I have two babysitters who treat me really badly and unfairly.
They're just plain mean. And my littlest sister who is a major b*tch always is mean to me and aggravtaies me, and I'm the only one who gets in trouble.
Like for example, she'll call me a bunch of mean names and hurt me, then I'll try to get her back, and I'm the only one in trouble. My oldest babysitter who is 54 sometimes pushes me, yells at me, and is really mean.
Why are my babysitters and sister so mean? Do they hate me?
Why am I the only one who gets in trouble?

:crying:

You've learned a valuable lesson, kid - life sucks. Welcome to the real world!
Just kidding..... :lol:
Seriously though, if your babysitters are treating you unfairly then you should tell your parents about it as soon as possible. Babysitters have no right whatsoever to push someone else's children around.
Unfortunately it seems to be the way of the world that - no matter how much of a brat a little brother or sister is - it's always the older sibling who gets in trouble for it. I guess that's because people expect you to be the mature one and rise above the immature stuff. I know it's unfair that you have to endure that kind of crap but that's how it goes.
I bet you anything that neither your sister nor your babysitters "hate" you, so stop worrying about that. Just talk to your parents about how you feel - tell them exactly what you just told us. And if your parents aren't responsive then maybe you could try talking to teacher at school whom you feel you can trust.
I hope this helps. :)

I agree with Mossopp. Babysitters have no right whatsoever to push ones child around- thats just un-called for. And for your little sister well I think she is the one who needs to get in trouble but don't get back at her or she will be crying to your parents that it was your fault. But I do understand how your siblings can pick on you- for example- I have 2 younger siblings who treat me like crap but I don't get back at them or I would be the one who gets in trouble since I'm the oldest- understand FullHouseFan8795? Hope that helps ;)

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We're gonna last longer
Than that greatest wall in China
Or that rabbit with the drum

If there's one thing that I've learned
While waiting for my turn,
It's that in each life some rain falls
But you also get some sun

And we'll make out better than okay
Hear what I say
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Originally posted by FullHouseFan8795
And my littlest sister who is a major b*tch always is mean to me and aggravtaies me, and I'm the only one who gets in trouble.



Does that include getting spanked? :lol:

cry me a river, kid

Originally posted by I am Him
Does that include getting spanked? :lol:

No, I haven't gotten spanked in a long time! :lol:
Well, about a year ago.

Originally posted by Mossopp
You've learned a valuable lesson, kid - life sucks. Welcome to the real world!
Just kidding..... :lol:
Seriously though, if your babysitters are treating you unfairly then you should tell your parents about it as soon as possible. Babysitters have no right whatsoever to push someone else's children around.
Unfortunately it seems to be the way of the world that - no matter how much of a brat a little brother or sister is - it's always the older sibling who gets in trouble for it. I guess that's because people expect you to be the mature one and rise above the immature stuff. I know it's unfair that you have to endure that kind of crap but that's how it goes.
I bet you anything that neither your sister nor your babysitters "hate" you, so stop worrying about that. Just talk to your parents about how you feel - tell them exactly what you just told us. And if your parents aren't responsive then maybe you could try talking to teacher at school whom you feel you can trust.
I hope this helps. :)

The being mature stuff is what my mother tells me. I always get in trouble for my brother but that's just the way it works.

Originally posted by Mossopp
- no matter how much of a brat a little brother or sister is - it's always the older sibling who gets in trouble for it. I guess that's because people expect you to be the mature one and rise above the immature stuff. I know it's unfair that you have to endure that kind of crap but that's how it goes.


Thats a very bad parenting tactic because the younger sibling never learns personal responsibility. Thats why younger siblings usually end up either being failures in life, or not as successful as the older sibling.

In the adult world, those that harass people will suffer consequences. It doesn't matter who is younger or older.

Originally posted by I am Him
Thats a very bad parenting tactic because the younger sibling never learns personal responsibility. Thats why younger siblings usually end up either being failures in life, or not as successful as the older sibling.

In the adult world, those that harass people will suffer consequences. It doesn't matter who is younger or older.

The thing is, as kids the younger one gets all of the priviledges and is spoiled by their parents and normally never learns responsibility (no offense to anyone who is a younger sibling here). But as adults, the older one would have learned responsibility and will be less likely to be like that on their children.

Originally posted by Mossopp
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Just talk to your parents about how you feel - tell them exactly what you just told us. And if your parents aren't responsive then maybe you could try talking to teacher at school whom you feel you can trust.
I hope this helps. :)

You'll definently feel better getting this off your chest to a trustworthy person,someone who you can trust not to repeat this to anyone

Originally posted by I am Him
Thats a very bad parenting tactic because the younger sibling never learns personal responsibility. Thats why younger siblings usually end up either being failures in life, or not as successful as the older sibling.

I agree with you. I'm not saying that it is a good parenting technique. All I'm saying is that it is usually the stance that most parents take.
Trust me - I know all about bad parenting techniques. My parents screwed-up on just about every level you can think of. However, considering what they put me through, I think I turned out OK. You don't have to let your family's shortcomings affect you in the longterm.

Originally posted by I am Him
Thats a very bad parenting tactic because the younger sibling never learns personal responsibility. Thats why younger siblings usually end up either being failures in life, or not as successful as the older sibling.




im the youngest and i consider myself very responsible. and fullhousefan the younger ones don't have it easy either, every one always thinks they are the boss of me and im also expected to be like my older siblings and do almost exactly what they do. every position in the family has it's weak spot. and tell your parents to fire this babysitter IF she really is pushing you physicially just because she is older doesnt mean it gives her the right to be mean to you.

I think you should tell your parents that your being treated badly and maybe theyll do something.

Originally posted by RurryMicelli
I think you should tell your parents that your being treated badly and maybe theyll do something.

I can't because my Mom is very close to all of my babysitters.

I use to have a babysitter last year that was only 1 year older than me and she could be so mean!! Like my sister would kick me, and then I'd TRY to kick her and I'm the only one in trouble.
Usually, it's my babysitters that just get me in trouble.
When we're with my parents, we both usually get equally in trouble.

Originally posted by RurryMicelli
Its so good being an only child :lol:

You're lucky!
I would like to be the only child...or at least my sisters are always nice to me.

Originally posted by FullHouseFan8795
I can't because my Mom is very close to all of my babysitters.

I use to have a babysitter last year that was only 1 year older than me and she could be so mean!! Like my sister would kick me, and then I'd TRY to kick her and I'm the only one in trouble.
Usually, it's my babysitters that just get me in trouble.
When we're with my parents, we both usually get equally in trouble.

It doesnt matter whether shes friends with her or not, if your babysitter is not treating you fairly, than you should take this to your parents. If they dont listen then tell it to another adult your very close too and your parents should do something.

Originally posted by FullHouseFan8795
I can't because my Mom is very close to all of my babysitters.

If your mom cared alot about you,she wouldn't care how close she was with them and hire a babysitter you know you can trust or let you stay home alone and take your sister to day care

Originally posted by FullHouseFan8795
I use to have a babysitter last year that was only 1 year older than me and she could be so mean!!

Only 1 year older? :eek: I don't even see how thats worth the money.

Rurry and Jackhammer, my parents don't care about when they get us in trouble because they think "They're in charge, so they can handle it".
I don't get it. My parents need to punish the babysitters if they're bad to me.

Originally posted by I am Him
Only 1 year older? :eek: I don't even see how thats worth the money.

I know, I HATED it so much!!!! She was saying mean things to her bigger brother about me, and her brothers like "Well, you're doing the right thing".
How rude!

Originally posted by FullHouseFan8795
Rurry and Jackhammer, my parents don't care about when they get us in trouble because they think "They're in charge, so they can handle it".
I don't get it. My parents need to punish the babysitters if they're bad to me.

You need to talk to someone about this. Your mom should care that your being treated unfairly, she SHOULD listen to you. Your babysitter doesnt even seem to care about you.

Your mom should listen to you. If you keep telling her maybe shell finally listen to you.


If you cant talk to you parents, than you should talk to another adult thats close to you. If you parents see that your talking to another adult about your problems then they should know its true.

Now that your 13 I dont even think you need a babysitter anymore.

Originally posted by FullHouseFan8795
I have two babysitters who treat me really badly and unfairly.
They're just plain mean. And my littlest sister who is a major b*tch always is mean to me and aggravtaies me, and I'm the only one who gets in trouble.
Like for example, she'll call me a bunch of mean names and hurt me, then I'll try to get her back, and I'm the only one in trouble. My oldest babysitter who is 54 sometimes pushes me, yells at me, and is really mean.
Why are my babysitters and sister so mean? Do they hate me?
Why am I the only one who gets in trouble?

:crying:

Well when your sister calls you a bad name, you have try and ignore her, don't hit her, don't even look at her. I do this with my brother and it works. If it doesn't work, count to ten to make yourself calm down and walk away


You need to talk to someone about this. Your mom should care that your being treated unfairly, she SHOULD listen to you. Your babysitter doesnt even seem to care about you.

I agree, but if no one believes you, you could try and record their voices calling you names or being unfair to you. Or you could try and avoid your babysitters, for example, you could spend the time in your room listening to music or reading a book, just try to stay out of their way and they might stay out of yours

Three simple words, kid!

Get

A

Lawyer!

Originally posted by *Bela Lugosi*
Three simple words, kid!

Get

A

Lawyer!

yeah,but only if it comes down to that.Another way is to get it on a tape recorder or video tape

Tell your parents if she's really offending you and set up a tape recorder or something, because at least they can help you unlike me. my dad treats me like **** all the time and there's nothing i can do, i mean he flatout abuses me with his ****ty attitude and he only thinks for himself and doesnt give a **** about me. and there's no one i can turn to because my mom is dead and when i tell my counselor, she asks my dad about it and he denies it, exaggerates to make him sound innocent or just says "well i was really mad!" yeah whatever, not to mention the fact that you hate me and do anything to make me think i'm a stupid bitch, as if i'm not already. i probably sound like a little brat who's mad at daddy for not letting her go to the movies but i know exactly what i'm talking about.

Originally posted by *Bela Lugosi*
Three simple words, kid!

Get

A

Lawyer!

I would, but I can't.

I agree with saftey pin, set up a little tape recorder and hide it in the back of the room, or in your pocket or something.

Originally posted by RurryMicelli
I agree with saftey pin, set up a little tape recorder and hide it in the back of the room, or in your pocket or something.

But I don't think I have one :(
And really my oldest babysitter sometimes she pushes me really hard.
There's no proof for that :(

Originally posted by FullHouseFan8795
But I don't think I have one :(
And really my oldest babysitter sometimes she pushes me really hard.
There's no proof for that :(

Mackenzie the only way that will stop is if you say something to your parents. Does she only push you? Or does she push your siblings too? If she pushes them too, then get them to go to your parents along with you and tell them.

What she's doing is child abuse, and she could seriously end up doing major harm to your or your siblings

Please say something.

Is there anyone you trust enough to tell? Someone that would help you? Like an aunt, uncle, grandparent?

If you parents don't believe you when you tell them, ask them to get a videocamera and hide it. No harm in that.

Originally posted by Angela Micelli


What she's doing is child abuse, and she could seriously end up doing major harm to your or your siblings


Well, she only does it sometimes when she wants us to get away.
I don't know if it's a big deal or not because she only does it sometimes, and other than that she's usually nice. I never know what to think.

Originally posted by FullHouseFan8795
Well, she only does it sometimes when she wants us to get away.
I don't know if it's a big deal or not because she only does it sometimes, and other than that she's usually nice. I never know what to think.



It's still child abuse if she only does it sometimes.

Originally posted by FullHouseFan8795
Well, she only does it sometimes when she wants us to get away.
I don't know if it's a big deal or not because she only does it sometimes, and other than that she's usually nice. I never know what to think.

You've got to tell, if you don't she'll keep pushing you. If you don't feel safe around somebody you've got to tell, I know its easier said than done, but you've got to tell anyone you're close to. Somebody will believe you.

To quote one of my favorite wrestlers The Rock,It doesn't matter if it's sometimes or all the time.Tell your parents.No matter what the results are,you'll feel much better when you let it out and tell them

My grandmother use to hit me from when I was 7-12 because I got on her nerves but then I told my parents she hits me but they didn't care because my dad said I was learning a lesson.

Originally posted by roseannefan4ever14
My grandmother use to hit me from when I was 7-12 because I got on her nerves but then I told my parents she hits me but they didn't care because my dad said I was learning a lesson.

Oh that's awful, no offense, but I hate parents with attitudes like that. No one will ever lay a hand on my child in anger :mad:

no offense, but I hate parents with attitudes like that.

Yeah well my parents are okay they just have a hard time with me :mrt:

you really shouldn't put up with it. just corner your parents and talk to them and i mean really talk let them know you are serious. just because you are a kid doesn't mean you are not aloud to have a voice.

Originally posted by Angela Micelli
Oh that's awful, no offense, but I hate parents with attitudes like that. No one will ever lay a hand on my child in anger :mad:
:yeahthat
No offense


Mackenzie, please talk to someone about this. If your parents dont believe you than talk to another adult close to you. Your babysitter is abusing and you need to tell someone.

Even if you don't have evidence tell your parents, and if they don't believe you, you should tell them off. i dont mean you have to say "what the **** ever, if you dont believe me thats your problem" but tell them firmly that it is serious and it's not something to lie about.

yall gotta tell someone

Originally posted by safety pin
Even if you don't have evidence tell your parents, and if they don't believe you, you should tell them off. i dont mean you have to say "what the **** ever, if you dont believe me thats your problem" but tell them firmly that it is serious and it's not something to lie about.

You really have got to tell someone and make sure thye know your serious