If i had to do all over again, i'd be one because the women i had sex with weren't about nothin. One of them i had sex with has 5 kids, another girl i had sex with is white and she had 3 kids at the time. She was about to have another baby when i broke up with her. Sex is overrated to me. So many people just gotta have it. Why is that? Sex is scary nowadays. Too many people got sexual diseases and people are just f*ckin anybody. You even got black men now who are having sex with women and men. There's this black guy author who wrote a book about that called Black Men On The Down Low. I haven't read the book but i've seen it in the bookstore. I posted this topic on a couple of black websites and i got laughed at which is expected because most black men are ignorant and sex is all they think about and talk about. It's not that i don't like women but women piss me off so much because of the silly games they play and i'd rather not be bothered with them. For example, yesterday i saw on my caller id that this black girl i'm talkin to called me in the afternoon. When i called her last night to ask her if she called me, she said no. I said are you sure. She said yeah. So i said to myself, why would her sister or her mom call me when they're not interested in me. She's the only one living at her sister's house that is interested in me. I think she's lying. I agree with everything Willie D said about black women always got their hand out, selfish and only want a man that can take care of them. I know that women whether they're black or white say men ain't about nothin but wanting to get in their panties but every man isn't like that. I know i'm not only about wanting to have sex. I don't think every woman is like the way i described but it seems that i keep runnin into the wrong women. Even the women that are educated and don't have any kids got issues too because i've dealt with women like that.

I also wanna tell every young man and old man on here, don't trip about people laughin at you because your a virgin. Let them laugh. Don't let people dictate your life and tell you when you should have sex because sex is somethin that's personal and it's nobody's business. I don't know why black men feel that they have to tell their buddies who they had sex with. What's cool about braggin to your friends about who you screwed?

I wish I had waited til I was married. :( I would have been nice to share that honor with my husband.

I don't think there's anything wrong with having sex because i like to touch a woman, kiss her body and feel her body against mine but i just think people should wait until they're ready to have sex instead of being forced to have it because you don't want people laughin at you for being a virgin. I haven't seen the movie The 40 Year Old Virgin but i think i'm gonna check it out when it comes on video just to see how it was. The white guy who was the main character in the movie gets pressured by his friends to have sex which is so typical. What's wrong with a man being 40 and a virgin?

See the problem in the black community is that there's too much sex going on because that's why there's so many young black women walkin around pushing strollers with babies in them because they're too stupid to say to themselves, i ain't gonna let a man pressure me into having sex just because he's telling me what i wanna hear just to get into my panties. Black women need to stop letting black men tell them bullsh*t just so they can screw them and then when they get pregnant, the black man has left her because he's too lazy to take care of his responsibility.

Nothing wrong with that at all, I believe in waiting until marriage. Watching an paternity test episode of Maury Povich or Judge Hatchett should be reason enough to make people wait. All those people come on the show screaming that they don't know who the child's father is and have tell everything they've done. Doing something before you are ready leads to trouble.

Former NBA player A.C. Green waited until he was about 40 when he had sex for the first time, and I believe he got married at that point.

Thanks for the info.

Shaq made fun of AC Green for being a virgin. I bet some other NBA players laughed at him too but he didn't care. I don't think AC Green should've mentioned he was a virgin anyway. I don't know why blacks have to tell their business.

Shaq made fun of AC Green for being a virgin. I bet some other NBA players laughed at him too but he didn't care. I don't think AC Green should've mentioned he was a virgin anyway. I don't know why blacks have to tell their business.
Because he wanted to set an example for other young men...he is tired of the stereotype that NBA players and other athletes have set up that being in pro sports means you gotta "have the women". AC Green gave a good example of sleeping around when he mentioned MAGIC JOHNSON. That's the only example one should have etched in their heads that having sex can lead to DEATH.

It's not just sports that men athletes think they gotta f*ck every woman that comes their way. It's male movie stars and male singers also that they think they gotta holla at and f*ck every woman they see. It's a sad situation that people think they gotta have sex a lot. It's too many people in this country that got sex on the brain at all times. There are a bunch of men that watch pornos. Why is that? They're perverts. I've never watched a porno because it's stupid to see people having sex for hours and doing nothin else. Porno industry is a billion dollar industry now because you got so many perverts out there that wanna watch that trash.

26 and a virgin. And I have no problem with it. :)

That's why it's good to practice SAFE SEX. like Fetish Activity-lol Safest Way for an Adult to have fun. Can't go wrong with EXTENDED FOREPLAY

I'm 20, and a virgin, and I can't believe I'm going to admit this but all I think about is having sex. Being a virgin really does suck.

I wish I would've waited, but I just had to know what it was all about and it wasn't all it was cracked up to be. It would of been so much nicer if I would've waited and been w someone I loved.

It's not just sports that men athletes think they gotta f*ck every woman that comes their way. It's male movie stars and male singers also that they think they gotta holla at and f*ck every woman they see. It's a sad situation that people think they gotta have sex a lot. It's too many people in this country that got sex on the brain at all times. There are a bunch of men that watch pornos. Why is that? They're perverts. I've never watched a porno because it's stupid to see people having sex for hours and doing nothin else. Porno industry is a billion dollar industry now because you got so many perverts out there that wanna watch that trash.
YEAH, AND THEY ALL HAVE THE SAME ENDING TOO!!! WHAT IS UP WITH THAT!!??? :rotflmao: :dizzy: :rofl: :rofl:

I definitely waited until I was ready. I never let anyone pressure me into it. One of my ex-boyfriends broke up with me BECAUSE I wouldn't sleep with him. That just proves he was a jackass. I've been with my current boyfriend for a year and we were eachother's first.

And honestly, use protection. Not only will you prevent unwanted pregnancy, you'll avoid STD's and you won't die.

lol ain't nothing like coming back to SO and finding one of isiah's sex topics.

i have morals. so i'm waiting.

waiting!:D

lol ain't nothing like coming back to SO and finding one of isiah's sex topics.
:rofl:

sex is good sex is fun. use a rubber. make sure she dont have a boyfriend, or in my case, make sure he dont find out. the end.

For me...to wait or not to wait? That is the question.

Hell, I've never even been out on a date yet. :lookaroun

There's nothing wrong with that, I guess. A 40 year old virgin is just a "late" bloomer. ;)
Yes there is. I'm not trying to hate on anyone, but if you're 40 and have never had that kind of connection with anyone else, you got yourself some issues.

i cant stop laughing

people who make fun of virgins or think it's "sad" if someone doesn't have sex by the time they're 30 or 40 don't even piss me off, they just make me laugh.

Yes there is. I'm not trying to hate on anyone, but if you're 40 and have never had that kind of connection with anyone else, you got yourself some issues.


Or, just plain old bad luck.

I'm a 24 year old virgin, and couldn't care less what people think about that. Iv'e had quite a few opportunities for sex, One last week as a matter of fact, LOL. I just don't feel like i'm ready for that at this time. Right now I'm trying to focus on other things in my life, like furthering my education, and getting into better shape mentally. The temptation of sex is pretty strong at times, but I find that as long as I keep as busy as I can, I won't have time to obsess over it. So anyway, I agree with you, there's nothing wrong with being a virgin. Definitely no shame in that.

I feel that the people who get joy out of making fun of virgins are usually the real losers, and I feel sorry for them. I feel sorry for anyone who gets off on teasing others. That's got to be a miserable way to live.

I agree, Little Mel. I hate when people make fun at others, totally lame thing to be doing.

I was begining to think that there werent any virgins left under the age of 15 anymore. I'm 17 and still (yes I'm using still because many of my peers have lost thier virginity, some as young as 12) a virgin. I don't see the rush, Id rather wait for the right guy than to blow that chance with some guy that only wants to speak to you because he wants to get in your pants.

I agree, Little Mel. I hate when people make fun at others, totally lame thing to be doing.

I was begining to think that there werent any virgins left under the age of 15 anymore. I'm 17 and still (yes I'm using still because many of my peers have lost thier virginity, some as young as 12) a virgin. I don't see the rush, Id rather wait for the right guy than to blow that chance with some guy that only wants to speak to you because he wants to get in your pants.

thats different, you're just not a whore. it's good to wait for someone you actually care about to lose it to. but if at 40 years old you still havent found someone you need help, or need to get off your computer and see that theres life outside of your monitor. I lost it at 17 to someone I cared about, i'm not still with that person, but i dont regret it. the right person doesnt have to be someone you think you're going to be with forever. thats what pisses me off most.

and i'd like to say SO should have a sex forum. that'd be great. im shocked at this post.

and i'd like to say SO should have a sex forum. that'd be great. im shocked at this post.



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aka im an old lonley virgin

sex is good sex is fun. use a rubber. make sure she dont have a boyfriend, or in my case, make sure he dont find out. the end.

:lol: :nonono: oh tim, the drama you cause.

i regret not waiting at times but then my urge for more overpowers it... sex is good.
... hah, can't believe i just said that.

:lol: :nonono: oh tim, the drama you cause.

i regret not waiting at times but then my urge for more overpowers it... sex is good.
... hah, can't believe i just said that.

oh the best was at the dinner table when my 10ish year old stepsister announced that i was "hooking up with a girl that has a boyfriend". now that was drama.

oh the best was at the dinner table when my 10ish year old stepsister announced that i was "hooking up with a girl that has a boyfriend". now that was drama.


Tim you are a freaky guy. You probably want a fetish fourm too-lol

thats different, you're just not a whore. it's good to wait for someone you actually care about to lose it to. but if at 40 years old you still havent found someone you need help, or need to get off your computer and see that theres life outside of your monitor. I lost it at 17 to someone I cared about, i'm not still with that person, but i dont regret it. the right person doesnt have to be someone you think you're going to be with forever. thats what pisses me off most.

Those last two sentances are debateable. It comes down to each individual person, and what their feelings and beliefs are, but I don't want to get into that right now. I'm sure that some 40 year olds who are virgins simply don't have the desire to have sex. I say more power to them. Former basketball player A.C. Green is around 40 years old, and for Religious purposes is still a virgin. He certainly doesn't need help, and actually has quite a good life. I just say leave people alone. How does a guy not having sex affect you?? Who cares whether someone has had sex or not. It's nobody's business.

I'm a 24 year old virgin, and couldn't care less what people think about that. Iv'e had quite a few opportunities for sex, One last week as a matter of fact, LOL. I just don't feel like i'm ready for that at this time. Right now I'm trying to focus on other things in my life, like furthering my education, and getting into better shape mentally. The temptation of sex is pretty strong at times, but I find that as long as I keep as busy as I can, I won't have time to obsess over it. So anyway, I agree with you, there's nothing wrong with being a virgin. Definitely no shame in that.

I'm a 23 year old virgin. It's not that I've never thought about it, it's just that I'd rather wait till I'm married. And I'm not saying that's what everyone should do necessarily, but that's what I've chosen to do. I just figure, there are so many risks associated w/ sex, and there aren't really any risks to NOT having sex, it only makes sense to wait. But that's just my two cents.

Kristen

Or, just plain old bad luck.

Or they've come to the realization that a lot of people in this world are lowlife *******s and wisely chose not to associate with them and ruin their life.

I'm a 23 year old virgin. It's not that I've never thought about it, it's just that I'd rather wait till I'm married. And I'm not saying that's what everyone should do necessarily, but that's what I've chosen to do. I just figure, there are so many risks associated w/ sex, and there aren't really any risks to NOT having sex, it only makes sense to wait. But that's just my two cents.

Kristen

Absolutely, it does make sense to wait. Like you, I don't care if others want to have sex, that's fine. It's their life, and they can do whatever they want with it. Just don't put others down because they choose not to have sex.

Btw, I respect your decision to wait. Like others have mentioned, with the way the world is today, that's something you don't seem to see very often, so that's really cool. :)

I feel that the people who get joy out of making fun of virgins are usually the real losers, and I feel sorry for them. I feel sorry for anyone who gets off on teasing others. That's got to be a miserable way to live.
I agree completely..I think adults that are holding onto their virginity, shows that they have a lot of respect in themselves. Sorry, but usually the people who sleep around are the ones that people are laughing at.

Absolutely, it does make sense to wait. Like you, I don't care if others want to have sex, that's fine. It's their life, and they can do whatever they want with it. Just don't put others down because they choose not to have sex.

Btw, I respect your decision to wait. Like others have mentioned, with the way the world is today, that's something you don't seem to see very often, so that's really cool. :)

Awww! :thanks: That was really sweet of you to say.

I agree completely..I think adults that are holding onto their virginity, shows that they have a lot of respect in themselves. Sorry, but usually the people who sleep around are the ones that people are laughing at.

You're absolutelly right!!! I'm not saying that is right either, but there probably are more people laughing at promiscuous people, than there are people laughing at virgins. Very good point!!

Awww! :thanks: That was really sweet of you to say.

You're welcome!! :D

thats different, you're just not a whore. it's good to wait for someone you actually care about to lose it to. but if at 40 years old you still havent found someone you need help, or need to get off your computer and see that theres life outside of your monitor. I lost it at 17 to someone I cared about, i'm not still with that person, but i dont regret it. the right person doesnt have to be someone you think you're going to be with forever. thats what pisses me off most.

I agree with the part that the right person to lose your virginity to doesn't necessarily have to be the person you are going to be with forever. My best friend and brother both lost their virginity at 15-they were in a relationship with that person for 2+ years and even though both aren't with that person anymore, they don't regret. Now I am almost 20 and still a virgin but I already know that my boyfriend right now is going to be my first. When, I don't know, but I know it's going to happen and I won't regret it.

I'm 22 and still a virgin, and although it bothers me sometimes (because I'm not saving myself or anything) I'm generally quite glad that I don't go jumping into bed with people when I first meet them like so many girls I know of do. I'd rather do it with someone I knew and liked so that it *really* meant something than do it with anybody and then possibly regret it.

People who make fun of others for being virgins need to grow up. It's so stupid.

People who make fun of others for being virgins need to grow up. It's so stupid.

Believe me, I wish I had waited to lose my virginity to the right guy, somebody who I was in love with, but I didn't. In fact, I was pretty drunk, sorry to say.

So those who are still virgins, whether you're saving yourself for the right person or not, good for you!! Don't be pressured. Don't think everybody's doing it because they aren't!!

People who make fun of others for being virgins need to grow up. It's so stupid.

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