

it's simple. just think of one thing about the person you like that really bothers you, and focus obsessively on it.

i liked this girl, but she is so uneducated and says the most ridiculous things. once she asked me how to spell 'purple', and she was proud to not know how to spell it, and she never does any of her work in school and acts way too goofy. i immediately fell out of love with her, and to stop myself from liking her again i thought of how she takes pride in not knowing how to spell purple. and it worked.

it's simple. just think of one thing about the person you like that really bothers you, and focus obsessively on it.

i liked this girl, but she is so uneducated and says the most ridiculous things. once she asked me how to spell 'purple', and she was proud to not know how to spell it, and she never does any of her work in school and acts way too goofy. i immediately fell out of love with her, and to stop myself from liking her again i thought of how she takes pride in not knowing how to spell purple. and it worked.
Erm, well...he IS my friend so I don't want to get disgusted with him. Just...sort of fall out of love with him. I'm making it difficult for you guys to help me, arn't I? :lol: