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Mrs. Ducky 04-30-2004, 03:20 PM Okay one of my best friends in the whole world broke up with his girlfriend because he didn't think they were ready to get into a relationship. Well, when he did she cried to her friend. The friend came up to him and told him that he'd better go back out with her or something bad would happen. He didn't let it bother him until all they did was tell him that they had to go back out because his ex girlfriend is "crazy about him". Well, he started dating a different girl and they got really mad at both of them. So his new girlfriend broke up with him. Well, it got so bad that his first girlfriend told her mom that he wouldn't date her so she called him and left this terrible message on their machine about how my friend was an ******* and that she was gonna hurt him if he didn't dateher daughter again. So now he's dating her again even though he really hates her. And she gets mad when me and his other female friends are hanging around with him because she claims we're trying to "steal her man". What do you guys think he should do about her?
Hollow 04-30-2004, 03:48 PM holy hell, that sounds so unrealistic. :lol:
Sterling Holobyte 04-30-2004, 03:51 PM He should move to a different town because that girl and especially her mom are wacko's!
Moonlight Lady 04-30-2004, 04:17 PM Wow, that's really messed up. He move far away from these people. Nobody should be forced to date someone.
Holy hell, that's a screamer.:talk: :wave: :crazy:
julian bozo 04-30-2004, 04:49 PM I am confused :confused:
Your friend is dating this girl he hates.
He broke up with her.
She her friends and mom all threatened him.
He was in a relationship with a new girl but she broke it off.
So that's the basic facts.
First of all this girl must have no self esteem. I mean if I was dating someone and we broke up and they started going out with someone else. I would take it to mean they did not want me
anymore. She sounds really desperate. That is sad she had to get her mom got involved. Tell your friend to break up with her if he is unhappy. Also if that girl or any her friends or mom threaten him anymore he can go to the police. Because then it becomes harassment.
Why did that new girl break up with him?
Mrs. Ducky 04-30-2004, 05:07 PM Originally posted by julian bozo
Why did that new girl break up with him?
Because she was afraid of his old girlfriend.
Mrs. Ducky 04-30-2004, 05:12 PM Originally posted by safety pin
holy hell, that sounds so unrealistic. :lol:
Well, it's true and I wish it weren't because the girl is getting me involved. She told everyone that when he was still dating her he was secretly fooling around with me and one of my friends and it's our fault that he broke up with her, and now people are calling me a slut.:(
Hollow 04-30-2004, 06:27 PM Originally posted by Mrs. Ducky
Well, it's true and I wish it weren't because the girl is getting me involved. She told everyone that when he was still dating her he was secretly fooling around with me and one of my friends and it's our fault that he broke up with her, and now people are calling me a slut.:(
I'm sorry but that is the craziest story i've ever heard. It is unbelievably immature for a mother to call someone an ******* and threaten to hurt them for not dating her daughter. If that really happened then that lady needs to grow up and learn how to be a better parent.
robyrob 04-30-2004, 07:06 PM your friend should get in the habit of tape-recording his telephone conversations and get in contact with the police if someone is actually threatening him,
but wouldn't it just be simpler for your friend to just talk to the girl and explain the situation to her?
Tuesday Weld 04-30-2004, 07:11 PM That's awful. No one should be forced to be with someone, they don't love. I can think of a case like that and it was hell, for the man. The woman was a selfish, possessive, manipulative b----. Her parents even helped her manipulate the guy. ohno:
Mrs. Ducky 04-30-2004, 07:38 PM Originally posted by robyrob
but wouldn't it just be simpler for your friend to just talk to the girl and explain the situation to her?
He tried that. He said: "Angie, please I think that this is getting way out of hand. You're starting to scare me and I don't want to be with someone I'm scared of. Why don't you go out with Trevor, he seems to like you." and she said: (crying and screaming) "But I love you and you love me and you're staying with me no matter what! Don't listen to your friends don't listen to your family only listen to me!" and he said: "I don't love you, okay." and she said: "Yes you do and I'll make you if you don't." and I said: "Angie, he doesn't love you and you can't change that." and she says: "Shut-up you bitch you're the whole cause for this." Then she grabbed his hand and pulled him away. I was soooooooooo mad!:mad: :mad: :mad:
Hollow 04-30-2004, 07:49 PM Originally posted by Mrs. Ducky
He tried that. He said: "Angie, please I think that this is getting way out of hand. You're starting to scare me and I don't want to be with someone I'm scared of. Why don't you go out with Trevor, he seems to like you." and she said: (crying and screaming) "But I love you and you love me and you're staying with me no matter what! Don't listen to your friends don't listen to your family only listen to me!" and he said: "I don't love you, okay." and she said: "Yes you do and I'll make you if you don't." and I said: "Angie, he doesn't love you and you can't change that." and she says: "Shut-up you bitch you're the whole cause for this." Then she grabbed his hand and pulled him away. I was soooooooooo mad!:mad: :mad: :mad:
:rofl: omg that sounds so fake. CRYING AND SCREAMING? Sorry but i find all this incredibly hard to believe.
robyrob 04-30-2004, 08:12 PM Originally posted by Mrs. Ducky
He tried that. He said: "Angie, please I think that this is getting way out of hand. You're starting to scare me and I don't want to be with someone I'm scared of. Why don't you go out with Trevor, he seems to like you." and she said: (crying and screaming) "But I love you and you love me and you're staying with me no matter what! Don't listen to your friends don't listen to your family only listen to me!" and he said: "I don't love you, okay." and she said: "Yes you do and I'll make you if you don't." and I said: "Angie, he doesn't love you and you can't change that." and she says: "Shut-up you bitch you're the whole cause for this." Then she grabbed his hand and pulled him away. I was soooooooooo mad!:mad: :mad: :mad: maybe he should smother her with attention, tell her he doesnt like her hanging around with her "friends" because they are poisoning her mind and turning her against him, then do the same thing with her family, and make her move to a different town, until she has no one left in her life but him, then he can safely dump her without fear of reprisal :)
barwars 04-30-2004, 09:33 PM I could be wrong.... but this may be a form of rape (which includes sexual harassment -- which this definately is)
When I was in high school there was a couple that I heard that the guy broke up with the girl in 8th grade. She then threated to kill herself, so he made up with her. Don't know how true it was really, but if it was true it's kind of the same thing.
Sargent Stewie 04-30-2004, 11:45 PM Kids these days.........
Mrs. Ducky 05-01-2004, 08:25 PM Originally posted by safety pin
:rofl: omg that sounds so fake. CRYING AND SCREAMING? Sorry but i find all this incredibly hard to believe.
I know it sounds like it came out of bad teen flick but it is really happening! I've tried everything that I can think of to get her off our back but it doesn't work. We took her down to discipline and she acted like we were lying and that she was completely inncent and that it was actually us who were doing it to her so we got detentions. And then we realized that she is probably having emotional issues so we took her down to guidance and she acted like she didn't know what was going on.
dawsongirl 05-02-2004, 02:55 AM Oh good God...send them both (the mom and daughter) to a padded room.
Michael [hXc] 05-02-2004, 11:50 AM Angie's mother should go to jail, and Angie should go to juvenile hall.
Hollow 05-02-2004, 03:10 PM Originally posted by Mrs. Ducky
I know it sounds like it came out of bad teen flick but it is really happening! I've tried everything that I can think of to get her off our back but it doesn't work. We took her down to discipline and she acted like we were lying and that she was completely inncent and that it was actually us who were doing it to her so we got detentions. And then we realized that she is probably having emotional issues so we took her down to guidance and she acted like she didn't know what was going on.
If this is true then i apologize for what i've been saying, but i find it really weird for a mother to call someone an ******* and threaten to hurt him if he didnt date her.
julian bozo 05-02-2004, 05:22 PM Originally posted by BeaverFan5
Angie's mother should go to jail, and Angie should go to juvenile hall. :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :rofl: :rofl:
julian bozo 05-02-2004, 05:29 PM Originally posted by safety pin
If I find it really weird for a mother to call someone an ******* and threaten to hurt him if he didnt date her.
I'm with Sarah I find it weird. I don't doubt that it would happen.
There are some crazy people in the world.
"Mommy ,Mommy, (whatever his name is) won't date me any more I'm so sad."
:crybaby:
"Don't worry honey love , Momma will make it all better."
(picks up phone)
" Listen here you ******* you better date my daughter or
else...."
keep us updated on how it goes
Hollow 05-02-2004, 06:27 PM Originally posted by BeaverFan5
Angie's mother should go to jail, and Angie should go to juvenile hall.
.. WHAT!?!? :rofl:
Michael [hXc] 05-02-2004, 07:38 PM Angie's mother sounds like a real bitch to do that. It's his choice who he dates and nobody else's.
Hollow 05-02-2004, 08:37 PM Originally posted by BeaverFan5
Angie's mother sounds like a real bitch to do that. It's his choice who he dates and nobody else's.
and that means she and her daughter should be in jail?
Michael [hXc] 05-03-2004, 08:01 AM Angie shouldn't, she is only in love, but for a mother who threatens and did that to that boy, she needs serious help.
Sterling Holobyte 05-03-2004, 10:33 AM Originally posted by safety pin
If this is true then i apologize for what i've been saying, but i find it really weird for a mother to call someone an ******* and threaten to hurt him if he didnt date her.
This could be true. If you'll remember there was that case some years ago about a mom who killed or conspired to kill(I don't remember the details, it was a while ago) a girl who was competing with her daughter to be head cheerleader. Now there's a reason to kill someone.ohno:
Mrs. Ducky 05-04-2004, 07:56 PM Okay, so yesterday Zach (my friend) told Angie that he wasn't going to date her any more and that if she continues this he's gonna call the cops. Well, she ran off crying and after school Zach called me and told me to stay on the phone so she couldn't get through. Well, today Angie came to school in this super short skirt, fishnet stockings, and way too much makeup on. And her friend says to Zach "How do you think she looks Zach?" and before he had the chance to say anything Angie goes "I know, you think I look so incredibley sexy. And you can't have me unless you go back out with me!" and he's like "Uh, I don't want you. I was gonna say you look like a prostitute." so then Zach walked away and during art class Angie told the whole class that Zach had webbed feet and a hairy back and she so won't admit that she said that but we have like twenty witnesses. Well at lunch Angie kept writing these notes that say stuff like "Zach and Angie 4eva" or " Zach :heart: Angie" and the worst "Zach wants to **** Angie" I don't know what her mom's gonna do about but I'm afraid.:(
julian bozo 05-05-2004, 02:22 AM [QUOTE]Originally posted by Mrs. Ducky
[B]Well, today Angie came to school in this super short skirt, fishnet stockings, and way too much makeup on. Quote
Does your school have a dress code? At my middle school
Angie would have probably gotten kicked out. Girls were not
allowed to wear short skirts. They had to be at a certain point.
She would have had to wash of all that makeup. Also fishnets
expulsion at my middle school. I'm 23 and it's been a while
since I was in middle school, maybe they are more lineiant now.
offtopic:
Angie sounds deeply disturbed and should seek professional help.
Her mom and dad should be more concerned. The mom sounds
like she neeeds help to.
Hollow 05-05-2004, 02:27 AM Originally posted by Mrs. Ducky
Okay, so yesterday Zach (my friend) told Angie that he wasn't going to date her any more and that if she continues this he's gonna call the cops. Well, she ran off crying and after school Zach called me and told me to stay on the phone so she couldn't get through. Well, today Angie came to school in this super short skirt, fishnet stockings, and way too much makeup on. And her friend says to Zach "How do you think she looks Zach?" and before he had the chance to say anything Angie goes "I know, you think I look so incredibley sexy. And you can't have me unless you go back out with me!" and he's like "Uh, I don't want you. I was gonna say you look like a prostitute." so then Zach walked away and during art class Angie told the whole class that Zach had webbed feet and a hairy back and she so won't admit that she said that but we have like twenty witnesses. Well at lunch Angie kept writing these notes that say stuff like "Zach and Angie 4eva" or " Zach :heart: Angie" and the worst "Zach wants to **** Angie" I don't know what her mom's gonna do about but I'm afraid.:(
wow.. i think angie should seek help and try to move on instead of getting his attention and forcing him to go back out with her.
robyrob 05-05-2004, 07:08 AM couldn't you guys just fix poor, demented Angie up with the bully from that other thread, or a nice sturdy pushbroom?
Mrs. Ducky 05-05-2004, 03:20 PM Today Angie gave Zach a note and he didn't want to read so he gave it to me and I read it. It said: "Okay Zachary, if you're not my boyfriend anymore then fine. But I have Blink-182 tickets and I was gonna take you but since your not my boyfriend then I'll just take one of my friends. Oh, and you can just forget about seeing me in a two peice swim suit, because you don't deserve to see my sexy body. But just before I end this letter I want you to know that I LOVE YOU! Please, let's be friends." Well, I gave it to him and told him to read it and he started to laugh and he showed it to all our friends at lunch. Then he walks over to her and says "What sexy body are you talking about?" and rips up the note in her face. And I couldn't help but laugh and neither could any of my other friends. So then she comes over to us and tells us to all go to hell. It was funny.
Mrs. Ducky 05-05-2004, 03:24 PM Originally posted by julian bozo
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Mrs. Ducky
[B]Well, today Angie came to school in this super short skirt, fishnet stockings, and way too much makeup on. Quote
Does your school have a dress code? At my middle school
Angie would have probably gotten kicked out. Girls were not
allowed to wear short skirts. They had to be at a certain point.
She would have had to wash of all that makeup. Also fishnets
expulsion at my middle school. I'm 23 and it's been a while
since I was in middle school, maybe they are more lineiant now.
offtopic:
Angie sounds deeply disturbed and should seek professional help.
Her mom and dad should be more concerned. The mom sounds
like she neeeds help to.
Yeah we have a dress code but Angie's aunt is on the school board so she gets away with everything.:rolleyes:
julian bozo 05-05-2004, 04:17 PM Originally posted by Mrs. Ducky
Yeah we have a dress code but Angie's aunt is on the school board so she gets away with everything.:rolleyes:
Ew I hate cases like that. I'm afraid Angie will be coming after Zach again.She sounds like a gluttton for punishment.
robyrob 05-06-2004, 12:02 AM wait a minute, i think i saw that episode of Moody's Point ! :eek:
Mrs. Ducky 05-06-2004, 08:10 PM Originally posted by robyrob
wait a minute, i think i saw that episode of Moody's Point ! :eek:
What's that supposed to mean?
Michael [hXc] 05-07-2004, 10:51 PM Angie needs SERIOUS help immediately!
Hollow 05-07-2004, 11:10 PM Originally posted by robyrob
wait a minute, i think i saw that episode of Moody's Point ! :eek:
:rofl:
Mrs. Ducky 05-08-2004, 11:18 AM Angie told me I was a "fat slut" yesterday and that "the zit on my nose is the same color as my eyes:red". OMG I so hate her! First of all I'm NOT fat! I weigh 107 lbs and Zach told me that when he was still dating her she told him she weighed 130, so she shouldn't be talking! And yeah, my eyes may be a little red but I have allergies. And she shouldn't be talking about my ONE zit considering she has major acne. I don't understand, why is she picking on me? I did not "steal her man"! I don't have any romantic feelings for him at all, in fact, the thought of that makes me want to puke! Well anyway, we're trying to keep Agie and Zach as far away from each other as possible.
Michael [hXc] 05-08-2004, 11:26 AM What does Angie look like? She should not criticize anyone, especially people better than her. I liked a girl that didn't like me back, and you don't see me complaining. She is just an angry jerk who can't shut up. Another thing, did Zach ever like her?
Mrs. Ducky 05-08-2004, 01:22 PM Originally posted by BeaverFan5
What does Angie look like? She should not criticize anyone, especially people better than her. I liked a girl that didn't like me back, and you don't see me complaining. She is just an angry jerk who can't shut up. Another thing, did Zach ever like her?
She's about 4'10, 130 lbs, long brownish blonde hair, blue eyes that she covers up with these really thick glasses. Zach went out with her because at one point she was really quiet and he needed a date for this really big dance. At the dance she was still quiet so he decided to ask her to go steady. Well, all she ever talked about was him and she got so jealous when he would talk to me or anyone of his other friends (we're all girls). And she got mad at him when he didn't tell her he missed her. She once yelled at him because he told her he wasn't ready to have sex with her ohno: (they're both only 13)
Michael [hXc] 05-08-2004, 01:29 PM I'm 4'11 and a half, about the same height as Angie. Anyway, sex at 13? That's so stupid. I'm 12 an a half and not even thinking of sex! She has a nasty mind, and she is really messed up. Besides, how many other girls like Zach?
P.S. She's 130 lbs? OMG! That's heavy! I weigh 92, but then again, I'm comparing her height and weight to mine, and I'm a boy
Mrs. Ducky 05-08-2004, 01:39 PM Originally posted by BeaverFan5
I'm 4'11 and a half, about the same height as Angie. Anyway, sex at 13? That's so stupid. I'm 12 an a half and not even thinking of sex! She has a nasty mind, and she is really messed up. Besides, how many other girls like Zach?
P.S. She's 130 lbs? OMG! That's heavy! I weigh 92, but then again, I'm comparing her height and weight to mine, and I'm a boy
Yeah, I'm 12 and a half too, but I do think of sex but don't plan on having it till I'm married. As far as I know only she likes Zach, but I think it's more of an obsession. I've never been her friend, I remember in fourth grade she asked me if I wore a bra and I told her I did and she asked me if she could see it!:eek: She's been staring at my boobs ever since, of coarse that could just be her height considering I'm 5'6.
Michael [hXc] 05-08-2004, 02:02 PM Originally posted by Mrs. Ducky
Yeah, I'm 12 and a half too, but I do think of sex but don't plan on having it till I'm married. As far as I know only she likes Zach, but I think it's more of an obsession. I've never been her friend, I remember in fourth grade she asked me if I wore a bra and I told her I did and she asked me if she could see it!:eek: She's been staring at my boobs ever since, of coarse that could just be her height considering I'm 5'6.
What's your estimated height for when you are an adult? Mine is anywhere between 5'10 to 6 feet. Can't she just realize Zach will never like her? Does she constantly try flirting with him?
Mrs. Ducky 05-08-2004, 02:16 PM Originally posted by BeaverFan5
What's your estimated height for when you are an adult? Mine is anywhere between 5'10 to 6 feet. Can't she just realize Zach will never like her? Does she constantly try flirting with him?
5'11 or something around it. I don't know why she just doesn't give up. She thinks she's the sexiest person on the planet and it's so annoying. She's ALWAYS flirting with him. I'm sick of her putting me and my other friends down. She's always calling us terrible stuff like sluts, whores, bitches, **** suckers, etc. I hate her.
Michael [hXc] 05-08-2004, 03:54 PM Sounds like a female Dan to me. lol
She should realize he doesn't love her. I would have called the police if I was Zach, and I feel Angie has a real problem! I hate when people think they are the sexiest person. Another's opinion matters more in that case. She's the one who's the bitch.
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